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donbenie:
They cut ties, because they can't continue to deal with toxic relationships..
Most divorced women are bitter,vengeful and spiteful..
His sanity is paramount and if he has to cut ties to preserve his mental health,so be it.

deeptesting:
It is no longer news to hear about couples going their separate ways today,immediately after separation or divorce most father`s cut off all ties with their ex including the children, it really beats my imagination why most men also divorce their children.

Most men quickly move into another relationship abandoning the children for the woman, they don`t call, visit or even write letters to the children. We have witnessed few cases here on Nairaland where the children now grown ups put up pictures of their fathers taken 30yrs ago in search of the man who gave birth to them..

Real men don't divorce their kids too.

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

Candidlady:



Ihate it when women fight over men.. very low... Hades low!!!

Fighting over a waste called westernlove

IyanuDeb:
tell am to send you weekend money make he rest 😂

TVTM2023:
It is not normal to be jealous,you know why
If God has joined two people asunder,man can never put them asunder!
An envious of jealous people can put one asunder if God hasn't joined both together.
Satan was the first jealous and envious person of God!
He felt he knew all about God to become GOD,BUT by such attitude became unlike God who does no evil.
An envious or jealous person can never do anything good at such moments.
The reason why it is so is because an envious or jealous person wants control.
God was the owner of everything,he doesn't need to control anyone nor put his will on them.
Satan on the other hand a creature of God,fell because of envy and jealousy!
He wanted to control every other angel!
Do you know why God said he is a jealous God and that you must have no other god beside him!
It is because when Satan was canvassing and playing politics of envy jealousy and bitterness in heaven,God was watching his every move!
Satan became unrepentant because he abused his FREE WILL DELIBERATELY against God and still went to do same to Adam and eve cutting them asunder in sin from God.
If you are the owner of everything,how will you feel when someone is trying to take it away from you??

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It's normal to jealous, everyone admire good things and want to have it,but if it makes you do something bad then then I see it as wickedness.

DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

Mantilla:
Mumu.

You can't even afford a cup of garri

phayvoursky:
As long as western system of governance, foreign religions and neo colonial institutions are present in Africa. We will never have pride and heritage restored.

Mali is getting it right through force.

Depriest2020:
Shettima will not disappoint. He is as good as Osinbajo.

Swissli:
Are You Even A Christain Or Just A Daft One? Where Did You See Women And Men Will Till The Soil? God Made Women As A Companion And Helper Not To Be Working Their Ass Off For Men

IconicR:
Davido is not connected with this boy and I've learnt something that if a man is not fully into you and almost obsessed, never open leg for him else you and your baby will be seeking his attention for the rest of your life like Sophia is currently doing. Watch this same man flaunt children that'll be birthed by chioma all over social media while his other kids struggles and yearn for his attention. Playing hard to get still pays, it will make you now how much a man needs you in his life, don't be deceived by what they tell you about not playing hard to get, they just want to get laid easily. What they say and what they do are totally different.

Swissli:
Funny,It's The Man's Duty To Provide And Take Care of Her Woman, That Is God Curse On You Guys, Stop Running From It With Stupid Excuses

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

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Source: https://thenationonlineng.net/man-commits-suicide-over-n250000-debt/

PerfectStranger:
Is it written on people's forehead who's right or wrong?

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

Candidlady:



Please let the pastor breathe he owns the church and the land...

Religion the opium of the masses


Pastor should have sold some members too.. especially males in the church

Westernlove family

internationalman:
Why did you make this statement

Does dying in one's sleep now make one evil?

Does dying in one's sleep now have symbolic meaning?



I'm not wishing you death, but you will definitely die too and many sassy people like you will also have no fûck to give

Maxwell775:
after eating dat kinda food in ur EX-boyfriend’s house….. what follows next, don’t lie

Zonefree:

Nice one Davido.. you did the right thing.

Who sent the bicycle seat head to apologize?

IconicR:
Married men claiming single on this forum. Weldone

DREAMHOMES6970:
Lols. But y are you ladies like this. A girl I tried to see if i can have a relationship with started billing me from day 2 of getting to know each other with all kinds of bills like money for lunch, her phone this and that . The one that really pissed me off was day 5 of knowing her, she called me to tell me she needed #15k to buy a cream, a cream she has never bought for herself before . Immediately I started seeing her as trash. I lost the the respect I had for her. You can't have a normal phone conversation without it ending with one demand or another. I mean why can't some ladies give themselves some respect. Why this craze for money money money.

Swissli:
I Saw This Post And I Lashed At Her , How Could She Make Such An Insensible Comment

Candidlady:
Hmmmm




While broke men are the problem of this world... Rubbish

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

kokoBoii:
Honestly, I feel like if most of the subjects we struggled to understand in secondary school e.g Mathematics, were taught in pidgin English, alot of us would have become mathematics wizards...

You can't go to China or Japan and find their teachers teaching their students in English, that is one of the reasons I believe these guys are witches and wizards when it comes to anything Maths and Sciences...

Why do our parents feel like pidgin English is a forbidden language..

Sometimes you see some parents seriously warning Their kids never to speak pidgin else they get flogged...

fineboynl:
Since I started reducing beer intake which used to be everyday. I started getting obsessed with hollandia yoghurt.

Like every hours I rush to fridges to get a drink. End up drinking like two 1L everyday that's if I don't go anywhere.

Does dairy yoghurt has nicotine?

nairalandkachy1:
Just an answer ...



https://twitter.com/nigeriantribune/status/1684203263027998724?t=jk1KkL8F360yOkh8uDEmYw&s=19[/quote]Very low o.




But I think things might change this time around.

Promotions:
I would have said poverty is a sin but then this isn't really the case of poverty but rather wickedness, selfishness, senselessness and lack of vision...what can 1.5m really do for you? His wife should take those kids away from him cos he can do worst if left...
People dey find pikin this one dey sale his own

Mhistasaints:
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?