Food › Re: Crowd Celebrates Hilda Baci In Lekki (Video) by achimendy(m): 10:18am On May 16, 2023 |
Antimandatethie: A big and wonderful congrat to her may her path be filled with wonder, i pray she refuse all the d**k itching politician coming her way
Can i hear a resounding AMEN. Amen o |
Sports › Re: Messi BOOED By PSG Fans In First Game Back From Suspension Over Saudi Trip by achimendy(m): 4:31pm On May 15, 2023 |
obembet: Yea I think those branches deserve some respect too, but they prefer to rob them and praise Messi, I remember when Niesta deserve world best after wining everything yet they give it to him, but when things go wrong, they tag others...
I will suggest Messi to go back to Barcelona and retire there, he can't succeed outside Barcelona not even Eibar self Exactly, you've said it all. One cold igboya for you. |
Crime › Re: Young Man Kills His Mother In Rivers For Refusing To Give Him N20,000 (Photo) by achimendy(m): 4:25pm On May 15, 2023 |
Hotwest: Nobody wishes to be broke! Hope your father/brothers/uncles are all rich Ask the idiot again...... |
Crime › Re: Young Man Kills His Mother In Rivers For Refusing To Give Him N20,000 (Photo) by achimendy(m): 4:24pm On May 15, 2023 |
Jennyclay: My dear, it’s not just broke Nigerian youths… Broke Nigerian men generally (young & old) should be avoided at all cost.
Personally I’m allergic to broke men. If you’re a broke man and you come to profess love to me, after telling you capital NO, I will also rain insult on you.
Broke men are wild animals!!! Broke men are monsters!!! And you call yourself an unapologetic feminist, let me give you your real identity, you're a broke, unintelligent, rude and an entitled bitch, who depend on the wealth of rich people to survive. Go have a life gold-digging bitch. |
Romance › Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by achimendy(m): 4:11pm On May 15, 2023 |
lovediehatelive: I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.
She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.
She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.
She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.
We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.
As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.
The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.
What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?
She later left and we became really close from then.
I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.
I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.
So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.
She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.
She was 19 years then.
Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.
She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.
Now she's 23.
The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.
My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.
Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?
Or should I continue with her?
I'm planning to see her people this December. Getting married to a virgin is good, but if she has all you're looking for in a woman then go ahead with your plans, but make sure you ask God first. |
Family › Re: Group Of Divorced Nigerian Women Celebrate Initiation Of New Members (Pix) by achimendy(m): 3:55pm On May 15, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Biko shut up!!
Is still better than staying with a murder, woman beater and a rapist all in the name of marriage.
Do you even have any idea of what these women went through in the hands of their monster husbands before they quit the marriage . Indeed it’s an End of an Error.
You men are really disgusting!! Tell that to your daddy........ |
Car Talk › Re: Why Girls Like Cars So Much? by achimendy(m): 3:31pm On May 15, 2023 |
ednut1: Car means comfort and ease of moving around. Its just like saying why do men like women with big ass or breast. How does that relate? |
Food › Re: Hilda Baci Was Dancing And Cooking (Video) by achimendy(m): 3:15pm On May 15, 2023 |
Cherrybae: Pls how can I get a visa to Togo. I'm tired of this country.
Look at what we are celebrating. Lord who did we offend in this country What is bad with what they're celebrating, or are you allergic to success?? |
Food › Re: Hilda Baci Was Dancing And Cooking (Video) by achimendy(m): 3:11pm On May 15, 2023 |
Benki003: My question is if it was a guy would the celebrate him like this Yes they'll celebrate the guy. Everybody celebrate success people irrespective of their tribe, gender, race or religion. |
Sports › Re: Betting Is After MY LIFE by achimendy(m): 11:46pm On May 14, 2023 |
Vado: He doesn't need a deliverance, na just genuine will to stop. I am a living testimony but the most important thing is that he must first hit rock bottom in total hopelessness. If he makes it out, he will despite betting again like never before. Exactly.......... |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Calls Hilda Baci On Phone (Photos) by achimendy(m): 7:31pm On May 14, 2023 |
Odogwuzack: I'm glad this lady is getting the necessary help and motivation.
I'm also happier she's not Igbo at least. So that we won't have to deal with "we won Guiness record for Nigeria, Yorubas are ingrates" and other unnecessary noise. Hahahahahahahaha |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Joins Hilda Baci’s IG Live To Give Her Words Of Encouragement (Pictures) by achimendy(m): 1:15pm On May 14, 2023 |
lhordspy: The people's president.
Gone are the days of segregation, discrimination and marginalisation. Asiwaju is here for everyone and anyone: Women, men, girls, boys, Young, old, poor, rich, the incapacitated. Muslim, Christian, traditionalist. North, South West, South-South. South-East.
Hope is here. Our hope; Renewed. Renewed'Hope2023 manifesto; Manifesting. Hope that went to France for treatment. What a weak hope. |
Education › Re: Nigerian Lady Celebrates Bagging A PhD In Mathematics At 27 (Photos) by achimendy(m): 9:26pm On May 13, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: I Will Become President One Day - Peter Obi by achimendy(m): 3:17pm On May 13, 2023 |
ItooWorWor: You are known for nonsense talks since onset. All this Tinubu demented supporters need serious rehab. Like asap. |
Family › Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated My Troublesome Baby Mama by achimendy(m): 9:37pm On May 12, 2023 |
Fabulozz: As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.
She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.
What should I do now mature advice please? Virgina don hook this one for neck. Hahahahahahahaha |
Politics › Re: Aisha Yesufu Slams Those Who Tell Nigerians To Accept 2023 Election by achimendy(m): 4:19pm On May 12, 2023 |
yarimo: Aisha Yusufu always speaking like a fool I think you're the big fool here. |
Politics › Re: Aisha Yesufu Slams Those Who Tell Nigerians To Accept 2023 Election by achimendy(m): 4:18pm On May 12, 2023 |
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Family › Re: I Had Been Restless Having A Chat With My Elder Brother by achimendy(m): 4:07pm On May 12, 2023 |
DownTime44: Hi guys
Please i put up this post basically because of my elder brother. I sincerely want to know if i was wrong talking to him, or I could have just let him be. I wasn't myself ever since i talked to him, and i was somewhat having guilty conscience since then.
I have an elder brother, he's 38 years old and also the first son. I am the fourth child in the family of five. The second child is a female and she's married. We lost our third child, that's my immediate elder brother some years back, while i have a younger brother. I came from a humble background. Lost my dad while i was in JS 3, even before his death we had been hustling on a daily basis for survival, and we live happily as one big family. My mother, siblings and i do hawk daily before we could eat. All thanks to public school in Lagos, my family wouldn't have had the opportunity to basic education. We hawk daily after school, weekdays and weekend. My family was bred and brought up in Ajegunle.
Few years after the demise of my father, we struggled to pay house rent. We had to leave Ajegunle to a local and developing area. I didn't allow my family conditions deter or weigh me down. Never! I believe I'd make it in life legitimately without venturing into crime, fraud, theft etc. After my secondary school, i was into all sorts of labour work. I worked in factory, building site, cleared bushes, laundry man , just to save up and further my education. I worked for 6 years after my secondary school, bought a bike from the little savings i had and proceed to school through jamb. I gave the bike to someone who often deliver #6,000 weekly for the upkeep of my family. I was in year 2 when i let go of the bike, it was on a higher purchase and the agreement we have had elapsed. I hustled my way through school and graduated. I'm done with service last year but couldn't land a job, probably due to my age. I'd be 29 this year and most graduate trainee often request for age below 28. Although, i had a 2.1. I'm only managing in a pure water factory to make ends meet, keep soul and body together and support my family
I sat my elder brother down and talked to him. He has been hustling like every other person in the family but i don't understand what's happening. He didn't futher his education nor learn a handwork. He's 38 but still live under his parents roof. He has been doing conductor work for many years. The family had talked to him several times to look for something else. It's fine you are hustling as a man for survival but doing conductor for many years without thinking of what else to do is wrong. A family friend of ours who later got to know what he does for a living had advice him also.
The bus he was following, the driver had misunderstanding with the owner and he collected his bus back. My elder brother had been idle for months, doing nothing. He claimed he has gone virtually everywhere in search of bus he could be working with but couldn't get any. This is a family that we all had to bring something no matter how little to survive. I was talking to him as a younger brother. I asked him why didn't he heed to people's advice when they were advising him then to stop the conductor work and look for something to learn, if perhaps he doesn't want to further his education? He doesn't believe in Nigeria education, because he could count graduates without job or those with petty job. My elder brother wear almost rag as clothes. I had to give him some of my little wears I'm managing. He has just one slippers. We don't wear same size of shoe or sandals, we could have been sharing that also. He sold his phone to feed sometime ago and had been without phone. I was initially saving to get my mum a small phone but i had to give him the phone instead.
He was crying when i was talking to him. I understand the situation of things in the country, which i myself is going through. I was just trying to know what other things he could come up with. I am not happy seeing him sitting idle doing nothing. The fact that he's the first son and found himself in this condition at that age breaks my heart daily. My mum had been so worried about his condition. I had to convince her that things will be better. I don't want her to develop high Blood Pressure that could lead to her untimely death.
Please guys was i wrong talking to my elder brother? You did a good job, you're promoting hope in your family when almost everyone is in despair. Keep doing what you doing bro. Do everything possible to see how you can help your brother too, you both need to be there for each other, and also make sure nothing disturbs mama. |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by achimendy(m): 12:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Suffery Dy lie, six children with no househelp. What I've learnt about life is that just very few men care about their wife's burden, the rest no send I don't need to argue with you my dear. |
Family › Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by achimendy(m): 11:41am On May 12, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Allow your son to defend himself please. I'll so teach my future kids how to defend themselves against any form of bully. Anyways they'll naturally take after me. But pls don't teach them to be entitled like you, instead encourage them to make good use of their God-given skills. |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by achimendy(m): 11:33am On May 12, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: He's a selfish husband. Two househelp no go do me sef because I won't have strength for any other thing aside breastfeeding my baby. He's a selfish and wicked husband We all know you're lazy and entitled that's why two househelp won't be enough for you. My mother gave birth to six children without househelp, and was still doing business till we grew up. Na only God go help all this indomie generation girls. |
Sports › Re: Betting Is After MY LIFE by achimendy(m): 11:11am On May 12, 2023 |
Uselessboy78: Good afternoon nairalanders I always felt i wasn't addicted to betting but mehn these past few months ,I have been dealt with severely by betting companies my entire salary for the month of April went straight into the coffers of 1xbet my April salary came in May (2nd) AND I didnt hesitate to deposite the entire sum of (#78,000) because i was chasing my loss I had lost #80,000 the previous month (march).
I picked about three games to win #170,000 ,Almost came through if not for man united
my fury knew no bounds ,it was just as if i woke up every day by 5am and return home 7pm just to hussle money for the bookies
I bet because i have lots of expectations to meet ,I am the first son of 5 , clocked 29 in april my salary isnt enough and all the side hustles aint paying .(surveys and co) upwork and fiverr arent easy for nigerians. delving into fraud isnt part of the plan,i'd rather die poor
this afternoon ,the small 4k i was supposed to use and transport for the week ,sportybet collected it. for a moment i had suicidal thoughts (not suicidal per say ) but i am tired of the world ...for months now ,death doesnt even scare me i see it as an end to the suffering (we all are gonna die anyways).
if you know of any legit paying side hustles or something someone can do.. and how does one stop betting
i would like for the FG to ban betting ,it is a killer but youths wont know it though some people are gaining from it ,but it is pffffff You never know wetin dey worry you. If you want solution to your problem go for deliverance in mountain of fire ministry. |
NYSC › Re: Nysc@50: Osun Holds Unity Walk To Commemorate Golden Jubilee by achimendy(m): 8:59am On May 12, 2023 |
Authentic79xp: As part of the activities to mark the celebration of the National Youth Service Corp's 50th anniversary themed; 5 decades of fostering unity and national development, the NYSC Osun State has embarked on a Unity Walk within the State metropolis.
The Unity Walk which was held nationwide in line with the directive from the Directorate Headquarters was the first in the lined up activities marking the golden jubilee of the NYSC.
Speaking at the flag off of the Walk on Monday, which started from the Secretariat in Osogbo to the popular Freedom Park, the Director Southwest Area, Mr Amusan Oluwole Julius, appreciated the Management of the Scheme in the State for mobilising Corps Members and for the organised planning of the Walk.
According to him, the NYSC Scheme which was at first a child of necessity birthed as a result of the civil war to rebuild, reconstruct and reconcile the nation has today become a household name spanning five decades. Amusan highlighted some of the many achievements of the Scheme stressing that the NYSC has over the years fostered unity and development.
He also stated that the Scheme has brought about developments in the educational, health, infrastructural and agricultural sector. Also, through the Skills Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development (SAED), the NYSC Scheme has equally succeeded in making the nation's graduate youths think and tend more towards Entrepreneurship than succumbing to the frustration of seeking employment which is scarce.
He then admonished Corps Members to maintain orderliness and discipline during the Walk, guaranteeing their safety.
Speaking earlier, the NYSC Osun State Coordinator, Mr Agbor Ndoma Obim eulogised the Director General, Brig. Gen. YD Ahmed for approving the week-long celebration of the golden jubilee of the Scheme stressing that it was a well deserved honour and celebration.
Agbor said that the Scheme was created 22nd May, 1973 to unite and integrate the nation, instil discipline in the Nigerian youths, instil spirit of self reliance in the youths, among others. He said further that the golden jubilee is a special anniversary which the Scheme cannot but celebrate because of how far it has been able to achieve and is still achieving its objectives. He said programmes have been lined up to mark the golden anniversary which include: novelty match, lecture, thanksgiving, among others.
Agbor stated that the NYSC Scheme has been remarkably impactful in fostering unity and national development by promoting national integration, inculcating discipline among corps members, building skills through its entrepreneurial programmes, etc, hence the need for a grand celebration.
He added that the essence of the walk is to create awareness among citizens concerning the activities of the Scheme. "We want the whole world to know about all that NYSC has been doing", he stressed.
Agbor appreciated the Director Southwest Area and his entourage for choosing to hold the Walk with the Osun State Secretariat and also applauded the Corps Members for turning out enmass to for the historic Unity Walk.
At the end of the event the Director, southwest Area, and the State Coordinator congratulated Corps Members for being able to successfully complete the Walk. "I asked that you should be orderly and you done just that. I am so proud of you all" were the words of the Area Director.
They also noted that the Walk was just the first activity in the anniversary celebration as other events are scheduled to hold from the 17th of May through 25th to mark the anniversary, hence, Corps Members are advised to continue working diligently, avoid unnecessary travels, and remain good ambassadors of the Scheme.
The walk was energy filled as Corps Member, NYSC officials, and even passers-by joined in dancing and singing to the life rhythm of the Scheme's life band and DJ mix. NYSC @50 but allawee no reach 50k Useless set of leaders. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Issues Warning To Countries Arming Russia, South Africa Hits Back by achimendy(m): 7:53am On May 12, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: see these hypocrites!!!!! so everyone should be on "your" side abi?! what type of arrant nonsense is this?!
just like many are supporting Ukraine, ANYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO SUPPORT RUSSIA, if thats what they wish to do. Abi o, American government won't allow other people do their thing in peace. |
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 11:52am On May 11, 2023 |
Samantha124: I don't remember anything about you.
How do you love the people that you've never lived amongst and got to understand them and their cultures.
Immediately you say you love someone by just seeing them without knowing them, it means you're lusting after them because you don't know anything about their character to actually come to a conclusion that you love them.
I'm very sure that if he connects you with a flat ass South African woman, you wouldn't like it. I think you're seeing it from a different angle. Let's just leave it here. The day I get to SA I'll let you know. Thank you. |
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 11:51pm On May 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: You don't love them, you just lust after them.
I don't remember your monicker, when did you tell me that you love SA girls My dear this is not the first time I'm interacting with you on nairaland, I have our previous comments where I told about SA girls and the love I have for them. And you even reply by telling me thank you. I remember you samantha, you even changed your profile picture, you wore black cloth and you were smiling, not a full pix though. Lastly, am not lust after SA girls, I love them and that's the truth. If I have my way I'll marry them. |
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 11:00pm On May 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: But you asked that SA guy to arrange an SA girl for you as if we're just mere objects.
Stop objectifying us. Arrange in other words here in Nigeria means to connect or betterstill machmake me with one of those SA girls. That's what I mean, so pls stop making it look as if am insulting SA girls. I noticed since I told you I love SA girls you've been angry with me , with the way you respond to me , as if I've done something wrong. Did I commit any crime by saying I love you people?? Nawa o. |
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 9:04pm On May 10, 2023 |
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Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 7:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
KingCold: Correct That's good to hear, can you arrange one of them SA girls for me?? |
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by achimendy(m): 5:11pm On May 10, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Man Bails Out On Bills After His Date Came With Her 3 Kids (pics/video) by achimendy(m): 7:25pm On May 09, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Shame on all broke men
Shame!!! Shame!!!! Shame!!!! Shame!!!!!!! Entitled Werey make you no go hustle. |
Family › Re: Moses Olapade, Ex-Boxer Punches His Wife To Coma Over TV Remote In Ondo by achimendy(m): 7:16pm On May 09, 2023 |
Jennyclay: These useless men won’t go and fight their mate. 
But they are good at punching women at any slightest provocation. 
All women beater shall die this year!! Amen!! Will you shut up your dirty mouth. |