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Kobojunkie:
1. You sat without a job or income for 3 whole years while your wife had to carry the load that is you and the kids all by herself for all that time?

2. Women dey see things in marriage for real! So basically, because some other woman could be willing to carry him as her load, she should hold onto him as a load instead?

3. The worst of it all is God, who made clear that marriage has nothing to do with His Kingdom, is always being roped into it all by those without a conscience.

Kobojunkie!!! The moniker says all.

I hope your mother is safe, pls spare her.

preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.

My whole world is crumbling.
I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.

I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.

While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.

Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.

He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.

Now my regrets...
* The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.

He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.

I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.

I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.

Now our rent is due, no money.
I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.

When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now.
I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.

Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio

I met my wife a virgin. I was also a virgin. I dated othe people before we got hitched. I met and broke off with other virgins.

My experience with virgins is that they always delude themselves thinking virginity is a gift that will ensure them a perfect partner. They seem to think there is a reward for their chastity.

Madam, there is no reward for virginity in our current world, The fact that you are still mentioning it means you are still hoping for the reward. You expect God or your husband to reward you with everything your heart desires. Life isn't that straight forward.

I have been in your husband's shoes and have refused to do a job my friends are doing and making money from.

It is obvious you are not contented with what life has given you and feel you deserve more.

My advice; your chastity is in the past, contentment should be your present, prayer and hope is what your future needs. Your husband needs a loving home and a caring wife to encourage him.

U have 3kids, I am sure you know someone that has tried but doesn't have kids. You have a husband, even as a broke guy, another woman would love to have him. Count your blessings and pray for more. Continue to be the foundation your husband stands on.

What if he gets money today and start womanising or marries another wife. What if you get money and lose your home. God knows what we don't. Maybe these challenges are to make your home solid and stable before success.

There's only one fact, Atiku can't win an election in Nigeria. He is on fishing for back door.

Even if Tinubu is 100% guilty, Kwankwaso it is.

Funny enough, Nigerians are ready to vote a devil (Tinubu) than an Atiku.

Till now I can't see what Nigeria will gain from Atiku.

There must be something we are not aware of that he is fighting this hard for.

A man who's hands is not clean is ready to bring down the same institution he wants to head, how do I trust him?

DolbyDigital:
But how much is this ball joint and where can we get it?

About 10klast time I bought but there's still no guarantee u get direct toks.

To get direct toks its better to buy the complete knockle arm which will be 20-25k.

Programmer47:
This is a classic case of sensational dementia.
The beauty of truth is when it is time it will come out and then you'd shift your argument to the next whatsapp update.
It's sad to see how low Tinubu has dragged not just the judicial, but entire system into the mud

Who dragged Nigeria through it Atiku or Tinubu? Is it Tinubu that went to court home and abroad?What's Tinubu's part in the fracas? Who is fuelling it and who will gain from it? If the Supreme court throws Atiku's case out you will still shout when there is no proof that Tinubu forged his cert.

There's still no proof of forgery but social media is agog with parts of the deposition without recourse to other parts.

Tinubu predicted this will happen and you ridiculed him.

oteneaaron:
You can confirm the details for your self bro.

Please take some time off your busy schedule and read through the 218 pages of the Deposition for yourself.

Here is the link to the uncertified copy ==> https://www.scribd.com/document/675520235/Atiku-Abubakar-vs-CSU-Legal-Deposition-UNCERTIFIED-COPY

It is called uncertified copy because it still has some grammatical errors, remember this is a direct transcript of the Deposition.

The certified copy will be out soon where it will be easier to read and the grammatical errors would have been fixed.

The main point is that the Registrar of Chicago State University clearly stated under oath that they can't authenticate the certificate Tinubu submitted to INEC.

If they can't authenticate it, then it means the certificate Tinubu submitted to INEC was FORGED.

And he was asked if he has a reason to doubt the INEC diploma he answered NO.

He was asked if they keep records of diploma reorders he said NO

You are also aware that those who signed the INEC diploma were in office from the 90's, doesn't it look like Tinubu is using a reissued diploma? Why would you assume it is fake if nothing suggests to it being fake?

If someone can't authenticate a document because of lack of proper records, does it mean it is fake? Haba!

Incognito9:
Automatic transmission is often viewed as a driver aid, but in Formula 1, the emphasis is on the driver's skills. That's why manual transmission is preferred, allowing the driver to have complete control over every aspect of the race. Additionally, when it comes to drifting around corners, using manual transmission is generally considered easier compared to automatic transmission.

F1 uses semi automatic not manual.

Manual are only for enthusiast these days.

profmallor:
Formular 1 cars have a restriction on fully automatic gear systems because it gives undue advantage to the car as against the driver's skill. This implies that automatic gear systems on the long run provide more speed to the driver due to the efficiencies it offers.

Good point.

Automatic knows what gear. when to shift and changes the gear in microseconds depending also on different modes of driving. This is achieved by a computer that has several sensors.

All that skill cannot be easily done by a human. It's a skill only for the best. Even for the best, the computer changes the gear faster leading to the semi automatic transmission in F1.

A lot of newer cars don't have manual options because the average driver thinks he knows how to drive a manual but will burn the clutch in no time.

wunmi590:
Good day Niralanders,

I was just wondering, from the topic above, do foreigners really fancy Nigerian education to enrol in it?


Throughout my almost 14years as a graduate, I always see school fees for indigenes, non indigenes and foreigners, so this came to my mind again, if people travel all the way from abroad to study in Nigeria?

I had Chadians, Nigeriens, and Cameroonians in my class and faculty in ABU.

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

Where are the kids on your plan to find sex?

I'd rather cheat safely than damage my wife and kids life. That's me. It has nothing to do with my father.

If your father and mother are still together, why are you taking taking him so serious. He has no experience in this regard. In fact, no 2 marriages is the same.

Chart your own course and don't let your dick dictate to you.

Racoon:
So terrible one man put Nigeria on the world map for the very wrong criminal reason.

That man is Obi.

He and his band of hooligans are not tired of loosing, they are hell bent on dragging Tinubu and this country through the mud because they are bitter losers.

buygala:
As a lawyer myself, I have never seen where the CTC of a Court document, more importantly a Judgement, will bear the imprint the mark of a party to the case.


The only explanation for this is that Tinubu's legal team applied for the Judgement CTC, got it, then electronically added their mark to the scanned copy before uploading it online, for full disclosure of the uploaded CTC's source.

If that's the case, I see nothing wrong with that..

Before Obi and Atiku's team cry blood and raise their usual false alarm, they should try getting a physical CTC of the judgment themselves, and see whether it also has that Tinubu Legal team mark.

PDP was the first to get the Certified True Copy and theirs didn't have the watermark.

I am disappointed in PDP, LP and obidients.

iammo:




Mumu Obidient

I laughed so hard when they complained about the header and the watermark... Each an every documents by Sahara reporters, Premium times all got watermarked, doe that mean they printed it


.

This is proof that obidients are actually dull.

TheBillyonaire:
The Judgement was written by Tinubu Legal Team and submitted to the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal panel to read.

They were paid off handsomely.

I hope Tinubu succeeds, I wish him well. Now I know crime pays, and not every criminal can be caught. Peter Obi needs to understand that Good can only defeat evil with a tint of entropy. There is need for the good to wage war for liberation of a people.

Obi supporters are the must gullible people on earth.

What a shame that some one would believe such a water mark will appear in a court of appeal official document.

It has to be outright ignorance or pure mischief.

tinsel:
In the unlikely event of decisions against, he will still be the president until he is done with the Supreme court. I get annoyed with all these kids in this forum.

1st sensible comment on the thread.

I have Katsaridaphobia (fear of cockroaches) (more like disgusted at their sight), Arachnophobi (scorpions) Ophidiophobia (snakes),Musophobia rats. I don't like wall gecko but I can tolerate it without necessarily killing it.

I also have aquaphobia.

Serendipity2023:
Is there any scientific reason why I have diarrhoea ("purging" each time I eat Nkwobi, Isi ewu or Abacha?

Is it the potash or pepper?

I also have diarrhea anytime I eat noodles, peppered meat and many pepper soup especially if it wasn't prepared at home.

In fact, I have diarrhea 5 days a week.

garfield1:
The lady is 30-35 not 44.by the way,why did ganduje nominate her in the first place if it was unacceptable?

You have not read her profile. She was born 1979.

Elsueno:
This is clap trap bullshyt, U are talking as if d northerners are some beast who attack any unmarried woman they see...

What happened with d shetty woman is just Ganduuje doing his usual selfish crap as she isn't pro-ganduje BUT PRO-APC...While d northerners outcry on twitter is just a side effect of APC omulabi propaganda trying to blow up d woman's qualifications as d best in KANO & MOST LOYAL TO APC..

which d average northern elite on Twitter found insuting..Because they are other youths, including women in her age bracket who have far more impressive CVS & necessary experience.

IN SUMMARY, NA KANO APC WAY REJECT HER NOT AREWA TWITTER WHO PEEPS THAT CANT EVEN TREND A harsgtag..APCs better be wary of dat ur chairman sha, woman way tey dey spend days on campaign trips with APCs since 2014, adanny01 think talking yo men is a taboo for her at midnight...politicians way some dey visit sex shops with ashawao 4 dat matter

I have said the word on the streets. No Kano politician would come out directly to say what I have said. But that's the main reason they all came out to reject her.

The position will not fit an unmarried 44yr old female Muslim. She can't be a leader.

It's not just an opinion, it is what I know. The Kano I know where a woman doesn't sit between men in public won't like an unmarried women in every political event.

You probably have never been to Kano to understand.

Bisimuyiwa:
Can somebody please explain to me why the woman was replaced. What actually went wrong is not clear to me. Thanks

She is unmarried and never married.

Imagine, Muslim men having a political meeting with an unmarried girl at 2am. Imagine the thoughts of the men who see her as fair game. Even the thought is a sin so many of them would not like such a meeting.

Imagine a governor having a private political meeting with her in her house. The public will think otherwise.

A lot of such sceneries won't sit well with a lot of dedicated and even nondedicated Muslims.

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Whatever you do, just keep both pregnancies.

Mind you, I am not an anti abortionist.

My Ex must see me.

My spouse to get divorce letter

GreatVocalist:
Same here.

It comes in a flash, and it's difficult to control.

I find it hard to pray sometimes.

DCmaverick:
My last card is #1,000 and am thinking of managing it for the next 3days. I need advice on hw to manage it.
please help a brother

Tuwo Masara da Miya Karkashi with enough daddawa.

The soup only wants pepper, salt and onions

kowalsky:
The resale value for this accord will be lower than Toyotas of same year.

It's a fugly car. That's pretty much general knowledge among Honda enthusiasts. In terms of design and feel the exterior of this car is in absolute shambles especially when compared to its predecessor the 10th gen accord.

Agreed. This unit is overpriced. MSRP for new unit is somewhere in the 40k range and this is used asking for over 50k.

Just say you hate Honda, no one will contest. To call this car fugly when so many professional reviewers love the car compared to the Toyota of same year.

Most Honda enthusiast didn't like the 10th gen but this brought relief.

Personally, this is the most beautiful Honda ever.

One major reason I don't like Toyota is that it is always over valued when used. Real value for a buyer is when you buy a good car at a low price. Only sellers get value with a Toyota, buyers have to deal with higher price which isn't commensurate to the real value of the age of the car.

Also, don't lie to yourself that Toyota holds value, it's bullshit economics. When you buy an over valued Toyota, you will overvalue it when selling especially because there is demand, but the devaluation in between is same as any other car (except for those luxury brands like Range Rover, Porsche, 7 series, S class etc).

lifezone247:
Yes, yes and yes. AC has nothing to do with fuel consumptions. It’s uses gas when the engine is running. Make una stop that mentality abeg.

Oga chill, it does but a little too small to be significantly affect milage especially on city driving. For highway, the fuel consumption especially on modern cars is insignificant.

youngdad:
Watch the roofing style its flat.Not much wood and normal zink
1.5m can finish the block work.1m can finish the roofing considering the style
The remains money goes for windows,painting,electrical and plumbing.
Let's stop exaggerating things so that people can be encouraged to own their cute houses.
From my experience last year,if I had listened to people,I would not have finished my own house.

U didn't mention a major thing, the slab. That slab can easily take 1.5m

84mgve27:
My friend you're talking about la la land, not real life.
There is PRECEDENT in Nigeria for delays in enforcing SC rulings.
There is no such precedent in a country like,say, USA.
Nigeria copied the American presidential system without having any of the things that keep the American president in check - such that not a single American president has ever delayed enforcement of a SC rulling.
The same thing that delayed enforcement of other SC rulings would also delay removal of the president until the decision is magically reversed. That's real life!
Yes, Tinubu did not put himself there, but once he is there, he's the only one who can remove himself - because he alone controls enforcement (military and police) and his total loyalists are in charge of them!
Anyway, all this is moot because, like I said, it is virtually IMPOSSIBLE those judges will rule Tinubu did not win the election!

It's the supreme court that will declare it and its the CJN who is the head of the Supreme court that will act on it. Not the police, military or anyone. Whatever order that will come from Tinubu is null and void after the pronouncement from SC. As soon as Obi makes himself available to the CJN, he will be sworn in without delay.

Why do you guys always think like kids. You are comparing a constitutional to a criminal case. Kanu's case can end today and DSS can arrest him at the gate of the court with a different charge.

When Imo governor was removed, how long did it take to swear in new governor? Go find out the almost dozen times a government is removed by court.

The only reason that this case has already failed is because it is genuinely lacking of merit.

What's is Obi asking for?

He won? He came 3rd
Nullify election? That's absurdly impossible
Tinubu a drug baron? Prove it
...
Bla bla bla

Grow up

84mgve27:
But Obi has to be sworn in first and the only person that can allow that is the president! The same judges that ordered Kanu released and nothing happened? They'll now order the president to remove himself! With what army or police will they enforce it? Nigerian presidency is ridiculously too powerful with virtually no checks and balances, aside the fact the judges themselves are APC politicians (never mind the pretence - u have to be to be appointed by APC)

Complete falsehood, if supreme court declares Obi president, Tinubu ceases to be President immediately and Obi will be secured immediately and sworn in.

What happened when Yaradua died is exactly what will happen.

Did Tinubu put himself there, The same person who swore Tinubu will swear in anyone the supreme court declares as the president.

Stop sharing ignorance.

You dare not compare Nnamdi Kanu's case with Presidential election tribunal.

DaddyCoool:
This case is NOT about what is the law. It is about who are the judges. ALL these judges were appointed by APC and can be retired by Tinubu who also has the power to appoint them - and have whoever he appoints swiftly confirmed by the APC senate.
Bottom line, this is a kangaroo trial

Your post is clever by half.

If Judges can be retired or appointed by Tinubu, the same judges can be retired or appointed by PO if they make him the president.

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UCyril:
Hope everybody can now rest, the girl is fraudulent and she has to be punished to serve as a deterrent to others

It is bad that the recommendation did not include making her face the law.

At some point I sided with her and couldn't believe a young girl would do such thing. She most likely had an accomplice. That's what should be investigated and all of them should face charges of forgery.