₦airaland Forum

Sharatan:
Hmm

I'm just imagining the speed this husband will use to go and borrow another one. Madam go pay sir

stanliwise:
In another words only women are promiscuous right?
Don’t you think gender does not play a role in this topic?

MufasaLion:
You're right, but a man that's sexually attracted to both both genders is bisexual.

thebosstrevor1:
You can't support gay people and then discriminate against a gay man that wants children from a woman.

That is hypocrisy.

It is like supporting anti racism campaigns but when black people come to you for job, you don't employ them.

thebosstrevor1:
Women supports gay right but can't marry gay men.

I really don't understand

Majority of men will never discriminate against lesbian women, it is infact a turn on.

Accept that gay man and stop the discrimination

zexy2030:
Body count matters bro. Nature wasn't stupid to put a seal on that hole. There is honour in being the first man to open that hole.

Blendy77:
E be like u no kno your mate. Its not ur fault.

Killbillz:
Lol u funny oo.. person wey never fit leave him village naim u say make him go Europe? How na? With his slave mentality na menial jobs and burgers/ junk food go end him life there. Na these types dey achieve only fine pictures when and if they ever travel out

Racoon:
Africans with their useless stupid superstitious beliefs.

saintruky:
Bros come enter heaven ma see... Wicked person lol

doggedfighter:
Men and sex enhancing drugs.



Very selfish man who doesn't care if his wife is even in the mood.


You popped your drugs so she must play.

Blendy77:
That "God created women last to avoid confusion". How does it even concern you? What's funny to me and made me laugh may not be funny to you so rest

stanliwise:
The bottom line still remain one can’t eat his cake and still wanna have it back.

Many guys who stand on the road of sexual past are also not worthy to begin with.
I still disagree with the OP in a way though, everyone should be aware of how promiscuous a potential partner maybe and that also goes for a women too checking for how promiscuous her husband could be . It shouldn’t be a gender thing. Everyone suppose worry

CHoccolaTE:
What kind of pleasure do you fools gain from concocting lies just to insult females?

I dont even know how so many nairalanders could be so retarded_ to believe this thread of lies.

franchasng:
Bros the world is even more decent now, forget oh.



Na internet and social media that's making it look like the world has gone badder by exposing things that used to be secret in the past.


Remember again, the world population is exploding, so the possibility of your faithful girlfriend meeting someone that looks just like you and may even have better qualities than you is higher today than 20 years ago.



The world is evolving everyday, so expect more of stories like this.


The world has never been decent my brother, its just internet, social media and improved communication and globalization that's making it seem like the world has become more indecent today than in the past.




If your grandpa tell you the kind bad bad things they did with peoples wives just because of bush meat, yam, farm land, etc, you will marvel lolz

franchasng:
I am not saying its good or that it doesn't hurt. What I am saying is, Nigerian men should tone down on how they demonize Nigerian women over sexual promiscuity while sparing the men who are usually the initiators of promiscuity. We ought to tone down on how we overblow it and make it seem like Nigerian ladies are the worst set of women on earth just because of cheating.



I used to scream like you some years back too, but with time and exposure I have come to realize that these things are natural occurrences that can never stop. So whenever such happens to you, just smile and move on, and learn to play and act smarter. Life is a movie, the better actors always get the best roles, so try and be the best actor of life so you will always get the lead roles lol.



Can the op swear with his life that he hasn't fvcked one or two girls aside this his girlfriend before this incident? Ladies will catch their boyfriends in worst scenarios than this and they still forgive and move on without making a headline news from it but when we guys experience just small of the things we throw at our Nigerian ladies, we start to cry blood and call them all sorts of names as if we ourselves are saints, lol

ValeeLove:
Hey men! Yeah, I'm addressing you guys. Why the so much hate for women on this platform? Have they sinned so unforgivably? On Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Opera News and other social platforms, you don't see these level of attack towards the opposite gender like there is here on Nairaland. Yes I'm not oblivious of how huge a burden they are at times, but we need to keep it together. We are MEN. Enough of "useless gender", name calling like "olosho", body shaming, gender phobic posts, threads and what not for spiting sake alone. If they are at fault, say it without implying hate.

franchasng:
No matter what you and me do, or how we scream or condemn things like this, the world can never be decent and organized like we want or wish. The world has always had good and bad people since the time of Jesus Christ. Didnt you read about the prostitute in the Bible? Yet she ended up as Jesus Christ friend.



Some of the ladies you judge as bad may end up in heaven at last while you end in hell lol.


Let them be.



We need good and bad people to balance the world sexually lol


The most important thing is whenever anybody is engaging in any escapades, please protect yourself for your own good so you can stay alive to enjoy more of this life.



There is nothing that will stop the world from having people with sexual promiscuity, most are like that naturally and.maybe struggling to stop so don't over judge them.


My point is, we Nigerian men should desist from demonizing Nigerian women over sexual escapades, because we Nigerian men are badder than them yet they forgive, overlook and accept us.



If your girlfriend cheat on you and you are lucky to catch her, no need making it a big deal, break up if you cant bear it and move on. Dont demonize her cos she cheated, cheating alone does not make a lady a demon even though its bad especially in marriage, but during dating and courtship, no guy have a legal possession of his girlfriend until he pays her dowry so dont blame her entirely, she maybe trying not to put all her eggs in one basket

franchasng:
Nigerian women don't respect themselves, they sell themselves cheap.



Who are the people these Nigerian women are selling themselves to? Animals abi Aliens Is it not same men


Men are more promiscuous than women, take it to bank.



Nigerian men that will use half of their wealth to squander on girls just to have a taste



Nollywood male actors are always broke, begging for money when they fall sick but the same Nollywood Actresses are buying mansions, driving latest cars and going on expensive vacations around the world, who is bankrolling them? Lions and Aliens abi




Bros, the level of infidelity in the west is far higher than in Nigeria, Nigeria is in fact a learner, so lets stop demonizing Nigerian women, they didn't kill anybody oh.



Imagine if it was Nigerian women that are heading Boko Haram, ah, Naija men for don kill every girl they see on the street finish and tag her a Boko Haram member.



We Naija men too de demonize our women when they fall for some sexual gimmicks initiated by we men, haba na.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

nenyewrites:
You just wrote a fake story to debase Nigerian girls, to what end? Such a psychopath.

franchasng:
Everyone expects faithfulness from their partner oh yes you are 100 percent correct, but how many people get faithful partners, especially during dating abi courting? Less than 10%



Men have broke women's heart so much that today, many ladies no longer rely on one relationship to avoid ending up like one friend or Aunt or sister or niece or neighbor she once heard about.



As for sex, developed world don't take sex as serious as Nigerians take it. They give and receive sex freely without much ado to it. I speak from experience not hearsay.



Sex this or cheating this and that is the least problem in developed countries.



Married couples even invite 3rd party to join for a party, something many Nigerian married couple will never dare. Forget movies, these things are real.



Nigeria is still stuck on sexual fidelity while the world advances, only East Africans have evolved beyond that level of sexual primitive we have in Nigeria. Even Ghana have evolved sexually more than Nigeria.



Nigerian men are too judgmental towards Nigerian women. What a white woman would do and a Nigerian man will ignore, if a Nigerian woman does same, a Nigerian man may kill her for it.




We Nigerian men are too bad when it comes to sex escapades than Nigerian women, the only difference is that Nigerian women overlook and easily forgive our badness making us act like we are hollier than them.



No be man lodged in that hotel and saw the girl came with her boyfriend and still used whatever tactics he got to lure the girl into his bed? Yet nobody is condemning the guy too.




See, this life is short, no over think am, no over worry yourself about issues like this, just focus on being happy, living your dream life and acquiring money, simple. These things are what makes the world sweet and lively bro

franchasng:
Every woman have a price! Including Aisha Buhari your President's wife!


Life is mysterious, women are learners when compared to men when it comes to being bad.


The only difference is that women endure and overlook our badness more than we ignore theirs. If ladies open up on what they have passed through in the hands of guys, people will weep blood.



Stop demonizing Nigerian women, she didn't kill anybody, sexual feeling is a natural phenomenon, anybody can fall victim.



White women do things like this more than African women yet their men don't demonize them cos of it.



If you are a guy and fall victim to something like this, just accept it as part of life lessons and move on and learn from it. Live and enjoy life cautiously, life is too short!

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

thinkmoney:
It's about working on yourself and personality. I have not bought a girl a car before but u have done 'big stuffs' for ladies, even the ones I know in my mind if minds that they wont last. I measure whatever I want to do. I give out things I am really able to give and easily replace.
I am talking because o have build myself to that level. It's real maturity. It's the way we all should behave really.
We have bastardise relationships and made it transactional.

justosee:
Most of them are fraudsters. I don't see any hardworking young man who will spend his hard earned money to buy Iphone for a girl.

BlackAlien007:
Abi she wants to shoriburuku

thinkmoney:
My brother you have bought it you have bought it. It's good to think through things before doing it. Gifts are no longer yours after you give them out. It's not really your business what they do with what you give them.
Unless say there there was an agreement that you lend or lease out the item.
It's the ladies that are not smart too. You can't tell me you bought me a phone or an house and still hold back the documents. The lady can get the guy arrested if she has the receipt of the phone in her name.

mrkings84:
Wrong man, now can u retrieve the hot sex she was giving u all these while?

Ladies should learn to stand their grounds on issues like this

justosee:
Why will any reasonable man buy Iphone 12 for a lady in the first place?

BadRadio:
That's because you have mashed potatoes in ur head instead of brains.... think for once grandpa