₦airaland Forum

scachy:
I have no response to your likes.u v proven Your point with your downward developmental theory.

Iprofit:
Are you a minister in the US

BushidoBlue:
So after 9months how more messed up has the economy become?


Ostrich mentality

scachy:
Those behind this idiotic campaign are either the cause of our problems in this country, or they are nothing but ethnic bigots or they are directly or indirectly benefiting from this visionless Govt.because sincerely speaking, there's absolutely nothing PMB has accomplished in the last 9 months other than globetrotting n blame games. This has shown that he has no practical idea on how to turn things around for good in Nigeria, instead things are worse than it was.I weep for my people.

Don't tell me change is a gradual process, because what we are witnessing in Nigeria under Buhari is retrogression instead of progression.

sukkot:
http://naijapositive.myfastforum.org/archive/marriage-acts-federation-of-nigeria-laws__o_t__t_791.html

sukkot:
common law wife. if you have lived with a woman for over 5 years , in the eye of the law she is ya wife. no papers needed

ponti93:
majority of the voters aint bright?

ponti93:
will she lose because america aint ready for a woman president?

geccibede:
Oga take a chill pill na, I'm not claiming i know more than you about NGOs but a little research would have done you justice. Let me just clear your doubt.
This is from their official website
https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.gatesfoundation.org/Who-We-Are/Resources-and-Media/Annual-Letters-List/Annual-Letter-2012&ved=0ahUKEwjvvsadwZrLAhVFWxQKHQwQDFoQFggYMAA&usg=AFQjCNGYIpxvRYeSaVb7ljxbdc_cLN8rwA&sig2=K12V9yRIwn6bwiZ2DolDGw
Remember I told u all NGOs broadcast and advertise their works. Thats one of the ways they get their sponsor and Bill and Melinda gates foundation is no different.
Please read their article word for word and remember to acknowledge and THANK me for showing u d light .
No hard feelings WE LEARN EVERYDAY.

geccibede:
I never planned on extending this issue, but the way you talk make me wana clear your doubt the more. Who mentioned microsoft eh? You're the one that needs to learn to read before you comment. You think you're smart but you're just exposing your share of ignorance. Many NGOs and charity/ humanitarian organisations advertise and publicise their works that way they get people to key into their projects too and there's nothing wrong with that. I think I'm done with this argument. Peace

AZeD1:
Ajax is not a language.........



Back to the matter...
1) Models are entertainers and the entertainment industry is a money maker on the other hand, the reward for education is knowledge. The aim of going to school should be to gain knowledge, its what you do with that knowledge that decides if you become rich or not.



2) In a year or two, we would have moved on from Olajumoke to the next one but the knowledge gained by the 5.0 guy is for a life time. Have you wondered why sport people, entertainers go broke once their careers are over?
Olajumoke's fame is for a limited time while the guys knowledge is for life.

anonimi:
You obviously need some education yourself and I can start you on a free short dose.
Hopefully you will continue your education so as to be liberated from your IGNORANCE swagger.






https://funnystack.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/Funny-Bill-Gates-Microsoft-33.jpg

anonimi:
Are these fellows:

- Dangote
- Adenuga
- Otedola
- Bill Gates
- Warren Buffet

also making less than your Beyonce & co



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Mindfulness:
There are no positive neither negative emotions? Emotions are neutral? Happiness is not a positive emotion and sadness is not a negative emotion?

You struggle, mehn.

This is the most idiotic statement I have come across in 2016.



Now again to your original statement that EVERY woman over 40 who is unmarried and has no children has regrets.

Is Oprah unmarried? YES! Is she over 40? YES! HAs she got kids? NO! Does she regret having no kids? NO!

The truth is this, marriage is considered one of the components of having a successful life for women, it is placed very highly on their success pyramid. For men, it is way lower on the pyramid and considered way less important. For men, money is considered the top priority, this is why society blames the man for not being wealthy and blames the woman for not building or keeping her home(family). This leads us to the main question, what happens when we have misplaced priorities? When women start chasing money and career and men start chasing love? We have a disaster, a shift in the continuum of life and an hyperbolic sequence of negative consequences. This is why men who chase love find themselves being hurt by that same love and women who chase money end up regretting later on in life. Ask Oprah Winfrey why she decided she did not want to get married or have any kids? Her answer would be that it was her decision but deep down inside she was afraid of commitment and by the time she realized what was going on, it was too late. I see no reason why a woman can't have it all; success, fame, good home, sexy body, lovely kids and so on. The ultimate decision is deciding whether you are going to see marriage as an obstacle or an opportunity, are you going to see it as a negative or a positive? After all the richest woman in Africa (Alakija) enjoyed the benefits of marriage! So in totality, the Nigerian society is actually doing single successful women a huge favor by being on their case, as I am yet to see a 40 year old woman who can truly say she's happy being single without kids and with no regrets!

Mindfulness:
I will include all the attributes that you have mentioned before and yet easily make the same point.

Why would a wealthy woman with no kids, who is single and 40+ and who has no regrets parade herself as a single, unmarried, 40+ and wealthy to propagate feminism? Is feminism anti children and anti marriage or pro choice? Does feminism value one lifestyle over the other or does it encourage choice?





Have you just admitted that you are not less emotional when it comes to positive emotions? We are getting there eventually.


And since you have mentioned Oprah Winfrey in your initial post. Here is what I found:


Winfrey, 59, told the magazine that she's never found motherhood particularly appealing — a nonchalance dating back to seventh grade, she said.

"While (best friend Gayle King) was having those kinds of daydreams, I was having daydreams about how I could be Martin Luther King."

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/oprah-winfrey-no-children-kids-hate-article-1.1545631


And I bet my ass that many women would sell their kids including their husband to live the life Oprah lives.

Mindfulness:
Are you saying that there are no women over 40 who are wealthy and have no kids? And why would a feminist parade herself as child-less when she is supposed to propagate [b]choice and not a child-less lifestyle?
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And if a woman's happiness so much depends on having a family why do more and more successful, beautiful, wealthy women put off having children until their biological clock starts ticking loudly, till the very last minute? Is it because changing smelly diapers and having sleepless nights and a life full of worries about your child and is not as much fun as money and fame and a body in best shape?

Why would they put off what money is to men? Would you willingly wait till you are 40+ to get what you most desire?



Answer the question and stop asking me to look for evidence to prove your points.

Are you less capable of feeling passion, motivation, joy, happiness and enthusiasm than a female?

Mindfulness:
What has feminism got to do with the decision not to have children?

Everything! The decision to have or not have children should be left up to women since it's their body. This is the position most feminist firmly believe. If there's ever a woman, who is wealthy, over 40, single and with no kids then such a woman would be iconic or legendary in the eyes of feminist activist.



Are you saying that you are less capable of feeling passion, happiness, joy, motivation and enthusiasm compared to a female?

I love what you did there, positive reinforcement but don't forget about sadness, irritability, crying and so on. The truth is if you surveyed a 100,000 men and a 100,000 women and witness their mood over a period of time, the result is that you would find a higher number of emotional imbalance in the group of women compared to the group of men. Like I said use Google and do your research!

Mindfulness:
What has feminism got to do with it? Stop bubbling unrelated gibberish and then call it a fact.




The research is very contradictory in this respect.

Mindfulness:
Just because you have't seen such a woman, doesn't mean that they don't exist.
And every human being, man or woman, is an emotional creature.

Mindfulness:
So do baby mamas and baby daddies.



Same for Linda and Joycelyn but you were arguing differently at the beginning. Nice to agree eventually.

geccibede:
So you think Bill Gates don't publicise his charity, my friend he does even if he doesn't want its cos it speaks for itself. They hold conferences and media briefs talking about their projects and what they have done or plan to do. Many NGOs and humanitarian service providers do that. Don't be quick to bash your own. Its the heart in which u use to give that matters

Mindfulness:
Proud parents because their kids conform to societal expectations that failed to make them happy?