₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
Any man that can afford 5 of this drink to come see my people without stress is financially fit to marry me.

Samantha124:
I'm just being honest, take it or leave it, it up to you.

Samantha124:
I mean just think about it, what will I gain from hating you guys? The people I've never lived with to actually reach a conclusion to say I hate you.

I admit, there are some good Nigerian guys here in SA, but it's unfortunate that the good ones are overshadowed by the bad ones because a lot of your brothers here are engaging in illegal activities, but when South Africans react, you guys complain and say we hate you guys, that we're xenophobic.




That's why some South Africans end up avoiding Nigerians in general.

Samantha124:
I mean just think about it, what will I gain from hating you guys? The people I've never lived with to actually reach a conclusion to say I hate you.

I admit, there are some good Nigerian guys here in SA, but it's unfortunate that the good ones are overshadowed by the bad ones because a lot of your brothers here are engaging in illegal activities, but when South Africans react, you guys complain and say we hate you guys, that we're xenophobic.




Are you trying to justify the xenophobia thing right now??

That's why some South Africans end up avoiding Nigerians in general.

CuriousStudent:
If it is a man just building and starting his life in his early 30s who has a wife with an illness that will keep her bedridden and unable to fufil her duties as wife (including sex), will he continue to cater for her and the kids,(shuffling from work to returning home to do domestic chores plus no sex) or he will drop the kids with his relatives and wife with her parents whilst sending money to his kids?

Odewaleadesoye:
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[font=Georgia]LIKE for His Excellency, Late Umaru Musa Yar'Adua, GCFR (2007 - 2010):

Agidipie:
A Twitter user @ozor_cc narrates the story of a 17 year old who got a job to clean a female toilet.

@ozor_cc



https://twitter.com/ozor_cc/status/1688894285683240961?t=gv8KeUQ-R0IG8oUt391cZQ&s=19[/quote]I feel the pain of the young man. Take heart bro.

Jesse6:
Well to be very honest boss
Am doing that effortlessly

Samantha124:
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girls

Samantha124:
I don't know.

Samantha124:
Love a Nigerian man genuinely?

Samantha124:
Of course they'd agree to get married to them just so they could keep showering them with money.

Let those Nigerian men in SA go broke and see what happens.. .. that's why your women in Nigeria also treat you guys the same way, you made them believe that there's no love without money.

Mummyfour:
all the best.
You will surely get there .
You will get a good wife, who would be a good mother and you will have wonderful children by God's grace

saintjimos:
I am aware of this, and I am working so hard to breach all failing gaps

Mummyfour:
well noted.. you are right
Like me o, I discipline my children, I flog when I have to, I scold, scream, beat, yell and talk calmly I do.

Truly bringing up children in this era is truly difficult, it takes more than discipline but more wisdom, prayers and patience
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Mummyfour:
my brother when I said overlook, I meant in some things that are trivial.
It is not everything you beat a child for. There are times that even mere words or scolding work better than beating or flogging.
There should be a balance.

I have a cane in my house and I still flog my children st times, but there are times you need to calmly talk to them to correct them.
Life is all about balance.

labake1:
How did you know that God is directing you?

labake1:
How did you know that reason?

labake1:
How did you know your purpose?

Jesse6:
Fear of not making it in life

saintjimos:
I'm afraid of failing

labake1:
I have fear of height (Acrophobia), I always run away from storey buildings. In fact I always avoid a situation where someone will carry or lift me. On my wedding day, I will tell the MC to skip that part. I don't know how to overcome the fear.

What are you afraid of?
And have you conquered your fears?

Mummyfour:
mothers are different and we overlook some certain things

Mummyfour:
mothers are different and we overlook some certain things

Mummyfour:
There are children that would just do things to provoke you, just like some of us did to provoke our parents, some unintentionally though.

Like I have a son whom I love so much, but he can be playful and absent minded at times.

I teach my children to do chores and they really do that without complaining. My youngest son is like the onion slicer whenever food is being cooked. He is fifteen and when his sisters run away from slicing onions, he will always play the role of the super man, even if it means him screaming and slicing the onions and shedding tears while doing so. Sometimes he even runs to the bathroom, wash his eyes and still goes back to continue 🤣🤣

Last week he sliced scent leaves for me, and carefully arranged it in a plate. I carried the bowl of scent leaves and poured straight into the pot of stew without washing it and by the time I realized it, it was already cooking together with my stew.

I called my son to confirm if he washed it and all he could say was "Eeewooo!". He said he thought he washed it. I said how could he have neatly arranged it in a ready to be cooked way without washing and he couldn't answer me. I was angry. Very angry.

He is a diligent boy, always ready to help fix things in the house, but he is the type that will mistakingly pour sugar into a pot of soup, or if you ask him to cook noodles, would use all the pepper in the house and he will end up helping you to eat it, while telling you "sorry o, it wasn't deliberate" ., And probably offer to help cook another one with less pepper or get you something else.(He tries in cooking for his age though)

If you have a child like that or you did that to your parents, let's share our experiences and laugh it out. Every day mustn't be for politics and tribalistic slurs

Mods please push to front page I beg

LegendHero:
I support Dr. Joe Abah.

Shebi Abuja people dey shout ELupee 74 after being deceived with Peter Obi lies of being a Christian messiah.

Labor party already took their only senatorial slot for a non indigene, now Dr. Joe said they MUST not be appointed as minister over their own ancestral land because it will set a bad precedence.

Abuja na no man’s land now.

Jennyclay:
I don’t drink any water aside Eva water or Aquafina water (Pepsi). I can’t remember the last time I even drank sachet pure water

You see Ore-Benin express road, 90% of the table water you buy there are packaged exactly this way directly from those dirty ore rivers . But Ore still remain the best place to buy banana, groundnut and plantain.

If I’m traveling by road, I make sure I hold enough Eva water that would last me for the journey before Nigerians poison me!!

Acekidc4:
Which Lawyer is deceiving this Ellu p People🤔 I bet that Lawyer is super good at deceit!! Make i faint if them see Rerun🤨 Rerun Ko Relay Ni 🙄🙄

Islie:
•Seeks Diaspora Commission’s help to recover property seized from her



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/i-was-raped-in-my-anus-now-i-cant-sit-down-normally-france-based-nigerian-woman/

Acekidc4:
So This Mumu boy still dey around🥱🥱
Small Pikin wey wan fight him Ancestors.

Racoon:
Words on marble!

Botragelad:
Could you pls explain how the whites are still in control of South Africa?