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PoliticsRe: Yoruba Marginalization: Elders Met Jonathan To Complain - SMH by Afam4eva(m): 6:12pm On Aug 07, 2017
aribisala0:
Well just to let you know that we are around and still remember..............
You need to apologize.
PhonesRe: "Despacito” Is The Most Viewed Youtube Video Of All Time In Seven Months by Afam4eva(m): 1:50pm On Aug 07, 2017
Over 3 billion views? The song is good alright and similar to the ones done by Enrique Iglesias and Sean Paul but not enough for it to garner that much views. I'm doubting the veracity of the views.
FamilyRe: War Room Movie: Not As 'perfect' As It Sounds? by Afam4eva(m): 11:45am On Aug 07, 2017
MiddleDimension:
i think we men should be held to account for our behavious. The War Room just didn't do that, instead, it placed the success of the ome squarely on the woman, which in my opinion, is just not fair.

I just don't see tat movie as a model for my life.
No movie can be a model for life just like your Pastor's preaching can't be a model for marriages because both the movie producers and pastors interpret what they know or think the bible is saying. It's just that someone of us want to use our canal or worldly ideals to qualify the bible. If you must do that, do it on your own accord and don't try to somehow qualify it for what the bible says about it.

I personally believe that couples should live based on their own idiosyncrasies.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 11:36am On Aug 07, 2017
Bandeco:
I may agree with you
Plus people go to Canada for opportunities that's not available in Europe.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 7:23am On Aug 07, 2017
Bandeco:
Europe looks more beautiful and more developed infrastructure-wise than Canada
Most countries in Europe are small, so it's easy to distribute infrastructure unlike in Canada.
FamilyRe: As A Girl From A Different Culture, Is Denying A Child Normal In This Culture? by Afam4eva(m): 6:20am On Aug 07, 2017
MMotimo:
Ordinarily, I would not respond, you have enough to deal with already but for the sake of other young people who may potentially find themselves in this situation, I will say more.

I am a woman and I was once 18, 19, 20 or whatever age you are now. No, I never got pregnant outside wedlock because I had bigger plans for my future, no boy told me he was interested in having a baby with me and I was raised by old school parents who taught their children there is no dignity in getting pregnant or having kids before he put a ring on it. Maybe yours is a case of failed contraception maybe it was not, only you know for sure.

I am going to be brutally frank, I may sound harsh. Assuming the pregnancy can be blamed on failed contraception, you still took the foolish risk of having sex with someone that is simply not all that into you. If he was, he would not be avoiding it. He might be scared but he would not just deny and run.

If you must sleep with someone, mitigate the risk of becoming an involuntary baby mama by at least making sure you have the emotional maturity and discernment to ensure he's not the runaway type. If you don't have that confidence in him, the sex is simply NOT worth it!
Keep your self righteousness BS to yourself. Nobody goes into a relationship to get be impregnated, except in few cases, so, it was a mistake and the OP has moved on.

@OP
I think such behavior is prevalent in the African society. The mother knows that the baby is probably for him but in the usual ways of mother protecting their sons, she will deny the baby because she sees it as something that can truncate her son's bright future. That notwithstanding, i thnk you should persist and its only a matter of time before they come around.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Is The Pig And Idiot-buchi Obichie by Afam4eva(m): 9:26pm On Aug 06, 2017
Kilanee:
i dint get you at all
You will never get me in your life.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Is The Pig And Idiot-buchi Obichie by Afam4eva(m): 9:17pm On Aug 06, 2017
This has always been my grouse with Kanu and majority of IPOB supporters. Do you and let us do us. We mustn't always agree on everything. I'm Igbo but i may not be in support of Biafra or even if i am, i may not be in support of IPOB methods, so i may choose to sit out. Sometimes, i blame ignorance for such attitude.
CareerRe: Termination Of Appointments At My Place Of Work by Afam4eva(m): 8:10pm On Aug 06, 2017
ferdinandgeorge:
At my place of work last week, all the staff were summoned on and a letter was issued to all staff in that organization saying that our appointment have been terminated. In the letter we were told to reapply. Everybody was confused. My question is why did such decision made against us.. And is there still hope that they reinstate all of us after reapplying.

Please I need ur advice.. And what should I write when reapply
You guys won't stand any special chance else they would have retained you. They're just giving your guys hope.Move on.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 7:40pm On Aug 06, 2017
fcalvary:
I can tell you canada �� is a place you will enjoy. 12 years counting with two boys and a lovely wife. Wetin remain every Nigerian should at least visit.
I think Canada is big enough to accomodate 180 million Nigerians. We're coming in batches...be expecting us grin
Christianity EtcRe: Ozubulu Anambra Catholic Church Killing Of Worshippers: Aftermath Video (Graphic by Afam4eva(m): 7:39pm On Aug 06, 2017
NtoAkwaIbom:
Nigeria is the way it is because the church has lost its way... see. our church today glorifies the rich, without asking for the source of their wealth

The church sends Xtians to go and still, make undue profits all in the name of.. It is your time to build that house, that car is waiting for you.

The church is supposed to be apoliticall, I was shocked to see a Biafran ARDENT Priest of the Catholic church and I hv seen Catholic churches buses being used as the main movement vehicles of Ipobs.
You Ask, IF THESE PEOPLE GO TO CHURCH, WHY THEN DO THEY HAVE SO MUCH HATE IN THEM...?

Jesus Pursued those making money from the church, today we do bazaar, do auction and sell orange for 5k, in churches...

and we claim the Name Christians... just see what we have brought on ourselves.. Shame on us
Let's learn to put things in perspective. You're right to the extent that the church has lost it's way as it glorifies criminality than even God. However, using IPOB as an example reeks of ignorance. Except you can tell us how seeking for self determination is evil or against the preaching of the bible.

RIP once again to the victims.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 6:14pm On Aug 06, 2017
fcalvary:
So my bus driver stopped,asking who is smoking in the bathroom oom. She no wan go until she finds the person and this is becoming frustrating
Make una fish out the person na...Cigarette won't stop me from enjoying your pictures.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 5:37pm On Aug 06, 2017
TheArchangel:
How's do they pronounce this Saskachewan sef? It has to be one hell of a tongue twister.
Exactly how it's spelt.
PoliticsRe: Andy Uba Weeps, Assists Ozubulu Catholic Church Victims With Cash (Photos) by Afam4eva(m): 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2017
How do you go about giving people money on their sick bed. How about you pay for medical fees in private. Politicians always playing politics when situations present themselves. I won't be surprised if they were the one that sent the people who opened fire on the church members, so that they can show up with an envelope.
TravelRe: Road Trip From Alberta To Manitoba by Afam4eva(m): 4:36pm On Aug 06, 2017
Following...

Canadians and Tim Hortons sha grin

Will you pass through Saskatoon?
PoliticsRe: Church Shooting: Gov Obiano Storms Ozubulu, Visits Hospital ... Shooting Cause by Afam4eva(m): 12:38pm On Aug 06, 2017
Where did they get the previos 150 figure from. Even if it's World War sef.

They should bundle whoever is responsible for this wherever they are and deal with them decisively.

RIP to the dead.
SportsRe: Justin Gatlin Beats Usain Bolt To The World Title In London (video) by Afam4eva(op): 11:56am On Aug 06, 2017
Waiting for 200 meters.
WebmastersRe: Lets Talk About: How You Can Start Video Blogging Successfully Today by Afam4eva(m): 7:59am On Aug 06, 2017
Havng a Vlog is not beans. You need to be super talented to start one. You also need to be consistent for your years because it can really take time to become a youtube sensation and thats when you're gonna start making good money.
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Girl Is Apologizing To Phyno For Rejecting Him When He Had No Money by Afam4eva(m): 11:25pm On Aug 05, 2017
O girl, Phyno has passed your level. I'm not even sure the money that has blinded him will make him remember your face. Gbahara ko sahara ni.
SportsRe: Why Can't Nigeria Produce Good Athletes Like Other Countries? by Afam4eva(op): 10:52pm On Aug 05, 2017
SmartchoicesNG:
Looking at your family.... Would you run for a million dollars and great insurance or a mere Presidential handshake?
Meanwhile Akani simbine is a Nigerian ....
It's Akani not Akanni. He's a South African and not a Nigerian.
SportsRe: Justin Gatlin Beats Usain Bolt To The World Title In London (video) by Afam4eva(op): 10:47pm On Aug 05, 2017
Meanwhile, there's this Nigerian named Chijindu Ujah that runs for Great Britain. I think Dasaolu is also a Nigerian. I'm not sure.
SportsRe: Justin Gatlin Beats Usain Bolt To The World Title In London (video) by Afam4eva(op): 10:46pm On Aug 05, 2017
Nbote:
It was a truly breathtaking race... From d heats and semi finals u could see how he(Bolt) struggled ... I was more impressed with Coleman of d US... Atleast Bolt is bowing out on a high. Gatlin deserves to finally get one over Bolt .. But those fans though, dem no dey forget something.. Both before and after d race, dey were busy booing Gatlin which was what prompted his response after winning...
Coleman was really impressive and actually came close to winning it. I actually think Cole may just be the future but i'm more than happy that Gatlin won it because Bolt has been his greatest nemesis.
PoliticsRe: Anti-Igbo Song Calling For Genocide In Circulation In Northern Nigeria - Group by Afam4eva(m): 10:41pm On Aug 05, 2017
Lajet:
I dey wonder how some of you can be easily deceive any person can claim to be from any tribe online. That guy is a Yoruba guy living in Anambra. No sane person will ever wish that kind of evil to his people it's impossible. That evil he is wishing for Igbos will destroy him first their will not be any escape route for him.
I think he is Igbo. I knew him before he become like this. There are some strange Igbos among us.
SportsJustin Gatlin Beats Usain Bolt To The World Title In London (video) by Afam4eva(op): 10:39pm On Aug 05, 2017
Isn't this unbelievable...Usain Bolt was beaten by Justin Gatlin who becomes the new IAAF world champion.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eplMSp9NzKE

Mynd44 Lalasticla
SportsRe: Why Can't Nigeria Produce Good Athletes Like Other Countries? by Afam4eva(op): 9:21pm On Aug 05, 2017
SmartchoicesNG:
I want to stop here. Afam4eva please rephrase your question.
I really do't ujnderstand what you're doing because the likes of Francis Obikwelu and Olusoji Fasugba have retired and Obikweulu was running for Portugal before the end of his career. name people who are still running for Nigeria right now ad are a force to reckon with apart from Okagbare.
PoliticsRe: Anti-Igbo Song Calling For Genocide In Circulation In Northern Nigeria - Group by Afam4eva(m): 9:19pm On Aug 05, 2017
pazienza:
When you have time, go to facebook and search out for Igbos like , Ifeyinwa China Onyeabo, Chinwendu Carlos etc.

These are hard core Igbo nationalists, with unquenchable hate for IPOB,they constantly put up scathing remarks about IPOB, yet they know when an Igbo hater is trying to hide behind IPOB to unleash Igbophobia, and they often deal mercilessly with such people.

A real Igbo might hate IPOB, but he can never fail to defend Igbo integrity from haters, nor will he \condone attempts to bring harm to Igbos, be they IPOB or non IPOB members.

When you see a supposedly Igbo man rejoicing over a threat directed towards Igbo people, you know you are dealing with an Arewa /Odua impostor.
This is one of the things i was trying to teach the likes of Abagworo and Beremx. When they were supporting Buhari, it wasn't a big deal for me or anyone but it's the fact that they thought supporting Buhari was tantamount to always joining our haters to insult us and it seems to be that only Igbos display this form of stockholm syndrome.
PoliticsRe: Anti-Igbo Song Calling For Genocide In Circulation In Northern Nigeria - Group by Afam4eva(m): 9:01pm On Aug 05, 2017
pazienza:
You will be naive, if you believe that being is Igbo.

The North is not threatening IPOB, they are threatening Igbos in the North, using them as cheap blackmail to force IPOB to stop demand for Biafra.
Yet the impostor is happy about the threat on Igbos, hiding behind IPOB to unleash the Igbophobia in him.
It's funny how some idiots like Yyeske don't see what is happening. It all started with "I hate IPOB not Igbo". Like you said, they're just using IPOB as an excuse to go on hating Igbos like they've been doing since we came in contact with them.
SportsRe: Why Can't Nigeria Produce Good Athletes Like Other Countries? by Afam4eva(op): 8:54pm On Aug 05, 2017
SmartchoicesNG:
Francis Obikwelu
Lol
PoliticsRe: Anti-Igbo Song Calling For Genocide In Circulation In Northern Nigeria - Group by Afam4eva(m): 8:53pm On Aug 05, 2017
Yyeske:
I'm Igbo and a hater of IPOB or its devilish ideology and I know a majority of Ndigbo don't believe IPOB so what are you yapping about? Just know you ain't safe in Lagos so start making preparations
And what makes you think i'm a supporter of IPOB. Like i said, your zombie mode is activated.
SportsWhy Can't Nigeria Produce Good Athletes Like Other Countries? by Afam4eva(op):
Sometimes i think Nigeria is just big for nothing. I'm currently watching the IAAF world championships currently taking place in London and it seems like every other country is registering their presence especially in the track and field except Nigeria. Small countries like Jamaica, Cotedivoire and even South Africa have produced really good athletes. What exactly are we doing in this country. Even Okagbare that is our only source of pride is depleting by the day.

Mynd44, Lalasticla

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