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mutter:
I advice my daughters to grow up emancipated and proud of what they are- women.

If you have your periods- to hell if everyone knows ! that`s what makes you a woman. Don`t go swallowing unnecessary pills to avoid pain or to stop the period coming altogether.

Take off time from work to attend to your family matters! The project can wait or be submitted a day later or taken home .
This is what is expected of man and woman. Jobs today are paying more attention to the needs of the family and flexible working hours. In the western world families are dying out because of the stress of combining work and children.

My daughter everything "work "you learn at the Uni, everything "marriage" you learn from me and your faith.

Your first career and fulfillment as a woman is to be a wife and mother. That is the natural role of a woman.
Don`t let any silly women who claim they are feminist tell you any different. These women are struggling to be regarded as men and end up not meeting up to the expectations of a man and not meeting up to the expectations of a woman.

In is your fundamental right to live as a woman, feminine, soft and gentle, married and nursing and no one has a right to rob you of it.

When my daughter got her first contact with working class women without a husband and kids she came home and told me she was really scared. She did not want to end up like that.

Right now I am here fantasizing about my daughters marriage when the time comes and not her first job.

LostMermaid:
Still have a thing -you mean still keeping the anger of the things that happened in the past?


I don't know how to answer this question. From what I have observed he is a very good, sensitive, caring man.

It's hard to believe he did bad things. Maybe because of cannabis that he was using then. I don't know.

If you saw him you wouldn't believe he could have done bad things; cause he's a really nice and thoughtful guy, my family and friends love him.

KanwuliaJara:
Men and sex sha!
The soonest they learn to phock themselves, the better for the world.
Off to go and baff, wash my nyansh and masttturbate with the end of my BIGGEST amala spoon!
Shior!

Time for some 'po-rn'!

edozie04:
see bad belle from afar ooo, na bad if I marry her

imeller:
Why do Nigerians like putting their own down? I dont see anything wrong with her answers.

It's foolish to hear some ladies say "he tells me he regretted not marrying me; wishes he can get a 2nd chance" .. undecided. Pleeaaasssee! that's an old trick for men who dumped you to get into your pants again as a side chick.

edozie04:
I mean the above 30

LostMermaid:
1. I have this view... Maybe I should get it out of my head but I can't help it: I think; since he loves me so much and wants to spend rest of his life with me, since I'm the woman he's in love with; then if he makes a child with me, he should love that child more. More than the one he made with a slutty ex by accident, who is still behaving in an evil way. (additional info: she tricked him and got pregnant on purpose, and after 1.5-2 years cheated)

What do you think about this? Do you think men love their children more if those children are made with a woman they're in love with? Do you think I'm right in wishing for such a thing?

Because I have always thought having a child with the one you love is one of the most beautiful and special things in life. And those children are fruits of love, and they are lovelier and more loving people themselves....

I like that little child, but sometimes I find myself resentful that he loves the child of such a slut so much. And then I think; if he's gonna love my child at the same level; then what's special about it...What's special about having a child with the one you love and all?

*****

2. I also think, his child with his ex ( 4 now) might influence the children I will have with him in a bad way, if she came living with us. Sometimes I think it might be nice... but sometimes I think she will be an outsider, kind of like a secret agent; not exactly from the family; representing a slutty mother, and maybe sometimes reminding her, or defending her. Kind of like a dark cloud above the happiness of the family. Keeping us from behaving comfortably, or keeping us from just being the family; like for example preventing me from telling my children how I met the love of my life, their father, my future husband, because she might get jealous or something. Lots of things like that.... What do you think about this?

My man said she might put her mother's picture in her own room when she comes living with us, or even a picture of the mother and my man and the child together (as a family!!?!!!) and he said as much as he wouldn't like this, he should be and also I should be ok with this...

3. Sometimes it's also bothering me that she has a part of him... That way she made herself "forever" remaining in his life, that way or the other. In a way, she still has power over him. As if, he, in a way, partially belongs to her. Despite him saying he hates her badly and everything and they don't even have a proper friendly conversation. He is the father of her child. And he's crazy about her (his) child! There's no stronger bond than that!

Then, I love him so much and he's exactly what I'm looking for.... And we have a beautiful, lovely, romantic relationship and we get on well, have similar views in life and similar mindset, talk about anything and everything for hours, value each other deeply....

And then I find myself upset and. And I need advice on these bothering issues!

Can I silence these thoughts?

SHOULD I RISK?

SHOULD I LEAVE?

KoloOyinbo:
Yes a metaphorical and allegorical reason. NOT a LITERAL reason (obviously).

KoloOyinbo:
Do you understand allegory and metaphor? The people of biblical times did. Its merely painting a picture of evil/satan. Please don't take it literally when it mentions 666 etc.

I mean why ever would superstitious nonsense like that be relevant to our God or even to Satan? Leave that rubbish to the juju believing babalawos.

(Probably spelt babalawos wrong but you get the idea).

Christianity is about out relationship with God and our Salvation NOT a set of primitive taboo's and magic numbers fit only for the uneducated.

I say AGAIN and AGAIN what sort of foolish Christian is so uneducated (both temporally and spiritually) to actually believe that a mere number is significant in any manner to God, Satan or salvation?

KoloOyinbo:
It is no more significant than 667 or 665! In fact pi is MUCH more significant!

KoloOyinbo:
By no do you mean numbers?

I am not sure of your stance but merely commenting that those who take small excerpts literally where allegory and metaphor have been use to make a point actually miss the point and introduce a stupid superstition instead of the message. Hence this ridiculous idea of '666' actually having some evil or satanic connotation or the even more moronic idea that barcodes/social security numbers/bank account numbers are all some juju of the antichrist. How a true Christian would even listen to such patent superstitious nonsense is beyond me.

TV01:
Holá,

1. Exercise - what do people currently do? Is it sporadic, systematic or totally non-existent. What works? What are the issues we face in terms of accessibility, facitilites and convenience? Are people aware how imprtant and the difference this can make are. Is anyone wanting to make gains here but in need of advice or support?

Pickabeau1, I'm tagging you here, as I recall you were starting a programme (skipping) some time back.

LostMermaid:
I met the child, been with her several times, she even called me mummy, I get along well with her.

Haven't you ever had some thoughts crossing your mind that you know are not right? Ever wondered why I wrote them all with honesty? To get advice that can help me get them fixed. Don't be so harsh. A true cruel stepmom doesn't even write those things here.

danbrowndmf:
i guess ur church do so to,dats if u are a christian oh

anyanwustanley11:
someone advice help a guy depressed tirés oh

carefreewannabe:
Divorce is such a lucrative job when you are not the one who is working. I wonder why not more men stay at home, take care of the kids, divorce and get rich.

dammytosh:
God Bless Your Mother.

This is not you talking but years of good training and thank you for accepting the training.

No man Should Kill A Lady For Any Reason. Let Her Go. There Are a lot of Better and Right Thinking Lady like mutter

Timbuktou:
Alright, alright. I get it. Let's play the alphabet game. XYz!!! CAC!! DJIDJKOHCKUGBB!! I seem to have better keyboard than you.

Sophyrocks:
Of course yes! They are murderers. Some of them are abroad and have been killing women. Na today? Why do you think they are always bitter?

freecocoa:
And this is something to be considered normal?

pickabeau1:
As per condemnation
That is basic here

this is a forum so the discussion will move on the WHAT to the why or how

Ok
I condemn this ignoble act

The next statement is

[size=14pt]What can be done to avoid the reoccurrence of this dastardly act
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If it was condemnation only, the thread will have died since