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ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/203/i-caught-my-14-year-old-son-watching-porn

beating or collecting d laptop or changing his skool wont make him change. He is acting his age. So what he need is sex education. U need to let him get aware of all about sex and d reason Y he is to stay away from it. If not, he will stop watching @home and shift base to a friend house where u wont hav an idea what he is doing. It a pitty parents never want to discuss sex with their kids. It wrong

adesegun121:
becos dem life need change

u be APC?? Noah talk pass like dis during Sodom and Gomorah, yet some daviant still perish

MzzTega:
Nah.
Happy birthday!

very thoughtful of u dear..thanks

MzzTega:
The day i fell down in class tryna escape from a mate and my dress went up to expose....

hope no b g-string u wear dat day

chymystique:
You Mean APE visits SNAIL






[color=#DD00FF]Abeg in the last pics wetin and where PMB dey scratch for hin back? [/color]

e dey scrach his nyansh...but y e dey scrach his nyansh??

ELTON123:
EVIL MEN

OBJ don carry Yaradua wife matter go meet PMB....d dramma don start

HungerBAD:
So he has 3 wive's and died with a lover in an hotel?

Reminds me of that popular proverb. WETIN DEY SWEET MAN NAHIN DEY KILL AM.

i suspect thunderbot...d woma husband shuld let us know d source of his thunderbot cos cos it must be potent

segtak25:
source: http://techcribng.com/15-tips-to-avoid-being-robbed-when-using-atm-in-nigeria/

girls sef no dey smile dis days oh....no think sey dat fine babe wey dey behind u no fit rub u...

prinwa:
Hi
I am a lady in my late 20, I have been married for 5years now. My husband come back once in a year, I am getting tired of the loneliness and lack of sex, though I have never cheated on him. I just feel I made a huge mistake. I have 2 kids for him, and I try to keep myself busy in order to avoid temptation. My husband. Doesn't have another wife apart from me, recently I asked him about our papers and he said he doesn't want us to come and live there permanently , but we can visit and go. I want to be together with my husband. I am really getting tired of the whole situation. My children are growing up with out him and it is making me unhappy. I need your advice please.

madam, na yur choice. @d start of it all, u had d oportunity to detest such plan knowing very well sey body no b wood. Unfortunately dont even deceive yurself yur husband it keeping himself over there for u alone. How are u sure his not married to a white lady abroad. D solution is in yur hands

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

she shuld c a psychologist like me close to yur reach.after examination and test, solution will present itself via therapy

clevadani:
Bros calm down. Its just 61 days. Though things appear to be slow(I no go lie), its obvious we are moving forward. Some people wasted 16yrs

ok am calming down with guguru and epa with zobo crossing my leg and fingers

clevadani:
Bros calm down. Its just 61 days. Though things appear to be slow(I no go lie), its obvious we are moving forward. Some people wasted 16yrs

ok am calming down with guguru and epa with zobo while waiting

Anonymous1900:
Hello Everyone

Let me start by saying this is not an opportunity to judge or criticize my decisions or lack of it there of. I would also try to be as open and forthcoming as possible regarding all information to help you offer any opinions either from personal experience of inferred ideas.

I already have a direction am inclined to lean towards but its not set in stone and am very much open to ideas from others (I actually welcome it as i like to be thorough and get all the information i can have before making decisions)

I was recently offered a position in Nigeria due to start in a month at the latest however i am currently rounding off a research program in the united states (6 months to finish). The prospective employer will not defer the position till i finish in 6 months time. I had interviews with the vice president of the company when i was in Nigeria last year and a couple of other interviews but i guess due to the instability of the economy (elections and all), the offer never materialized till now. i consider the offer a place to start and while I cant be specific about the exact figure here, its upwards of 250k/month after Tax.

Before you make your decisions based on the offer or my current academic situation, here is a little about me. I have a BSc (Nigeria), MSc (Uk) and MEng (USA).... All in engineering (so i wont consider the figure impressive however its not an entry position and that is my basic pay so there are other benefits). i have paid work experience in the Uk and US and took up an unpaid work experience in an Oil & gas servicing company in Nigeria for about 6 months. needless to say i am well educated but without enough experience in my chosen field and this offer hopes to fill that void.

if you also want to ask why am i not eager to come back to Nigeria? the economy seems fairly unstable now, Iran deal is sure to devastate the oil sector further and destabilize the Nigerian economy even more for those that understand the vicissitudes of the Iran deal. I do have access to getting residency papers in the USA which will coincide with the time i finish my research or a few months after without doing anything shady or sinister (most of my family are here anyway). I am also fully aware that with or without papers, jobs are not automatic any where but you will agree with me that its a little easier abroad than in Nigeria. a good example is the current offer i am considering where i still needed an introduction to setup the interviews and even though i did all the grunt work, i wont have even gotten in the door without knowing someone. The company as a matter of policy does not even advertise positions.

A little about the company: international company with huge investment portfolio in the millions of dollars, where its based should not be important but its on the island. cant reveal more than that about the company.

[b]please let me know what you think or what you would do in my shoes. Also i would be happy to answer any questions that help you offer better advise provided its something i can reveal[/b]

Thanks in advance

Bro, i admire yur acheivement so far. If was in yur golden sheos, i will do away with d 9ja job and stay in d state, obtain my residency papers, secure a job there, gain more experience there and then apply to 9ja job after a couple of years. Why will i do away with d 9ja job? Cos 250 or even more can not garanty yur sucirity+good road+power+decent accommodation+quality health care sevice+good basic amenities etc. In 9ja u spend millions to get yurself those amenities. But abroad yu pay little or nothing to get those amenities. So stay in d US, aquire more experience and i can asure yu after 5yrs of experience abroad, u can apply for job paying 20million annually. That my advise. However, pls if yu hav a means of helping me to achieve my dream of doing M.sc abroad pls dont hessitate to contact me. Peace

clevadani:
www.punchng.com/news/tompolo-hails-buhari-on-amnesty-programme-boss-appointment/

baba go slow is working...dis is a good news for d Nija Deltans. PMB is a sure listening leader.....but he will never get into my good books till i get employed under his job policies

olokfor:
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They say not many men can pull off a pinkshirt.However, Dbanj is not every man! The star who is back in Lagos posed by his Bentley while rocking a pink shirt and matching shoes..

Nice shades! Another below

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https://instagram.com/p/5ugh9YoNg2/?taken-by=iambangalee

ko kan aye now!!!

Harbdulrasaq:
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Oliseh Akpofure Neo from Warri, Delta State has emerged the winner of the “MTVBase win a day with Don Jazzy' competition which was concluded on the 16th July.

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Mr Oliseh who opted for the cash equivalent of the trip to Durban South Africa, was given a whooping sum of N500,000 on 29th July 2015 by Don Jazzy.




https://instagram.com/p/5uMCqyNRy4/?taken-by=donjazzy

plzzzzzz folks can some one pls giv me d contact of Don Jazy...i want to make a deal with him..if he can award me scholarship to study abroad....to pay back with interest

eedriyz:
Dear unbeliever, Ask Channels for Pix...

dear beleiver, send d pix......

Lovechyld101:
Na wha oo0h and na one Guy they Oil this thing !!

dis kind backyard no be for one guy oh

eedriyz:
Source: http://africanspotlight.com/2015/07/28/nigerian-army-rescues-30-persons-from-boko-harams-captivity/

http://www.channelstv.com/2015/07/28/troops-rescue-at-least-30-boko-haram-captives-in-dikwa/

pix or tell d Birds

Giftedgreen:
A lot of people think it’s weird to talk about periods, but not us. Menstrual cycles are part of our biology, just like the nervous system or the billions of cells that make up our bodies.

Periods has been ignored by the society so much that most girls are left to find out about their bodies on their own. Here are 10 little known facts about menstruation – and the science behind them.

1. Menstruating makes you hornier

The hormone progesterone is said to lower a woman’s libido. Yet while menstruating women produce less progesterone, which makes them likelier to crave sex during this phase.

2. And less attractive to men

A man’s testosterone levels are directly affected by a woman’s scent, which changes during a menstrual cycle.

One study where men sniffed the T-shirts of women who were ovulating showed the men’s testosterone levels spike, while testosterone decreased when they sniffed T-shirts of women who weren’t ovulating.

Another study showed that strippers make twice as much in tips when they’re ovulating than when they’re on their period.

3. In the olden days, girls didn’t used to get their period until around 16 or 17

Right now, the age of 12 is an average launching pad for a girl and her period pads. She will continue menstruating until around age 50.

In the 1800s, the average girl did not get her first period until well into her teens. It is thought that girls reach puberty earlier these days due to a combination of better nutrition and increased stress.

4. Your periods isn’t just blood

You can tell just by looking – if you cut your finger, the blood appears different from what shows up in your underwear. That’s because what comes out during a period is actually the lining of the uterus, a mixture of blood and tissue.

Your body builds up the lining of your uterus each cycle in preparation for potential pregnancy. But if an egg isn’t fertilized by a sperm, the thickened lining of the uterus is shed through the vagina. This is your period.



5. Your period can change your voice

One study published in the journal Ethology claimed that men who listened to recordings of women’s voices were generally able to tell which women were menstruating.

One would assume that their tone while menstruating was slightly more menacing than normal.

6. You can get pregnant on your period

It’s unlikely, but still possible, since sperm can stay alive inside the vagina for up to a week. The risk of pregnancy is highest when having sex during the end of one’s menstrual cycle.

7. Your body mimics the symptoms of pregnancy in the days leading to your period

In the days leading up menstruate, your body secretes hormones that cause irritability, feeling bloated, acne, and fluid retention—which are precisely the same symptoms one experiences during pregnancy.

8. You think more like a man when you’re menstruating

Lowered estrogen levels during menstruation may actually enhance a woman’s “male cognitive skills,” lending a temporary cognitive advantage in areas such as spatial thinking.

9. You may bleed form other places than your vagina

In a very rare and a little scary medical condition known as “vicarious menstruation,” women on their period may also harmlessly bleed from their mouth, ears, lungs, nose, eyes, and skin. It is not known exactly why this happens, only that it does.

10. You need body fat in order to menstruate

If your body fat plummets below 8-12%, your period will abruptly cease, if it ever began at all. Fat cells are correlated with a woman’s estrogen levels and are thus necessary in both menstruation and procreation.


http://giftedgreen.com/2014/blog/2015/07/27/10-little-known-facts-about-menstruating-that-might-surprise-some-girls/

i agree with everything, but d issue of bleeding from eyes, nose ear etc during menturation is strange pls...dat mayb EBOLA!!! Ladies pls erase dis as menturation symptom

yungkiz:
Hi to everyone,

Am a student of unizik 200 level, on my way to lecture this morning beside my lodge, I saw people pouring a girl paint in the name that she just finish her final degree exam.

Please, I want to ask does this also happen to other institution, because this is becoming too much here in unizik, you don't know who Is your enemy, they might use this oppurtunity to do you bad may be by pouring you acid... Please let the school authority look about it because me am afraid I don't want this on my own time.

they are clueless, if only they know what await them in d labour market, they will rather remain a student for life....what there to celebrate?? If it was those days u will graduate and u are given yur car key, apartment key, office key and sometimes an Ngbeke to mary, then if u pour yurseves coaltar itis justified

amosade30:
c ya mouth...au iz ya 9t goin jor?

how my talk take affect yu plzzzzz??

francababy:
hello house,

A colleague of mine resigned from the company I work and he was paid around N8.4m. This is really tempting. We resumed the same year and I even resumed 5 months before him. My annual take home is N3.6m before taxes. I don't know how much mine will be, but I'm tempted to resign and collect one lump sum to start my own business. I'm confused now. Please advise.

pls bfor u reseign, inform me so dat i can put in for yur job. Pls help a sister from another mother....to advise, pls make hast to leave d job and pick up d cash, but not untill u hav put all plan in motion and what is left is cash to set d plan rolling. If u hav a good biz plan, yu can make double 3.6M/year. In all, look bfor u lip!!!

princeofpeace22:
http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/07/fg-states-share-another-n518-542b-june-federation-revenue-

pls when FG and job seekers go share their money? Na untill JESUS come bak? Baba go slow we dey wait oh....

farano:
What do you think guys?

https://instagram.com/p/5jvroOL4eb/

nawa oh...d person who post dis, we d readers, d people/fans commenting, TOto dike herself, her Husbby and yu reading my comment are all senceless and clueless

Emmatdayo:
Watin man eye no go see

una neva see anything, come Ibadan, u go see fabricated/reaaranged vihecle

Cutehector:
Association of pregnant corpers of nigeria.. APCN

dem come husstle now...d pikin no go chop?

doublewisdom:
One day Buhari go mistakenly sack himself!

nooo...he go mistakenly sack his wife and children

Rapmoney:
My Warri guys dey call them 'kparo-kparo package' ...Don't hate me for this post ladies...am only expressing ma'self

Now, how do you tell that a lady is one of those bunch of hungry wolves looking for who to feast on? The following are some of the traits you should look out for, guys

1. #The way she eats when you take her out#: When you take her out, closely watch how she eats. Hungry girls eat voraciously! She will order for different foods, even the ones her father has never bought for her since she came to this world She rushes the foods greedily, she would even go as far as sucking bones and licking her fingers!!! She does this because she doesn't know when such delicacies would come her way again A girl who is self-satisfied and contented eats in a dignified way. What you bought for her isn't new to her; she takes that often, so it's not a big deal to her!

2. #She easily opens her legs wide because of foods#: I often wonder how some girls would easily open their legs wide for a guy to 'moyokor' them just because he bought them Shawarma, fried rice, chicken and salad or ice-cream You sell your female dignity just because of food? Something that will leave your bowels after few hours? You must be kidding me, babe!!! You are such a hungry wolf, don't hate

3. #She demands for virtually everything from you#: If she is the type that demands almost everything she uses from you, just know she is a hungry girl! A contented girl, even if she requests for certain things from her Bf would still realize that there are certain things a grown woman should be able to provide for herself. You don't expect a dude to buy stuffs like tampoon, undies, recharge cards for you...provide food for you...cater for all your needs when you are not his wife!!! Common, you are grown; you are not 2 years old!!! Maybe, you should also request that he baby-sits you! Orue!

4. #She pesters you on phone because you promised to take her out#: When you meet a babe and exchange phone contacts, just tell her that by so so and so time, on so so and so day, you will take her out. Maybe, to a popular eatery or to do some shopping at Shoprite. When they day comes, watch out whether she would pester you on phone when it is past the time you arranged for the outing If she pesters you on phone, she is a hungry girl! Contented babes don't get worked up because of outing at an eatery. The hungry one will pester you not because she wants to see your face but because she is dying to consume hungrily those things she has vowed to order when both of you finally get to the eatery

5. #Keeping little change for herself or stealing little money in your residence#: I once met a babe who came to my crib and stole my 750 naira I kept under a novel! Pathetic! With all her beauty and sexiness, she stooped so low; my blood went cold for her. I quickly dropped her at the junction of her street, deleted her number and drove off! Na only 'kparo-kparo' fit behave like that If you pay for something at a shop and she hurriedly collects the little change from the seller and pockets it when she wasn't the one that paid for the stuff, she's a hungry babe! So annoying that the change could even be a mere 35 naira Orue!!!

Na me write am...

Na broke guy dey look all those things u listed. People like u will always notice all those things u listed cos u will always com across cheap girl since u can not afford to take a high class chick out. I mean some big boyz who hang out with high class babes will not hav an idea of what u talking about... Hungry or not, no b cos of her kitten wey u won tidy u for call her?

[quote author=MalcoImX post=35783719][/quote]infact dem dis politicians don milk dis country finish....i wish it was those days when d gods usually strike down dos who thief from others....althesame, may AMADIOHA visit n strike down all Nigerian politicians who have looted and will loot and are looting our treasury

Otunba6:
We met few months ago, initially i did not want to date her because she's too flashy/fake for my liking. Gradually, she started proving me wrong by being a good and serious one. infact she stopped some of her fake attitude when i started complaining about it. To be sincere i really love her to the extent that i introduced her to my brother(something i dont normally do if i wanna do chop and clean mouth). Just few days ago she lost her phone and wanted me to help her buy a new one.

I bought the one she wants and gave it to her. she called me later in the evening that the one i bought comes with 16g and not 32gig as expected. I collected it back with the hope of returning it today. On checking the phone, i discovered she had forgot to sign out her facebook messager, badoo etc.

I was extremely shocked when i view some of her chats (both old and new ones) with random men. To cut the story short, she is a free giver and a LovePeddler in my own view.

Now i've exchanged the phone and she is coming to collect it tomorrow. i dont feel like giving her again, infact i hate her from that moment.

Guys, i need an unsuspicious method to make her leave me.

tell her u have HIV/AID simple or show her pictures of girls u have proposed to but die a day to wedding...

MOORCHMOORE:
I am a low income earner, with a wife, son (3 months +), nephew then 1 inlaw today another tomorrow.
My wife suddenly came home day before yesterday with the news she went Job interview.
The next day, she was ask to start work on next Monday.

Dilemma!
With what am passing through, I desire my wife to work so that we can meetup with some bills.

Our problem is we have a Son that is heading 4th month, her employers can't accept her with our baby.
She went to day cares around and was told they only admit a year plus. I tried to discourage her, knowing what our son is going to pass through. But she accused me of not being supportive.

Please I need professionals here.
This is one place I always get answers and support

more income thru yur wife at d detriment of yur growing baby. Bro, with d kind of exploitatation employer xpose employee too, am sure yur wife can not cope with work and baby care. One will definely suffer. Evrything in life is planning...u already know yur baby is still tender for yur wife to work, why allow her search for job in d first place......my advise is dat u can giv her a chance to try to work and care for d baby. If she can cope fine if she cant, then she shuld drop d job. She can always get another job. As for u, obviously, a man income determine how many mouth he can feed.....if yur income can feed yur wife and kid only, why invit external family member u can not care for?