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[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Sweety, I don't think you know where your father is really from. Point well and point straight.

Your silly attempt to catch biscuit crumbs that Beaf throws at you is not typical of an Ekiti person. . . . out of all three of you imbeciles, you're the one with the lowest cognitive faculty. Keep trying.[/quote]
Ileke I read about you legendary ability but this response was epic. No wonder the tribalits follow you everywhere

moremi2008: All I hear is a large fly buzzing... keep trying! Going forward, I'll pay attention to you only when you have earned it. Good luck!

hahahaha, you are unstable and bipolar. Your opinions keep changing. The advocate of love not being important is all of a sudden talking about love. How can you love someone's child when you dont love the person? Logic is vacant in your mind. you just spew a lot of crap.

moremi2008: Blah, blah, blah... and yet you quoted me! Bloody dunce! Get the fck out of here with your bullsh*T! It's nobody's fault that you're daft and inexperienced!

What an experienced dumbo. Throwing tantrums at a situation that has nothing to do with you. You need help. . What was the outburst for grown up bull*shiter. Once i saw the "blah blah...." i knew it was a retarded baby making a comment and trying to sound logical.

moremi2008: If it is almost impossible to love each one of your own children truly equally, how can you possible love children that aren't yours as much as you love your own? The most important thing is how your TREAT them. You should love them and treat them equally and fairly, not necessarily love them equally. If you get this right, you should be alright.

Why are you talking about love? I thought that was not important. Bloody contradiction. Do you have a stable mind?

moremi2008: Blah, blah blah... love is nice to have but you can't base a marriage on a flimsy, transient emotion. If I married every woman I fell in love with, I would be a serial divorcee by now. The type of love you're describing will wear thin after a few years and what's left after that are the true makers or breakers of marriage: harmony, character, compromise, forgiveness, patience, faithfulness, selflessness etc. How old are you? You sound like a bloody teenager.

You dont have to like or agree with my opinion. You can move ahead, drop a comment and make a point. You can also keep it moving. I did not bother to read your comment because the previous ones did not make sense. If you insist on living in the 18th century, slit your throat and ask God to transport you back there. Life and reality is different. Make hay while the sun shines, or be stuck with gold diggers and leeches. The choice is yours.

moremi2008: Our forefathers had happy arranged marriages. Love is much overrated. Please stop peddling the rubbish your colonial masters handed down to you from Sinai.

No its not. Love is a very very important aspect of marriage. Those your fore fathers had extremely miserable and unhappy wives, who were trapped in a loveless marriage because of financial issues and family frowning on divorce. A lot of them also eloped back then to avoid being forced into marriage. Also, life was much more different and less immoral. You expect her to marry and turn to the lady on the other thread who is now in love with a small boy and wants to fade with the old guys money. Madam, marry who you love and who loves you too. Never listen to all these desperate talks. I see 50+something year olds getting married to their widowed or divorced mates everyday. Nothing do you. Be proud of who you are and you will attract people with your confidence. Being a single mother is not the end of the world neither is it a handicap or a minus to you. If you respect yourself and make your child the focus of your life, you will attract a man that needs a wife that understands and values family. Not an old person that has misused opportunities in his life and is just looking for company to be with him by his deathbed. . Are you ready to deal with someone that will soon be struck with old age problems? Like hypertension, diabetes, stroke etc in the next 5years?

fuckherlord: Abundant money is no need to start a family. I hope to start mine this year but still searcning for a spouse that would love me for me. Can I find a man of my dreams with money. I am 32

This girl is trying to pass on a deadly disease. See username. . Small wonder why you are yet to be married. You are highly suspicious. And please dont dare increase the poverty level in this world. If you cannot afford to feed yourself, you have no business trying to start a family. Wait till you can afford to feed 4 mouths.

LMAO! Is this a joke? When you point one finger, the remaining 4 are pointing right back at you. Who bribes the judiciary? FG. Who corrupts and overrides the Judiciary? FG. Who appoints the heads of the judiciary? FG ati be be lo.

The US can arrest and charge him. I hope they strip him of diplomatic immunity. We need help dealing with these people as nothing will happen to him in Nigeria. He is probably doing this for some big guys.

canuck: Uzo! Uzo!! Uzo!!! How many times did I call you?

Progress should NOT be mentioned in the same sentence as this administration. Sorry.

Look around you, uzomagic, you have lost your magic

CLASSIC

It is only the end of the world for you if you think it is. Does marriage define you? Does it make you a different or better person? What excatly do you really want? Please dont underestimate the need for mutual love. It is very important. I dont know how people say love is not important. They may be people that have had to settle because no one wants to be with them, maybe badlooks, no money etc. But when they somehoe get one of these things they start looking for love. You see them on NL saying i never loved my spouse and they irritate me etc. He knows what he wants from you an d has seen it, but that feeling has to be mutual. How can you marry someone you dont have feelings for? chei. Dont underestimate certain requirements of marriage if you dont want to be worse off than you are now. Your child deserves happiness and a healthy environment. That healthy environment can only come when mummy is happy. If this is not what you want for your life, wait for it. It will come. Dont rush.

Am sure there is a business explanation for this. Igbo's commercialize anything. See the kidnapping disaster. Make we dey watch dey see how and what the end will be. Am sure there is a perfect reason for that bomb. We shall find out in a few months.

Maku, chei. Igbawo ni maku o ni ku? That mouth that you used to support corruption will be the mouth to spell your doom. How dare you come out in public to say this? . I pray all these corrupt people become a victim of their own corruption. Bad roads, bad water, bad environment, and planes dropping from the sky. What you chop today, you have chopped for all your generations till the world ends. Even water will be a problem for them to buy after you have chopped finish and are gone. It shall not be well with Maku. Who goes for a conference when his house is on fire?

1forall: ^ You've typed words which portray you as cruel, perverse and sadistic.
Try to enjoy life a little no mater how sad you are.

You are definitely mentally retar*ded. Who cares about your little opinion except you are the OP. Drop your comment and vamoose, dont quote me or you will be ignored, you nincompoop. Keep your stupidity to yourself. OP once again, i think you made a fantastic decision for the guy. I wouldnt want to be stuck in the same place with you for long. Very bitter, wicked and ridiculous. You are only mad the MIL did not fall for all the traps you had set. I pity you, and i hope you learn to let things be in the future. Your childishness and nearsightedness has cost you your marriage. Am happy for you.

Phew! i am actually happy for the guy. I have never seen a bigger whiner. So you expect your MIL to come to the house to cook and clean for you? Even a Nigerian woman doesnt get that privilege. Only their own mothers do such. If she played with the grandkids and they fell or got sick, you will say she mistreated your kids and is wicked. She came here to your house with vodoo and blah blah. Your type is never satisfied and holds grudges for centuries. You are an unforgiving whiner who is not even ready for marriage, talkless of a MIL. I am happy for the guy, and i hope he finds a woman he deserves. . This guy is better off and will have peace without you. Do the divorce sharp sharp. I hope he runs away to Nigeria and leaves you with two kids and a part time job.

This doesnt make any sense. The owner of most of the profitable businesses in Nigeria has no business being the head of the SEC. He lacks independence and objectivity. If he wants to maintain any credibility to the NSE he should simply decline the position. And Nigerians should be wary of investing their money in the markets because they will definitely fraudulently favor some companies, and the figures they will work with will not reflect the actual health of the NSE.

That was quick

. Well June has come and almost gone. But these damn BH's are still bombing. They didnt listen to GEJ. So what next can GEJ do except just to pretend it is not happening. You know some people believe if they ignore a situation long enough it will go away. . Freshness abounds.

mai gaskiya: I taugt d yorubas cliam all is well wit nija y re u cowards panikng.or ur cousines in d north re afta u.sory u pepl re safe.hoples hypocretes

Try and go and read brighter grammar before you come on NL to talk more than your brain capacity. . Thereby making all of us dumber in the process.

Gospella: The victim has met many other pastors who encouraged her to remain in the relationship because they husband does not want to go back to the former wife even though the marriage was not dissolved legally. However, the issue here is concerning her Christian which is against divorce and remarriage. Does it mean she is living in adultery since she is a second wife?

. So this pastor is against divorce and remarrying but for having two wives. The bible allows divorce so the pastor should try to follow the bible. And yes, your fears are true, you are an adulterer and living in sin at the moment. You are not married to him but a live in girlfriend committing fornication. . Imagine the pastors advising you to stay in such. Where is this fake church please. Publish the name of the pastor and the church.

As it is, your marriage is illegal. I will advise you to hold off on kids and then have him do the right thing by divorcing the woman in Naija. After which you would both go to court and be properly and legally married in the presence of those other pastors and the law. If he is unwilling to do this, then I will advise you to walk. He can get arrested for bigamy any day. I believe you didn't do your due diligence and were most likely desperate to marry and travel. There is no how a pastor can keep this kind of thing secret, when he is a leader in a church. Church folks talk too much for that fact to have escaped you. You are the owner of your predicament.

DaRapture: I can see I've obviously seriously damaged your feelings by referring to you as a Monkey, and I've come to realize that calling you a Yorubutt Monkey was very insensitive of me. I apologize for hearting you feeling, by calling you a swinging monkey, my Yoruba brother from another mother.

You calling me a monkey has no effect on me because my people and their ancestors were not degraded and damaged like yours. You are used to being called monkey so that must mean a whole lot to your identity because it is part of your history and has become a source of psychological traume for you. Kind of like coon and ni*** these are familiar names to you. This is why you strive and work hard to be the lighter skinned monkey hoping and praying it will change a thing. But you are still a regular damaged akata anytime, anyday. Nothing can change that. An akata is an akata. Just like you have defined yourself on this thread. Perfect definition of akata. Go for psychiatric help.

DaRapture: LOL. So now you call me Akata, because I Soned your Monkey azz? What I know is obviously more about you and your mindset than you know about yourself, George. Don't hate the Akata, hate the agony you internalize. Now go swing along and deal with that, son.

Yes, you are an akata. Oyinbo people call you monkey and you swing and dance. That is why your self esteem is zilch and you feel the need to think because someone is lighter skinned they are better. You think you can come to a Nigerian site and try to pass off your mental problems as fact. You have mental problems that need immediate help. I guess the backlash of slavery, and being told to swing and dance at the drop of a hot, of which the monkeys in your bloodline will ask your masters how high or how hard. . They are still your masters by the way you talk and think. Imagine the consummate retard and urgly igbo girl that will marry someone that sees himself as a swinging monkey aqnd her too. OP i hope you now have an idea of what you are dealing with when you listen to this rabidly peeled pig with zero self esteem. Sounds like someone that has been raped. . I bet the fo*ol bleaches. . What a dumbo. Trying to pass stats conjured up in a mental home with the resident retard wife as fact. . The field slave aspiriing to be the house slave mentality is very much alive with you. Imagine the mumu Nigerian married to you, when you think an african ia a monkey. I pity these two psychos. Hope you hack yourselves to death and your story shows up on NL. I suspect this will happen very soon from the state of things.

hmmmm

hmm. . . why did 2 women run away? One is unfortunate, two is . . . Seems you are more interested in traveling abroad.

DaRapture: LOL @ this curios George Yorubutt gay, chimping out in here. Bitch, calm your monkey azz down and get a grip, you sound angered over the fact of that she looks Yoruba, and me telling her just how uncommon that is among us AA. I said nothing about skin tone or state that anyone was ugly. Your anger is clearly based upon your consumed feelings of insecurity, and internally felt inferiority of your people's common appearance, in relation to other Nigerian groups, such as the Igbo.

Like someone has mentioned about your Aunti, Tpia, you folks have actually succumbed to the idea of that your features are inferior to those of other groups, so much so... that whenever someone states that a person looks Yoruba, you actually take that as to mean that that person making the comment is insinuating that the talked about individual is ugly. How pathetic and shallow of a mindset you have.

Farcking akata, what do you know? Person without an identity or culture spewing trash from his straight jacket in the psychiatirc ward. hahaha, OP i have proved my point. This idi*ot is a psycho, with his psychotic Igbo wife. You start to see the trend in the way they hate themselves and their believe that if they are light skinned they are somewhat "good looking". I can assure you that his wife looks like a peeled pig.

buzzedoffbeauty: Should I remove the picture, seems I am too dark and it's become offensive to some...

Dont mind the idi*ot darapture that talks out of his as*s about what he does not know. He is same as you, African American and has no idea what he is talking about. All the statistics he throws about are all made up in his mind, and that of his psychotic igbo wife who feeds his crazy mind with crap. Each tribe in Nigeria has its dark beauties, just like any regular African country. We go from dark to light brown or what you will call brown suede. Anything beyond that has been bleached, or albino. Now, Hausa people are the darkest in Nigeria. This is a fact. Be proud of your complexion it says a lot about who you are and there is dignity in being dark and beautiful. Dont let this mentally challenged person, whose wife is probably a bleacher, with obvious complex issues spoil your day.He has no idea what he is talking about. In a life time his wife can never have this dark beauty or be as fine as you. Look up Hausa's, you have more of their features, and they are beautiful people. Have a nice day.

[quote author=ms.anon]I got a weekend cleaning gig to weeks ago. i doubt if it gets any lower than that. lol. trust me, i humbled myself a long time ago and that was how i was able to get somebody to squat with. This experience has been humbling on its own. If it's a job and is legal, i will do it. My visa gives me 20 hours work permit and i work Fridays and saturdays. It's something but it isn't enough to pay my tuition. There are no scholarship opportunities in my school. None at all. I actually spoke to somebody that needs a tutor but i'm science inclined and he isn't. As per the hustling thing, everything i put in my mouth is from my sweat. I do it from cleaning houses and stuff. Na how i don hustle reach be that. If you can come up with any kind of hustle i can do, i would appreciate. Thanks for taking the time to read and drop a line.[/quote]Good for you. Can you learn to do hair? A lot of people make so much money doing this. you madams hair is expensive! After that you can also begin selling hair. You can also post in your school on the advertising boards for anyone looking for a tutor. The agreement should be payment in cash, in the school! Check restaurants that will pay you under the table/ off the books as a waitress. There are many restaurants that do this. Most restaurants hire illegals, so i dont see why you cant get something. You can also go from door to door in nice rich places with families or people that you know have families in your church and ask them if they will need a nanny (Be careful here, its better to use people in church). Only under the table payments will be accepted. I also know that in England you can get a certification to do home health? You can use your 20hrs to do such. Am sure they pay more money than cleaning. Then hustle for the rest. So many opportunities and things for you to do. Take advantage of the summer.

Make sure you start researching schools that offer scholarships so that you can transfer there on scholarship since your grades are very good.

wow, is beaf trying to pass the blame of the recession unto Nigerians? . I never believed this day will come. hahahahaha!!! Let Nigeria experience the recession o jare. Bring it on. The faster this regime gets a taste of their medicine the better. What about the billions allocated to GEJ for food during this recession? I bet they will still be eating well in Aso rock, not so? Obviously the finance minister has nothing much to offer anymore. It is time he finds someone she can be an assistant to. What about that guy they sacked for telling them the truth? I forgot his name now. . . The earlier the better for these pack of foo*ls. Everyday for the thief . . .. Madam still gets paid in dollars not so? ok na.

She must be dumb to follow him on such ridiculous expedition. Does she think he will still stay married to her after being disgraced in such manner. She is an adult and a human being and had the right to ask for a divorce then and there and keep her dignity intact. I wonder why she went with him on this nonsense. People should learn to respect themselves even in the face of calamity like this. . The marriage is already over, why escort him naked through the city because you are sorry?