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ubong560: Tanx guys 4 all ya advice. Lik 1 of d posters said, she had bin calling & sending text 2 me since morning bt i think d rlatnshp had ended since dat ystdy. Bt d wicked shal not go unpunish. Later, i wil lik us 2 get 2 bed again. After mess.ing her, i wil tactically rub liquid pepper on my fingers den com bak to finger her p.uss.y just 2 pepper pu.s.sy. I will drive her out disgracefully just after dis.

OP, dont do that please. Your own na small na. If I tell you my own nko? You have had se.x with her but I never did with mine and she had it with another and came back to tell me, begging me to forgive her. She left school to come and see me only to leave with another guy.

There are so many things I can not tell here because people don even tire for my lamentation, because often write about it each time I see piece like your.

I have been there before I dont blame you for thinking in that direction because I too thought of doing some bad to my own such that it could have affected even her future marriage. I am not denying it. I felt the kind of pain I have never felt in my heart since I was born, my whole body was like fire. But I thank God I didnt do it.

It is because of things like this we hear about guys killing or pouring acid on someone they once loved. Though it wrong but I hardly feel pity for the victims these days after my experience with that girl.

But the good thing is that karma is real.

My ex came back to beg after 3 years and since then she has been trying everything and everything to please me but the truth is that I am gone for good. I pity her now. You can imagine a situation where someone is trying to right the wrongs, doing everything possible to please but there is no space in your heart for her and all the feelings, connection you had with her is completely dead now.


If you so wish to bed her, why not just make her for that purpose while she thinks you still care about her. Just keeping bedding her only for that purpose. Never love her again.

Pacemaker: Yeah I am back in states. Email me when you are chanced. I must have lost most phone numbers you can text me again cos I got new phone

I have sent you an email almmost over five days now bbut I have nnot heard from you. Regards to your family.

does this mean that with BB one can safely operate paypal from Nigeria?

Vikin: ok, i know someone from their HR in Lagos, Send me the particular CV you emailed to them. I could try and see if he has an idea of events.

What position you applied for..etc

Am not assuring anything, but i will see how far it gets.

Yeah.. I know you are not assuring me anything. I dont have my mind fixed on that either. I just want to have a better CV. The position was for Graduate Field Specialist. I have replied your email. Thanks.

Vikin: Got it, will send you a mail after. Is it Baker hudge lagos or Phc

Baker Hughes ,Portharcourt... I just need to amend it incase of future needs. As it is, I dont know if they will call me for aptitude test or not but I replied their last email to me with what they asked for , which is my contact details and original email. Not heard from them since then.

Vikin: How do i get it. I dont want to drop my email here..

my email is in my signature. Just look closely.

Vikin: Pls Pls,

For those of you waiting for NYSC, you can apply as Industrial training in companies while you wait. Yes, you are a graduate but experience is what you really need now.

While i was waiting for NYSC, i got an IT placement of 1500naira as monthly salary. They do this to scare away students. I needed the experience so i went for it, the first week my Transport alone was about 1600naira. Mumsi was just laughing at me, telling me to quit blah blah blah, thanks for dad that helped me with TP the next wk.

Anyway..i started with them but the second week, they noticed i was very good with computer and typing, the company secretary the made me to work overtime with her doing bidding and all. that was how i earned every day 1hr overtime of 500naira. I even came to work on saturday for 1200naira.

What am i trying to say, dont look at the money offered. Accept it, gain the experience and move on. The 3 month experience i got with the company helped me alot as they even wanted me to do my NYSC in their establishment.

Sometimes you have to go an extra mile for what you want.

Happy new yr every one

You just said my mindset. Yeah... one of the strategy for me is IT another is Networking. Nah... I dont care about the pay. I read somewhere on this same thread how a guy worked for 6 months without pay. That is where people are making mistake. They want to start big.

Vikin, I wish you could really take a look at my CV and help me out where possible ooo. if u no wan even give me ya real, you can open a fake one. I am saying this because of what Baker Hughes sent to me.

chikeorji123: Plus collecting my spare key from her then show her the EXIT door..

spare key? No, I will hand her gun to kill the OP.

yorke1: OP, Well... we are different in ways. The love you said you have for her should have vanished or rather died with her wayward way. Use your head...your love for any gal should be a function of the way she act or behave towards you. That's the golden rule and stop acting foolishly under the influence of love!

at the bolded. you have just stated how I no deal with them. garbage in garbage out. you get what you give me. pronto.


No complex mathematics.

albacete: take a look @ the thread in his siggy and u will be fine.

lol... siggy...? you think so? lets see.

[size=50pt]OP, YOU ARE CRETINOUS person[/size]!

ellotts: HOW GENUINE IS THIS INFO?

dont even think about it. This is the problem with many Nigerias. When give out free, they don't value it.

What will it cost you to go through this thread, read and take not of a few salient point? You eyes and hands are itching for hidden info that may cost you money. Na wa for some people brain sha

albacete:

Ok..Tnx. Will give it a shot soon.

And tomorrow, someone will copy all these stuffs u've explained into an ebook and put a price tag on it.

Keep up d good work bro.

copy? I havent really said anything here... I am not stupid to tell the real koko na...

Thanks vikin... may be I should try some online resources too to help me with the CV work and modification.

albacete: mr moderator, why am i seeing "This post has been hidden" in place of my post?
It seems to me that u are getting power drunk with this little role that u've been given. Be careful oo.

@2sexy, what i mean by empty is that a domain doesn't have any financial costs like hiring a web developer or database administrator (or does it?), it is just a name.

So it means that one can sell a domain much higher than a full fledged website, right? Depending on demand.

not really much higher. But if you consider the wahala in setting up a website, marketing and all that, domaining is quite less stressful. just the name, park am for anywhere, then sell later. na d quality of the name be the koko

and later some pupu go say naija men are not romantic...


Skydeep carry go jor... e clear and na who no like better thing? Oga xynerise, you do well jare. I see the kind wife u marry.

Make other girls dey fool demself up and down dey catch fun.

Soyedele1: Well,I'm a very good cook as you don't need to waste your money..just send me 3k to cook something nice for you.at the end of the day,you will still save yourself some cash bro..
Jokes apart,I don't always buy the idea of going to eatry.there are beautiful places out there yu can take her to..2sexy had a point bt I think the heartbreak hit him hard...cheers

yes it did and a big one at that. I was hating girls after that experience but I thank God that I have learnt my lessons, grown much wiser and now appreciate good girls.

jackpot: will you keep quiet there, you punny hunter!

ayosmiles: I realized i didnt give her enough attention nd she became insecure, dats why she allowed other guys. I have since accepted responsibility nd we are now friends

friends? you are a dead meat!

Vikin, please I have worked on my CV but I dont think it is good enough. Can you help me review and critic it or if you can help me with someone who is good in that aspect?

Serendipity: Maybe the guy should be pardoned for harbouring that thought. He may be a neophyte or novice in such matters.
BUT then again, He that has ear let him hear...

you are right. he may. because I too was new to this dating thing back then and worst off all is that she had been in the game before me. He may not be new though because there are somethings that love could make us do you know.

Me I like myself, I can tell you now just as it is. If I decide to tell again otherwise, with the current "wise-up" syndrome in me, then I am just playing games with her.

2good: Stop this stupid threat from your non existing imaginary god. You're definitely high on something and currently hallucinating that is why you claim to hear from god. You have a medical condition and need to see a psychiatrist.

Bro, God does exist please. He really does exist. But people tend to twist the truth.

The same God whom this man is referring to also stated in the bible that before man will eat, he will have to work for it. Please asking him if I am saying the truth or not. It is written there in the Bible where God told Adam that hence forth, since they have disobeyed him, they will have to work hard before they eat. That is to tell you that God does not condone laziness.


Please also ask him what the same bible said about "faith WITHOUT work"

I dont know much about the Bible but I will be doing more to read it in order to learn more.

LastApostle: I broke up with her because each time we did be intimate,she shouts disturbing the neighbours and after the fulfilling experience do beg me to go see a surgeon for reduction...dunno what she meant by that till I sacked her

. it means you carry excess ammunition go war. I once heard about a lady who uses hot water to massage vaginna after se.x with her boyfriend.

Serendipity: LET it not be seen that I'm parsimonious or niggardly. No. I can give a girl something that I think she needs and not a 'want' motivated by the desire to keep up with the joneses; say she use a BB curve that is in a very good condition and just all of a sudden she just wants to upgrade maybe to meet up with her friends, She go meet her papa be that. But if she needs, I repeat needs something that I can easily afford, then what prevents me from providing same, be that person a female/ male friend or even an acquaintance

Bro, thank God that you understood me. But you know the funniest thing about things like this, he will still spend that money on the girl. My elder brother used to warn me then that YOU DONT START a relationship by spending money on a girl. did i listen. But you know, they experience is the best teacher. It just that I have made a promise to myself that I will stop sharing that info on nairaland. Na wetin she no use my eyes see? even go fvck another guy sef.

if the OP like, make him listen, if him like make e no listen. na him no. I was had my own share, my friend too has had his and I dont think is a bad idea if you have your own share too.

Thanks

Vikin: Dont worry, its well. even if they post you to Zamfara, you are a corper, there is always a way to return where you want. you can go to on 2weeks camping, then enter PHC while giving up your monthly allowee to someone to cover up for you. All na service to the country!

pfii: Hmmmmm........guy 7k (cab inclusive). U don't have a car? So what. Y not just be ur very real self. If u use cab now, will u always take her around in a cab? When u guys start dating should she take cab to ur place and u will pay? Don't start what u can't even continue o. Take Danfo, what's there? Will she claim that she has never entered danfo b4?
Na wa o. After u pple will say we like money too much when na una start am o.

the guy never see wetin some girl dey do. He want claim big boy.

if you want to date her, why not take your time and see if she is really worth spending that 7k for? Bro, what I shared above is a REAL life story. It is left for you to take it or not take it.

kay29000: Yea, i wanna date her. Okay, thanks, i will take my time.

kay29000: Guys, this is not about spending money on her, it is about spending time with her. If there was a quiet park i could take her to, i would.

do you want to want date her? if yes, take your time.

Lovetinz: Ask her if she wants to be taken out on a 7k budget or recieve a 7k gift to go shopping.
Your problem will disappear.

if I were in his shoes, I wont do it. Period. If I have to do it, the time is too young for that.

jumkoe: exactly u 1st introduce goodies n u expect dat to last if am her i knw u are lookin 4 sumtin else

apart from that, you even good, it has been proving from my own personal experience that money cant buy love.

hisblud: Bros wrong move. Tomorrow you will come here bashing ladies as golddigg.ers and call them names. just friday and you wan spend 7k for her? Slow down, you need to take in a deep breath. Relax

Exactly! That was how I started the most disastrous relationship I have ever had. And I will NEVER in my life repeat such again. if the dem make them call me stingy. Who cares? If dem like call me broke ass, who cares? OP, you will be dead before you know you got yourself into.

I dont know your plan with this girls. if you wish to date her for real, here is what will happen. she will sponge on you and when she finds someone she likes, if hasnt got one already and wont tell you, she will smash your face/heart to the ground. MONEY CANT BUY LOVE.

DONT DO IT! NEVER START A RELATIONSHIP by spending on a girl because when she start misbehaving, you would want to spend more to please her. because the thought of what you had spent is really scary. And so, you end up wanting to spend more and more and more while you drown yet she wont love you.

A friend shared a story of how he spent thousands on a girl but when she started misbehaving, he spent more. look, dont even think she will love you because you have spent money on her. if she meets someone who has a better offer, she will dump your sorry a55. Look at it from this angle: just as you are trying to please her, so are other guys.

Back to my friend. He , just like me, started by spending money on this girl, he secured admission for her etc.My own na small sef... we are talking of over 500k but despite that, in a midst of someone who was to reconcile both of them, an elderly man who this friend of mine had reported to, and the man ask her if she loved him.

What do you think was her answer? SHE LOOKED INTO HIS EYES AND THAT OF THE MAN AND SAID SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM.

My heart sank when I heard those word.

If I were you, I will use that 7k to buy clothes for myself of look for an item to add to my room to look good. IMO, that is much better way to impress a girl.

acidosis™:
what?? lol