mondi_cheeks: I have iphone 5

and i have more money that can buy 2 IPHONE 5... you dont get me, do you?

call me old school... I am dont get too excited when I see the next shiny object. Na... not me. if them like make them bring Iphone 6,7, 8,9 I got better things that I can do with my money.

You and the millions of people can go on to make them rich, not me.

Woman, it is not my nature to follow crowd and that is just me. strange but I didnt start using phones even when everybody in my house, including my younger sister, started using one. That was some years ago. It is not my nature because I just dont feel so. After all, there are many people with such phones who are broke. they just want to "belong" and impress people. Not my style.

I doubt you can make a million naira within a year if you were sacked from work and all your money in the bank account were wiped out. but you know one on strange thing between you and someone like me, I will make that money even without a job within a year.

Get that drilled into your skull.

mondi_cheeks: 'no' wasn't going to be hard to type

whatever... and it wouldnt be hard for you to claim your own personality too.

eagle,eye:


Moondi dear, you and I know that in some of this relationships the guy spends this money not because he can't say know or he is being forced, but because he cares for his girlfriend.
How will you feel seeing someone whom you care for in need and you have means to help but would rather not. Someone once said,
" you can give without loving, but you CANNOT love without giving."
This is the same reason why a girl will come to a guys house to cook and clean and even use her own money to buy little gifts for the guy. She equally spend money on beauty regiments just for the guy to appreciate her...
My dear, people should go into relationships being honest than being deceitful.

why are you preaching for that silly goat? May be na here we go start 2nd round of our fight. I dey on fence they watch...

mondi_cheeks: can u even afford iphone 2 ?

That na small thing na.. all I need to do is goto ebay.com and order them for cheap....

But you know what? I am not the usual Nigerian you see around. I am rare, very rare. I dont follow crowd. Just because every body is doing something does not give me a valid reason to join them.

If I want one, I know how to get one... But I got better things to do with my money and that is making more money with my money. On ebay, Iphone 5 is just $500- $666... One deal will get it for me if I really want it.

saudatu:

Oga 2Sexy, I no understand you oooo. u say I be scam?

no, not you. The biggest font size in there.

mondi_cheeks: If I were ur gf I wld hve slapped u for buying me BB curve 4 ... There is iphone 5 now and u r busy talking about BB curve

wow... where have you been ooo? I wanted to open a thread titled " where is mondi_cheeks"?

Make una no mind her ooo. she is using psychology ooo. it is her a way of getting attention.

collinsoft:

she called me yesterday asking me why am ranting on a social network over a 'simple' christmas gift she requested for, that after all other guys do much more for people they love. To be candid with u people i did nt start out by buying her gift to win her love, infact we meet at one of my friends weeding in PH and there we go. She posed to be a nice girl, helps me with house chores some times n i felt i could return the gesture by buying her things. The phone she uses is one nokia sold for about 4k-5k there about n i wasnt to pleased seeing my woman use that kind of phone n decided to get her a curve4 n other gift subsequently bt nw i have seeing her true colour. My heart is bitter n i dnt think i can love again

You can love again bro. Trust me. I know you love her but she does not love you in return.

Some of this girls think guys are the same, that since they are dating and having s.ex with you, you should spend money on them in return. A lot of them parade themselves with such ideology.

Just like you, I too dont like that ideology. I give because I want to give and not because we are "dating" or having "s.ex". For me, I will hate any girl who do what your girl just did, basing the relationship on a trade by batter. if that was the case, then you arent different from any w.hore out there.

But how did she find out that you posted this on a social network?

nl.official:
Curve4 small. Mine, in pursuit, I bought her BlackBerry Bold5, LG LCD TV, DVD and many more, including sending her money. Only for her to start telling me of her ex that she wants to go back to him. I fall maga big time. This is a world for the wicked. Be evul, nobody skips death, that's the ultimate, whether good or bad. Life ehn, why evuls?!

Bro, money cant buy love. Many girls are like that... I wont spend money on girl just like that, never. some of this girls are [size=20pt]BASTARDS[/size]. Imagine telling the OP that they had sex and he shouldnt complain. so she was selling her self all this while? sh should have told him earlier so that the guy knows what he was getting into.

akonucheinfo: am just seeing this post for 1st time, and i am glad i did. pls am a student, i know if i get involve in this it will help me alot. pls to begin, what must one do? .. how do one start on this. pls i need a better clarification. thanks

Read the thread from beginning to the end.. then come back to ask questions.

AK Money:

So nobody to answer my question

Mr. Man, how will you know if you dont try it? Why not get the zenith web surfer card and use it?

How did she know? Is she a nairalander? Did u meet her here or where did u meet her? Who showed her dis thread? Please, help answer this questions so that men should learn 4rm dis

collinsoft: Am sure she read this post on nairaland going by the call i received today. All the same i dont care if U rant all u can shouting at the top of ur voice on the phone.
I knw u will still read this post but before am back to port harcourt, kindly pick all ur piece in my house and go to hell. I really hate ladies, they disgust me, imagine telling me i had s,ex with u severally and as a result i shouldnt complain on the net about asking me for gift. I have had enough of u stay clear my way. Good day

tpacalipse: When a man is in love, behold a fool is born!

I tell yah... I have learnt to hide that part of me bro... It only belongs to my wife.

[size=30pt]Chrisvicmal[/size], saudatu(m), AK Money(m), SHEAU(m), osca123(m), kingphemy(m), 2sexy(m), chemashie(m) and 1 guest(s)

beware of that name house. The real one is Chrisvicmall. The former is a scammer

hayoakins: WOW! After a week of religiously following this thread and doing all kind of research the suggested websites, i cant wait to make my first order.

To those who replied my emailed @ 2Sexy, El matteo and chemashie..God bless you and not forgetting guy ANDROID, , online...cash.... and others i cant remember their ID..You guys rock.

You guys were more than mentors, willing to share info others would rather sell. Sincerely am dazed that we could help one another make money as against the theory of marketing.

I remember the first time i opened Alibaba months ago, i was so frustrated that i had to closed it, thank you guys for giving me this free lecture.

Someone(cant remember the ID) shared a trick of how to order for few items from manufacturers on Alibaba thereby reducing the cost, mehn it works like magic.

My advise, start marketing your goods even before your order/delivery, someone is already interested in buying a piece of the brazilian hair even while am still negotiating with a manufacturer.

To make you laugh/smile....i mistakenly sent Dav8id an email thinking i was emailing 2sexy, guess the reply i got, to get a site to shop for phones and BB from USA, get my Ebook 8k..

lol.. you don enter one chance.

addictiv: Bro u need not worry all you do is list all you have done for her divide the cost into two and tell her that you ll not spend a kobo on her till she spends up to that half amount. This ll show you how committed she is to you. The idea is not to recoup your expenses but if she at least tries to spend a little on you then you know that she is a little bit committed to the relationship........your own small na after I spent a over 150k she told met that I have not done anything......but it's all good women ll always be women as they say

someone I know spent over half a million if you sum it up. But the babe she-goat, looked him in the eyes and l told him she does not love him one day. the whole money should be up to a million or more than.

How does that go down your spine?

Thank God he has moved on.

Crown Prince: Op, are you still in that relationship?

Better count your loss and look for a decent girl.

listen to this advice.

Pacemaker:
Home appliance is the way to go. I recently came across a door lock that can be configured to a smart phone and then allow home owners to remotely unlock or lock their doors from any where. Does such technology exist in Naija already? I know our people are fast in acquiring gadgets. The down fall maybe NEPA....lol

bros, I have just reforward the same mail to you again. Please check it out.

Goldieluks: You should learn to buy gifts you can afford. Do not waste your cash on buying expensive gifts for someone who doesn't appreciate it. Your gf is greedy. Make sure she gives you gift also. It shouldn't be a one way affair.
And lastly, tell her how you feel about her attitude or the relationship

May God bless you and may you meet the man of your dream. He will love and cherish you in return.


OP, it is possible that you started the relationship by spending money on her. True or false?

The truth is that lady does not love you. If you like spend millions on her. I know someone who did much more than that, I did too but the most common element with cases like this is that we started off spending money for this ladies.

You better end the relationship now or die trying!

Let her go and meet her guys that will do better while they drill that her expire cvnt. she is a fvcking pig!

sanb: Haha; we ladies have eyes, what're we to see?

some have eyes but cant see. but would rather spend time clubbing ,partying , etc instead of learning to be a wife material...

mxxpunkxx!:


a nigga here juz passing by . . .

lol... you no me na. I must talk.

xynerise:
*adjusts his tie* Bros e no easy o

I no it isnt easy... there is always a way for a willing heart. when you love someone one, you dont think much about the stress .

Xynerise is the man... Let those ladies who have eyes see...

Bros, joke apart o. My own go sweet pass ya own when it is time cos the wifey ehn, she testify tire, I swear ...

I like the way you chose her. You sabi market and quality product.

Mercy-u:
hello!!! U talk as if u hv had bad encounters with gals.Y do u hate gals dt much n talk as if a gal hav played with ur hrt.Anyways so sorry ehhh!

It is not just me... It is something that is wide spread among you ladies.

Sorry to say this. I dont feel sorry for your friend.

I am ready to bet my life on it, she has met a much loving guy in her life but never appreciated it. This is what you get!

It is girls like this a guy would almost kill himself for but she wouldnt want such. This are the kind of guys they like, even though they wont accept it openly, the kind of bad boy they crave for.

As you can see, she is confused. Well she can go blazes for all I care.


Na bad boy dey fit this kind girls. I have even heard someone said his sister likes a guy that beats her.


Some may not even agree to this, even if the guy does not beat them, they like one that is hard on them and prefer him to one that pampers them.

Let your friend live with her preference. Who cares?

ubong560: Tanx guys 4 all ya advice. Lik 1 of d posters said, she had bin calling & sending text 2 me since morning bt i think d rlatnshp had ended since dat ystdy. Bt d wicked shal not go unpunish. Later, i wil lik us 2 get 2 bed again. After mess.ing her, i wil tactically rub liquid pepper on my fingers den com bak to finger her p.uss.y just 2 pepper pu.s.sy. I will drive her out disgracefully just after dis.

OP, dont do that please. Your own na small na. If I tell you my own nko? You have had se.x with her but I never did with mine and she had it with another and came back to tell me, begging me to forgive her. She left school to come and see me only to leave with another guy.

There are so many things I can not tell here because people don even tire for my lamentation, because often write about it each time I see piece like your.

I have been there before I dont blame you for thinking in that direction because I too thought of doing some bad to my own such that it could have affected even her future marriage. I am not denying it. I felt the kind of pain I have never felt in my heart since I was born, my whole body was like fire. But I thank God I didnt do it.

It is because of things like this we hear about guys killing or pouring acid on someone they once loved. Though it wrong but I hardly feel pity for the victims these days after my experience with that girl.

But the good thing is that karma is real.

My ex came back to beg after 3 years and since then she has been trying everything and everything to please me but the truth is that I am gone for good. I pity her now. You can imagine a situation where someone is trying to right the wrongs, doing everything possible to please but there is no space in your heart for her and all the feelings, connection you had with her is completely dead now.


If you so wish to bed her, why not just make her for that purpose while she thinks you still care about her. Just keeping bedding her only for that purpose. Never love her again.

Pacemaker:
Yeah I am back in states. Email me when you are chanced. I must have lost most phone numbers you can text me again cos I got new phone

I have sent you an email almmost over five days now bbut I have nnot heard from you. Regards to your family.

does this mean that with BB one can safely operate paypal from Nigeria?

Vikin:

ok, i know someone from their HR in Lagos, Send me the particular CV you emailed to them. I could try and see if he has an idea of events.

What position you applied for..etc

Am not assuring anything, but i will see how far it gets.

Yeah.. I know you are not assuring me anything. I dont have my mind fixed on that either. I just want to have a better CV. The position was for Graduate Field Specialist. I have replied your email. Thanks.

Vikin:

Got it, will send you a mail after. Is it Baker hudge lagos or Phc

Baker Hughes ,Portharcourt... I just need to amend it incase of future needs. As it is, I dont know if they will call me for aptitude test or not but I replied their last email to me with what they asked for , which is my contact details and original email. Not heard from them since then.

Vikin:

How do i get it. I dont want to drop my email here..

my email is in my signature. Just look closely.

Vikin: Pls Pls,

For those of you waiting for NYSC, you can apply as Industrial training in companies while you wait. Yes, you are a graduate but experience is what you really need now.

While i was waiting for NYSC, i got an IT placement of 1500naira as monthly salary. They do this to scare away students. I needed the experience so i went for it, the first week my Transport alone was about 1600naira. Mumsi was just laughing at me, telling me to quit blah blah blah, thanks for dad that helped me with TP the next wk.

Anyway..i started with them but the second week, they noticed i was very good with computer and typing, the company secretary the made me to work overtime with her doing bidding and all. that was how i earned every day 1hr overtime of 500naira. I even came to work on saturday for 1200naira.

What am i trying to say, dont look at the money offered. Accept it, gain the experience and move on. The 3 month experience i got with the company helped me alot as they even wanted me to do my NYSC in their establishment.

Sometimes you have to go an extra mile for what you want.

Happy new yr every one

You just said my mindset. Yeah... one of the strategy for me is IT another is Networking. Nah... I dont care about the pay. I read somewhere on this same thread how a guy worked for 6 months without pay. That is where people are making mistake. They want to start big.

Vikin, I wish you could really take a look at my CV and help me out where possible ooo. if u no wan even give me ya real, you can open a fake one. I am saying this because of what Baker Hughes sent to me.