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Fairgodwin:
Funny enough, I love seeing stretch marks on a lady; especially, like you rightly said, moderate.
But as for the others you listed, all I can say is, NITORI OLOUN!

Nutase:
perverts....walks out

softysparky:
Boxers and white singlet.

Seeing him sweat while working out.

And finally the look on his face when angry.

tzoracle:
When she wins an argument

MrGuruMaraji:
Hmmm . . .

When she tie towel or when i perceive her pant

Movesz:
I like bobs..

ronald4lif:
Apart from the 3rd and 7th points I would have said the write up is baseless

Fairgodwin:
When I see a lady's rough hair.
Expecially when she wakes up in the morning or when she nor plait or comb the hair.

And I love to see a lady in skirts; it always catches my fancy a lot.

frank317:
pls dont stop being my fan and my friend becasue of my believe, that will be like persecuting me and discriminating. I will never think otherwise of u because of what ever you believe. I stopped believing becasue of a series of tragic events i went through. It made me reevaluate my believe and start asking questions. i learnt to stop allowing religion to control me and have never been this happy.

i wish people can allow themselves to be liberated from this unreasonable dogma called religion and Christianity. for the first time i have experienced innermost peace and i mainly come here to make fun at those who used to be like me.

trust me... i am still a nice guy... our different in believes will not make me treat u otherwise, but christianity will definitely make u think twice about me... that is one of the dangerss of religion.

Wendy80:
Nothing Dearie. Was happy though.
I got 2 proposals in 2days oh

brito:
Cry fire, I no cry joor

ArewaSweetheart:
Point of Correction, Not all ladies do that please.

carefreewannabe:
World population

Male: 3,477,829,638

Female: 3,418,059,380

Gender ratio: 102

You're welcome!

Aprime:
Isn't it obvious; they are extremely happy ofcourse.
Getting engaged is tantamount to wining the world cup.

Ewuro4:
Ole

kaboninc:
At the bold part, that has been you people's nightmare. That's you people's problem. She never said she BELIEVES but that they are mere THOUGHTS and she is entitled to it just as YOU are. Can't you people reason before you throw your bile?

Jeromejnr:
And secondly me telling u d encounter will not change u at all. Its God word and His Spirit that changes people. Because I know u will still come up with theories of arguments.

menesheh:
Nothing

It is more or less...
This is an ideal or notion, believe it, dont ever say anything bad about it, dont ever ask questions, with the popular slogan FAITH

Esiri111:
As a Christian Why Do You Believe in This Truth of GOD.

dalaman:
Describe what God looked like in details and what transpired between the two of you.

johnydon22:
You know all this long boring post was unnecessary...
I only suggested you also post similar verses from bible for discussion just like you do the quran.
Dont know why you got all defensive even when no question was posed yet.
have no time any more opening religious thread, so you religious folks do that yourselves..
all i am saying is post from both bible and koran so the killings and barbarisms in both books will be discussed not being one sided because of your sentimental attachments to the bible...
I dont even have time to argue anymore shaaa...the truth should be balanced dont you think?

Alexk2:
hmmm...don't mind me jor, i only seems to have a different understanding of what the gullible and ignorant need.
instead of the truth abt quran i strongly believe we all need the TRUTH and THE LIFE HIMSELF, i also believe the Truth can only be found in the word of God!

If there is any message a true christian should preach, it should be from the very Word of God and we can never have enough of it.

does it not concern you that she only end up making them angry and incite some. does it not concern you that it turn out to be a disservice to God?...in my bible, Christians are to be agents/symbol of peace. Rom. 12:18 explain that clearly!

BreezyRita:

In most parts of the East, having a child oitside wedlock is frowned on. The young girl is deemed wayward.
She lives with this stigma. And it becomes difficult for her to get a husband. Who wants a certified "second hand" wife?? Most suitors, on finding out she's had a child, either deserts her on his own or us pressurized by family members to do so.
Now, she realizes time is not on her side and decides to do something.

My question: Should a young woman who's had a child outside wedlock, lie to her suitor about it. Lying could be by not saying anything about it to him. I know what'll happen if he finds out but I need your opinions here.
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kaboninc:
So many judges on this case and most of them without personal experience. Its easy to see what's inside from outside. But when inside, it becomes so difficult to carry out advices you once gave from the outside.

Lostmermaid, she's young and naïve; just like every other woman, she has this possessive instinct in her. So its perfectly normal for her to think her husband's love for her OWN children must be FIRST among equals. However, her personality, time and experience will give her wisdom in dealing with issues like this - if she wishes to learn.

Her case is more or less like a polygamous setting only that both wives do not live or will not be living in the same house. Fights for the best for ones children, jealousy, self servicing are all features of it.

Like she said, its her thoughts and may or not be a reality. And she's honest about it. There was a story of how a lady confessed to the wife of her ex husband on her she felt with the way her daughter will be treated by this new wife. She felt her daughter won't be loved and cared for the way she would have wanted. She was pained that her marriage crashed and another lady is taking her position.

But it all turned out to be very different. This new wife love the daughter like she was hers right from the very first day. Because she knew it was a major factor for the success of her relationship with her man.

We should encourage her to love his child unconditionally like she was hers. That it is normal for 'wicked' thoughts to fill our head but what's important is what we do with it: trash it or use it. We should encourage her that should she continue with this man, that child holds the key to the success or otherwise of her relationship. That even when he wants to incorporate her with his 'hate campaign' her reaction by being neutral and civil will ultimately show her maturity and places the ball in the man's court. If he leaves her for it, he has lost and she has gained tremendously!

We all crucify her for calling another woman a 'slut'. Well that's because she's now in the picture. Supposing she's just an outsider like a Human Rights Activist, or a relation to the man?

Lostmermaid, for me, I see that child as his jewel and a sort of a compensation to the 'hurt' caused by his ex. I feel he will cherish her, spoil her too and love her unconditionally. The bond will be extremely strong and not even you can break it. Attempting to do so even after marriage will be the beginning of your own problems. You should only seek to attach your own bond to theirs and strengthen it too. That was you win their hearts and trust. But all these you'll do because you WANT to. Because your heart wants to.

Sometimes, 'hate', 'negative' advices actually cause more evil!

damiso:
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