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Igbo people like to claim family values blah blah blah (at least thats what they say when asked why they need so much money when marrying one of their girls)
But when it comes to money and possessions, they don't give a fawk. They will slit their own mother's throat to make $5 and they will not see a moral problem with it.

Other greedy people at least hide their greed because they know it is bad. The igbo man celebrates his.
You think that fake religious Mbaka fellow is an abnormality? Mcheew You don't know anything.

lefulefu:
so all those nigerian guys in the US who come back to their villages to marry girls arranged for them by their parents how come they being able to carry these home based wives back with them to the US

These men already have green card.
The thread is aimed at those without green card.

Thanks to porn, there is definitely a lot of sexual madness going on.

There was a girl I was using to oil engine last year.
One day while we were chilling she said she has been thinking about trying out a fantasy of hers.

I said what?

She say she feels hot whenever she watches porn that involves a woman using a strapon on a man.

That was the last night I called her over to my house for any kind of fuckery.
Make persin no do one night and one small girl starts talking bout "my turn "....as in what the actual fawk?

BlaqCoffee109:
Kai, sorry for the guy...na wa oh! Wetin be akata again... shioor! no be guy man levels. Na laugh I dey always laugh when I see some 9j boys with these people all because of green card....if you see Dem sef ehn, their shoulder go raise like who wear shoulder pads as if say Dem do better marry oyibo instead of us melanin popping... schwepps... annoying thing be say im be like say Dem swear for Dem to go after the fugly ones(GOD forgive me) because they make for easy prey...@ the bolded nah wah for you oh...nah Oluchi for village dey expect in the abroad man na...Amaka go surely disappoint am ...no time

LOL akata na black americans. There are some good ones, but a lot of them are useless rachet individuals.
Most akata women like getting hitched up with naija guys though because Naija men at least know how to take care of things.
Their akata men generally could care less.

krissy123:
No I haven't heard it. If people actually do that, it means they don't know the proper usage of the word. My claims are based on the dictionary meaning of the word anyway...

We are talking naija slang this one is talking dictionary. fawk off dude.
Go argue with someone else.

TomatoBiscuit:


I don't like Jamaican guys either. But I'm not going to generalize and say all are horrible like you're doing.

Please get sense. What does the term "rachet" mean to you?

krissy123:
Lolz. Not really. I'm Nigerian.

And you have never heard the word "yankee" before used to describe the US?
Then you are just forming.

SilentListener:
as in with all the baggage Nigeria men have in the international committee, this 2buffagain guy is still gloating.

Baggage? You mean this?
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

SilentListener:
my own is I'm a Nigeria man,and you are putting me in your shitty threads, next time don't generalized speak for yourselves.

MY own is so get the fawk off the thread.

SilentListener:
since when did you became the spokesman for Nigeria men?

Go and marry all the rachet akatas you want then. What's my own?

krissy123:
Interesting write-up.
Wanna make a small correction though.
You can't refer to America which is a location as "yankee"...its the citizens that can be referred to as "yankees" by non-citizens.

LOL you must be a foreigner...Hello and welcome.

truthsayer009:
2buffagain

How many Black American women have you met to make this conclusion?
Where in the US do also live? Your environment can/may also affect your experience.

I just want a detailed explanation, because I kind feel that the western media is portraying black American women as being all you said but you know the media also portrays all Nigerians as suffering. SO I cannot trust the media on that.

Thats why I used the word "ratchet akata"

TomatoBiscuit:
OP, did an akata female hurt you, or where's this coming from? You obviously wrote from experience.

I have enough brain cells to stay away from ratchet akata.
No I write from the experience of others and my own innate disgust of these people having observed first hand how they reason (if I can call it that) and act.

You monkeys just need to vote for SOWORE and stop making fools of yourselves. Neither APC nor PDP will help you. Elect a tech empowered government and stop being so fawking analog dammit.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So you agree that our deterioted economy has contributed immensely to these vices? Anyways I pray the system begins to work as it should.

If our naira had value and the economy running smoothly, I doubt any human being abroad would b forming one thing for peeps at home.

And thus your true mind is revealed as evidence of your comments.
Who is forming for peeps at home? Sounds like you feel "less-than" because you are in naija otherwise you wouldn't be projecting that. No one ever said this. You did. We just stating facts and figured from the realities of today.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So our society pressures us to be good? Very funny. The truth is, there's no iron cast directives when it comes to meeting the right partner. With all your tests and observations you might end up regretting. Just marry your friend. I doubt romeo was this calculative when he met juliet.

The point being made is against your earlier comment...not against people marrying their friends.
it is a long ting to travel all the way to Nigeria from where one is, just to find someone to marry and it holds no guarantees of anything...except added stress.
The best option for diasporians still, is to find themselves where they are, and become readily good-to-go assets for each others lives than the long acclimization thing.

Make sense. Good no go disagree with your marriage because you no wear white man suit.

Only the wise understand

bukkyemotions:
Have you gotten your PVC? Pls secretly go to INEC to get your card . Vote Atiku!!!

Explain. why Atiku?

lefulefu:
and how will u know d well brought up lady? Dat because she goes to church everyday and attends all night service? Guy forget dat thing. Except a guy has a serious girlfriend b4 he went abroad then he can come back to collect her but guy if u know any babe while u were in nigeria its safer u forget about going back home to marry a naija girl once u set ur foot overseas. If u must marry a nigerian girl then check out the ones in ur host country. My friend aunty who returned from germany last year told us a tale about one well to nigerian guy living and working in germany who died mysteriously once he married and brought over the nigerian babe he met on facebook. She say as soon as d man die na so d babe jus dey rush d man property. Only marry the girlfriend u left back home and ensure that its d girl u really trust and who really loves u.

Gbamest!

Only consider marrying naija women who have fought the virus of degradation and won...not those that succumbed to it nor those that have not even been tested!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
check your first sentence. Igbo boys will continue coming back home to marry. That's just how it work. I don't know how other tribes operate but I know how Igbos do.

That's up to them.

Ideally, the conditions in yankee are much better for verifying who you want to marry.
If they are foolish, you will see it. I'm not saying no one should have flaws, but flaw get level....and you will see all the flaws in a society like yankee...if the man is observant. In naija, not so much.

You don't assume someone is actually good because they are in a community that pressures them to act good.
To really put them to the test, you should be studying the specimen in a community that pressures them to be bad.
Those who are truly prized gems will go against the grain.
These Igbo men you talk about, a lot of them regret doing this thing you are talking about.
I remember the discussion I had with one Igbo man who brought one girl from his village here.

Here is some wisdom: The main reason we are on earth is so that God can check us out in the wilds before determining if he wants to bring us into his house in heaven? Testing us to see who is for real and who is not by community pressure of this world to be bad. He wants to prevent that whole Satan/demons thing from happening again. The best way to do that, is to judge new souls in a quarantined environment with a myriad of temptations to indulge in with wreckless abandon i.e earth.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Speak for yourself.

Speak for myself regarding what exactly? Expound on your comment pls.

And no wonder the ratchets are the majority.
Ever wonder why it is always the dumbest, most useless elements of american society that create the most babies?

Intelligent people here don't give birth to many children.

That's what happens when you have a wellfare system that basically PENALIZES intelligent people when giving birth, but REWARDS low class cochroaches for every little roach they breed.

The result is a society where the roaches become a majority in that community!

This is aimed at the rathet akatas (an unfortunate majority).
To the akata minority that still manage to have sense, and who are real enough to identify the stupidity of your ratchet cousins, keep on trying to become a majority abeg.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yea, you guys should come home and pick homely girls. Off course there's no guarantees she won't spread her wings when she has left this shores.

Nobody needs to come home. We scan for Naija babes who have brought themselves here and have gotten that initial crase out of their system.

This is actually the best place to look for Naija girls.
In Naija everyone has to form because it is the culture.
But here, let the bad ones rot in their new-found freedom so they can remove themselves from the equation and so we can see road to the one that truly stands firm from within.

You can only pick confarm diamond amongst coals from high-pressure environmental conditions.

Because igbo village people are money-hungry

I have come across some really ratchet black-american females out in yankee. These creatures are so disgusting... I'm not talking about their big booties and face fineness... I'm talking about the average low class akata's tendency to be nasty, rude , disrespectful, gluttonous, filthy and loud... Lacking the wisdom to even discern that such behaviors are stinky.

Sometimes you just look at them while they talk unintelligently and flaunt large nasty tattoos as you wonder "who in their right mind will take this one into his home as a wife?". At the least the average low class Nigerian female still knows how to be domesticated and can cook their food.... But these ratchet akatas are beyond useless. And they always have these roach babies they keep having in bulk.

I have this friend who made the mistake of taking one out because he liked the way it looked.
He knew what he was getting into but he was all like "oh anybody can be understood" blah blah blah.

On the first date, at the end of the date while dropping her off...will you believe that creature tried to set him up to pay for her babysitter in a very dishonest way? After eating and drinking like a cow and costing the guy to pay for her many plates of food alone.

The guy admitted he was a fool and he knows now to run the other way whenever he hears any name like Shaniqua, Helicia, or whatever the Bleep name they give themselves.

If you are reading this and you are a ratchet akata, understand that Nigerian man will never marry you for real. You are a beast... Lacking wisdom in ALL things. No man of sense and value will marry you. Go to your prisons and marry your fellow mentally disjointed men. Better yet, get them to pump you full of more roach babies.

This is why the white police here keep gunning you down as Target practice. You guys are a plague on normal society. An infestation of crime, filth and everything wrong with any modern society.

However, do continue to submit yourself to Nigerian men as kpali-meat to be used and discarded. Accept this as your place, your one noble purpose in this life. Perhaps by serving in this way, you may find some redemption in your existence... But never through us loving you. That is reserved for our African Queens in the diaspora (and other sensible black women). You lack the skills needed to build or maintain a legacy. I would pity you, but you animals don't understand the concept of such higher functions.

NOTE: Before you show your inability to read by saying anything about generalizing, notice how this thread is about "ratchet akatas". Some of you have already failed.

Don’t mind them.
Up naija babes!

Regardless of whether or not who your children give money more (of course they will give your wife esp if she never actually financially relevant).
A man must ALWAYS plan to never be destitute in his old age.

In fact make fun and lovingly let your children know early that the highlight of your years will be when they all leave your house so you can flex and they can leave you alone. Both women and children alike (especially adult female children) treat the fathers as ATM. A man will always be subject to that "I don't care where he finds money but he should go and find" attitude from the women in his life.

The current 100% parental support thing is something that can still happen in this generation as per you know, a lot of folks parents in village, but as of next generation...if you are an urban hussler, your issue should not be about which of your children will give you garri today. THEY should be receiving inheritance from you.

Plan well.

BlaqCoffee109:
...and I know alot of women you'll be quick to regard as having "no sense" who can hold a grown man like you down... isn't that the irony of life? with all your sense

Then that would mean she has sense.
A man like me cannot be held down simply because of kpekus. That shyt is common af.

BlaqCoffee109:
Fixed. We black women have all the senses the others lack ...I knew you were one of those that can't afford not having a black woman in your life. So what's with white women you find unattractive...that one thing that have you glued to a black woman?

Might just be a spiritual thing.
Either way, the darker the berry...and the thicker the thighs....the sexier.
I've always been team darkskinAndThick

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