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mhd5757:
Are you sure she's transgender? I swear if nobody tells me I will never know until I feel the dryness of her vagina because transgenders usually have got dry vagina. But Damnn! She's so hot!! Like really hot!

Trannies mostly have phalluses.
The ones that fully commit are few and far between thankfully...at least I hope so .

MrBrownJay1:
you sir are an undercover homosexual... you see, its one thing to be attracted to a trangender NOT knowing it is a man, but if you know its a man (with probably a dikc between his legs), and still wanna mount the dude, then i am sorry to be the bearer of bad news.... you are gay (or at least bisexual) bro!

Here here.

I bet you dodged tons of that while you were in Brazil. There's loads of those "things" in Atlanta too.
I kind of have a 6th sense now, so I can tell these things for what they are when I see them, even when boys are trying to holla at "it".

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ebonflexy:
I fix this problem by just generally not pursuing marriage with igbo girls.
I'm based in yankee too and the thought of making tenious trips back to nigeria just to marry is not attractive.

Its not like you will get any benefit from marrying her that you won't get from marrying any other woman here that has sense.
So bro please if she and her people don't want to have sense, let them marry their own.

Find you a good naija girl in yankee who's parents are here and can handle all these things here without village involvement.
The only thing that should matters is that the bride is given away from her father's house, which can be any where in the world!
That's why I like yoruba culture. They are generally more progressive about these things. Igbo will use their culture thing to kill you.

Agreed

chigoizie7:
Since u guys have relatives all living abroad. U can do it there. And then a small feast in naija with kindreds of both bride and groom present.
In Igbo land, marriage is not just about the bride and groom it is both families. Otherwise u can just live with the woman and not marry her at all.

That sounds cool and all but, from my experience with these discussions, I am yet to meet an igbo woman/family who agrees to this. They all seem to want to do the thing back in their village. (...I guess to show off?)

I have immediate family (parents, brothers, sisters) and some uncles all living abroad.
Some Uncles aunties and such are in naija, but in lagos. Travelling far east is a major endeavor I would rather not place on my extended relatives over there because of different family dynamics.

From my understanding, biblical and otherwise, It is the girl's father who gives her away. He and her mum is here. I have my trusted people here as well. Money can be sent to those in Naija to party small. That really should be all there is to it...but the igbo families I've encountered aren't about that modest/pragmatic life so it seems.

Any responses?

Again, what if he doesn’t have people in Nigeria?
Both bride and grooms parents are in yankee, but Igbo folk still insist on this massively expensive trip to their village for a wedding that pragmatism dictates should just be done here.

pointblank247:
in igbo Land marriage is sacrade and if the union was not blessed by your village or KINDRED by partication, you are not Seen as married. They value their culture and tradition, you may be permited to have the traditional marriage thing in absentia, represented by your people, so it is not one rigid tradition but a way of ensuring that the right things are done. This is why its hard for an igbo lady to just relax with you and be having children with out the right thing done, though the indomie generation are less carefull

What if he doesn’t now have people in Nigeria who can go all the way out there?

It would seem that of all tribes, igbo are the most geographically tied to their village.

We are in America. Yet All the igbo girls I know who marry require that she and her boo travel back to her village all the way in naija to do trad ceremonies even when the girl and her necessary family members live abroad in the same yankee.
These trips add to costs....costs that these same igbo people will want to IMPOSE on you to pay.

Are there actually igbo families out here who are pragmatic enough to not require these excessive movements?
Or is this something to pretty much expect from people from that part of Nigeria?

Serious answers only please.

Her Brain is her treasure. Build THAT please
Too many women think only about vagina these days. No brain content.

NL is like craigslist.
It was the first, that's all.
It'll always be ugly. In fact, thats its charm.

Sterope:
How do you compensate emotional investment?

With cash. What else?
You women drawl on and on about your ducking emotions I swear.

MissRaine69:
Ok read what I wrote again. It gives you an outline in regards context. This person is already catching feelings so my question relates to this scenerio. Even seasoned vaterans catch feelings.

In that context, it would mean she isn't feeling me otherwise she'd put in the effort.
Experience would make me totally okay with that too, because I've done the same to people I wasn't feeling.

Trust that if I see her again, I would habour no ill feelings.

MissRaine69:
But they do......

Pardon me... seasoned men don't think like that.
That would be getting attached to an outcome.
Men with experience simply don't think that way...or at the very least don't put too much thought to it if it happens.

He might actually be relieved, because he might already have been preparing to tell her to not get too attached...

Can she wear something shorter so the thighs can be inspected properly? She always wears the same kind of dress, meaning she is hiding her thighs that might be just full of akamu.

Bitch-made men everywhere...

MissRaine69:
You meet a woman go out on a few dates. She stays over one night and in your opinion it’s the best sex you have ever had and you start to catch feelings and even find yourself wondering what your children would look like.
But she never returns your calls, answers your messages/emails or tweets.
What does it mean?
How would you deal with this?

Lol, men don't think like that....

zainmaxwell:
the same woman that cannot make her own decision or never took blames the same woman that neglect who she love cos of her siblings she called him a loser for fvck sake

Those are just words though. Granted he was acting like a loser, but proved her wrong at the end and set her up for a very comfortable life.

Her foolishness began shortly a there after

milemimi93:
If my lady is faithful to the core and wouldn't cheat regardless. Then I will let her wear this out.

Wearing all those deeper life dresses doesn't stop a lady from cheating if she wants to.


To me, it's about the lady and not the dress.

It's mostly out of concern for her to reduce the quantity of harrassment she would have to deal with that day.
Some guys are savages.

Her body oozes rough sex
Women shaped like that need to be careful with what they wear or she will be harassed.

milemimi93:
Bruv this is Mimi. My account has not been hacked.

Sh!t was getting out of hand. I started acting shiity whenever female clients visit my place of work. I resort into drinking and thinking all nights.

I got suspended from work for insulting a female customer.
I was given two options by my close friend.

Either I SEEK FOR HELP AND GET HEALED OR I STAY TO MYSELF AND END UP IN THAILAND PRISON.

I chose the former because I've been to the latter and I can tell how it feels.

So here I am @ New Life Foundation rehab.

When I came here, told them my story.
The first thing they did was put me in a room and play a video of a woman giving birth. I swear sh!t was crazy. Is this what women go through during child birth? Blood was like water all over.

I couldn't watch to the end. Was scary.

For some time now, I've been put through some programs and every program I do, a woman must be involved.

I swear these women here showered me love I never had from the women over there.

This is me.. My moniker is @Mimimile93 and @Milemimi93.

Yeah naturally thats the best treatment for anyone who "hates" women.
It is good to be wary of them, as any other human being, but never hate.

emelda86:
As in I am dreaming plz I want to wake up....

What!!!...

Who hack this dude account...

Na wa ooo...

Change is constant indeed

It's a new account, created by someone else.
Notice how his previous women hating topics no longer exist.

Hanseel1:
This sounds funny.
She spent $1.2m on him and he compensated her with $10m and a house, what could be more generous than that?

Bro, How many women even compensate men that they have drained post divorce? Talkless of ~10x compensation.
They inherently think in an unfair way when it come to their dealings with men i.e no matter what you spend on me, all I owe you is toto.

UrbanExotica:
concluding.
Like you're familiar with every female gender on earth

Abeg lemme hear word!
How many women do you see going back to refund men they have drained dry after they make it?

Also during the divorce, he made sure NOT to take MORE, even when at that point he was sure he had nothing.
He was pretty much a hobo at the time of the divorce, sleeping at work. His deal didn't come until months later.

How many women would rather be a hobo than take MORE from the man she has drained and is divorcing her? Una no get conscience naw, especially for this obodo oyinbo. Your gender is inherently selfish.

When the deal finally happened, if you look at the numbers, he made sure he gave her the first 10 million he earned. Say what you want, but that's a fawking class act aka honor.


Initially, He did not do anything females haven't been doing to guys since time immemorial....only he did his own with an honorable closure at the end....after-which SHE started being selfish to the point of attempted murder, true to your gender!

switching the ending,
If it was a guy that got that closure from a woman, he would be happy that he at least got his house back and a COOL 10 MILLION DOLLARS to retire with. Most men who get drained and then divorce don't typically come out of such things that lucky.

UrbanExotica:
which honor?
after he initially drained her dry of everything she had.
myopic thinking

Honor is going back to giver the first fruits of his success.
Women won't do that after you divorce them for being parasitic.

IamPlato:
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Its Obvious She Was Very Foolish... But Robert Was A Terrible Person i Swear

Actually Robert is still better than a lot of women.
You see your husband struggling but instead of going to find work you shrug and say thats his own.
There is nothing new in this movie that doesn't happen the other way round every single day.
Women have always been the parasitic spouses in a lot of marriages.

Yes in this instance he was the parasitic one and She was very patient, but eventually divorced him. He made sure not to take anything more from her as per divorce. Yet after success, He STILL came back to make sure he gave her the first fruits of his success.
That's honor.

Women don't do honor. Honor seems to be mostly a man thing.
In fact as you are divorcing her, she is making sure she fights you for whatever you have left that she didn't leech from you yet. BEFORE going on to enjoy her new millions that manifest shortly after with her new boo-thang.

In all things, whether as victim or as oppressor...fear women. Don't show them your back

Everyone has their level of libido and sex isn't everything.

As a man, Your bio-energy is dispersed each time you ejaculate. You give the best of yourself, your cells, your vital, rare nutrients that take time to rebuild.

Warriors and even athletes are often advised not to have ejaculative sex before a major event or battle.

If you are an idle person (and if the woman is also idle...which is all too common), sure you can give 1 full hour of your 24hr day just to sex.
Live long and prosper.

Who in this age is still marrying jobless women?

To add to that, who in this era is still marrying employed women WHO DON'T CONTRIBUTE FINANCIALLY?

DonFreshmoney:
The Fact is that if I notice you are a female parasite, I wil blast u up.. u can't be acting like a beggar everytime. Relationship is meant to be a two way thing, but in Nigeria and Africa at large, it has turn into business for some ladies. When I was in UK, I couldn't coun how many times my white babe took me out for dinner and even paid for my vacation to Blackpool. I miss that babe very well, I haven't seen any lady in Nigeria like her.

What am saying is most ladies think it's the right and responsibilities for a guy to cater for her every need, I mean if we were married it would have been better. Am very sure most of these ladies can't ask their parent what they asking their boyfriends. It's outrageous.

I met a lady few months back, we started chatting on whatsapp, then she asked us to hang out. I didn't wanna ask, cos I knew I was the one that will pay the bills. Because she asked, I accepted. On arriving to the Chinese restaurant in Abj, i paid for our meal. Following week, she said we shld hang out at jabi lake mall, I accepted. When we reached dere, she said she was hungry. In my mind, I was like you just left your house why didn't you eat there. I bought snacks for both of us. Coming Saturday, I invited her to my place, I then joked with her she should make food, for both of us, she told me she don't like cooking in guys house that I should order food if am hungry. I was really mad, but didn't talk, I didn't order food. The following week I invited her to signature Wuse 2, I had a friend who was the manager, I told him I what the girl was doing to me earlier, and planned with him that I would order food for us, and I will leave her to settle the bills. So, I ordered food of #5,900 and she ordered around #4,800. I made sure I ate to my satisfaction. I then signalled the manager that am leaving, I told her I wanna get something from my car. I started getting calls and messages from her asking where I was, that she wants to go home that I should come and settle the bill and drop her home. She doesn't know I was already home chilling, and didn't get answer her. She had a techno phone worth around 25k, the manager seized it from her till she paid his money. This babe didn't even come with money not even her atm. What the manager told me after that she was very ashamed, she cried and had to beg th guest there to help her pay d money. Fortunately, the manager kept my food and sent it to me via uber to my house. I didn't even know how she went home. I blocked her line completely.

Good plan. All Selfish females MUST go through this experience several times before they get sense.

The very least she could do is cook when you are both together, at least that would be some minute sort of contribution.
But no, she sounds like the typical shameless nigerian parasite.

A wig and makeup on a 4 year old...

IntrovertedK:
Best friends are best friends irrespective of the gender. Some of them are not meant to be left alone and forgotten just because of marriage. Don't marry who you don't/can't trust. Some best friends are part of us and some of them are bigger than marriage. They are like our blood that we can do without. If you think i'm lying ask jada pinkett smith. She'd choose 2Pac over anyone in life even though they are 'just' best friends. I'm sure even will smith wouldn't have been able to separate them if 2pac should still be alive. Best friends are great gift. Sometimes we need them more than our family cuz most of them are more than that.

The only thing the woman is to do is to try her best to give the husband the reason to trust her. You lots should stop being insecure.

Again with the nairaland binary logic.

I did not say anybody should be left alone and forgotten. I said their role is to be diminished (https://www.google.com/search?q=diminished).
A best friend is someone you have long calls with many times a week or so and discuss everything with including your personal life.
It is foolishness if that kind of closeness is with a member of the opposite sex that is not your spouse after marriage.
Unless you want to one day find yourself unknowingly raising your wife's best-friend's child, You would do well to establish such boundaries.

I strongly believe that in order for man and woman to be "best friends" or even friends, it means there is an element of attraction. It could be small, it could be one-sided, but it must be there. This is wisdom I am giving you.

I have girls who I chill with on that level, but I know this chilling would not be possible if they were not in a way attracted to me.
Girls generally don't develop close friendships with guys they find repulsive Likewise guys!

IntrovertedK:
Men and insecurity ehn. Buh you can keep a sex mate o? God is watching you in HD. Smh

It's not about insecurity, but about wisdom and RESPECT.
A married woman should see all roles of "male best friend" diminished, just like a married man should see all roles of "female best friend" diminished and reduced.