₦airaland Forum

daveyjay:
I thank everyone for their invaluable input. To those saying there's more to the story, you're wrong. I spelled it out the way it all happened. When the matter got to our parents, if there was anything hidden, she would have let it out.

She's not my slave in anywAy and I never expected her to fetch me water, WE DON'T FETCH WATER. We pump when the reservoir is empty. It just happened that the caretaker was unavailable to pump the water thAt very moment.

I equally stated that I hadn't had my bathe but later went to see a football game which is an indication that we later had water. The water was pumped even before evening.
She has stayed for about 3 months, she knows how this thing works.

Don't mind these mfs putting blame on you. These simps just want to see all real niggas become pussies as them. Disgusting! It is a battle, we are at war with them bluepilled hoes.
You did well, bro. I have been there. I was a pussy nigga then and let the smallie ride me.

QorQ:
And if anything harmful happens to her, you believe police would listen abi?

The police can go Bleep themselves up. If the girl is underage, then the parents are to blame, and if she is of legal age, then she is a fucking adult! You missed were she passed the night outside without telling him? That is what adults do and must take responsibility.

Kylekent59:
I can't believe that some people are supporting the way you locked her out. She is stranded and needs a place to sleep.

I wonder why you are acting supreme because you own the room. Please let her in.



Let me tell you, this life turns around. You never can tell if she would be the one to help you in the future.

99% of people supporting the op are religious be it Christians and Muslims.

Since you are the boss of the house, change her, let her know your rules.


I can not support the multitudes here. With the mindset of people here, I can say that this country is filled with bad people.

300+ supporting the op....

hmmm.

Can you stop the Bleep up? Did you not read where the op said she didn't come back to sleep at home? Who does that? What right does she have to give op attitude in his own property, to a point of sleeping out without informing him? And you expect him to allow her come into his space because she iß a what? A pad wearing wannabe?

QorQ:
You are 100% right, you're wrong by 50%


If anything bad happened to her like she gets raped, attacked or injured, it is on you bro. Whatever she did at that point wouldn't count

I like the treatment however, you should have returned that very night. With the scare alone just passing the message across without going all the way to keep her locked for days

Her parents won't forgive you and you didn't consider your family ties in your deeds and actions


Why she is misbehaving two wrongs do not make a right. And when one party is acting childish, the other should be careful and discerning.


You have the upper hand today doesn't mean tomorrow she won't be up.

One way or the other, you don't know what your parents have with hers to its fullness


It's her parents responsibility to train her, not you. You ought to have communicated any issues with her with your parent to speak with hers to do the talking with her.


There are protocols in life. You violated it, even though you may have been aware of this


Go and draw her back and seek ways to mend your rifts

You need to shush! It is his property and space. He does whatever he wants with it.

Rocktation:
Well, it's easy to stay on our little soap boxes and charge others to behave in a certain way we say is ideal. The conditions of the people you help must not be servile, to qualify them as having proper upbringing, sweets. Or aren't such the sad tales, most newbies in The Abroad tell? The story might be doctored, but not so much as to make us unsee that she wanted to cook. So why aren't people acknowledging that, at least?

You are trying too hard to be smart, but you are not. Just because you are a divergent voice does not mean that being divergent against the norm would always mean being on the right path as opposed to the crowd's view. It does not matter whether you are a lone voice or among the crowd, if you are wrong then you are wrong.
Most of us understood the op's narrative from our own experiences. And his points stand valid until the other party comes to give a different story. The faults you are trying so hard to find in the op's story are not rational, unless you have other facts we are not aware of. Or, u see d matter as men vs women.

Mypeople2:
My guy sleeping on the floor is a no no no for me .Na everytime person dey sleep with he babe for bed? Nor dey sleep for ground because you think you may sex with a lady ...Just forgive her ..Na small pikin sense dey do her

Na probably small sized hostel forms not big enough for two persons.

Geniero:
This reminds me of a similar experience I had. An hostel mate who had graduated the previous year called that her cousin was coming to take post ume and asked that I accommodate her, that was how I agreed oo. First act, I always fetched water and kept in the house for our use (she came a week to the exam). One evening after lectures, I needed a quick shower and head out to somewhere, there was a bucket of water in the bathroom, as I made attempt to enter the bathroom, next thing I heard was, "bros na that water I go take baff tomorrow oo". I shook, no probs, I quickly rushed and fetched water from the tap (just outside our room oo). Another day I came back from lectures hungry, attempt to eat from the rice I met in the kitchen.. "bros na the food I go eat before I go for tutorials for morning ooo", (food that she cooked with my foodstuff and gas oo), her post ume day, I came back home in the evening to meet 3 strange faces with her.. "bros na my friends, na from here we all go travel tomorrow morning".I slept in a neighbors room that night, I and the neighbor had a good laugh about the experience.

Haha. Bros, u don make me laugh so tey I don forgive Buhari all him incompetence for one week. I no go castigate am. Thank you.

Chukabiz:
Does it mean that one mumu called Saphire did not see this thread or did she comment with another username?
This is the kind of thread she usually comes to display her foolishness on.

He already did. Na wan hairy balled werey dey behind that handle.

saphiere:
If anything happens to her you will be held accountable. Her people know she is in your custody. Be a man. Go home and settle your differences.

I guess she was acting a fish brain and forgot how to act an ideal woman. But, how convenient for a non man or remote trans woman like you to know what being a man entails.

abbasajao:
Unfortunately, this is a one side of stories,.

Abeg go dig the other side come. We dey wait, thank you. Mbana!

bigtt76:
You took her in because of your family relationship, don't let ego sore that. Be the bigger person and let her know you no longer want her to stay with you instead of locking her out. BTW she probably see you as her boyfriend

No, she doesn't see him as a boyfriend. Her stay in the school environment has given her some sense of security especially as regards new friends she has made. I think she no longer needs the op as her options have increased, either a boyfriend or females friend has given her an assurance to live with them.

Richochett:
At least I'm more intelligent than you.

Abeg carry ur intelligence go one side fess

Richochett:
You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.

Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house

Allow her to enter the house.

Oh god, na which kind wahala be this na?! I was enjoying comments until your useless comment came. Shey u wan help d girl sue op ba as per legal legal things? If op sey him no know her and does not have her property with him, she go fit prove, as per her name dey for the house rent receipt ¿

nisai:
I understand. But are they willing to work together, especially Yoruba and Igbo?

If the yorubas are okay with it, i don't think anyone down south will antagonise them. See, I just one a fresh breath, I am tired of seeing cows and ruga and all that shitty stuffa taking as top burner in our national discourse.

MrMaestro:
No. We are different people. If we want we can have more intricated bilateral trade. But that should be the extent of any relationship. Less we find ourselves in a similar situation as Nigeria 50 years from now. Let each people go their way and build from the base of a homogeneous language and culture.

Not bad. The Bilateral arrangement is cool.

nisai:
Southern independence? Are u sure?

Yes. SS, SE and SW, coming together to form a confederation. That way, we still retain the force that comes with large population for economic and military benefits. Three or more federating units, each unit brings in a representative. No single leader but equals. Each unit takes care of its affairs, yet contributes a percentage to the centre to care for a small centre military.

TonyeBarcanista:
My brother, Rivers is very safe and secured, THIS I CAN CONFIRM!

Those cowards gunmen can't survive in any parts of our state, this I can assure you. The coming days will be interesting for anyone to test our resolve...

If you and wicked think you all can hide under one SS to continue to enslave us while living in the cover of one Fraudgeria, day go break for una. U will realise that day that there is nothing like one SS and that we don't share one umblical cord. That day, all you will realise that fraudulent state boundaries does not indicate loyalty.

Omoslim26:
Hmm those ones are just keyboard warriors of the occult group they have no business with ipob in reality.

The SS should partner with the force if you sight the bastards doing their nonsense clamp in on them , they can't be more than the youths.

Save your father's land from bastard ugm.

U are mad! Which SS? Are we sharing same umbilical cord?

TonyeBarcanista:
No need to blow many grammar, you can defy the curfew or lead whoever you think is brave to replicate the madness in Imo in Rivers. Let's see whether there won't be consequences

Abeg no pour me with spit. Yeye dey smell

TonyeBarcanista:
My advice to gunmen, whoever they are, is for.them to leave Rivers state because the people and the government will not tolerate their madness.

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I expect all the Nairaland insurgents and gunmen sympathisers that think the curfew is unenforceable and Rivers will be turned to another Imo by the cowards called gunmen to step up their game, walk their talk and defy the curfew... Let us see what will happen afterwards

Go stand for road na

AllenSpencer:
What bunker?

The battle line will be drawn somewhere in Eastern Nigeria. So its constant that the clamor's of war can never get to where I reside. Like I said, From TV I will be recording deaths and casualties.

When the pipelines will all go in flames and the economy is brought to zero, we shall see how much life there is to enjoy in your one Nigeria.

Litmus:
Nigeria needs to stop being blackmailed by Civil War threats. Leadership need to go in hard on miscreants and if Civil war results then so be it, at least civil war will provide opportunity to clean up the mess. We need to get up off our knees and stop pandering to these militant interest groups. If we must go out lets go out with such mayhem that it will be our last gift to Africa that of lessons why Wars are stupid, unproductive and on which they must turn their backs and discard as anachronistic and primitive.

It will be a lesson to show that no body show every intimidate any one or feel superior over another, and that injustice always have an expire date.

madridguy:
I shake my head for people hailing those gunmen bringing down security architecture in their domain maybe you people should ask the people of the North East how market now.

Were you shaking your prxxk for people hailing security men when they were killing unarmed citizens?

OdudwaR:
Acclamation, consultation and awareness first.

But if they decide to stir up the hornets' nest, they will get more than what they bargained for.

Pĺease, we can work together and achieve the needed south independence. There is a lot we can achieve with southern allegiance. We are better than this nonsense cow politics if giving us. We need to catch up with the developed world and leave those futa jalon men behind us.

So na blood dey their body sef? No more bloody civilians again. Na gun been separate us.

Amotolongbo:
If you know what effect this kind of comment can have on the child later in the future, you won’t like it on your ward’s report card. When a potential employer sees it.

Best thing is to visit your ward’s school occasionally to ask about his/her comportment from the class teacher and not this nonsense on the report card

Shush! The essence of report card is not just about your academic performance in school but also behavioural performance. It was what saved my elder brother when he was a truant in school. When my mum gave him the beating of his life after that report, he changed for good. Today, he is doing well, but most of his mates in the gang aren't. Same report was what improved my handwriting because I had a terrible one and so they were finding it difficult to write my answers and score me. I took third position in that term, and tooķ first the following term when I improved.

theTranslator:
in your dreams remember 67 70

No adaka boro to help ur fight biafra this time.

helinues:
That's the mistake some of you people are making.. Those who experienced the war who are still alive can never wish and pray for another to start.

Secondly, this rag tags ESN don't even have ordinary operational vehicle not talk of weapons that will last for 1 month should full scale war happened ( God forbid bad thing)

3rdly, SE don't have the land mass for hide and seek game of ESN..

This is not a war, infact, it can't be regarded as a fight but decimation

We will never go to war and come back one nigerian. your darling bubu knows.

theTranslator:
I'm not naive
I'm as rational as I can get
you can't kill policemen and ambush soldiers and expect an handshake from buhari

the East did that not the west
we have our share of violence already

violence takes one decades backwards
ask Germany

But soldiers can kill unharmed civilians and go scot free? Joker. Tyrant empires rise and fall every time, Nigeria is no different.

theTranslator:
Yes we took them as out brothers and warned them
we said nnamdi is deranged.
now there is no difference in North east, Afghanistan and Biafla
they didn't listen.
they call us betrayers afonja etc


let the guerilla war start and end there

we warned them.


I can translate to igbo for you
we warned them

Afonja! Please I would like to see those fine stripes on your face…if they extend horizontally from the lips to the ear, or vertically. You guys were making fun of the Ipobs when security men killed them, made some to swim in muddy waters, killed and threw some in izu river, arrested Nnamdi Kanu and maltreated him. Even as far as going to murder him, but unfortunately killed other persons found in his house and his dog. Dog o?!! Your barbaric forces didn't spare. Ipob begged and begged not to be killed but you encouraged your govt to kill them more. Well, Ipob is not even responsible for these attacks, they are being carried out by your dss to discredit Ipob.

[quote author=Christistruth00 post=101157890][/quote]Boro had a lot of successes against tĥe biafran forces, and so Adekunle envied him and wanted that glory for himself. Adekunle had intentions to acquire power beyond the war. So Boro was kilĺed by forces ordered by Adekunle. Check Obansanjo's authobiography, it is subtly written. That betrayal was what angered the men brought into the war by Adaka Boro to desert the war. It was in the midst of that low morale that led to the transfer of Adekunle, and Obasanjo was brought in to take over from him to head the unit.
Look, this is an open secret that even my mum has been telling me from chiĺdhood. A lot of my uncles fought on the side of one Nigeria, and the were trained by Adaka Boro and so fought along side him. Adekunle was the one who also killed my uncle simply because he sent information to my kinsmen to escape before their forces killing suspected biafran sympathizers get to our clan. The death of that my uncle is stilĺ felt by us. Becàuse he was the most vibriant in the family and so if he were alive at the time people started taking our family land, he would have stopped them.

helinues:
Ijaw youths should not add to the woes Nigeria is currently facing

One dey for my community, we go burst am like blom blom.