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Munamoqel:
Nigerians that sold everything and resign for their Good jobs to relocate to paradise Uk ,New Zealand ,Canada are learning the Hard way ! Their are not perfect place .UK is has excellent NHS but access it is now a nighmare .you can wait Months trying to see a dentist or a GP . And a simple thing like root canal surgery done within a day in Nigeria at 50k cost almost 1500 pounds in the Uk . There is housing shortage and getting house to rent is now a Nightmare with you money ! Gas and electricity been cost around 4000 pounds per year and you literally live paycheck to paycheck is not careful and there are no shortcut pay for heating or die in the winter ! Houses in New Zealand cost 400k pounds are nonsense 2 bedroom.with no garages and garden while this sum can land you a deplux in banana island , Asokoro with pool and garden .in the uk there are there are few investment opportunities unlike Nigeria where you can easy setup.we pray for.better Nigeria that truly ours !

the way people are hammering on this issue, e be like say a go change my jakpa plan ooh

Nwodosis:
Who is initiating the bribing as you put it?

someone initiated it and u followed suit??

Chaii....

MrBrownJay1:
here is some simple clued why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves clue:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc

...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!

This is night bro, and I pray u will face what the OP said.
Exactly the way he said it is the way u will face it in ur marriage.
Ur wife will always find excuses to give u sex once in 3months
By the power of universe that is how it will be.
But u will also have the fortitude to persuade her all the tym.




Let see if u will stick to Ur words

odinson1:
You want me to lie to him and tell him what he wants to hear?

Ok, now that u have fogba yangan, what would u have him do??

odinson1:
My bro why did you knowingly get married to a woman who doesn't like you? Why do you keep making mistakes like this?
Bro the only reason she's not having sex with you is because you disgust her,she settled for you probably because she had no other option at the time or you have money. You're simply not sexually attractive to her. I'd advice you to run a DNA test on those kids of "yours".
And as for the chores and cooking, she has become to comfortable,reason she doesn't do anything. A single mother of 5 in a poor household will pay the bills, cook,clean,take the kids to school and will still have time to the other things.
But my bro,what exactly is your wife doing? Can't you see that the woman you married does not love you? Don't listen to any advice from women here, they are all out for themselves. Peace bro!

Ahaa

Sometimes no be how the issue be dem dey take talk am out, u said the absolute truth but at least na....try and lace it with some.....

Militant1:
Don't get me wrong bro...

You don't just stick it in na.. there has to be pre-intimacy and cuddling afterwards....

Even with pre-intimacy and cuddling, if a don last for 20 to 25 minutes abeg praise the Lord, can't come and die abeg, a still get mama

osazsky:
which one is match fixing..how much u wan give psg or city to sell a match..these 2 teams are richer than africa...if person wan sell match na small small poor clubs like man u ,asenal ,,spurs and juve they run am..not psg..not city..not madrid..person they big pass something na..bros take am easy..psg will still win that isteali unknown club

U don't know anything

Tisevadon:
Boss, you get mind o...me, Oga?? Who dash monkey banana...lol

I dey cohort 9 (August batch), na we be last batch so far.

I forgot something, please try to connect with as many "positve" people as possible. Moving with peers is the only proven way to survive alx for now because it will make your life easier.

I think there is a group for September cohort, you can join them.

Yes, we can connect

I sent a pm pls

Corridon:
This shows that they were rented.

And where are the UGM wey o clear off the rented ignoramus nonentities

Tisevadon:
My suggestion You can ignore emacs, vim and git.
Reason They are tools you will use everyday, so you will learn them naturally because of everyday usage.

About shell You can Google "50 commonly used Linux command", then read about them individually (you can use your Ubuntu by typing "man command_name" eg, "man mv" , this gives you the whole info you need about mv = move command.
Doing this will make life easier for you, then what you will be left with is shell init and few other topics.

Lastly Give C programming all the time you can. This won't make you to be ahead of alx, no...they will always be ahead of us, but it will make you not to struggle. When reading, if you can read details please do, because alx will ask you things you least expected.

I wish you Goodluck.

thanks alot Ogami

Pls what cohort do u belong to, I wish to be connected to u if u don't mind.

shegzy0514:
Boss, I will be starting mine on the 19th of this month. I will really like you to advise me on how to go about it. I mean you reading strategy may b it might work for me. Some one sent me the videos already so I am currently learning on it

we are in saw cohort bro, can I msg u??

wethebest:
Very possible bro. A friend of mine got an offer recently as a senior front-end developer. Monthly salary is $2,200. Working remotely frm Lagos

Nawa ooh, people are making money ooh.

But that Ur friend is not a newbie sha, he's experienced

kunkelhanspeter:
I was surprised he already proof the building when I start my secondary school they were still working on it when I finish after 6 six .
I will never forget the day I clear the compound on a normal day I suppose charge 500-1k I was happy hoping he will blessed me the fool gave me #80
Old paper #20 note 4 I almost shed tears � I even injured myself. Around 2004 or 05.

Alaye fit be akagum

chukwuebuka65:
The program is for people that have a lot of free time to spare. I don’t want a situation where after I have spent like 3 or 4 months on the program , I will be dropped . That will be a waste of my time

how many months have u spent bro??

Ashirioluwa:
401k is the name given to government pension scheme in US

ehenn, aaah ok

Ashirioluwa:
Majority of our people are just doing regular jobs to make ends meet. $15 to $20 hourly job. This money is big in Nigeria but it is nothing to them when you take everything into consideration. You end up with about 40 to 45k salary at the end of the year. That’s average of $3300 to $3750 per month. When take away compulsory deductions like Federal, state, county tax, medical insurance and union dues. Also voluntary deduction like 401k. Then they end up going home with average of 2.5 to 3k a month.

this ur statement is not well composed

Pls edit

And pls Wen u re done tag me so that I can reread

okeysoninv:
you don't pay tax abi, no council tax, gas and electricity bills, you don't pay house rent , no food?

don't mind him joo

Even here in Nigeria we spend more than 200$ a month

BJanta:
You don't understand what he's saying. How and how would you have that kind of balance in your account. Three thousand dollars ! Whao . Most of you don't understand. Most charges and taxes and bills are made before the remaining balance is given to you. My it's not easy. Get a good IT certification, work in Nigeria for experience in a tension free atmosphere, then move . Avoida Canada by all means.

ahaa, Canada wey a wan process after my cert in IT, and u come with this again that I should avoid it..

This abroad men are getting us confused, what should I do now again?

kunkelhanspeter:
UK

Doctor in the UK and could not erect his structure for 15years?? How he take dey spend his money??

wethebest:
Try and learn coding first den come bk nd tell me ur experience. The only problem with Nigeria youths is they all wants shortcut to wealth and impatient. I hv been coding since 2007 bt someone who jst learn basic HTML yesterday wud want to be earning millions over night. Bro, I.T will pay for ur worth even if u re living in sambisa.

Hmm, I am not doubting u bro, just that 500k for a start is what raised my eyebrows.

Ikennaford:
I earn 50dolls per hour here,at the end of the month,I don't spend more than 200$, right now my 18flat mansion in Nigeria is almost done worth 250k$ and my networth 350k$ working legitimately for 4 years now here in l L.a .....

No possible bro, not possible

U re lying

Even me here in Nigeria I spend more that 200$ in a month..ahaa habaa!!

Kilodeeee.

wethebest:
Truth is that all schools abroad will accept u no mata d course as long u meet their requirements cox u bringing money to dem. Why studying, please try learn any gud tech skills from udemy nd co dat will issue u certificates. These will be of great advantage to u wen applying for jobs. Am a full stack developer and i work from home. Any I.T.skills dat pay u more dan 500k monthly is nt bad for a start.

U b tif ooh

In this current nigeria??

kunkelhanspeter:
In my village i know someone who use over 10-15 years to finish his house his a medical doctor for that matter . He smoke more than fela.

the person lives abroad or here?

Emmaxy9:
Sorry to to say but this is a poverty mindset. You're one of the folks who believe that success or extreme wealth is gotten only through fraud and not through hardwork.

The same abroad you're talking about, there are young people, even less than 25 years, making good money, and buying houses. I know a 25 year old man who stays at Dubai and makes millions of dollars through information marketing. Change your mindset tho

Dubai??

Information Marketing??

Invictus Obi??

Continue...

When it comes to entertainment pls give it to the Nigerians, na wetin God deposit in us be that

BJanta:
I wonder. All I always just hear in Ghanaian music is loud shouts of - ' muah ', ' kuah ' , 'puah' , as if they're using their mouths to blow bangers. Music for village naming ceremonies and festivals.

CaptainZubi:
Also Forget about all those if you earn $3k dollars convert am to naira na 3,000,000 monthly you go do this do that, buy land for enugu, build house for lagos bla bla bla

It doesn't work that way. Bills go collect up to 75% of that money.

You are not a good pikin, Omo buruku

SavageResponse:
Whether or not the FG is broke is not the issue here, the issue here is that the money comes from taxes you and I pay!

We don't need this long drawn out trial therefore they should do quick and sentence this guy cos anyone who wants to be honest with himself knows Kanu is guilty as charged

hmmm

I suspect they just want to punish him and frustrate him before dey finally nail him

Wordsfrombimpe:
Hmmn another angle

But do you also know he is not a rich man son

I understand that marriage expenses is alarming but should not discourage men if they want to settle down

Yes u re right.

Well, this is what I will say. Pls men, if ur salary is not steady don't marry.

*If ur income is not up to 100k in a developing area don't marry yet.
*If ur total income in a developed area is not up to 200k a month don't be forced to marry.
*Don't because say marry u con dey impress with ur little savings
*Marry a woman who is ready to work with u
*Don't use age to marry, instead use resources.
*If u re still trying to find Ur grip pls don't Bleep around unnecessarily, I even prefer u visit brothel if necessary, else u will impregnate Ur woman and will be forced to marry.
*Don't marry because of unlimited access to kpekus, I swear Wen u re in ur libido will leave u run away. Three weeks sometimes I don't near my woman
*Build a pathway to wealth before u marry(I didn't say u should be wealthy before u marry, but try to build a pathway to it)
*If u marry , if na a room self contained without a palour na hin Ur money reach pls manage am, don't impress, don't spend Ur little savings finish in the name of marriage.
*Don't rent a house u know that u can not raise its money within six weeks. E get why ooh..
*If u re not financially average pls don't let anyone push u to marry, u will be hearing it from them that to cater for family is a Lord's doing, that na God dey help person.. hmmm I pity u, remember God himself has given us wisdom, what else do you need again, and wisdom they say is profitable to direct.., go and give woman belle with ur 70k salary, na HBP go later kill u troway.

***Sora f'obirin oh, Olorun awa pelu e.***

Kabirudeen25:
The other way round as in how? I have never heard any Ghanaian music in my life. That tiktok artist abi wetin b him name no dey hear 'swallow your pride'

their voices sef go be like say dem dey fight for studio

Totilopussylick:
Many agreed to join because of the " free cap and polo shirt" been given to them for free

So other parties could not afford free cap and polo shirt abi??

Wordsfrombimpe:
Men wey wan marry go marry all those yeye economy factor wey some of you na Talk na big wash

You see this excuses some guys are making in the forum

You all think that some men don't know what they want

Yesterday I came across a young neighbor of mine with his wife he never enter 30 that guy should be in his middle 20 or 30

He don already marry and give birth

You na dey there dey pretend like sey some women stupid

The way some men will talk could be extremely manipulating that is how a guy called me yesterday dey talk sey cooking is for a woman not a man

She must know how to cook its the nature of woman

But he ended up saying

I cook my food myself as a single guy

Because I don dey expect sey he get babe wey dey cook for him steady

Men wey wan marry go marry all those yeye economy factor wey some of you na Talk na big wash

That my neighbor as he don marry if you see his young wife so fine

Anytime Dem dey pass together for street

I go just dey admire

As for some ladies who think all guys in 20's can't settle down na scam

Na you go jam man wey no fit settle down so they generalize all men

It ain't about age

There are men in their 20 or early 30's

It's the fact that the guy it's so discipline for me

He chooses to do the right thing by settling down

God will continue to bless him and his family

They will never lack in Jesus name amen

copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach

Tho I support marriage but u tink say to marry na moimoi??

I have a wife with kid so don't say I am single. But e no easy.

I know how much a dey spend steady.

Na yesterday a dey complain, I filled gas of 8k(10kg) and it vanished just in 29days, while Wen I was single na 3months e go last me

I used to contribute money for Baba alajo on a steady before, but now since January to this moment na only 77k I fit contribute give the Baba, since June till now a never give the Baba shishi

Before I marry my side income is good enough to be another man's salary, its this side income that I used to spend and save my real income, but now, the side income is not enough for me and my young family again, I can't even have a savings from my side income, its my real income that I am still managing to save, if not that I am frugal I'm spending and my woman is understanding a go no get single savings again,

From January to this moment all the savings i could make is not up to 900k, whereas if it was before I should be swimming in money

Alaye no force young man to marry ooh, the 20+ year old boy wey u say he don marry u know how strong his family is financially?? U know?? Weda hin papa na director of finance for NNPC u no know, u dey here dey compare.

Lamanii22:
Save ke? Any money I see I spend immediately....

why?? But it's not good