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QueenSuccubus:
Then how he gonna do that since my friend Sky issa type of guy with a mindset of "NO-SEX-BEFORE-MARRIAGE" sha but willing to eat a NUNU after their wedding as a gift to his wife

As a guy who likes his "food" (lol), I will most-def be giving that gift to mine often....so she can't even be ignorant about scent matters AT AAAALL.

There are some things that just need to be confirmed before marriage. He doesn't necessarily need to have sex to discover this one.

danthamccoy:
this is a myth. fat and muscle are two entirely different substances biologically and you cannot convert one to the other. Fat is burnt off and muscle is built and both cannot take place simultaneously unless the person is a beginner.

The boldened is the only lie in your statement.

QueenSuccubus:


Eeehhnn..then what if ur wife got a fish tank with a rotten fish between her legs

Still will u gonna dive and eat the rotten fish on ur "honeymoon"?

Such things will need to be confirmed before marriage.
Also in this day and age, if a girl smells like fish, it is because she wants to or is ignorant.
Nowadays, There are so many ways not to be a disgusting, filthy, foul-pussied cow

agbonkamen:
whoever introduced sucking of pussy will not go unpunished

Only reason a girl would say dumb shite like this is if her thing stank like locust beans and fish graveyard
Don't worry gal, ain't nobody fi'na go down on you.

Obodo999:
Please dear. Can you give me the scripture reference. Thanks.

Leviticus 19:28?

bukatyne:
@2buffagain:

Notice the bold above, that is someone who can talk about tattoos.

Let it sink in.

If you can date and sleep with a tattooed girl (now you know you dislike it) with the intention of stringing her along till a non-tattooed girl comes along, you are no different from her morally.

Why are you still on this foolishness?

You keep trying to make the same dull point. Which is that "if you can't marry her why are you (man) dating her?"

But like a typical logicless vagina-weidling human being, You have proven yourself incapable of understanding the 3 simple things I have told you:

1) Not every relationship is started with marriage in mind, and these sorts of relationships can be triggered by EITHER a male or female ADULT. It is not always a man deceiving a female. Abi you don't know girls tell guys whats up nowadays? You must be a child if you don't.

2) You lack the ability to comprehend the meaning of the expression "highest" or "at most". I can't help you there. Your english teachers have failed you.

3) A non-virgin fornicator such as yourself has no business accusing anyone of fornicating. Need I say more?

You are too immature...

bukatyne:
What has virginity or lack of got to do with our exchange?

I am not surprised you can't comprehend my posts.

It takes one of a kind to sleep with/date a tattooed girl when you have no intentions of marrying one.

You are the one who has issues with comprehension and logic.
And who tells you that if a guy and girl are in a relationship that will not end in marriage, it must be somoene "deceiving" another person?
You seem to not understand what "highest" means, or a plethora of actual life stuff, so you must be a kid.

Also yes, if YOU are not married and have had Preeks inside you (which I bet you do), you have no point.
You obviously just want my attention.

He was not fat before tho.
Infact I happen to know a lot of girls would have preferred the type of body he had before.

But as he said, he did it for himself not yansh.

chenzen:
ask Goodluck Jonathan if patience is a parasite...lol

She's not?

bukatyne:
You said you can have an inked girl as a 'forever GF'.. how do you make her forever GF and even if you don't 'lie' to her, you still intend to sleep with her? Not so?. Except she doesn't want marriage, she will at a point expect you to commit and if you havent found your spec, you will keep lying to her to sustain the relationship.




Well, someone who got AIDS from sleeping around or lost a body part e.g. womb would disagree with you.

I have no issue with your stance on tattoos; no matter how 'liberal' I become, bells would unconsciously go off in my head when I see a tattooed person.

I have an issue with you believing that a fornicator and deceiver (you) has any moral standing to disparage a tattooed girl.

Urgh.... Thus says the Virgin.... Unless you're not... In which case you're just being a duplicitous pest.

Biglittlelois:
The first few months of being single is sweet, later na die, nobody to call except family and friends, nobody to kiss, hug, handle, sex etc

it's only bad for females.
Guys are more self sufficient.

Females generally gain more from relationships than guys do.

e no go pass nigerians in houston

bukatyne:
I find it interesting that while you condemn tattoos ( a vice I fully agree with your stance), you have no qualms stringing a girl along in a sexual relationship till you find the 'non-inked' girl that meets your fancy.

In the process of the above, you would have constantly lied to her (sin 1), had sex with her (sin 2) amongst other things.

Somehow, you still think that despite the bold, you have the moral stance to condemn a tattooed girl.

Really interesting.

Assumptions. Who said people need to lie to be in relationships?
You know nothing.

Also, if it is lifestyle...
A lifestyle can be changed.
A tattoo is forever.

cezarman:
The Op is not right, infact he's fooolish and timid .There are so many women with tattoos who are happily married.

I don't even know if the people with tattoos asked for his stvpid opinion concerning their body.
You can't marry a woman with tattoo, so what do you want us to do

When I tell people I regret being an African, them go begin insult me.
Africans can mumu demsef sometimes ehn

And there you have it.
Self hate.

I sensed that about you the moment you brought your crooked fingers into my thread
You are proving more points than you even realize.

Gentkode:
I traveled out, i saw things, my mind became exposed and i developed. I read through all your reasons and when your mind has developed beyond it's current state, you'll think differently too. I'll give an example and you may even relate that with your post. I used to hate and be scared of girls who put on chains on their ankles or waist, i used to think they were either prostitutes or marine spirits. But i went to India and then to the Arab world and it was a norm for them, just something for beauty and affluence. Before coming home, I bought a silver ankle chain for my girlfriend, hehehe. Now another dude may see her and say she's an olosho or marine spirit, i don't care though. But i believe maybe you catch my drift, peace.

The thread is about tattoo, you are talking chain.
Why are you trying to derail the thread with a strawman argument?

There is nothing wrong with chains or waist beads.Those are things you can simply take off.
Tattoos are forever, and getting one is generally a poor decision.

Have you seen a tattoo that is no longer being supplied with ink? or one that has stretched with the skin with age?
Beauty is the last thing that comes to mind.

yeyerolling:
canada pm has a tattoo, former uk pm wife has a tattoo. Dey are better dan ur whole generation

The Canadian PM Justin Trudeau is a well-known emotionally-led boy who has made terrible decisions in the making of Canada into an overly leftist country.

Ask any *decent* Canadian you know whether they didn't prefer the days of Steven Harper when an actual grown up (Not by age) was leading the country.
Using Justin doesn't help your point at all. He is exactly the sort of fellow that would wear a tattoo as he is STILL making poor decisions today.

els0nm0rali:
Nope. @bolded. The only assumption I'm making about you is that you've already made up your mind to cheat on the unlucky lady who will call you husband. No offense.

If that is what you wish to deduce.
A less corrupt person could also deduce it as a girlfriend you never marry, but thats just you.
I owe you no further clarification

Headlesschicken:
Never mind,dia r people that love em just like that...

Like attracts like.
Such people are ignorant of a least 2 of the 4 points I made in this thread.

4) How many First Ladies have you seen with tattoos?

At the end of the day, after all the talk and "don't judge" statements aside, appearances still matter.
Do you know any First Ladies with tattoos? Her "personality" doesn't mean jack. A tattoo is something that will always emit an element of trashiness or unseriousness to people, no matter how faint the emission.

You might also be blocked from some jobs and opportunities because of that ink.

So ladies, please don't be deceived, your skin is beautiful enough as it is.

As someone said below in this thread: No one (who has any sense of class) puts bumper stickers on a jaguar.

Don't get that tattoo.

3) It's a Commitment

Tattoos are an expensive, ongoing commitment to stupidity

You don't just get a tattoo once. You have to keep on re-doing that same tattoo otherwise it will blotch and look ugly in the future.
For the tattoos with undercover spiritual meanings, you have to constantly make a commitment to these things by getting their symbols re-etched on your skin....a brand of ownership, if you will.

Why do that to yourself?

2) What do you tell your daughter?

Before deciding on who to marry, it is important to look ahead.
Marriage is not just about you and her. It's about your children as well.

I have a certain way I intend to raise my children.
Say now you decide to take things serious with your tattoo'd gf and you guys get married and are blessed with children...when those wild teenage years come, how do you tell your daughter not to get a tattoo? Children don't listen. They observe. If mom has inked her skin, you as parents have lost all right to tell your children not to.

Your daughter will come back home one day and TELL you that she will be getting a tattoo of her current boyfriend's name on her lower back and you will have to shut up and look, because there is not a damn thing you can morally do about it. You've lost that high ground.

1) Tattoos have Spiritual implications

Spiritual ignorance is a big no no when deciding on my future spouse.
Few actions show me how spiritually ignorant you are when you go and permanently stamp yourself with a symbol or sygil you don't really know anything about (past what "someone" tells you).
I have seen some tattoos that I don't know what they mean, but my spirit inside me just feels appaled at the meaning behind it for some reason, even when my brain doesn't actually know what it means.

When it comes to relationships, I personally do not take a woman with a tattoo seriously.
Especially not enough to get into a marriage-facing relationship with her.
Highest, she goes into the "forever GF" box for me. Guys you know the box

I know the assumptions you all are making about me. I can hear them already:
"You're judging her when you don't even know her!"
"Not all women who get tattoos are wild!"
"The true sluts look like good girls!"

Blah blah blah. I get it. And I've met many level-headed intelligent and sane tattoo'd babes.
But see, the REAL reasons I don't plan ahead with a tattoo'd lady are as follows...

LivingFree:
She thought she was smart!

Nah... the one she was cheating with had the beard, this guy had the money

Babe, I feel shame for her, imagine her image has gone viral it reach naija from America to the Uk

Her image isn't that tarnished.
Even though I just watched the video 5 seconds ago, I have already forgotten what she looks like.
Know why?
Girls never show their true face. Everything is hidden by makeup.

You notice how girls who use makeup have the same bloody face?
It might be a cute face, but it's a fvcking forgettable face.

ponti93:
so you dont know some people dont just fancy the idea of kissing and it has nothing to do with the any of the above

Keep telling yourself that

Only 2 things can b involved here:

Mouth ordour (yours or hers) and guilt/shame for something she did against you that she can't seem to look you in the eye after.

Single mums have no choice but to be the best fvcks and the most caring women you will meet.
Their market is small, so it is how they stay competitive.

Do you know how hard it is for them to secure the long-term attention of a man when you already have that much baggage?
With the reality that they are older than the competition? And also have MORE baggage than said competition?

She knows exactly where she ranks, and so she is in a desperate situation.
Discount isle type sturvs.

It is only natural that She use everything from money to freaky (butt stuff sef) sex to get the love of a man.

MrCork:
....Bro notin wrong with 37 year old woman with 7 kid....juss date her in secret so nobody no yor business & only visit her at night time!! ((.Chapter 17, page 5 of plaYas, rule book).. real talk!

The C0rk is back

pocohantas:
The first sensible comment I have read from you.

Who are you again?

4FACEADELEKE:
Bro you are not a red pill to me,maybe to yourself and others you might be.A red pill never sees a reasonable post made by his fellow bro which depicts reality,instead of supporting his own bro or ignore it,leaves to get on a mention of a fellow red pill like him,to massage his ego and feel female validation and superiority.On my comment of me being an alpha,whether i am an alpha or not,a true red pill would have ignored me and post a reasonable comment that will affect or help the Op and all other male nairalanders who might view this thread now or later.You indirectly supported the females by also indirectly attacking me,to massage your male ego,and its primitive need for female validation. The red pill bro and the MGTOW have codes and you just breached some. Thank you.

My point exactly. I don't care about all those boys club stuff.
True masculinity lies in inward confidence, not in making loud attributions to boy-groups.
The only merit I see in those things are for young men who don't yet know who they are and so need the training wheels. After a certain point though, you need to truly "go your own way", especially from your boys club.

Back to the discussion, you aren't getting me. It's good that you see yourself as an alpha, but telling people that you are is not the way. Simply be and simply speak. They will deduce from that what you *naturally* are, not what you say you are.

Leave that to them...

4FACEADELEKE:
Bro have you swallowed the red pill?If you havent please do and remove the log society have planted on you men,most especially by women

I'm actually as redpill as they come (in its truest natural sense free of gimmicks and posturing), but someone calling themselves an "alpha" is the same as some one calling themselves "smart".

"I'm very smart"....is what a not-very-smart person would say. It's what a person who has doubts that they are smart would say to feel smart....you get what I'm saying? Leave such things to others to deduce about you on their own. You should have more important statements to make.

4FACEADELEKE:
I never asslick a woman,and how will i start asslicking a woman in a faceless forum.Some will be chasing after people they cant see,i dont chase ghost,i chase what i see,feel,and touch.As an Alpha i ask a girl out only once then am done.No time for frivolties.

Alphas don't call themselves alphas...