₦airaland Forum

Yashita:
The rate at which African women pamper Asian hair wigs instead of their natural hair, baffles me.

You’ll see them touching, petting and caressing another person’s hair every second but their real hair is nothing to write home about.

Strange world tbh..

AoifeNightfall:
You think natural hair is cheaper to maintain?
Lol you never see anything.

Well, that's debatable. Before the days of social media and online vendors, women don't carry smelly hair.

The media has largely been responsible for what women use and put on their bodies. Many times, people just find and create problems where there is really none.

Nigerian men have been rocking their bald head for like forever. Some of us developed grey hair in our 20s and till tomorrow, I won't touch my head with any strange chemical.

He will lose interest because she's getting married? Seriously? Sugar daddy parole no dey pass this one.

pansophist:
And a well-nourished afro hair is very beautiful. Wonder why black women just prefer these fake hairs that screams inferiority.

Seriously bro.

I can understand why people buy used clothes and gadgets (i.e., cost saving issues) and human organs (life or death issues), but I can't find any tangible reason why anyone should buy another man's hair.

No, I won't. My style is to check IG vendors that deal on natural hair growth/care products.

You see that your natural black/African hair ehn? We will grow and nourish it together. You will do Ghana weaving ehn, you go tire.

You see this Peruvian stuff, I will NEVER buy or pay for it under any circumstance.

Yeah, let's end politics of bitterness but maintain politics of corruption and the politics of stashing dollar notes inside babariga.

Jidics:
That is the day you start respecting women. No matter their mouth

And what happens if you never get to see her in the "labour" room? You won't respect your wife?

Some went to the theatre not "labour" room. Others get done with delivery before they even make it to the clinic. Some went to the labour room and came out like nothing happened. Others are TTC, (in fact these ones have seen hell), etc.

Respect your woman for what she represents in your life. Do not wait until you see her in pains.

With 1m, you have no business feeding people who are obviously not hungry.

EreluRoz:
If you had a good mother figure she would have thought you about boundaries and respect.

Get yourself a good and decent mother figure to teach you home training.

It is okay to marry someone 20 years older, dear. I never said anything is wrong with it. But facts don't lie. You need a man that old to fill a missing link. And that's okay. Make peace with your reality 😊👍

UyaiIncomparabl:
Someone 10 years older than her is as old as her father? It would interest you to know that many women from well-to-do and sane homes tow this path and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Just as some people abhor relationships with a wide gap margin, others prefer the wide gap margin. Individual differences.

I never said anything is wrong with it.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

If you have a steady father figure, you won't ever dream of marrying someone as old as your father.

Get yourself a good and responsible father figure.

Do you go to a clinic and force everyone (patients) out because you want to work yourself to death?

Allow people find solace, comfort, and fulfilment wherever they want.

That church is the only thing separating some Nigerians from suicide. If they have to be there 24/7 to stay alive, please let them..!

That's all that matter to these born criminals.

In terms of crude politics, money politics, stealing ballot boxes, and supreme court grabbing tactics, you would almost want to give them a 150%.

Every other thing (from security to the economy, social, and environmental issues) is all below 0%

A family without children, yeah? Possible.

If you can survive on 50k salary as a single man, you will live a better life by being married to a woman that earns her own money.

The simple fact that you both can combine your resources and jointly deal with expenses such as rent and bills means a lot.

Doing these things alone will kill you faster than ebola.

I thank God for your life, bro.

Keep doing your best.

Coming from a dullard that moved the value of the Naira from N700 to N1,410 in less than 9 months.

His ignorant chanters and supporters are already disillusioned, but I imagine that by the end of his tenure, even Satan would find his performance disappointing.

Come to think of it, how does the Super Eagles' victory or loss put food on the table of the average Nigerian?

Nigeria spends ten times more on NFA than what it will ever get from an AFCON victory. A poor country like Nigeria with criminals in power and millions of nonchalant, docile, and remotely controlled z&mbi.e citizens should not be seen playing or watching football.

Na lack of sense dey make us gather to watch fallen eagle when Naira is falling badly. Wetin una dey celebrate?? They are bom.bing, kidnapping, and killing hundreds of your fellow citizens on a per-second basis and this criminal in power is talking about the performance of a fallen eagle. SMH!

I don't understand why and how an event you reported about a year ago led to this. What's the correlation?

I feel like a lot has happened over the past 12 months which, obviously, are unrelated to your daughter's molestation.

I also do not believe the impression that your husband acted unconcerned about your daughter's molestation (seeing the initial report you posted a year ago about his reaction and how mad he was about the issue).

His family's reaction is obviously wrong and evil. But trust me, nothing will ever come out of this case even from the most welcoming and sane family. You think they'll send that 15 year old niece to prison? Hell no. It will NEVER happen. The best you would get his some "serious" apology. As far as family problems are concerned, preventive measures remain unbeatable.

I think you should self reflect about your relationship with your husband in the last 12 months and decide on what to do.

As per your daughter's molestation, he probably feels more pain and trying so hard to get over it. If you think the men here will send their 15 year old nieces to jail, you better have a rethink. It's an unbearable pain. A man would be dying inside yet remain helpless. That's the situation your hubby has found himself.

None at all. Seyi Tinubu (probably) lives in one of his father's properties in Lagos/Abuja/London.



Poverty makes everything appear ugly and stup!d.

The people's president ✌️✌️

Not a bad idea.

This blue light dey always vex me.

Yahoo boys and local electricians' doings 😅😅

PrinceofSarcasm:
It's September to August

So if he renews his rent in August 2024, when is he going to pay 2025's rent? July? Then by 2026, he will be paying rent in May? Is that a sensible thing?



His rent is September to September. Period.

Jogs1900:
The era of northerners getting dollars easily from CBN is gone..That is the pain of the northerners.

...and the only way to stop dollar racketeering is to relocate an entire institution? Really?

What happens when a northerner takes over?

The way I love the word "precedence" ehn...


Do your worst (or best) while you can but don't complain when others build on your legacies.

Living in a country whilst thinking every second on how to reduce your risk of deportation or (improve your opportunity to remain in the country) must be really hard. Knowing that one policy change from the real owners of the country can truncate a decade of planning is even harder. You people are trying!

You need to undergo a serious leadership workshop.

Dmacqh:
Too bad man. My own mum is her obsession with sharwarma, ice cream, pizza. I no blame her, nah my last born wey spoil her. She's in her early 50's

Allow mama enjoy herself jare.

EbenezerTriumph:
Seun I coughed out 200k from my savings to buy a phone to my girlfriend. Currently she says we should stop speaking at night when once it's 10pm only to find out she has been engaging on late night calls with her new crush.
The house she's currently staying I paid for it, sent her monthly upkeep and regular surprises but when it's a up to a week that I last gave her gifts she'll start acting cold against me

😭😭😭😭

Language or dialect?

There's a key difference between dialect and language. A Yoruba man from Oyo or Kogi communicating to his children in Yoruba has not met your criteria.

There are over 40 dialects and versions of Yoruba language (Kogi has about 6 versions). Same applies to some Nigeria's major tribes.

So, you need to be very specific.