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englishmart:
I'm planning to tell her husband, who happens to be an acquaintant of mine. On the other hand, I'm considering the consequence. He's been suspecting her of infidelity, and this could finally nail her.
I will be very glad to destroy that marriage if need be.

Be like u nor like the woman at all....??

Karmar03:
then get ready for your love ones to die
They are gonna wreck marriages and destroy your brothers and sisters

Monster unleashed

At the end of the day u guys have erection and can fvck women and orgasm....your women can also fvck men..... so what exactly are u pple crying about....


.weda u can legally marry ur gay partner or not.. ...yall will still go about fvcking women and engage in ur crazy sex lifestyle....

nobody is stopping u from doing ur madness now.. because the fact is...weda gay or heterosexuals, everyone is doing their madness behind close doors....

Nope.....
Nope....
Nope...

Not gonna happen.....if u wanna kill ..go ahead

Magnoliaa:
And let's take it a notch further then to agree that the concept of headship in marriage is bollocks since a man is no more better at being sensible or using common sense, etc., than a woman is.

The concept of automatic head in marriage in marriage is biblically driven....if u are religious and want to follow it....it's left to you....... It's works for some ..it doesn't in homes where one partner takes advantage of the other person....

Weda there is an appointed head by bible or not.....leadership in marriage naturally and seamlessly sorts itself out over time... Sometimes it's the partner that makes most money that calls the shot....sometimes, it's the person that knows how to keep things together... And sometimes, sadly it's the bully.

Namaster:
Masturbation is a tool. Use it.

Sexual assaults and other sex related crimes will reduce drastically if people learn to use masturbation wisely.

Lol...u think rapists don't masturbaté?? They are probably the heaviest masturbators.....

Having a wife or wives at home has not stopped adultery..... Having plenty money doesn't stop pple from embezzling and theft..

Saying masturbation will stop rape or any other sex related crime is truck load of fallacy

Rapist don't rape only becos they are hórny... They are psychological impaired people

The prey-predator scenario is a thrill for them I.e being able to take advantage of someone less powerful...

just like pleasure moans of a woman excites men in consentual sex..the pain and shouting of their victim excites some of them....some even want their victims to beg and cry

..the forceful/struggle of their victims is what makes some of them do it....the struggle gives them pleasure

They are sick pple..all the masturbation in the world won't tame their desires....

realG101:
Lol, this is hilarious but true.

The difficulty in men upping their standard as you advised is that, the percentage of women who are in the working class is very minimal compared to the demand for women by men.

If I may take a guess, the ration of working class women to men is like 1/80.

That's the reason nigerian men are forced to settle with leechy women so far the woman can at least look attractive.

And that is the reason many of them get abused by their rich husbands in marriage.

The recent trend now is young girls preferring to become a 2nd or 3rd wife to a rich guy instead of starting and growing with a promising young man.

Availability of decent working ladies is not the reason....the problem is Nigerian men just like to settle for only pvssy and women that are far beneath them......and that's why men marry all manner of worthless women not even fit to be married...

yusash:
, he said I will go for biometric but I won't appear for interview ... am new to it please advice

It depends on the visa....we don't know the visa u applied for.....
..some require interview and it will be done same day with the biometrics....

Application can be done from anywhere there is internet as long as your details is available..
What u should be afraid of is ...is ur agent legit
Nairaland cannot confirm that for you....


The worst u can do is go online and check the name of the company on UKVI sponsor list if they at least have right to hire from oversea

Pele....

FifthTribe:
Thank you very much. Its just that am the first person the company is sponsoring and its a big organization in the uk, not black owned.

Okay...

Well..wateva the case...u have no choice than to wait for the employer to settle with UKVI...

U go dey alright

FifthTribe:
Please i got this mail from home office. I have send a copy of the mail to my sponsor company. Please how can i get details of the situation as i hVe apply since august;

I may be wrong....still...it maybe that your employer's licence is under temporary suspension pending addressing an issue...(this has been happening lately to some sponsors)

. Many of these nigerian dorm care agency don't pass basic checks of the Care Quality commission....so they place such under partial suspension and give them time to rectify the issues

If they successful settle with the quality commission....home office will lift their suspension and applicant with pending visa application can scale through......if not, suspension will turn to license revoked....and pending visa will eventually be refused.....

U can try asking your employer what the issues is ..but I doubt they will tell u the exact issue especially if it will affect ur visa

yusash:
please I need advice, I was introduced to an agent based in UK to process my traveling documents. my question is, is it possible for all documentations to be carry out from UK while I only go for biometric after application... please I need your advice before I make the first payment.. I was bill 11k pounds non appearance.... thanks

First u said u'll only go for biometrics .....later u said it's non-appearance??

Which one is it...stay one place...

Ajheboy:
Always telling me she believes in me bla bla bla.

I have never given her a dime, we go out and I buy stuffs we take together, when I discovered she has guys she's also chatting with, we've been having issues constantly of how she has changed this and that, we chatted yesterday and she sent this to me.

Who do you feel about this?

She gave u terms and condition.... it's left to you to Deal with your discretion

Most Nigerian women can never stop being parasites....forget it.... Most of them are broke and always dream of making it life through men....if most women were given a wish that will come true... they would rather wish for a man that is rich, instead of wishing for their own truck load of money....

men are the ones that need to up their standard to stop dating broke, stingy, jobless women.

Soliddust3030:
Bro to be honest with you she said 30k plus, I felt I didn't hear her properly cause I was cleaning up my compound. There was one other 1 she mentioned that next to augumentin that increased their price too because of demand, not zeethromax. Bro the people when talk that 35k they talk true.

Ur wife don add extra

Hendrixky:
If not that the first game was interrupted and canceled
It would have been 13k straight

But they have to void it because the game was interrupted

So I won 4k

Follow me on telegram: @psgokay

U no dey post ur losses....na when u win u dey open thread...

Efftyy:
Please I want to ask if there is any Update or proposed update for Dependant visa for healthcare workers

I did not hear of any update ooooo....

Theweekend:
na ogun go kill barca na dem cut my ticket ov 2.5

Lol...

Theweekend:
abeg u get any 2 sure odds make u give me

Nothing like sure odds..... Aston villa collect, Barcelona don collect this night.....

Babastrong:
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My Opinion is free ...whatever anyone likes they can do with it......

Fulgur:
So as it happens in Canada it ought to be acceptable in Nigeria. This is summary of your post.

Pathetic!

That's not the summary...but u are free to reach whatever conclusion u like..

Theweekend:
Op show us love small na make i drop aza

Come on stop that rough play

Any small thing give away...no go play your own jackpot

Now how wey Dem no go split this country las las

Babastrong:
..

...u are living with a mad woman, but to you separating from her madness won't give u peace.....Lol.... They have reset ur brain with women talk.....

....only strong man can live with mad woman

Only strong men can date single mothers with 7 children

...only strong men can tolerate a nagging woman that wants to kill you

....strong man this ...strong man that..

Since when did divorce bcome cowardice?? Where did u get this from... Even women trying to manipulate men don't use this line..

Abeg......enjoy ur mentality.......I am not interested....

MightySparrow:
Not the solution Sir. I was in the same shoe years back. More than twenty years ago. It has not solved anything. By the nature of my work, O left home 2008 and visiting occasionally. The problem now is. When I retire, is there a home to return? I am racking my brain to see if I can have houses in three locations. My village, which my wife doesn't like seems to be the best option. I would retire there alone. She could be jumping from one child to another. Life after retirement is a dread to me.
I will not suggest divorce because of the children, but it is the best option.

Men suffering in their own marriage.....a marriage u are bankrolling and working ur àss off to keep alive .... Una dey try oooo

blowjohn:
Countless relatives.


How many relatives do u have?

Just one...when they asked he said it happened to his aunt....one aunt is countless

cbn4main:
Hope say una remember my case with the yeye Case worker wey dey on Columbia coccaine

Congrats man.....

I feel they just employed some pple that don't get the interpretation of the policy

.... there is someone that they are about to deny his visa with no clear justifiable reason.... They just claimed he didn't fulfill the requirements if care visa based on paragraph 2 and 3.... No further explanation of how the person didn't meet up with the requirements.....

Formerly when ECO deny visa they will explain how u didn't meet up each requirment

YoungBlackRico:
You know how people are always quick to ask if you've had personal experienced rather than hearsay right? Well this has happened to a relative of mine which I already stated up there and there are two or three people on this thread claiming it happened to families or friends too.

Now, it's easy to reel out numbers in saner climes, but this is Nigeria where adequate records are almost non existence, most cases won't even make it to the news. The fact that there are people actively talking about this thing should tell you how common it is.

Bros....the fact that it happens everywhere even in so called saner climes proves my earlier point ...doctors are prone to errors... It's not a Nigerian thing.... There is no practice delivered by humans that's not error-prone

It must just be minimal...I keep seeing comment like ..they are professional, why are they trained...it's only in Nigeria...errors should never happen....
okay ooo....in Nigeria where doctors finish surgery with torchlight?? Where medical staff have never been in the standard ratio to the number of populace..okay ooo....

SIXTEENTH:
If you are working with a firm that has another branch interstate please apply for transfer to another state, I think with this method you can be able to evade some of her threat.

Only visit maybe 2-3 times a year can solved half of the nagging and quarrelling couple with confrontation going on in your households.

Evade her threat...??
I don't get .....why will a man have to result to running from the home he's paying for to go and pay for another just because u want him to stay married to a troublesome woman that needs him to her bills...... I don't get at all

Why can't the troublesome party leave ??

I shaa don't understand how some pple feel that maintaining daily conversation with someone that has fvcked you will not make their spouse upset .....

Oga....na u marry woman wey love and still dey attached to her ex... Carry u cross like a boss.... if the frustrations and disrespect reach red level for you ...baba you know what to do..

Fulgur:
'Cap' must have been the latest word your vocabulary hence you abuse.

A country like Canada who faired worst among developed countries in medical malpractice and is far more prone to perform complex surgeries in far higher number is what you find comparable to Nigeria? Talking about senselessness still.

Lol ..U have shifted goal post again.......all I said is this happens everywhere and made an example
.....u brought up frequency of occurrence because u were trying to create an alarming scenario about this

And I asked ... Baba...what is the frequency of occurrence in nigeria....but all u have is insults.... U are free to continue with the insults ..I am not bothered by it

zedegit:
It's only when it affects you directly, you can say this above. You haven't lost someone dear to you due this.

Lol ...Unless u don't go to hospitals ... U must have experienced the bad side of doctors service .....and they have good sides too...we just choose to amplify their their bad sides...
Me I just chose to count their errors as not deliberate and sometimes this problems are systemic too...why would a doctor want to deliberately forget scapel, scissors, cottonwool in a patient??

Have u heard that doctors sometimes finish surgeries with torchlight.?? Or couldn't do surgery at all because light went off and generator is also bad....okay...dey play..

Unless u want to deceive urself....there is no practice delivered by humans that's not prone to errors... When I showed proof to someone who claimed it's a Nigeria thing that this same thing happens in Canada and all over the world with a staggering figure of 550 in a two year period in Canada

.. he quickly changed goal post by asking what is the frequency and comparison to total amount of surgeries in canada..

U guys think this pple will never commit errors from misdiagnosis, to mis-prescription, to other kinds of error?? Make una dey play...

If this won't ever never happen...hospital management should approve post surgery scan/x-ray to ensure quality assurance and control...... But they won't...there's no budget for it abi??

mariahAngel:
Keep talking to her, and keep praying for her to come to an understanding, so that you both can understand each other better.

I saw a video where someone said couples should help their spouses understand and love them better (the way they want), and I agree with that.

Also, those things you do (or say) that she says she does not like, try as much as possible to avoid doing them.
It's as simple as that.

Why is that When it's ur gender doing the emotional and verbal abuse...u guys always say same thing..he should keep managing the abusive woman and the frustration/ unhappiness he's getting....

But once the table turn.... U will hear..."run for ur life oooo before he kills u and ur children"