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Brandiebird:
I’ve never felt so validated in my single hood 😂😂😂😂

Imagine the madness people are going through just for love. Imagine all the heartbreak and suffering we hear about all in the name of love! An intelligent person will not survive a year within a marriage because the math won’t be mathing and they can calculate well.

The math won't math after 4 weeks.

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

mbahdi:
U mean to last long in marriage we must all be stupid?

Yes. Marriage is not for extremely smart people or people who want to make sense out of every situation. Marriage is not for extremely rational beings, people who want everyone to bring equal things to the table, or those who want to run marriage like a contributory pension scheme. If you're not ready to spend on a broke woman or cook for a broke man, don't get married. If you fail to choose stupidity, you will find yourself calculating every step and expense you make in marriage.

Dr Apoki is a serial entrepreneur sha. He has since abandoned medicine.

Fake news.

Animegirl:
Lies.

LMAO. Someone found a way to answer your senseless question and you say na lie... E shock you abi

You want to feel good about yourself because a married man with thick wife is asking you out abi?? Sorry, but asking you out doesn't make you better than his wife at home. No over think am.

dem shoot am?

IconicR:
Lailai no one in my family is that stupid to allow somebody's son to start messing around us
Lailai it can't happen, he won't even try it

Is love a joke to you?

IconicR:
Well, left overs deserve left overs
It's a cycle

Good...

So please, if your younger one falls in love with some guy you had something with 10 years ago, please let her be..

IconicR:
In a sanner clime it shouldn't be so
God forbids I have anything to do with an aquaintance ex not to talk of a family's ex lailai

No wahala. Bottom line is majority will end up with someone else's left-over las las.

IconicR:
Reality is different from this your online views and whatever
If op goes ahead then he should know he's the architect of an intending family feud which would have been avoided if he respects himself
I repeat he should leave that family

You're trying to get me to validate the spirit of jealousy, anger, and hatred. No, I won't.

I have seen women recommend their exes and male besties to friends for marriage. That's how it should be.

Make noise ke? With the internet you shut down during the sham elections? We no dey make any noise.

IconicR:
It's not about the man and his wife alone but the elder sister who is his ex
Family is not just you and your wife so never take decisions or do things that may affect others negatively
You'll be surprised this intending feud will eventually be inherited by the kids from these sisters
We must learn to maintain some kind of discipline when dealing with people
Op should leave that family and go far away to pick a wife

The older sister in alliance with her husband and children will leave their marriage to fight her younger sister's marriage with an ex, yeah?

No other definition for witchcraft. If that's how y'all women reason, then na una get problem... Whenever you're in a happy place, face your life and ignore all others.

IconicR:
Because she expect her sister to do better than dating her ex and also expect the randy ex to stay away from her family
There's no way it'll end well
Step sisters for that matter, the feud na till eternity bdat

It will end well for the man and his wife.

By the way, she's not an ex.

IconicR:
Why do you think she'll never get married
It's only on nairaland that that single mothers and ladies above thirty don't see husband but outside nairaland they are getting married every Saturday
My 65yr old aunt still got married recently
Nairaland is not real life

Fine. She will be married. So why do you think she'll abandon her marriage only to start hating her sister's marriage?

If you have your own marriage, someone else's marriage shouldn't bother you.

IconicR:
This is how men pay less attention to issues that may end up destroying a family
Women ain't the same as men in terms of dealing with issues like this
Don't start what you can't finish and most times it's not just about you and your partner, families and boundaries should be respected as well
If op had some dignity he won't even go after her sister
Abeg I hate unnecessary wahala op should carry his wahala from that family ahn ahn

Lol. Are you reacting this way because you feel the older sister will never get married?

...because I honestly don't see the issue with someone marrying an ex. If you're in a happy place, you won't even be bothered about who marries who.

"Women ain't the same as men" indeed. That's on y'all women to fix yourselves. Men won't stop being men because some women, according to you, have innate bitterness and jealousy.

IconicR:
Ofcourse op should move on very far from the family
You men always downplay this type of thing till it starts playing out and creating a long term family feud
It's very unhealthy for op to date from that family

As long as the op and his woman are fine, everyone else would be fine.

Everyone must not validate your relationship, by the way.

IconicR:
This is how you men cause enmity in families due to lust or whatever you may choose to call it
Why can't he respect himself and go for someone else other than that same family?
Is he the weapon fashion against that family?
He should respect himself and leave that family please

Enmity? How?


Did you read the part where the older sister got pregnant for a guy? So OP should not move on and live happily with the one he loves because of some 9 year old and long buried situationship??

Look at people's fathers

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Yes, as long as your new woman has no issues with your past.

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know?

Yes

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister?

Yes


Do not let anyone manipulate you with some emotional balberdash. The older sister lost her pregnancy, meaning she has long moved on and you don't matter to her in the scheme of things. If you sacrifice the one you love, na you lose.

YesDaddyTill203:
We are not talking about one brainwashed delusional IPOB terrorist cannibal masquerading as son of Lagos. You can have him your n3xt Governor of Anambra.

Typical agbado man with empty brain. Is this about GRV or the fact that fine and properly furnished technocrats refused to snatch ballot boxes for a drug baron??

After everything Prof Abayomi did for y'all ungrateful political criminals from abandoned villages, you expect a professor to snatch ballot boxes to qualify for the post of a "mere commissioner"?

The next thing is to tag the able professor an IPOB and ESN member. Awon omo ale!! The man is kukuma Yellowish Very easy to tag him an *alambla" man

May una camp never know peace for instigating violence and xenophobia in Lagos.

YesDaddyTill203:
If you don't win the election, how can you govern?
You can have some people work for electoral victory then you bring in people who have jot done jack to secure the victory.
I'm sure there are so called technocrats in the parry that he can Choose from.
Also, how in hell can you only 8 Muslims in the cabinet whe. Majority of the indigenes of the State are Muslims.

Lol. You wicked and evil men now care about Lagos indigenes? Interesting.

so pe otilo

Why are you surprised? With the right money, Reno can work against his mother.

According to agbado NBS, unemployment is down to 4%.

But here is agbado, promising his sets of z<>mbies 50 million jobs. How do you create 50 million additional jobs in a country where 96% of the people are gainfully employed?

God abeg

No one is surprised though. What else should an ex-convict do with his people's funds and resources? Investment?

Samantha124:
His mother could've gotten him arrested, but her love for him couldn't allow her to do it.

That is not how to love a child though.

Lutherblaq:
This is unprofesional na, how can a blog be stupidly and foolishly partisan?

i have observed your blog, and it never post any news against apc, which means that you can even share fake news to cover their short comings.

He is not a blogger. He gets paid by politicians to write anything.

He actually moves from one place to another, seeking politicians willing to pay him in exchange for writing sycophantic articles. He did the same for Oshiomole throughout the entire election cycle, and trust Nairaland to popularize any consistent nonentity.

Like Daddy Freeze, Reno Omokiri, and Ikirodah, just be consistent at the nonsense you write and Nairaland will give you the right audience.

Samantha124:
You can never rehabilitate someone who's not ready to be rehabilitated.

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Hmmn while reading your narration, I already got a strong sense of where the story was headed. The woman killed herself though. Overly emotional people always get hurt for the wrong reasons. That boy should have been incarcerated in a maximum-security prison a long time ago.

stevnwigw1:
where you don't have money for rehab?

No money for rehab? So which money is he stealing?

Asgard73:
He don’t think .. he just blab…

Ahmed is a fool.

That dunce has served at least three governments/presidential candidates, regurgitating the same gibberish each time.