₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
good point.

A good way to weed yourself off if you aren't sure if she is into you is to refuse to collect her number and give her yours instead. If she is interested in knowing you, then the ball is in her court. By this action, you have made it clear that you are not worried about losing her, which is a hint about your self-esteem, and value. To make people stay, you must be content with losing them.

If she calls/chats you up, then follow up from there. But it's a good sign if the burden of initiation comes from her. If she doesn't call, then just accept that she is not into you, and glad not to waste your time on something that is futile. If she chats you up and started billing, then end it there, since it is possible that she may not be into you, but wants to recruit you as a member of her maga tribe.

So you see, I am emphasizing the actions and recourses available to you as a man, instead of whining and anger for women extorting money. A wise man control and reflects on his own actions, while a foolish man points his finger only. The destination is equally as important as the beginning. In fact, the beginning is more important than the destination since it comes first, and by starting well, you will end well.

Like a wise man once said, ''since men have learned to shoot without missing, the birds have learned to fly without perching''. So as the streets keep inventing new ways to extort, you must update your strategies to cope with the changing time. Always think in terms of dynamics, and realize that it takes two to play. Nobody can use you without your consent.

yinkabeauty:
and they will tell you they are not mad, what's the big deal！

Uyi168:
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Na your new husband get pikin?

socialmediaman:
You’ll need proof that she’s your daughter, in addition to a consent letter from her father if you don’t have proof of full custody. That’s how it’s done in most parts of the world

And why do you want to change your daughter’s last name without her father’s consent? You can’t just wish her father out of your life

Techgirl29:
Please I need advice and guidance on how I can travel overseas as a single mother with my daughter was never married to her dad, and I’m planning to get married to my fiancé by the end of this year as we both want to travel overseas together I need information as how I can travel with my daughter without any confusion from her fathers side as he is also married with two kids. And can I change my daughter last name to my new husband name to enable us travel all together please need this advice thanks

Worriedguy6699:
The answer is no, you won’t. Because you will have standards cause a lot of woman want you.

It’s same with woman. A lot of men want to fvck them, so it’s not easy to filter.

Some use money as filter, some use looks as filter. I’ve even seen one girl that likes men that don’t have money, she feels intimidated by guys with money and she’s also very proud. If you’re fine and don’t have money, she will open leg for you

Worriedguy6699:
I’m giving you an instance. Let’s say you’re a fine boy that gets women just from looks. Will you duck every woman that asks for sex?

Worriedguy6699:
So you’re saying if any woman just ask you for sex you will fvck her?

Worriedguy6699:
Let’s imagine that girls in Nigeria fvck wkthout demanding anything.

They’ll still need to use some metric to check wether a man is worth giving their body to.

Obviously you just wanted to fvck her, but let’s say Nigerian women don’t use money as metrics, what value do you have that is worth a woman opening her legs for you?

Maysdevices:
Begging is begging no matter how you twist it.


As for women feeling entitled, it still the fault of your fellow men.

•You sing about them all the time.
•You gawk at them openly.
•There is this desperation in most men eyes women can identify and leverage.
•A multitude of you are ready to spend your last dime just to slide in.
•Most marry us and believe they are to completely take care of them like they’re children.
•Most women with money are lonely because they have the same characteristics as men, they do what they want and most men would prefer a girl that is less smart and more needy so they can feel like a protector.


I’m smart, beautiful, self made. Most guys that approach me have nothing to offer me unless they work on themselves. I see these guys going after airheads all the time and ignoring me because I DO WHAT I WANT. Not what you feel is best for me.

Men love broke women because they can control them and you know it. Any other thing contrary to that is a huge lie. So you see why these women feel entitled?


African Men should build self respect and stop drooling at every ass and breast they see and women will sit up. White men are busy with their brains and not their dicks, that’s why their women had to sit up.

Maysdevices:
You’re blind to the countless men on the streets begging random people these days? Countless men beg me on the road for 100 naira everyday. Several of my male friends always ask me for cash. Most rich young boys got rich by begging and deceiving white women. I’m sure countless boys harass you too for cash on the road but you’re so excited to bash women you are completely blind to them.

Seems I will open a counter thread asking why men are always begging me for money on the road. Even where I buy my smoke, it is not any different. Some will even have the audacity to ask me to do transfer for them.


We have have the highest amount of poor people in the world and this still surprises you? You are a complete joke of a man.


Grow up.


Nigerian men, grow up. If women start to bash you for these things too, Na Una go vex pass.

Fineman2:
you are right

Creamypie:
Just get money, women go dey loyal, even when you have harem around you, and some take in, the others will still beg to remain and have your baby any slight chance they have

victooman:
thank you very much boss for this advice,, we do it almost 2 times a week,, l think l will take a break small, but don't u think the masturbation l am engaging in is also contributing?

Jocabasa:
Thanks AdvanceDNA,

My passport was not returned back to me when I was refused since 22nd June till now... I applied for AR 15th July and I got a mail yesterday frm d AR team dat my AR is successful and I got a mail on 20th September from the DMC dat my application is under consideration and it will take 15 working days or 120 working days for settlement,

My confusion is dat DMC mail came before AR mail... My question is will I get decision within d 15 working days stated?

blinking001:
You're a Fraysexual. Lol. Don't hate yourself, it's normal and natural for Fraysexuals to feel this way.

victooman:
l remember when we started our relationship last year, l can go on and on having sex with my girl,, l dont get tired and her slightest touch arose me to the full,, she is the first girl l ever given or.al sex because of the love l have for her,
Now honestly is not as if l am no longer in love with her,, is just that l no longer feel like having sex with her,,
now girls who are not even half as beautiful as she is are the ones attracting me,is like l just want to try sleeping with another girl just to have a different test of another woman,,
please nairalanders help me,l love this girl more than anything but l dont know why l am feeling this way..

Mumben:
You finally fell for her tricks after all the warnings and advices you got from well meaning nairalanders.

Well the deed has been done, now ask yourself if it was worth it afterall? Your peace of mind is threatened now and you will continue to live in guilt whenever you see the husband. You can still retrace your steps even though it's going to be hard, just do it.

Morningblues:
I don’t know what to do, I already told him I will give him the money, but I haven’t.. I don’t know what to fo

seunsiju:
We are just telling una not to give urself false hope, the earlier you know Obi is going nowhere the better for you

Cutehector:
tf is this one saying.. You wan dey vex ontop my money? Lmao..go sleep.

Cutehector:
oh yes...i will do it again and again my dear. It is my money. I went out to eat this morning and i saw a security man who is an old man,

After eating i went to meet him and asked him if he as eaten, he said no.. I told him to follow me. He did, we went to the woman i went to eat at her place and told her to give him anything he wants.

This old man blessed my life.


See my dear, men are suffering inside. I will do it again and again and again!

Morningblues:
So I recently received my salary and I gave my dad some money from inside (dash him) so today he called me and ask me to borrow him 60k Naira that he want to use to for something urgent, that he will give me the money by November. He usually borrow money from me like 5k,10k,20k he doesn’t pay and I forget about it, I normally don’t drag him.. I don’t know whether to borrow him this 60k, what if he doesn’t pay back! He is retired and I’m a student, he normally collect salary from retirement and he was the one who gave me the job I’m currently doing now….borrowing him is not the problem. What if he doesn’t pay back?? I earn 40k monthly but I haven’t received salary from 3month so the pay was 120k this month that just pass, he knows when they pay me and the amount they me. I’m confused…

lhordspy:
Aisha buhari's Apology and Ridicules by Enemy of Nigeria by a political neutral nairalander.

Jocabasa:
Will the DMV make decisions within the 15 working days stated?

abiola708:
It can only be GOD, i only tried it with faith and didn’t listened to any side advise

I had canada Ban-because of fake bank statement
Brazil refusal-because of fake bank statement
Colombia visa refusal too. All declared

Jazzman01:
It has nothing to do with lust or being sex starved, infact the op should put graphic images in the description because they look disgusting and a terrible sight to behold. I couldn't even look at it twice because it was irritating me. The aim is to inflict maximum shame and discourage others who may want to do the same. Men are also stripped naked and burnt to death too when they're caught stealing and nobody talks about lust or complains about their náķędness

Philippian44:
also asked married man to put on their ring.most of them date single girl and along the line the lady find out so it fall back to the man.after you have spoil me you expect me to leave becos you are married that one go hard sah

successmatters:
How many police them dey?

They cannot stop us.

chigogo2010:
A bountiful and articulate salutation to you distinguish ladies and gentlemen.

I started dating this girl last two months and I haven't ask her for sex. I love her and I want to marry her when the time is right. I don't believe in no sex till after marriage.

When I was toasting her, she told me that she was afraid to give me a chance because most of us (guys) wants to date for only SEX but I have proved her wrong. I don't know if I should remain calm or should I ask her for sex?
Recently, she has been telling me about her period, I didn't even ask her about it. She's free with me but I don't know how to demand sex from her. I NEEE YOUR OPINION PALS