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Politics › Re: Uncompleted Projects Slated For Commissioning During Buhari's Lagos Visit - PICS by adanny01(m): 10:56am On Apr 24, 2019
I will not forget how GEJ commissioned Abuja - Kaduna rail when it was about 80% completed. Till date work is going on on the Kaduna terminal.
Car Talk › Re: Are Mercedes Benz Cars Overrated And Over-hyped In Nigeria? by adanny01(m): 6:55am On Apr 23, 2019
laptopsale:
Coming from an uninformed blogger, Mercedes-Benz has a competitor for every category including a match for Rolls Royce.
Presently Benz owned the record of the fastest car as they broke the previously set record, and Volkswagen is presently the highest selling car not Toyota.
The problem is that it is beaten at every important category by other brands
Politics › Re: Presiding Officers: We Transmitted Official Results Directly To INEC Server by adanny01(m): 4:19pm On Apr 22, 2019
Neoteny:
SCR was designed to accredit. Voting was on ballot papers. How did you guys end up with this story of transmitting results from SCR to the server?
It was actually mentioned in the training manual.

There are 2 apps on the card reader, vote and e-collation. The vote is otherwise called IVAS - Inec voter accreditation system.

The e-collation app displayed an error when you try to open it. As a result the e-collation never happened as far as i know.

At the time, i thought that electronic voting is prohibited and the only lawful way of transmission of results is result sheets. E-collation would be illegal and should not be used, hence, INEC disabled it only for Atiku and PDP to raise a propaganda about it.

Inec said they didn't use it who is Atiku or PDP to say they did. Even if they did, it will be illegal to use it since the only lawful method of result transmission is result sheet.
Politics › Re: Presiding Officers: We Transmitted Official Results Directly To INEC Server by adanny01(m): 2:19pm On Apr 22, 2019
As a po, i didnt send any result because the app for sending results didn't open on the 2 card readers at my unit. I ask other po's at my ward and they confirmed theirs didnt open either.

So it means Atikus vote of 18million is probably larger since most po's didn't send theirs.
Politics › Re: PDP To Buhari: Tender Your WAEC Certificate At The Tribunal- by adanny01(m): 7:44pm On Apr 19, 2019
Here we go again
Politics › Re: What Onnoghen Will Forfeit In 5 Accounts To FG by adanny01(m): 4:45pm On Apr 19, 2019
candlewax:
so the government feels that someone in the CJN's category shouldn't have such amount in his account? shocked The whole money is less than N50m.couldnt he have legitimately made N50m all the years in service? It's understandable he erred to not have declared. Banning him for 10years and taking his money is a witch-hunt
Its not about owning the money, its about non declaration of accounts.

The case of how he earned the money is EFCC'S turf.
Car Talk › Re: 2013 Kia Rio Engine Swap/conversion by adanny01(m): 7:19am On Apr 19, 2019
If i were to be in your shoes op, i will be looking at a different direction. Not an engine swap but a preventative measure for overheating since that is the problem.

The challenges are enormous, to fit an engine to transmission, drive shaft, air filter and exhaust is the least of the worries. Getting the instrument panel, ECU, AC, electronic power steering and other things to work properly is the biggest challenge.

Since overheating is the problem, i would instead construct an electrical device having an input from ECT sensor, that will beep at 2 degrees above normal and then plugging a relay switch that will cut fuel pump power or other power that should kill the engine.

Normal cars are allowed to over heat but this car will not. A good electrical engineer should know how to get a circuit board that will recognize the voltage from the ECT using it to turn on the beep and the relay to turn off engine.
Politics › Re: Onnoghen Leaves Court After CCT Banned Him For 10 Years by adanny01(m): 9:38pm On Apr 18, 2019
Deepthoughts:
Go n cross check the CCB act, don't pretend you don't know or you didn't followed the saraki case at CCT.
Why are u afraid to quote the act? If you know the act as you claim, just quote it.
Politics › Re: Onnoghen Leaves Court After CCT Banned Him For 10 Years by adanny01(m): 7:15pm On Apr 18, 2019
Deepthoughts:
Yes the man honourably admitted his mistakes n what the law clearly stipulate is for him to be given the chance to clarify n make corrections after which if any further breaches are discovered he can then be, prosecuted but because the whole thing was a planned set up right from the onset buhari/Apc delibrately ignored the law n has use official Fiat to illegally made onnoghen a scape goat to the delight of zombies but I believe this matter will go up to the supreme Court,you people can choy to elevate buhari to your God n worship him but no matter what,it not everyone that is going to be cowed,nature has a way of always turning things around when least expected.
Can you quote that law?
Politics › Re: Onnoghen Leaves Court After CCT Banned Him For 10 Years by adanny01(m): 7:02pm On Apr 18, 2019
id911:
You're the one embarrassing yourself because you know nothing about the contents of the CCB Act as it pertains what we are discussing
Can you show a screenshot of that act you speak of.

The one i have has nothing like that.

Politics › Re: Onnoghen Leaves Court After CCT Banned Him For 10 Years by adanny01(m): 5:46pm On Apr 18, 2019
id911:
He did in 2016 and a new form was given to him and he voluntarily supplied all the information. The CCB Act says if, as a Public Officer, you forget to declare your assets in full, then you can admit the error, collect another form, fill and submit. The moment you do that you're innocent and not supposed to be referred to CCT. The Government violated her own laws just to punish Onnoghen
Why are you embarrassing yourself?

This CCT act you are talking about does not exist. This thing you speak of was the amendment act Saraki and the National assembly tried to pass after his attempt to take control of CCT during his trial but was not signed by Buhari into law. You keep mentioning it here and there but it negates the rule of law.

The CCB act says you must fill the asset declaration forms withing 3 months of assuming office or every 4years in office and at expiry of tenure.

There is nothing about giving you other forms. Just because you made obmission and it was brought to your notice. That was Saraki's proposal which didnt work.
Politics › Re: Onnoghen: You Are A Fraudulent Public Officer, CCT Rules by adanny01(m): 3:49pm On Apr 18, 2019
AroleOduduwa2:
I know, I am asking if a criminal case will be filed?
Its on EFCC's lap now.

Remember they wrote a petition to the NJC so the coast is clear for them to charge him now.
Politics › Re: Onnoghen: You Are A Fraudulent Public Officer, CCT Rules by adanny01(m): 2:15pm On Apr 18, 2019
AroleOduduwa2:
So no jail time? There is something wrong with this judgement
This is just CCT trial, based on this conviction, EFCC will now charge him for criminal offence which will attract time.

CCT is not responsible for the criminal offense, the High court is.

23. Powers of the Tribunal to impose punishment
(1) Where the Tribunal finds a public officer guilty of contravening any of the provisions of this Act, it
shall impose upon that officer any of the punishments specified under subsection (2) of this section.  
(2) The punishment which the Tribunal may impose shall include any of the following‐ 
(a) vacation of office or any elective or nominated office, as the case may be;  
(b) disqualification from holding any public office (whether elective or not) for a period not exceeding
ten years; and  
(c) seizure and forfeiture to the State of any property acquired in abuse or corruption of office.  
(3) The punishments mentioned in subsection (2) of this section shall be without prejudice to the
penalties that may be imposed by any law where the breach of conduct is also a criminal offence under
the Criminal Code or any other enactment or law.  

(4) Where the Tribunal gives a decision as to whether or not a person is guilty of a contravention of any
of the provisions of this Act, an appeal shall lie as of right from such decision or from any punishment
imposed on such person to the Court of Appeal at the instance of any party to the proceedings.  
(5) Any right of appeal to the Court of Appeal from the decision of the Tribunal conferred by subsection
(4) of this section shall be exercised in accordance with the provisions of the rules of court for the time
being in force regulating the powers, practice and procedure of the Court of Appeal.  
(6) Nothing in this section shall prejudice the prosecution of a public officer punished under this section,
or preclude such officer from being prosecuted or punished for an offence in a court of law.  
(7) The provisions of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999, relating to prerogative of
mercy, shall not apply to any punishment imposed in accordance with the provisions of this section. 
Politics › Re: Onnoghen Convicted, Banned From Holding Public Office For 10 Years. by adanny01(m): 2:00pm On Apr 18, 2019
Highest public officer to be found guilty by CCT.

Unfortunately, the dumbest CJN who actually admitted to the offense and still refused to resign while taking the not guilty plea.

See how Nigerian lawyers can mess someone but on this case that someone is the highest lawyer on the land. Its a series or multiple shame on Onnoghen.
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by adanny01(m): 8:26am On Apr 17, 2019
spyder880:
The only problem is that we don't have 9" solid blocks.
It is not hard to mould since you just need to remove the internal part of the mould, especially if using hand mould.

The only problem i see is the weight. It could be as heavy as over 1½ blocks.

Also, since foundation hollow blocks are required to be filled with lean concrete before casting DPC, is it not cheaper to use solid blocks instead for entire foundation courses, lintels course and roof beam course?
Car Talk › Re: Comparing The 2019 Honda Civic With The 2020 Toyota Corolla by adanny01(m): 8:24pm On Apr 15, 2019
Honda's giant leap into forced aspirated engines has been a good one so far.
Education › Re: Physics ABU Zaria Bad Result (Photo) by adanny01(m): 6:38pm On Apr 15, 2019
Jman06:
You people should stop making it look like all northerners are dumb. Many smart guys are there in the north please!

Besides, what made you think that all the students are northerners? ABU is in Kaduna which is one of the northern states with a high population of southerners and people of middle belt origin. Don't be surprised that almost half of the students are southerners.
Let me give them an example, Kogi state indigenes population in ABU and Kadpoly is second only to Kaduna state indigenes.

States with highest polulation in these 2 schools apart from Kaduna indigenes are Benue and Kogi which in my opinion take up to 30% of the school community including staff and students.

ABU is the most diversely populated university in Nigeria followed by Kadpoly. I had Nigeriens, Chadians and Cameroonians as classmates in Abu.
Education › Re: Physics ABU Zaria Bad Result (Photo) by adanny01(m): 6:15pm On Apr 15, 2019
themanderon:
The lecturer himself has failed and should be questioned.
Funny.

There are several lecturers for this course. There are also several groups.

Each aspect of the course is taken by a different lecturer. Electricity, Magnetism and Modern physics each has a lecturer.

For example, engineering offers the course, the faculty may be split into 2 groups because of the number where no lecture theatre can accommodate them as a single group. Each group is a faculty and if the group number is more than that which a lecture theatre could accommodate, the group is split.

So there are a minimum of 3 lecturers per group. Now engineering will have 2 groups having lecture at the same time. So 2 people will take electricity at the same time and so on. At the end, 6 lecturers take this course per group.

This means there should be a minimum of 6 people doing this course having 1 course coordinator.

The result shared by the op is for building department which is the faculty of environmental science group.
Education › Re: Physics ABU Zaria Bad Result (Photo) by adanny01(m):
myuniben:
Department of Physics Ahmedu Bello University earlier released the 2017/2018 session result. The result which was pasted in the department wasn't encouraging as many of the students had an F in the course.


Source https://www.myuniben.com.ng/2019/04/check-out-department-of-physics-ahmedu.html
I failed Phys 122 twice and passed with E at my third sitting.

The course is too bulky for a 2 credit unit. This course did a lot of damage to my CGPA.

When ever its exam is conducted, the time table for that time is cleared such that all lecture theatres are used up and to help avoid clashes for carryover students.

At the time i passed, 2 of my classmates still failed and spilled over another year just because of this course. They wrote it a min of 4 times since i wasnt around to know if they failed a d wrote again.

The other problem at our time was Math 342, the very wicked lecturer was later fired. He was plain wicked such that he doesn't answer questions during lecturers. There were 2 lecturers for the course and each had his own test. As the course coordinator, he saw the test results and questions of group B, he was furious and promised to deal with us.

We gathered money, bribed some final year maths students who have access to his office for the exam questions. Guess what, having that questions overnight only got me a D. Question 1 was compulsory but he never thought us whatever it was. Even the brightest guys we could find could not solve 2 of it.

ABU is known for these things.
Family › Re: My Neighbor's Divorce Is Imminent by adanny01(op):
Mizwisdom:
You know too much about this family, seems you gossip about them a lot. How will you feel if someone knows this much about your family? good luck
How is it my fault that the wife shouts on top of her voice, telling everyone who is not deaf all the issues and provokes her husband to beat her after everybody shows up. Even my children asked me, "where did Mummy Moses go to after Daddy Moses slapped her".

A family that engages in public fisticuffs and you call it gossip. The woman is sleeping in my neighbors house since last week Friday, she would have been in my house if i were not around, my neighbors house is convenient only because her husband is more than 800km away.

Find another word, gossip does not fit the description.

Besides, if anyone wants to gossip about my family, they need some information to gossip about. Where will they get it if we keep it private.
Politics › Re: Which Government Institutions Is The Most Corrupt? by adanny01(m): 7:51pm On Apr 10, 2019
Gboy101:
I need the top 10 most corrupt government institution in Nigeria for university studies. from my investigation here are list in order from the most corrupt. I need your help

1. Nigeria Police
2. Nigeria Army
3. Nigeria Immigration Service
4. INEC
5. NEPA
6. Nigeria Embassies
7. Nigeria Costume Service
8. Nigerian Prisons Service
9. Nigeria road safety
10. Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps.

you can assist with this research.
1.Police
2. NEPA
3. Customs
4. Embassies
5. Immigration
6. Prisons
7. FRSC
8. NSCDC
9. Army
10. INEC
Politics › Re: Wike, Ganduje’s Election Victories Under Threat by adanny01(m): 5:09pm On Apr 10, 2019
fairfora:
If you say ganduje, I'd agree with you because it was a day light robbery the party perpetrated in kano that day. But on wike's issue, it's not negotiable. He would win if rivers election was conducted 100 times.
Rivers na moon light robbery abi?
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by adanny01(m): 12:25pm On Apr 09, 2019
Tammynator:
Gurus in the house, I have a question that has been bugging my mind for a while now.
Sirs/mas, if I'm going to do a DPC ( pour concrete on a DPM), why then should I bother myself with all the partitions during the excavation of the foundation? Why not just get the external diameter, and make some partitions and leave the rest? For instance, instead of digging toilet, ante room, parlour dining, kitchen, store, all the rooms, etc. Why not just a selected few out of all those and then, do the full partitioning after the DPC has been done. I hope I'm understood. Thanks.
Just do it to avoid future cracks.
Politics › Re: Buhari Unproductive Foreign Trips - Punch by adanny01(m): 12:04pm On Apr 09, 2019
Lame, so he was away 3 days, would Nigeria have changed for the better if he had not gone anywhere?
Health › Re: I'm Suspecting My Girlfriend Has Given Me HIV by adanny01(m): 7:15pm On Apr 08, 2019
positivevibez:
I'm the faithful and loyal type due to my fear of infections. I started dating this girl since June last year she looked innocent not the runs type we dated for three months before we had sex the first time. I used condom a couple of times for one month before I ditched it believing she's faithful too.

Fast forward to January I became suspicious of her when she picked a call in my presence and a male voice was talking to her when I inquired about the person she became all sweaty and nervous which rose my suspicion and denied that she doesn't know the person she received several calls like that until I got fed up and stopped her from coming to my place.

A week later I developed a serious cough coupled with a sore throat a month later I developed rashes on both my upper arms and last month I experience vomiting in the mornings for three days I suspect she might have contracted HIV because she experienced similar symptoms too I'm too scared to go for a test is it too early to go for a test please I need your advice no insults.
HIV no be death sentence, its easier to live with that Hepatitis B. Just pray you dont have Hepatitis B.

If i were you, for Hepatitis sake, go for test immediately, the sooner the better.
Family › Re: My Neighbor's Divorce Is Imminent by adanny01(op): 9:48am On Apr 08, 2019
Richy4:
OP, before u start writing to Pope John Paul the II, regional, national and international over this issue I need to know certain things ..

I know that The Good Book says somewhere that blessed are the peace makers for they shall be called Children of God.. so apart from separating that free for all fight that day, what have u done to ensure that they have peace and harmony in their home..? have you called them separately and advised them?.., Do you pray for peace to be restored in their home or you are prophesying doom of how divorce would be imminent?

Yes, specifically my wife has brought them as a prayer point several times in my family devotion. During the last ultercations, i begged this man to give me audience he said sorry, he is not it the mood for any chat with anyone. He doesn't not socialize with neighbors and i asked him to accompany me to a badminton game so we can talk, he refused. Last time i suggested he spoke to her pastor, he didn't. I have at some point spoken with him, he admits his wrong doing in the beaating but the bulk still falls on the wife who would bluntly not accept a single fault. They share a semidetached flat with a neighbor so he hears their every fight. She will apologize to him for the noise and he told me he told her to try and obey or show some respect to her husband. She said he is defending her husband because he is a man. Clearly she doesn't need any advice since she said to everyone who cared to listen that her husband and no one can stop her from going to that church. My wife told me she confessed that the husband asked her to chose between that church and her marriage. She told him point blank, the church is what she wants.

I concluded their divorce is imminent because her pastor who she adores so much has asked her to move out. She has sworn in my presence, she is not going back to that marriage. She has already paid for an apartment 24hrs after the fracas.


Secondly.. I want to correct an impression u made.. I have no idea that one's niece could be called a house help... if u got that notion then it is incorrect.... Also my bible tells me that one can divorce on the grounds of infidelity...

I did not refer to her as a house help, i did say they are supposed to have a mother-daugther relationship.

Yes, one can divorce based on infidelity, however, the same bible says anyone who sleeps with a divorced woman has committed adultery. In other words, a divorced woman must remain celibate. Besides, we are not talking about infidelity here even if it were the case, it is not practicable so a woman is always advised to stay married despite infidelity. May be separation for a while but not divorce.


Thirdly...Since u know the root cause of the family problems and u wants to help, can I give you an assignment? The assignment is this;
I want you to book an appointment to meet that lady's pastor, tell him what has been going on in your neighbour's house and how he has contributed in disintegrating your neighbour's home... Tell that to him in a calm manner... no fighting... Also quote the scripture that u quoted before about putting asunder what God has joined together... if the pastor is married, then get your wife to ask the pastors wife if it was OK for a married women to stay out of her matrimonial home late against the husband's wish.. That can she herself do that? All of this should be said without confrontational stance... Just a concern neighbour way...

If u do this, Then I will truly know that you wanted to help.. but if not.. I will know also that u don't mind your business.. u are kinda nosey... That is a challenge to u Bro..

Yes, i thought of that. What stopped me is that my temperament wont let me. This entails me going there armed with knowledge and verses and ready to put up a debate. A person who is a pastor is vocal and can debate while i am not so vocal and will probably lose my temper. Infact, i stay away from ordinary arguments. When i lose my temper i keep mute or walk out and that will defeat the purpose. One advise i gave the husband was to bring his pastor who could probably earn some respect from this pastor, but the husband didn't do any of that. Besides, it may become a church vs church thing which the husband's pastor may not want to engage.

Being nosey is the last thing i am. My wife sent for me when it started, i heard them and refused to come out until other female neighbors asked me to come since the know from the way the wife was going, it will soon be violent. True to their words it became violent less than a minute after my arrival. The fact is, i have my fair share of marital issues which no one knows, its this woman's fault for not keeping their business indoors. Left to me, i didn't want to be there.
Family › My Neighbor's Divorce Is Imminent by adanny01(op):
This couple moved into the neighborhood 3years ago with their 1yr old and the husband's 14yr old niece. They moved to the town because since they married. They weren't living together because of work station. The wife got transfered to be close the husband.

According to her, their problems started after moving here since the niece was imposed on her upon moving here.

When they moved here, being married at an ECWA church, they didn't immediately choose a church to attend. Meanwhile, she was my wife's friend and wasn't a new person in town having grown up and schooled here. Her first Sunday, husband away, she decided to attend the nearest church. The nearest churches, 5 plots up the street are 3 set of popular churches and the ECWA a stone throw away. The ECWA is where my family worships and have never gone to church with my car cos its less than 2mins walk. This church she decided to go is the prayer warrior type of churches which appealed to her type of person.

Her husband wasnt a church person and kept to himself 100% of the time. He only later discovered an attitude change and discovered that she now attends service at this church. He barred her from going there but no, she wont adhere. She would ask my wife to come and corroborate lies when she attended night vigils and other late night church activities. Several times he came home unannounced to find she wasnt home for hours and late nights. He will lock her out for days. Whenever he does that, she runs to the pastors house. There, the pastor feeds her with evil thoeries planned against her by everyone around her. Meanwhile, they were not in good terms with niece so the niece reports her every movement.

Their fight became violent a couple of times, largely because the wife is unrepentant and a chatter box.

Clearly, the niece had no respect for her and downright disrespectful to her and most people around.

Now, there were other serious family issues. She was pregnant which had to be evacuated due to bleeding issues. She bled for about 3 months, had several transfusions, D&C repeat about 3 times. What helped was that she was a nurse and got treated at her hospital. Her MIL came and this woman accused her of masterminding the pregnancy loss and her health issues claiming her pastor told her. One day, i had a reunion with my classmates having 1 too many beer, came home 1am by 2am she was bleeding and they begged me to take them to the hospital, i drove out of the gate, she entered while the hubby was picking things they needed at the hospital. He was wasting time so she said she will walk to the church and we should pick her there. 2hrs later we were still in front of the church honking. I was pissed when one church pastor came out after 1.5hrs saying we should exercise patience. I insulted him.

She later accused her husband of trying to kill her after she dreamt and got interpretation from her pastor.

The hubby said whenever anyone anyone visits, she will spray the persons foot steps, seat position, stool, cutlery etc with holy water and anointing oil. His mother or relatives have sworn not to step his house. Her uncle and relatives have tried to call her to order.

The niece has vowed (according to the niece friend's account) to deal with the woman. She staged a disappearance, and was brought back a week later by the husband only come home and find his wife wasnt home at 8pm. She was in church.

The woman insisted she will not stay in the same house with the girl accusing the husband of having sex with his niece and the niece of being the problem in her marital home claiming that that was what her pastor told her.

That accusation and the noise caused the husband to slap her and was going to seriously beat her until i restrained him.

She has decided to move out from the advice of her church pastor.

My opinion
The WIFE has been misled by a pastor. She believes every thing the pastor says and will take his word to who ever he mentions, so she ends up with enemies everywhere. Her defiance led to marital ultercations that led to violence at home. Even though she thinks the girl is responsible of her problems, she is her own problem. A wife respects, defends and submit to her husbands opinion. Clearly she is not ready to be an obedient wife.

The husband thinks beating her would make her respect him (a barrack boy), but beating her in front of his niece is disastrous. It is telling the girl to disrespect his wife so his action cause a permanent stain to the mother and daughter relationship his wife and niece should have had. He was also reluctant to confront the church and the pastor himself even after i advised him to make wide consultation with his church and her new church.

The niece has been a stubborn girl, my wife barred my househelp from interacting with her after the girl encouraged my househelp to disrespect us.

The pastor has put asunder. When this couple were joined together, the minister said, "what God has joined, let no man put asunder". Even if all the other things he told her which she used in destroying her marriage are true and correct, his last comment actually advised her to move out of her marital home citing violence. This pastor has made one attempt to intervene, his attempt met a brick wall since their visit was only to ask him to formally give her consent to be their member, he walked them out.

It is my believe that no christian denomination supports divorce.

I am thinking of writing the church national, or regional leadership to call their attention to this issue. I believe this home was broken beyond repair by a so called man of God.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Arsenal (1 - 0) On 7th April 2019 by adanny01(m): 2:24pm On Apr 07, 2019
braveboy64:
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Family › Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by adanny01(m): 8:38am On Apr 07, 2019
1Sharon:
Yes I'm Nigerian. I'm glad that is the only part of my post you picked at.
From your posts, you seem to have lost touch of the Nigerian reality.

You based your entire posts on lack of sex education as the main reason the girl got pregnant. I cannot confirm if my mum had given all the girls who grew up in my house sex education or not since i am the only boy who grew up entirely in the house.

You didn't ask yourself this question, if my mum didn't give sex education (in line with your suggestion), how come no one ever got pregnant except this girl?

There are 3 adopted girls with my parents at this moment, 1st came to the house at age 7, she is now 24, an NCE holder and final year undergraduate. Why didn't she get pregnant from lack of sex education?

The 2nd girl is writing WAEC, she too was demoted because she couldn't read when she came at primary 4. Her mother was my late cousin and my baby sitter when my mother gave birth to me while schooling. She never got pregnant.

The 3rd is not a year old in my house, just like the pregnant girl, she was demoted since at 9 she cannot read at all. My 7 year old boy reads, my 5 year old reads better than the 9yr old. Are my parents the cause that this girl cannot read?

All these people my parents used their hard earned money to train and feed, relatives and non relatives alike, you think they don't have better things to do with money? I grew up with a lot of people in my house but my parents had only 3 of us. Dont you think it would have been better to send us abroad instead of wasting money on other people.

Inspite all this and a lot you have no idea about, you think its appropriate to blame my parents? You have certainly lost touch with reality.
Family › Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by adanny01(m): 5:59pm On Apr 06, 2019
1Sharon:
Here we go! Thanks for coming clean.

You say sex education for someone in pry 6? You know the talk doesn't involve only sex right? They could have at least told her about periods to start with. I know nigerian parents are scared of the word sex. You said it urself, the girl hadnt even finished puberty and yet she got pregnant. Despite being an 'olodo'

Some kids in pry 6 start to go through puberty, their body is changing to an adults. It makes sense to have the sex talk with them before or during then for goodness sake

How did she get all the way to p6 anyway without knowing abc? I know ur exaggerating
Are you for real? Are you a Nigerian? You sure dont sound like one.
Family › Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by adanny01(m): 4:12pm On Apr 06, 2019
1Sharon:
I'm sorry, none of all that matters. Where all 3 girls given sex education? Or was the last one left out?

You said I didn't say what they did wrong? but didn't you see my post about periods?

That was a red flag.
Sex education to a girl who was in primary six but couldn't memorise ABCD-Z? Are you from the moon?
Family › Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by adanny01(m): 3:22pm On Apr 06, 2019
1Sharon:
Yep, ur family was in the wrong sorry.

And many others here coming to complain how a 14 year-old maid got pregnant
Let me tell you something about my parents. My father as the eldest trained all his 12 brothers, sisters, half brothers and sisters, 4 cousin sisters, 7 of my mum's nieces, 1 grand niece, 3 children (1boy and 2 girls), 1 adopted daughter and 3 non related girls. Out of the 3 non related, 2 went up to tertiary schools but this girl is the only girl who got pregnant out of wedlock and the only drop out. This is the only girl my teacher parents had to personally teach her ABCD and how to read.

I owe you no explanation but i remember one line in a movie i watched, "assumption is the mother of all fùck ups".

It makes no sense to say my parents were wrong without specifying what exactly they did wrong when you have no idea of the circumstances. You judge people you have not heard of or met. Na wa o.

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