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my advice is that u should try enrol to any Nigeria university to study business related course or if u have the money go to Lagos business school to sharpen ur business idea more, during the course of ur admission process or when u r In year one or two u can get marry bcus u might not be able to go again when u marry before d admission. school is not for seeking job but to be able to create job n to widening ur memory towards ur business...........30 is ripe for marriage bro if not almost over ripe. good luck.

Gkemz:
Dunno what to say... If you decide to succumb to his bidding, your job is secured but as long as you continue to satisfy his sexual desire thereby ruining your future but if you reject his advances, though you may most likely lose your job, but your future and reputation remains intact. You can politely make him understand why you can't do such and most importantly you have to set your moral standards straight.

the job can only be temporarily secured cus she will soon fade n immediately her boss started hating her after many round of sex he will not hesitate to get her out n bring in another nice looking chicks, secondly, she will start dropping in value( not taking her job serious) once she is having affairs with her boss which will definitely earn her way out letter cus her boss will not tolerate dat especially after he has been satisfied sexually. be wise n don't allow the love of money ruin ur future/glory.

From all above posts, the truth has been said but only for you to decide. for every phase a man attain he must not neglect the place of prayer cus the more u go the bigger the challenge n the only weapon is prayer. take the place of prayer serious n not only for the scenario alone but all time. anything can give u job but it takes wisdom , knowledge, dedication n relentless prayer to keep it. don't give ur self to something that will take ur joy for life(look beyond now n sees future cus d regret comes later). wish u success in ur trials.

people have well spoken, the ball is now in ur court to know how to play it. the major thing is that u should at all cost be self reliant/dependent by getting a job or anything that can make u put food on table and don't be much bothered of him again. do things for the sake of ur dear child. I wouldn't advice u to leave the house because things might turn good after u have taken some of the above steps........Note: learn from ur mistakes and don't allow ur children and other people around u fall victim again cus u suppose have seen this coming while dating. best of God.

This is a welcoming idea and it will go a long way to relieve lautech of her semesterly crisis if properly looked into by the two states and settle it amicably by releasing it to one state. The dual ownership crisis has nearly collapse lautech to a bottom list uni. in Nigeria. I am happy to hear this news.

I support restructuring and it is the best way to go cus we can't compare Nigeria with other countries (we differs in all things) but there is approach to every good plan to turn out as expected. we must first agreed that we need restructuring and every state must see d need for it, it is on that note that individual state will then be force to look inward for their potentials and strength cus state must be self reliant before we can now sign into law the agreement. in simple term, let every state sees d need for it n ready for it, with that they will stand for responsibility it will require dem.

thesame way nigeria was put in mess by shagari before buhari came in was with oga jonathan but nigerians will never detest from their attitude of impatience because i never understand how a nation put in crisis for yrs can be expected to change overnight. Buhari never spend 2yrs then when he was overthrownd by selfish nigerians. I still believe in buhari if only we can give him time. Great Nigeria.

only challenges make giants. Without d challenge ur mother inlaw put u by sending ur babymama packed to joined u when it wasnt convenient for u makes u work harder n become who u r today.invariably,ur mother inlaw is part of those who make u a man today. Appreciate her n help her with d bill. No one will embrace her/his daughter after been impregnated prematurely by a guy.

Abyam:
i love the multinational job, but a tot on how i ended with my former job makes me have a rethink.

dont eva be fear of past n stop taking step but count ur past n take bold step to correct d cause. I will prefer multinational cus it built ur career n make u go wide unlike lecturin dat will limit u to academic environment n not beyond prof.

sincerely,u cant get any meaningful advice aside all u r hearing nw. All post before me are powerful n reasonables.pls,take more of ur time to work with the guy to fully confirm who is he b4 u finally take action,dont rush; take best of ur time b4 ur last dicision.it is better to live in d forest dan with a visionless man.

a friend of mine just returned from spain where he went to study n he decided to return to serve his father land after he graduated but he was told not eligible due to his age. Pls,hw can he get NYSC exception letter.

Keneking:
You mean NYSC?

yes. NYSC exception letter

a friend of mine just returned from spain where he went to study n he decided to return to serve his father land after he graduated but he was told not eligible due to his age. Pls,hw can he get NYSC exception letter.

a friend of mine just returned from spain where he went to study n he decided to return to serve his father land but he was told not eligible due to his age. Pls,hw can he get exception letter.

hinwazaka:
The OP does not know the layman's definition of DEMOCRACY. Perhaps he thinks, it is Government by force, to rule the forced and created by the forceful.

it is not possible to be completely democrat to serve nigerians better, to make every wrong right one have to apply all form of leadership including autocratic. UP PMP

until we stop mixing appointments with ethnicity we can neva get it right. Many president came n do it d way u expected but nothing good eva come out of it:only dullard does same thing repeatedly n expect different result, what we all clamour for is beta nigeria but forget to ask hw it will be realized*a well n meaningful leader serve with all available form of leadership be auto or demo*we've entrust power to PMP,we have to allow him drive d power.

sincerely, i feel ur situation n empathize with u. I will advice u to off ur beleive nw n act as if they r not planning any evil until u get to the depth of the issue,even when the wife comes out to u, u can still tell her it is not good for u to do dat to ur boss wife,u can do dat till ur boss is finally involved n u people can by then come to table n discuss d issue which i will advice u not to accept such.u can resist urself to d level i've spokien.i wish u well.

Unsad:
You guys must Sha fight, I thought ifa was in charge of choosing. Smh.

they will have to solve inter family crisis before d intervention of ifa on intra family. Ifa will select d right candidate out of those dat are interested amidst d eligible family(giesi).

a brother in need of any pay job before service. i am a fresh graduate of mechanical engineering waiting for service come this october. I stays around Idimu/isherin region of alimosho.my number incase of any assistance.......07068292560

policy against dollarisation is a way out of dollar slavery. Nigerians has in d past embraced dollar to d extent most of our big men dont even mention naira any more. This is a country where our currency is naira. It is neva d attitude of a developing nation to drop his own way of live n wear another country's own. Road to change.

what a great movement by a enviable president. May d lord bless d mission to yield a successful outcome.

this is a very serious issue which one have to take with a wise heart. Scripture says wot God joins togeda nothing should part. For every successful n effective home there must be an effective togetherness,house can not be divided n acheive. U will have to come matured n speak with ur wife since she has accepted to marry u she will have to accept ur totality but if she disagree u can tell a superior u knw can handle d issue well.just be calm n not be disturbed.God will bring back ur house to d one u aspired.

sincerely,i love this thread. It is not to boo any class of grade but to encourage people especially d first class graduates. I always say this to my friends back then in school "if first classes are not deligently careful 3rd classes will be bypassing them"why this satatement is that most first class graduates do reply n sleep on their certificate rather than bang into the world and ask what world is asking from individuals to be a first class personality. We have to understand that life requires more than certificates.certificates can only give a start but deligence n perseverance place one on top.

marriage is a matter of choice. U can decide to marry at 22 or 30,it is ur choice. My own personal conviction is once u r capable in both cash n wisdom,because i am very sure dat a man dat cant fend for his home is a complete disgrace. U must be atleast bouyant in cash and also wisdom, wisdom is wot build home.maturity n understand has dier wings on wisdom.pls,fully take charge n dont allow external pressure to determine ur marriage.

firstly, i congratulate u for been a graduate. It is arrantly not ur grade dat determines ur future, ur future will definitely b determined by ur perspective to issues of life.pls,dont ever bothered urself on ur grade bcus thinking will neva add anytin to u but will rather reduce u.instead continue building urself on woteva relevant to ur field dat can sell u more. if u r capable,u can opt for MSC as d time last. Whichever job u r unable to secure is not for u,so u dont need to be disturbed,keep going.i wish u d best broda. (mat 6vs21-34)

been a fresh graduate waiting for mobilization come October, I just want to hear the opinion of house on the best place to serve in Nigeria; the best in term of job opportunity and other related benefits.

my sincere advice will be for u to try d lady as long as her physical appearance is acceptable.I can say dis only if u r not d one DAT cheated on her in d first place,it may be DAT she realize she had hurt u n she is lookin for a way of paying back.I once had a lady like DAT who can at all length do anything for me all to please me for what she has done.just try d lady n knw who she is.

[quote author=sunky2sweet post=28182957]U think Lautech boiz got anytin 2 think about, wu is d richest niccur in Lautech? Lamide will b d 1st name u think of, compare him wiv ds dude, ol Lautech boiz knw abt is partying wiv sum locals, d boiz wu made Lautech knwn ve ol graduated, d likes of Abere,kunle deficile,Tade,kudus,Toye,nature,Oriola,Popo, or do we talk of dt dude wu stays @ AK bellow, he used 6cars ryt dia in d estate wivout sellin any, ds dudes ol got lots of investment.....[/quote na so u sabi ladokite reach,una just dey mention.

depending on ones plan. When u r plannin to remain in academic,u will find it interesting going for ur masters immediately but in d case dat u r optin for company work,i will prefer professional course but i will like u to have some experiences in ur field of study before goin for any course.masters immediately is like one is plannin to be a lecturer but for professional programmes,one is bending towards experience but my advice is one should know wot n wot his/her field really required before goin for any course.best of God.

i agreed with been patrotism,but if they should returned the money to be use in refurbishing nigeria football system,i can quarantee us that the money will only be shared by d so called NFF body.i pray the nation graduate to a trustworthy one.

i be sure ladokite................omo ladoke owo loke(lautech)