₦airaland Forum

keepingmum:
Oga it rains everywhere ohh. So hold your wife close.
There are no wife materials in the abroad thats why our men come home to marry.


Watch war room whilst at it. Many marriages are been attacked oh. Stand in the gap for your home as the head of your family and pray the devil away. Shower her with more love, attention and money and watch her fall in love with you over again

If this is a sarcasm....nice one.....
Altogether ..this is not the kinda woman u hold close..

edimina:
All in the name of protecting the kids to the detriment of my own happiness and sanity.

Protecting ur kids?? I don't get
How does remaining with this kind of person translate to protecting ur kids....
. Well if care is not taken ..the man that wants to piss on ur head may be ur children's step father... How that for protection??

Unclebayo:
I was heavily downvoted for my opinion on Reddit

It seems most of the Nigerian on Reddit r/Nigeria are from UK/US

The first post is the OP thread
The second post is my comment.

Please what have I said wrong.

U dare to mention APC....
How can be tell struggling Nigerian "is it not under the same APC they acquired japa funds" ??
As if u don't know many borrowed... Many sold homes they built when naija was still better for cheap prices just to get out ..... U nor try.

BloomingDale:
Give me an example of those laws here in Africa. I know African men don’t like their wives and children enough to try to protect them like that. Those laws were made by the white man to try to protect his woman and children.

The man doesn't need protection because he's not a human being?? Abi it's only women that experience street in marriage.....

..... Laws that make women eat their cake and still keep it are not protective laws ..they are biased and oppressive laws passed by unfair humans....

U only support it because u are on the enjoying end....when the tables turn u cry fowl.. Ordinary men saying they want virgins and they they wont give women money on nairaland and u guys are already crying to seun to shut them up

be sincere, in which universe, time and space will agree its okay to share ur property and keep paying a man that u are no longer married to and is already with another woman...??

Adele ddnt pay her ex what she owed him even though she was liable by law....now she had to cime up with an iron-clad pre-nup when she married another guy that he wil get almost nothing if they divorce..... U pple know whats good u just like pretend when the bad is favouring u...

Obakoolex:
Many things.
Now what's wrong with being married??

Many things Like what....??

I never told u anything is wrong with being married...u are the one automatically trying to make being single look like something forbidden

cjswitch:
Lol, you talk like you know something but you don't. You say I can't think why it's worth the prize, can you say why a 2013 ml350 foreign used goes for N20m now as against N14m it was sold for earlier this year. Or any other car for that matter. Because you have 500mb data you think you can come online and spill whatever that comes to your head.
Anyways, thanks for the comment, it helps

Lol.....he is getting triggered .,..
.u are comedian.....so U want to hide under exchange rate....Bros if an ml350 looks like this camry then it's not worth even 10million even if exchange rate is 2000 naira to 1$ . U are the one coming online thinking talking whatever without considering depreciation...

Lol....

DerFuhrer:
It’s not about affordability. No reasonable person is paying a mil for that.

He can't even say why he thinks the car is worth a million..... uhe just thinks someone will be stvpid enough to pay..Some of these used car dealers are funny.... He even said "clean" in and out....

Funny...dem don burst werey.....

If na them.... ...them go say he is immature..for exposing the chat....
Dem go report to seun say na attack against their gender.....

No gree for anybody,.....

Obakoolex:
So he should remain single like you for the rest of his life

What's the problem with being single??

GloriousGbola:
You also need to decide what you want your legacy and posterity to say about you. You post links to sure home marriage seminars. Well, the culture of misogyny promoted on Nairaland does not support the home - it supports baby mamaism because if these boys actually follow through on the rubbish they are swallowing - that will be the only option for them

U guys are technically trying to blackmail seun and silent others...what has seun's posts on marriage seminars got to do with other people's views on not wanting to get married?

So, because the owner of this forum post about marriage seminars once in a while...no one should give their views in not wanting marriage but just having kids??

Since when did not wanting marriage and preferring the baby daddy or baby mama become a crime or rubbish as u claim boys come here to swallow, or an attack against women...?? U and all these women crying attacks against their gender are just unbelievable.and only want to silent others just because u don't agree with their opinion....

I am a fan of marriage and love....but that doesn't mean I should silent those who prefer not to marry but just kids .......it's their choice ..marriage isn't for every1....

some people are not wired to cope in marital arrangements. ..and there are plenty women who don't want marriage too .....but to you its rubbish because when boys read it on nairaland they will not want to get married ...hence it is injustice against women...... shioor

Proserpina:
Okay you win. You have the last say.

Can I have some peace now?

Lol..... U ddnt have to respond if u don't want to or jump into my mention in the first place....u are the one not giving urself peace over people's comments

Proserpina:
In your delusion to be right and have the last say you failed to realize I stopped giving a fvck about the topic since first page.

You my dear friend will be alright.

Again....are the one crying over people's comment....u are the one that needs to get better

Proserpina:
Grow Up!

For your Epistle, roll it up and dip it into the deepest hole in your body. I give no flying fvck dude! I typed what I typed.

Grow Up!

E pain am

Jackie999:
He has asked and spoken to his wife. Like 6 months ago. She agreed saying she has no choice but now she's always complaining that he does not have time for her anymore... that's another problem

What has her complain on him not having her time got to do with him being with u that u claim he loves ??

If a naija man u claim is doing financially well wants to really really really marry u ...madam u won't be worried about anything except aso ebi, and the dance moves u will chose on ur wedding day...

Proserpina:
And somehow you think this is my loss because.....

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U are the one expecting men to act the way u want and then get triggered..u are the once playing victim cards all the time expecting guys here to be give u baby girl treat all the time...

Seun shared his experience and y'all have started crying forming some strange solidarity for the entire women folk.....you are the ones that need to stop these victim card playing because of something someone posted

Why will u think anyone will pay u a million for this??

Proserpina:
Ermmmm I didn't read.

Grow up

That's my point!

Wateva.....grow up or not ...we won't still do what u want....

Confused chick can't decide if she wants to be a second wife to a naija dude she loves scatter and been dating for 3 years but broke up with yesterday......

I didn't see it in her write up....so I'm not sure the guy has asked her to be his wife...

She nor know say naija dey craze........
.never assume anything with a naija man he has not taken action on.....

... Naija man can have side chic for 10 years oooo.......they can cuddle after sex, kiss u in the fore head and credit ur account well...but they are never confused with where their heart is..

Proserpina:
The only thing I will say to you males on this forum and it's founder is y'all should grow up! If women come to Nl to cry at every bad experience caused by men, generalize their experiences too like you do, you all males will have no tales here and would label them all sort. Unlike you women hardly whine about everything that comes their way but overgrown male babies cry everytime things don't go rosy. Grow tha fvck up!

Sometimes I wonder how you lot reason. Does your comrades cheers and gossip make you feel better offline or what? I don't get it! What's really in it for you.

So your woman offends you, you come here to report.. your fellow judge and label her, calls her names and then what?

GROW UP Abeg!

Grow up? immature??... lol ...Madam these lines are so stale...look for something else ...Once a man doesn't do what u want y'all call him immature, not a real man, weak man.....

... If guys come here and post experience that involve praising y'all most of the time.... yall won't complain ......many of u come here wanting guys to be all over you, calling u dear and honey....so u can feel good and use them as usual.....

.....but yall dont like seeing the comments that includes their experiences of women doing them dirty......abeg carry ur manipulation to the the men else where...... As if you women here don't call all men scum, rapist, cheats, and the likes...

Ishilove:
I see people here saying a woman's love is conditional, women are ingrates and other allied fallacies. Ingratitude is a human vice that has nothing to do with gender, race or ethnicity. I have helped both sexes in the past and the ratio of gratitude and ingratitude were evenly spread between both of them. Just last month I sent a token to a junior colleague who's child was hospitalized. She never acknowledged the money till today despite seeing the receipt and receiving the alert. On the flip side, another lady in that same office who was gifted a certain amount of money from me at a much earlier time still occasionally reminds me about it to thank me. An ungrateful person is an ungrateful person regardless of their sex.

Saying a woman's love for a man is conditional is a fallacy of hasty generalization. I was raised by a woman who loves her husband and family unconditionally and has sacrificed a lot for them. All the men I have ever loved received unconditional love from me, and even if there are conditions tied to that love, it is natural because if I love you as a person and all you do is cause me pain, eventually that love will die. That means that the condition for that love to be sustained is for you to reciprocate it. Loving someone and expecting to be loved in return is not limited to females alone, is it?

This is why I say ignorance abounds in this thread. So many people have not yet come into full understanding of balance and harmony in creation.

U sound angry.. or is it me??. One thing on this forum is that ...while comments can sound/read general...they usually stem out of a premise and carries a context....

"Men are scum", just like "women fvck around" is spoken with context driven by the experience of speaker. .....of course we know all men are not scum and all women don't fvck around...

And yes..every bad human behavior except for paternity fraud is not gender specific ... Still it doesn't change the fact that a most men has seen shègè in the hands of women, when it comes to money

Ishilove:
Disgusting and ignorant comments all over.

Foolishness abounds

Lol ...u dey vex??
I don't get it ..mU women don't ever like hearing a man talk about his bad experience with women...
..u only want to be presented as baby girls, saints incapable of wrong, to only be loved and cherished always ........until ur sons and brothers are in the receiving end...

ExudeLoveToAll:
That's the word you know now misogynistic , what is misogynistic and how does it have to do with him expressing his life experiences?

U don't know women.... They never want to see any truth that exposes them

Omo...See bullet big like marker wey lecturer dey use write for board....

codedgalaxy:
They say "too much of stuff is bad stuff"
I wonder is that includes, blessings as well.

It's a vise versa thing....

Blessing can become curses...(if taken for granted, not managed well) ...Nigeria and many african nations are examples...if u have time check out "resource curse".. also known as the paradox of plenty or the poverty paradox

Curses can also become blessing opportunities....with Research, positive attitude, and never say die mentality... in the olden days, the whites once considered their weather/climate a disadvantage...but it's one of the factors that made them better thinkers, because necessity is the mother of invention..

matthewkotin41:
Let’s have this discussion again after your tight VJ lady give birth to your first and second kids.

I hope u know there's CS...

Thundafireseun:
Apart from tormenting JOB with the permission from God …

Can you name one evil /bad thing the devil has done??

Feel free to quote from the Bible

U have time oooo.......

Biglittlelois:
Well I don't see anything wrong with stating the tribe of a person who did wrong, the only issue is insulting and demeaning a whole tribe because of an individual's offence, so pls be specific.

Also, we are yet to see your stance on Anti female, insultive, degrading comments and threads, because if you notice, most male tend to term women generally for the offence of one, and as a result of that, most of us rarely comment like before, pls look into it.

If it's not to drag the tribe...So what's the purpose of mentioning the tribe after seeing the name of the perpetrator of the crime??

SharingIsLife:
Bro, ah ah, but na their Allah nah. Na your Allah? Na you go tell am wet in him Allah talk? Na wa Oh! Ha!

In case u haven't noticed...tl
Saying that Allah said this and said that... Is why we have so many evil in this world.....it's their tucket to killing their fellow man because of their hatred...they will say Allah said their fellow human beings na infidel... that they should kill, kidnap, use as sex slave....

madridguy:
Your point exactly?

If u don't Gerrit...
It's best u forgerrit

madridguy:
Impressive. Polygamy is for the benefit of women, it is designed by Allah for every woman to be under the umbrella of a man.

If u want to fvck plenty women under one roof..go ahead.....

Allah did not sanction it....infact Allah did designed more than half of what u Muslims claimed he sanction....