₦airaland Forum

curvilicious:
I get really irritated when i hear men looking for a financially stable woman nd expect to be well respected. You NL men keep saying maybe she has nothing to offer. I can't remember my grandma offering my grandpa financial support. All she used to do was advice him in the right direction nd take care of the home with what he provides.
The Bible didn't call the woman who cannot provide for her family as worse than an infidel but the man.

Na wa o shame on today's men tueh!

You need to grow up.

curvilicious:
I feel the equality issue came into play the day men chose to start looking at women financially. In the good ol days only foolish men will sit & wait for their wife's money. Real men earn money and cater for their wife & children that actually make them the man

You said good old days bah ?

The whole family goes to farm , father, mother, children to raise food for their consumption. It is not one persons job. I participated in family farming as a kid, so I know. STOP WAITING FOR HANDOUTS.

Whoever sits at home is the lazy one. If you want to live a fulfilled life, drop your sense of entitlement and get dirty.

. If you say your husband is lazy, why did you marry him ?

Lovelywings:
OP this is Nairaland. The commenters here will blame you for the maltreatment simply because you are a woman. See how several people are insinuating that you trapped him with pregnancy That's what the (mostly men) do here. In their world view, men are naturally rational and sensible. Women are the opposite.

If you want real advice go elsewhere. Go to Bellanaija where the women are. All you will get here is abuse.

I am not even happy people are talking about pregnancy. That is unfair.

But the lady has not even responded to anybody.

But I find it so funny that women of today equate themselves to men using manipulation and bottom power. Since she cannot find out the heart of her husband, she doesn't qualify to be a wife.

Ladies, before you marry, read the book of PROVERBS, SONGS OF SOLOMON in the bible to know what your duties to your husband are.

Stop listening to your fellow girls who are unmarried. Shamefully some mothers were not even well trained so they cannot train their daughters to fit into marriage life.

biggie10:
Communication is key in every relationship and marriage. If you cannot talk to your Man about these things and how you feel, then no solution can be proffered.

Pls don't come and be Wasting space on Nairaland when you know what to do.

Best advice.

She is obviously full of herself. Since she cannot talk to her husband.

We should set up a committee to go talk to her husband.

favouredAda:
Gud pm nairalanders.

I'm a young lady in my early 30, married for 2years+ now... my issue is that my husband doesn't gist with me but when he is with other ladies, he can laugh & gist for Africa. He has never taken me out after our marriage. in short I look like a tenant in his house. if we are going out he will tell me to be in front while he will b far behind. if I complain, he will say I'm nagging.

I was sick last week, he just came dropped #10k for me to go see our doctor, he didn't even ask if I can go by myself BT same incident happened to his younger bro wife yesterday, with just a phone call, he went to the hospital & stood by d bro. over night ( sumtin he didn't even do wen I gave birth to our baby) I have been thinking he will change BT this days own his really worst, calling some girls in my streets "my love" why he shout my 1st name no matter where he is.

Pls advise me cos I am beginning to dislike him

When you ladies are advised you don't take wise advice. You prefer the ones your fellow slay Queen's tell you.

From your story, your husband is a caring man but you have pushed him to the wall, the limits of his patience.

Ishilove:
Lies from the pit of hell. Assassins will not spend up to four hours pillaging your home. They will first of all kill the target before looting your belongings, and even at that they won't linger too long on the crime scene.

These ones were likely robbers trying to psychologically torture and destabilize the victims.

God at work.

NgeneUkwenu:
To Deceive IPOB yoots no hard now...

You can never comment like a normal human being..

So many Olosho threads.

This nonsense must cease in 2017

Otherwise ama report you to SARS.

SARS on the beat o.

MADNESS.

DUMB.

STUPID.

Nah dese idiots be the problem of Nigeria.

Senate don jam Badoo..

adeshina86:
Pls guys let's not fall 4 all deir gimmicks, neither fayose, PDP, APC, nor buhari has d masses at hrt...dis is preparations for 2019

So we should fall for that northern governor who stopped his convoy to purchase black market fuel ?

No one moves forward by looking backwards.

NgeneUkwenu:
Very Delicious Meat...But make sure you add enough pepper, but don't over cook it...Finally serve with boiled yam....in form of pepper Soup.

Madam lecturer.

The Monkey eater.

Oshey baddest.

Amakavula:
Happy for you bisi. Hook him if you can

How ?

For what ?

emusmithy:
You don't say 'next' on a thread you didn't create. It's my abode.
Or maybe that's just the English you can speak for now. I understand your plight.

Next please.

TIME will teach you.

Say 5 years from now.

Kingsley123456:
I really do not know why we encounter fuel scarcity almost every festive period, its becoming too constant , can we say there is no foresite

They know you will not do anything when they do the wrong thing.

It's in Nigerian DNA..

These people glorify incompetence. NNPC GMB obviously has no KPIs on his job, that is why he allows 180m people to suffer scarcity for his job incompetence..

Sack him and try me.

I am an Engineer..

roarik:
toke makinwa y u fall my hand..me love u more dan dis

You love your fellow woman.

Okay, SARS must hear this.

I am forcing myself not to say this .














OLOSHO..

Please, sleeping with men, is it a source of income ?

blessingsonflee:
convoy doesn't make you successful. It's only a prove that you are a successful thief!

OUK dump You ?

Why did you say he is a failure ?

blessingsonflee:
Orji Uzor kalu is a total failure!

Yes, total failures drive in a convoy of 13 cars.

That's right.

OUK, one of Nigeria's richest from Igbo extraction.

Gold to know

Damibiz:
But still we re the giant of Africa....mean why man u nd man city re playing 1-1 nw

Morocco, Egypt and South Africa are giants of Africa.

Some people drawing others backwards...

stupidity:
Whenever I hear this yahoo plus ish, I usually take it as just hear say. Not until a girlfriend of mine came to me one day almost running mad. Asked her what happened to her, she forgot all what happened and where it happened. I was told to give her red oil to drink. Few hours later her brain came back to normal and she started recalling what unfolded the previous night, she was lucky to come out alive coz she’s a river born.

I doubted all the stories she narrated and instructed her to call the guy she hung out with. She did and put it on Loud speaker, to my surprise the guy told her never to call him again and called her a witch. She called him back and he barred his line from calling him.

These guys are real.

I dey laugh.

One boasted he has 100 girlfriends.

biacan:
Aunty you just said the truth but as a young girl "which I am" how can I find a rich guy who's not a yahoo yahoo you nor I don't want to surfer

Was anyone born with money from the womb ?

Who tells you that you cannot be rich. ?

Find a poor boy who has integrity and build his dreams with him. Simple !

9jakohai:
1. So long as govt set prices, there is a subsidy in place.

2You are speaking to someone who backed GEJ'S price increase back in 2012. So, sorry.

3. You need to read my original comment especially the bit where i said that i did not believe that govt removed subsidy.

4.If govt removes subsidy now..prices would have shot up to N200 per liter. Eventually, long term they would have fallen. (That is why i backed GEJ's price increases..even though it was not a subsidy removal).

5.I don't back APC or PDP. I want a govt that would make the hard choices we need to become an industrial nation, not a nation dependent on exporting raw materials.This govt isnt it. So take your bitterness elsewhere.

Stop your nuisance on this thread.

There is ZERO subsidy on refined products.

oloriLFC:
Don't think he is a stranger. How did he know it was ur daughter's birthday and u weren't celebrating it?

Simple and straight.

Strangers don't know our birthdays.

She should be a single mum

agbangam:
Those criminals in senate never liked Magu, dey want him out by all means and watch how chidren/ supporters of Looters will flood dis thread clapping for those criminals.

Which looter has magu won a case against and sent to jail ?

This is drama

Nigerian youths should wise up.