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VULCAN:
Every vote not for Atiku is an indirect vote for Buhari.

Wake up and get Buhari out.

Sowore is still young and can come back later.

As Nigeria stands now he cannot win his polling booth, his state nor even the entire South.

Atiku To ASO ROCK 2019
CHECKMATE

As long as Atiku can be as penitent to these idiots as Sowore will, I don't care.

But we know that won't happen.
Atiku is too slimy to demand righteous conduct among his governors because he himself is not righteous.
He wouldn't want them to open his yansh.

gare:
It is very wrong to use your office to settle personal scores and it goes to show he is not fit for that office, in a sane society he would begin asked to resign or removed from office.

Imagine openly admitting bias like that.
We need a president who does not think like these old fools and who will have no issues throwing them out when they do such things.
I Dey wait Sowore 2019

She obviously suffers from resting bitch face.

Wafritalkblogg:
don't bring politic into serious issue

morningstar55:
You open a nice thread like this...only to spoil with it politics

Like I said, that is an issue for another thread.
But it deserved a brief mention here because The dysfunctionality of the country is the only reason why a man or woman of Nigeria will go all the way to another land to suffer untold indignities just to migrate as if they don’t have a country they are coming from.

Only someone who hates hearing the truth will have any issue with what I stated there.
I already warned you from the first sentence of my opening post that this thread is not for people like you.
It’s for people who can handle truth and who likes things being kept 100.
Unless you have an actual logical counter (not emotional) to what I said, keep it moving!

JoseVanMoyes:
How can a man leave his legally married wife, go abroad and spend years there hoping to settle down and bring the wife over...

Hmmmmm me I fit not do that one Ooooo... U go dey suffer for cold, ur wife dey naija dey jump on dicks with ya sweat..

Oga if I leave naija, we done for good...

This is a perfect reason why a married person should be extremely involved in politics at home. You can always vote for new guys like Sowore Donald Duke, etc to get your country moving forward in the right direction as opposed to backwards with those same old thieving clueless failures y’all keep recycling.
But that’s another topic for another thread.

You’re right. It is even more challenging for a married couple. Seeing as I never reach that level, That is why I cannot give advice on that one. UNa wahala senior pass me

Jonesing based investigation.

If she insists, tell her a good investigative journalist never reveals his source.

Lol so is this really a coded diss thread?

WetinConsignMe:
Antiku will be there. He can make things happen.
Yeah, he is crook, but a reformed crook.
Sowore simply doesn't have the slightest chance this time around

@ the bold, Why do we still keep being so gullible as if we haven't been through several elections before?
Do you think you vote for a person? No, you vote for a PARTY.
The president is just a face. The Godfathers of PDP have not changed, and their intent remains the same.
Their pockets have bled these past 4 years, and they want to bolster it.

Again, PDP godfathers HAVE NOT CHANGED.

At least with Sowore's AAC, you know there is no godfatherism but a combination of patriots who want to see your country liberated....something every well-meaning Nigerian or Nigerian who doesn't have a mind-control brain slug implanted should be voting for.

thaoriginator:


Girls of nowadays, they hardly wear panties and bra in case of any emergency one-corner quickie.

See how visible her kpekus is.

You have serious problems.

This advice of freeing eachother is mostly for UNMARRIED people.

If you guys are married, that is a totally different struggle altogether and both of you will probably have to make some seriously questionable compromises if you are really serious about the migration thing.

Admin401:
My guy dey fear make him GF no burn him Visa

Lol then he better hide it.
Betta GF wey go move hin life forward in a real way go dey where him dey go.

Boys need to travel light when making that move. E no easy.

WetinConsignMe:
This no be Sowore's time. His time will come sha.

I guess, by that submission, you are saying you have the bandwidth to suffer for another 4+ years.
Na your suffer sha.

Sowore will simply go back and rest in a civilized New York city with 24hr electricity, water, structure, and more intelligent people.

Let's see who it will pain pass if Sowore doesn't win

Ladies and Gentlemen in Naija, I'll be 100 with you...

If you are dating someone and they are trying to migrate to USA with a non-immigrant visa, and they say they are coming back for you....chances are you are better off just freeing them and remaining friends while you face your life where you are.
I bet you neither you nor them knows the challenges that will have to be faced along this road.

Not every US Visa is a migration Visa. There is schooling visa, visiting visa, etc.
And visas are very restrictive about what you can and cannot do, and if you can even be allowed to apply for any other visa.

When a person has at least a green card, that is US permanent residency, and they are on a home run to US citizenship.
A green card means a person has no serious limitation within the US besides voting (you can do that when you become a citizen).
It is also at this GreenCard level that your trans-atlantic lover can BEGIN the process of sending for you.

But the road to a green card is long and uneasy if you didn't win a US diversity lottery..
Seeing as Nigeria is one of the countries banned from the Us Visa lottery (a program whereby people gamble to win a US greencard), no Nigerian as at some years back can get a quick GreenCard through that route. They have to go the looooong route.

There are various do-able long paths to the US greencard e.g:
- Naija -> School in US -> OPT -> H1B -> Eb2/Eb3/Eb4 employment based GreenCard
- Naija -> School in US (PHD) -> Lots of exploits -> extra-ordinary person Eb1 GreenCard
- Naija -> Have $500k - $1M to "invest" in the US -> Eb5 Investor Greencard. The higher you spend the more the priority (tief tief agbada types love this one)
- Naija -> marry a US citizen or Greencard holder -> Marriage based Greencard.

_{each '->' sign can mean any where from 2-10 years!}

But all these things have been made longer and even sometimes down right unattainable by Trump.
Now, companies that had once hired people through the H1B won't even look at you unless you have an OPT, which means you have more time to "try to get" an H1B.....which you might still kuku not get.
Also, you need to basically be Elon Musk or Bill Gates before you can come in through the "Extra-ordinary person" route.
If you thought you had money before, Trump wants to raise the $$$ range for investing, so the #BigAgbada will probably have to tief more.

The insults are so bad right now that in the US, Trump is trying to fight their 13th amendment so as to prevent people who visit the US to give birth from having that child become an automatic US citizen.

Now if the UK was your target, it's even worse because Theresa May and her people are mimicking Trump's US anti-immigration agenda to the point of them going further by trying to deport black UK citizens with Caribbean origins(https://www.npr.org/2018/05/02/607652305/caribbean-immigrants-to-u-k-threatened-with-deportation).


The only thing still left open that these rulers have been unable to touch/complicate yet is Greencard by marriage...and this is where we continue our thread from...

Your boo will mostly have to marry someone there....but it's not that simple.
This process also takes SEVERAL years before they get a greencard, trigger a messy divorce, rebuild themselves, before then being able to START sending for you.
However it is important to keep in mind that:
- Marrying someone purely for a greencard is a scam and is thus a very serious punishable offense worthy of deportation and a ban from the US.
- The safest thing, is to simply marry for real, live in the same house, etc.
- Sensible marriageable people can smell a potential marriage scam from a mile away now and don't enter marriage with guys/girls who don't have papers.
- Since the prime marriage prospects avoid you, You'd probably have to pay someone with a complicated life to do the marriage deal with...and these persons are usually crazy in some way...as they would have to be to collect money to marry someone they don't know.
- There is also the risk of the person you are married to taking advantage, asking for more money midway and/or sometimes even cancelling your greencard application...meaning it was all for naught and you'd then have to go back home anyway in failure after all the suffer.

It's a hard long risky road, one that you in Naija may be totally ignorant of.
In fact sometimes one could deduce that if the same amount of time, hussle and abuse-reception to get a greencard was spent building themselves in Naija, they probably would be farther in life themselves with more human dignity.

All that said...
The easiest thing for your boo to do is to marry a US resident FOR REAL (you don't wanna fake-marry someone you don't see yourself living forever with) and forget you so he/she can move on with their life. After marriage to a good person for a couple years, there will always come that strong urge to just BE DONE with the trans-atlantic wahala and move on with life, forgetting you in the process. Putting out the bad karma of Divorcing, then waiting to recover, and then the beginning of another battle just to send for you...is a serious long ting. You are basically baggage.

There are still some fairly easier, civilized countries to migrate to right now: e.g Australia, Canada (prepare for cold), etc. But if boo's plan is US or UK, and they didn't go as residents, just move your life along.
Don't stunt the development of your life waiting for all that. If you find a functional stable relationship where you are, go with that and free each other to face your chosen destinies untethered and without baggage.

There are many people in Naija who enjoy life to the fullest more than yankee people sef. Focus on being one of those people.

As I always say, women are highly selective. Men need to motor this and stop getting with bums.

Amakavula:
One Mr Okeke reported an incident in his company on Twitter recently. On why a highly q individual was denied a dream opportunity.



I find quite Funny but do you agree with the recruiter's decision. I feel the dude definitely find value in his phone, so the recruiter can't just assume that trash. What do you think?

https://mobile.twitter.com/okekecc/status/1060150015946047488

In a more civilized country, that firm would have been sued for prejudice.

There are awesome women everywhere according to your special brand of compatibility!
The reason guys these days are too pedantic is because guys generally have no STANDARDS.

They try to wiggle into the smelly Paiiiint of an anyhow female who flashes them basic things that every female has, and he is already begging her....even if overall said female is actually a loser.
Guys need to take up a more "quality over quantity" approach to females and they will be fine. Be fawking selective!

For one: stop dating broke females.
I think I have a thread somewhere here about all that.

fancy4eve:
y won't u lyk it, wen u all re now self centered, no body wants to spend on a lady, but wants to reap were dey did not sow .....Awon good bois gone bad

Do you start throwing pussy to a man as soon as you start going out on dates?
Or do you wait until you are sure its not just a bootycall?

You females call men selfish when you are the most selfish, consumerist creatures to ever walk this planet.
You care only about YOUR perspective and lack the greater mind to be able to see things in multiple perspectives. E.g The only reason I can give you the previous paragraph as a case of situational relativity, so you get basic common sense and understanding on the subject, is because we the men are not as self-centered as you punks keep saying.

MissRaine69:
You are just trying too hard to be controversial.
Anyway thank you for your carefully thought out contribution that is oozing with astuteness.

Yeah I was.

But regardless, if that girl exists, then she is wise for doing that.
Again, it's a good way to communicate to your man that you're not just with him for his money.
Good Men need that as much as Good women need a man who can show he is not just with her for booty.
The more the trust, the more the benefits.

That's admirable.
She is training him to trust her with money.

I like her style.
Giving back from what you collect is a surefire way to expand what you collect.
This is wisdom. Unfortunately, wisdom is not common to the basic bitches out here

Analeater:
nah thats just my fantasies

Unfortunately, you are in naija.
Too many backward azz people there...and also poor hygiene azz people.

Kinky things like that are not really in their sexual vocabulary.

zoedew:
Nine of the ten steps are traceable to you!

Exactly!
Ignorant Nigerians still talking about Atiku (chief looter) and Buhari (useless illiterate) as if they don't have fresh, new, young and successful presidential candidates like Sowore to also vote for.

Most times, my anger at Nigeria is the unthinking, I-must-to-suffer, beasts-of-burden idiots I share it with, not just the leaders.

We will simply take the woman to the hospital, give her an implant AND stick a T-bone up her cunt.

Case closed.

I remember back in the day when we had "Water Works".
Whatever happened to that I wonder (sarcasm)

yansh get leveL.
Some are definitely worth that kind of special attention.

I'm a straight man and I like it when a girl wants me so bad that she expresses it by wanting to eat my ass. It's a 21st century thing.

When an ass is clean (and surrounding area trimmed/shaved), it is basically skin.
I wouldn't expect archaic-minded, bush folk and/or people who don't make impeccable hygiene a priority in their lives to understand.

I'm sure most nairalanders still only use tissue paper to clean themselves after going number 2.
Terrible personal hygiene.

In the words of Unkle Rukkus:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2edvfBfDNo

Must stink

Men like postmann and the likes cannot marry a girl like Adeola, and are also the cause of the stories she narrates in the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyfpYrYa6eQ?t=846

The blood of many dreams are on their hands.

@postmann archaic fellow.
Ladies wit precious dreams need to open their eyes before they marry sha, or they will end up with men like the OP.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyfpYrYa6eQ?t=842

Yet snowflakes around the world will be fighting me when I say western countries have NO BUSINESS accepting these islamic guys as refugees.
You wouldn't pick a syringe and inject AIDS into your body, so why would you bring in these people into your country and give them rights?!

Every islamic refugee should go to countris that already match their lifestyle e.g Iran, Saudi Arabia, etc.

ImaIma1:
I understand your post perfectly and I say bride price has absolutely nothing to do with the way each man thinks.

See the Indian culture that was raised here for instance...the women are the one who pay dowry but are still maltreated and abused by the "husbands they bought".

So by your own submission, if paying or not paying bridelist won't stop an evil person from being evil or a good person from being good....what then is the point of it?

BrideList still causes several negative societal factors outside of marital abuse e.g late marriage, enforces premarital sex outside marriage, responsible for several children being born outside wedlock (sometimes deliberately done by the couple to use as a list bargaining chip), etc.
The negatives surpass the positives (if any). It is entirely pointless....and beyond that, harmful.

Nothing wrong with brideprice as those are mostly set by customs. It's the list that is abused and is hence the issue.

ImaIma1:
Even if a wife is wealthier than her husband, she still needs him. Don't be deceived. Money really is not everything. But obviously, many don't understand that.

You should be telling that to the person (postmann) who considers a wealthy wife an "abnormality", not me.

EmpresFIDEL:
no, I don't make pastor my God, tithe is like a salary given to pastors and other full time workers in the church. given your tithe to someone else you are indirectly using the salary of your pastor. so telling your pastor 1st b4 using it is a sign of humility. every sensible pastor will bless you for even doing that and probably add to what you are giving to that person. the Bible says by their fruit you shall know them, if your pastor refuse then you aught to decide by your self if that pastor is truly a man of God. because the second greatest commandment is to love our neighbour as our selves, so why can't we help our neighbour if we aught to love them as our selves? but if you know you can help that person with other means instead of using the tithe, then do so.. for thou shall not tempt God.

So much scriptural irrelevance in this your post.
Set aside a gift for the church sure, but that's not a biblical tithe according to Deut. Go and find my post earlier.