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TheDarkporeShow:
Thanks for the vote of confidence. I accept your nomination

Seun,

Kindly interrogate this dude. I never nominated him or anyone else but he found a way to manipulate his nominations. I haven't been on Nairaland today until this minute. I logged in only to discover that my moniker was used to nominate someone.

Thanks.

Seun
Mynd43
Dominique

No. It is too late.

Change topic. Kuda has doubled the cash amount. That lady has gotten over 10m in cash/gifts (household items, appliances, job offers, scholarship for her husband, health insurance packages, Twitter followers of over 60k), etc.


The baby in her womb is blessed for life. Grace is evident over her life. No stress, just soft life.

Dangote don finish our FX.

AI at work.


That stuff will recycle internet stuff for you without realising you've just copied someone else's intellectual property.

Ishilove:
Dakun, please where in his post did he state that he flogged her until her body was swollen? Someone else mentioned it on this thread and I've gone back twice to reread the post but I can't find it. Abi na me no dey see well?

Maybe he revised that comment. I didn't find those exact words either. I believed the poster because he (the op) did not deny what the poster mentioned.

I will not support the idea of beating/flogging a child until her body gets swollen. Beating, of course, is necessary but not to that extent. If I were you, I'll apologise for going extreme. That way, she can trust you again. Moving on, learn to control your anger so you don't end up in prison.

For every other thing you've done, 👍

The problem with toxic feminists like this is that they don't think men deserve any kind of love. Their definition of love does not include sacrifice.

His members are stup!d.

N800m for a movie produced in 2016/17 is greater than the N2 billion of 2024.

Statisense should know better. You can't make any reasonable and responsible deductions or valuations from your Naira-based listings. The Naira is too unstable for this nonsense.

Use percentiles ONLY.

Tzar:
Immediately the child can properly wash her privates, armpit and navel properly. I start teaching them how to clean those places by 2yrs old. My two daughters could bathe themselves under minimal supervision by age 3-4. They are now fully grown teenagers.
By age 6 they will not even allow me their father or any male in the same room or toilet when they are undressed.

Endorsed 💯

Jewessgratitud3:
Should a father even bathe the children in the first place? Ok, fine. I know sometimes they need to help the wifes out with some chores but how about choosing to do other things while the mother handles that?

We are all girls and I don't think my father ever bathe any of us. My Mom always had her sisters around to help out besides my dad was a very busy man in his active days. So by 6am hes out of the house. weekends are his resting days after doing some major house cleaning which is not all the time.

Na jobless man dey siddon for house dey find pikin wey him go baf.

Please let the women handle bathing of children.. if any man is itching to bathe his children let him go for the boys or forget about it altogether. There are other important things to help out with Biko.

Modified
Let's stop pretending like there aren't cases of fathers sexually abusing their daughters. In as much as such dastardly act exist, it is important to guard against it and prevent anything that may likely encourage it.

I said what I said.

I dey shame for you, honestly. Common sense should tell you that men of this generation do not need to toil the ground from 6am to 11pm like your fathers did before they eat. Unlike your father's generation, men of this generation want to be involved in their children's lives. Common sense should also tell you that not all families love the idea of turning their relatives to slaves.

Talkisneeded:
Glad plateau is getting the much needed media attention... So many things tends to go underground.


I sell herbs for sexual enhancement tho

Thank God for Twitter NG. Nigerians created the awareness on Twitter. International media got hints, investigated and made their publications. Days after, our everly sluggard and lazy Nigerian media decided to post.

SporaD8:
Her fault as the only girl in the family is you/your mum failure as her guidance!
I only read the first two screenshots and couldn't bring myself to read further - what a eyesore!
As a lone tongue in the midst of teeth's, your Mum couldn't give her enough sex education; you/the guys around are either not on the same page/too distance or perhaps, she learned from your numerous exploits(what a boy can do, a girl can do better); while the church sees sex talk as a taboo!
To crown it all, you bundle her to boarding!
In this internet age, what and where else did you expect her to learn about benefits of modesty/chastity to a young lady?!

What exactly would sex education do in this situation? I really want to know. Will it prevent her from searching the meaning of "c'um," moan, on Google? Will it prevent her from sharing nudes?

The church does not see sex education as a taboo. In fact, the church more than any other institution teaches you to respect and keep your body. What other "sex education" do you want to give an 11 year old child?

This child obviously has a lot of free time on her hands to wander away. Children who are her age are in church reciting bible verses, acting drama, and all. That's how to keep a child's mind busy and safe from the evils of this world. You can't give an 11 year old child a phone and sex education and go to sleep. You'll only wake up to a prostitute at 12. The more they know, the more they want to know.

If the things you know about sex today (i.e., STIs, unwanted pregnancy) have not stopped you from having sex, why do you expect a different result from a child? What a child needs is TOTAL and ABSOLUTE abstinence by whatever (preventative) means. Nothing else.

The fact that your mom has warned her severally means you must not spare the rod.

If you think that your child will keep her virginity just because you teach them sex education, then you are the most ignorant person on earth.

The more a child knows, the more he/she wants to know. A child needs close monitoring/"marking" and intense policing. Even Google, YouTube, Movies, Netflix, DStv, etc. gave you a tool called parental control. But you guys never used it. Instead, you gave a child adult tools and content.

You just can't warn a child or give sex education and go to sleep. They'll explore beyond whatever you may have taught.

Sex education will only help her to get better at what she already does, i.e., how to avoid teenage pregnancy, STIs, etc. There are better approaches to tame her completely untill she's grown.

Develop countries will always preach the soft approach until it's a Nigerian guy harassing a female child with nud.ity. Have you seen how they arrest and embarrass Nigerian immigrants in the UK who send nu.des to teenage girls? No go dull yourself o. Go hard before you lose her.

Vinnie2000:
True,

Dat's why our Senior Broses those Days could Woo for a Lady for 2 years, Without any complaints.

It's like the Ladies now don't have some Qualities that can make Guys go the Extra Mile.

Another angle.

GloriousGbola:
i disagree.

the first problem is that most of us [at least the older generations] were conditioned by western romcoms were the fellow was persistent to the point of being a stalker. even the songs we listened to advocated this as well

....but relationships/marriages of the older generations last longer, yeah? Maybe there is something the new generations can learn from them.

the other point is that a lot of women d friendzone guys [which is simply putting them in reserve in case their preferred choice of male does not come through /disappoints ]

this is especially true when women are younger and have a lot of toasters on their hands.

I agree with the friendzone part. That's the reason I indicated that men should use their instincts if at all they need to persist. Not all women deserve a man's patience and persistence. Remember that men and women process information and feelings differently.

Gerrard59:
Those men should be cautious; if not, they will termed "abusers", "sexual molesters" and the numerous mumbo-jumbo names on TwitterNG. But honestly, why would a man pester a woman for so long? It tells me she does not fancy or like him. Why date someone who doesn't like you as a person?

Some women have been deeply hurt and battered in previous relationships. They need some level of assurance. Some women are in some useless situationships and would need time to get out, heal, process things before saying yes to another. As a matter of fact, I would be careful with a strange woman saying YES to my very first proposal in a short time.

Persistence require some level of emotional intelligence. Sensible men know when to withdraw and when they're being used. No be every woman deserves persistence, truly.

Trust me, when you meet a woman that only needs some conviction, you'll know. Persistence will never be an issue. It's an instinct thing.

Men do that when they have several alternatives.

Some men are still persistent though. Men who know what they want.

No wahala ba. If dem born your papa well, come pass one way for Lagos. Without your uniform, a LASTMA will pick you up and there's nothing your papa will do.

SoNature:
I like the way this government is taking this issue seriously.

If it was Buhari's tenure, nobody would even notice this scandal. Buhari was always shocked, surprised or didn't even know what was happening around him.

Dude was clueless and incompetent and still appointed people like him to run the government. I don't think anyone can be as bad as he was.

At what point did you discover this though?

UyaiIncomparabl:
You know a lot of things. I like it.

Anyways, if them like, make them develop Nagasushi Blocks, boys go everly find way. How many people even use debit cards for betting transactions when transfer or walk-in and play options are present? Tinubu no go even try am. Person wey get pikin wey be “Agba tètè”. Ko ni danwo. Reno is just being an attention seeker. Let him mind the business that pays him.

No dey whine me


Nagasushi Blocks 😄😄😄

What do you mean by "bad blood?" Do you have HIV or Hepatitis in your blood?

A dunce. Like crypto apps, you can't ban betting apps. They'll simply change physical location and continue their trade.

The best you can do is to encourage banks to develop Gambling Blocks. Fintechs in Nigeria can learn from UK's challenger bank, Monzo (or DM for a comprehensive proposal). Create blocks that make it difficult for addicts to use their debit cards for gambling transactions beyond certain thresholds.

Why is your mother giving you eritan and afang leaves knowing very well that you weren't properly trained to do chores and meals? It's like asking your students to solve an equation you failed to teach them as a teacher.

adebabs21:
Good morning Mamas

I want to know if anyone has experienced this before, o ti sumi

I am 11 weeks pregnant, been spotting and bleeding since last month.

Doctor placed me on bed rest for more than 8 days, the bleeding didn’t stop.

Can anyone pls share their experience.

I don tire😭😭

Spotting and bleeding are not exactly the same.

[Some] fertility specialists will advise you take 4 tablets (10mg) of duphaston at once. Then 2 tablets daily subsequently with total bed rest. 90% of the time, the bleeding will cease.

You should be talking to a specialist.

Congratulations, Esthered.

Glory to God 🙏🙏

Nicepoker:
Because dowry is returned the new husband automatically owns someone else's kids. The way some people reason eh!. And you think the kids won't trace themselves back to their root?. Even the family of the new husband won't accept those kids.

Very funny people. I can't imagine how people make that argument after spending a significant part of their life in school.

No Magistrate or lawyer in this part of the world or anywhere else will sit down to listen to that cultural nonsense.

Chinjo2:
That's a big fat lie.
Yul will take the family to court and lets see if Ebonyi tradition is more superior to the constitution of Nigeria.

Very funny people. Like say Ebonyi people's culture will change Yul's DNA.

The main goal.

Trust Nigerians, we'll adjust.

In the first few weeks following the price hike, Nigerians will scream online, abandon their cars, and complain about empty streets.

After about a month or two, the cars will return. The typical heavy traffic will return as more people would have downgraded their living expense to mitigate the impact of fuel hike. From buying Ariel and Omo soap, they'll switch to Good Mama and Waw. Those who cook Okro with prawns, snail, and turkey, will adjust and shift to cray fish (those dirty types with plenty impurities). From eating 2-3 meals a day, more people will switch to 1.

More miracle centres will fix church programmes here and there as fewer people will be willing to spend money on drugs and clinical consultancy.

KFC has already introduced plantain (dodo) to their menu. Chicken Republic has introduced egg. This time, they'll be forced to introduce garri and akara.

Tribe A will blame Tribe B. B will respond with more blame games.

We'll do everything but protest...