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Ndidi2:
something happened between them..
No woman can accuse u openly if she wasn't sure.

Be deceiving yourself there, woman never settle lie for your head before that's why you dey talk this thing.

I don't easily believe women statement until I make verification. They can lie for africa.

DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.

Don't you have parents or elderly one's that can settle the issue? If not call on close friends of you and your brother to settle things out.

Mind you, your relationship with your brother matters alot for the good of the family. And I hope you're guilt- free from those acquisition your wife gave.
Is not easy staying with women, but use your brain when dealing with them or else dey will tear your family apart.

So make sure you work things out with your brother.

Barrister026:
It's so annoying children of nowadays think because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are, they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

My kid bro who I single handedly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he is a father of a 5 year old boy and another one is on the way. Well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days...

The recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative's burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. Discussion we were having, one thing led to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

Yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this years. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

Mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? Why would I?

Yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him...I felt bad myself after the whole thing.. but before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.

At times you need to be violent to change some certain things. You did the right thing bro, if what you said is true. But like I always tell my brothers, we should not allow anything come between us no matter what. So I suggest you settle things with your brother for the good of the family. I know some brothers can be stubborn, but there's nothing like peace and unity in a family.

So try and settle things out.

robosky02:
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Very correct.........

Benzema all the way .

Ifakiland:
That's because they are mostly the carriers of infections....that's why I pity guys that pay for hook up....and even lick their pussssy

Gaskia them dey try o. I no fit do am at all.

eMoney50:
The best is abstainance. You will never have doubts when doing it with your life partner.

Yeah, you're right.

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

This will serve as a great lesson for you.
Next time love with your brain not heart.

If a guy or girl is really in love with you, your brain should be able to detect that. Not loving someone foolishly then tomorrow you'll start crying .

My advice for you is move on , and forge ahead.

Kiddogarcia:
Lol, when you finally get them, remember I'm your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

Haba, oya list them make we see.

chiommy123:
Men they can never change.

Is like you didn't read the one's women did abi??

Malory:
If not for the UK interference, Chelsea would be champions by now

Failures always have excuse.

Sidon one corner abeg.

meobizy:
The government no send anybody. For those killed from the situation four times their number will get born. It’s why ordinary labour jobs nowadays na man know man. Humans are as many as rats in this part of the planet.

The thing is really surprising o.
What kind of country are we living in.

I've been thinking all by myself since I got the greatest shocker of my life. Asking myself is it a crime to be a Nigerian, or did we offend anybody by being a Nigerian.

When I heard of the kaduna terror train attack I was devastated, more especially because of the young female doctor that lost her life. But we still got another news that some of the passengers where kidnapped after the attack. And until now they've not been released. Only God knows what they're passing through in the hands of this terrorist.

As I was ruminating about the incident, I never knew my classmate from secondary school was part of those kidnapped, until a friend told me yesterday and i checked the pictures of those kidnapped and i saw him sitting there with them.
My heart broke down, I almost shed tears for him.
This is a guy we met on the street not long before the incident and he was telling me about job issue, how he has not been able to secure a job for himself. And we where both discussing about the current backward administration of president Buhari. But I just encouraged him to keep pushing, God will see us through. Now he has being kidnapped, and they are asking for ransom , for this kind hard time.

The worst part of it is that, thesame terrorist gave fed Government One week to meet their demands or else they will them all. And they are not doing anything about the issue other than junketing around the nation for the upcoming elections.
There's nothing I can do other than to pray for him.
Fellow nairalanders your prayers will be needed too,pls help a brother.

I pray God see him and every other person through. Amen.

Focwireless17:
Please I really need help from naira landers living in Kano because I am planning on relocating there in search for jobs. I studied biochemistry with a 2nd class upper and I am ready to do any work at all.
Also willing to relocate anywhere so far there is space for me.

HELP A BROTHER

I've been in kano for years and am still in kano and I can boldly tell you kano is a good place in terms of business and some other kinda job.

But you need to know that the state is prone to crisis, at anytime run fit start , but it depends on where you live in the state. Although we've been enjoying relative peace in the state for some time now, except for endsars and hisbah issue that turned out bad.

And also am a house agent, incase you're here in kano and you need apartment just halla at me.

frozen70:
It's not really carelessness but their sexual organ is internal, not like men that their own is external

By the time the infection is busy causing harm , only the man's dick will feel it first before she gets to know

At times they do get discharged but because lots liquids comes out she may not know until it has a foul odour

Women also have a bacteria that kills diseases that gets in there

Though they get to know they are infected at times when a man notices any discharge

You're right on this one.

VenumX:
How many females have you slept with to come up with this?

Does it mean you don't use protection? How different are you from them?

Like minds will always attract. Praise be...for God cannot be mocked.

Am talking from experience.

And mind you I don't sex without protection.
I had issue with a girl one time when she insist on raw sex, but I refused and we call it a day.

My health is important.

ukaface:
"you have come to realise that women.....
Guy! You don f all the women to come to this general conclusion?
Anyways, guys too should also look out for themselves. Most that I know will prefer raw.

Just talking from the girls I've met (experience) .

frozen70:
Men gets easily infected and it manifest within few days

While women hardly know that they are infected

So they believe that protection is more important for men and when men protect themselves then she is protected

It's easier to get men condoms than women

For a woman to be going about with condom in her bag a man will see her as a slot

When you see woman requesting a condom from a guy she is really avoiding pregnancy

You're right to some extent though, but saying women hardly know they are infected, for me that's carelessness on their part.

Vinnie2000:
This is the Simple truth!
Ladies are smart and they know dat Guys have limited access to P*ssy!
So they know a Guy dey want to have Sex with, is likely disease free!
So they see no need for condoms!

But is still risky though. E no dey show for face na.

Vinnie2000:
OP, it is because they know most Guys have low body counts and 'Fresher' diccks.
Guys don't Overuse and Commercialise dier private parts like most ladies, so they feel safe to fvck such guys!

I think you're right.

40fy:
Skibo!!!

Condom?? Real niggas like me don't use it!!!

You get mind o.

Emma2Seconds:
Waiting concern keke with seat belt

Very correct.......

Shalommy:
Rubbish.... Chaii

Am not lying my dear, am talking from experience.

Albertone:
How do you expect a carrier to be scared of what she is already carrying?

Hahahahahahaha
Comrade is too loud pls.

OBALOLA55:
WETIN DEY INSIDE TOW TOW PLENTY

Haba, things like what bros??

PerfectStranger:
That's how they go about sharing STDs like tom tom to guys.
Na only our regular oloshos dey strict on condom usage, the rest na express.

Lol......... pls be calming down.

There's something I've been noticing for a very long time, and it's seriously disturbing me.

I have come to realise that women hardly ask for condom during intercourse, neither do they even have any to protect themselves. For me condom is the number one thing that comes to mind whenever Sex is about to happen, but this girls dont care o, they just pull their pant and be waiting for action.

Now my question is, is it that they are not concerned about their health/STDs or they just care more about the pleasure?

myright:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2022/05/fresh-blasphemy-in-osun-arrest-akintaro_21.html?m=1

Pls, we should learn to respect other people's religion in other for peace to reign. We have pressing issues in our dear nation Nigeria which needs utmost concentration instead of all this blasphemy wahala.

Let's give peace a chance in Nigeria abeg.

Jennyclay:
If you can't maintain a high standard lady, then go to your village and pick a low standard lady. Learn to cut your coats according to your pocket!!

Love without money is nonsense!! We're not gonna eat love in the relationship. Who love help abeg?? Don't let Nigeria nollywood movies deceive you.. This is real life.

You better go and make money and stop complaining bitterly here. I can't even be with a broke man. God forbid it!!!

My dear stop endorsing rubbish, is only dependent ladies you'll see with such attitude. How can a young girl With life be begging like this in a relationship, and she still feel it's her right . Mind you, I didn't say asking your lover for something is bad, but her own is too much.

If yahoo boy slit her throat for money ritual now ya'll will come out and start crying justice vera.

You people(Nigerian girls) should just change your backward mentality , there's nothing as good as being productive to yourself and the society at large. Relationship is not business, but a love thing, and giving is one of the ways to show love, but know that is not your right pls.

Everything give me, give me as if the guy dont have his own problem.

Zonefree:
Go and make your own money and spend it how you like! You mustn't be parasitic all through the days of your life, you this evening Tribune newspaper!

Abeg e too loud.......Lol

damilola4162:
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He's Madrid-bound , psg should stop wasting their time.

Channah1:
With apologies to this fellow, I make this complaint.

Please, how can I handle this situation I found myself in this shared room.

I am someone who likes and respect peoples privacy and mine a lot and this was why it took me time to opt for a shared apartment until things got out of hand and I had to settle for it due to lack of sufficient funds.

The issue is about this fellow. The first night I got there, after a few mins she just went completely unclad. In my mind, I thought it was because she wanted to bathe, that she'll probably get into a nighty once she's done but to my surprise, she didn't. And the way she goes about unclad, bending in front of me is so disturbing. I feel like telling her to cover up a bit but I know I can't.
I know the weather is hot but hey... we need to show some decency here.

The first night I did that nonsense but that was after the light was turned off but yesterday, mehn... I couldn't continue so I wore my panties and later covered up a bit with wrapper but she'll just come and open everything waaaa... And its getting on my nerves.

This has got me wondering, so this is how this students leave their bodies anyhow?

I'm still trying to absorb everything about this new lifestyle because I've never seen such before. Though, when I was living alone, I used to go to sleep the way God created me. That is because I'm all alone. Not when someone is around. I can't

I asked the man in charge if I can put a partition, he said the fan would disturb it otherwise, I planned to call a capenter to come and partition my space. Its not too late. I might still get a mobile partition by weekend if I find something nice.

What do you think, fam.?

Lol.......send me her naked picture let me see if she's truely naked

YoudeyVexme:
Someone who Just did youth service already got a high paying job in nppc, while me that have graduated Since 2010 still struggling to feed from hand to mouth, no properties no thing to call my own. Meanwhile a cousin of mine already own 2 houses this boy I used to dash him 20naira for busicuit early 2008 when I visit my aunty, now he's 22.

Once you asked them for help and they give you once, they won't want to give you again. My heart's boil so hot whenever I see them on wheels driving expensive cars, A boy who doesn't know anything about life is already married with kid on the way. It wasn't like This when I was in my 20s, back then, we had to labour hard...farming, fishing and the rest to make ends meet..

Imagine, I had to go for house hunting last week and we had to wait for the owner of the compound, he arrived a young man expecting me to greet him first. I just called the agent I wasn't interested.. somebody that can't drag age with my youngest brother.

My advice for you is stop being jealous, envy has never helped anyone.
Learn to always appreciate good things and pray for your own ,God will surely see you through.

I know it's frustrating and it's not easy, but don't hate on them, always stay positive. Your own will surely come.