₦airaland Forum

jawalis:
Weldon Mr Literate. You can actually teach me if you feel like. You are free to do so. But for your rotten brain. I never used skin tone as a yardstick to measure beauty. It’s just a component here. Btw; I have every right to use whatever I feel like as a yardstick for beauty.
But before you go. Tell those black hippopotamus around you that they are causing heavy depletion on the ozone layer cos they generate heat more than 10 people together

jawalis:
Your brain is paining you. Must you quote me? Go to hell with you concrete puss¥. If you like you can marry one of those hippopotamus roaming the city. It’s your life. Black babe stinks, and nothing can ever get me attached to them. Especially the fat ones. Puke (^_^)

goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!

DaddyRochie1642:
I admire your Posts

You're Indeed an "AfroKnight"

EzzyCarter:
Guess you are Indaboski

Kingarthur21:
Lol...pot calling kettle black..

You can never compare how guys take rejection to how ladies take it.
An average guy would carry his two L and find his square root when you reject him to chase another babe. Except off course he invested in you so muccchhhh financially,you turned him to an ATM and yet told him no.

But ladies?forget it
Once you reject them or don't give a positive response to their "what are we now?" question ,they will block you,unblock you,stalk you,block you,then tell the world you are a player,and turn motivational speakers.

If you have slept with them they will start accusing you of rape or threaten you with going to bathe naked by the stream and curse you.

Ceeci6:
na una go still yab us if I send in pre wedding pic, the fear of nairaland insult is the beginning of haveing sense [center][/center][center][/center] just be rest assumed that am not a man, am an ugly girl with a good heart

Ishilove:
No condescension here. It is my objective observation.

Ishilove:
I'm amazed none of the men here have emphasized on physical beauty. There is hope yet for the Nigerian man.

kinginiesta11:
I must do her something

pansophist:
I do not mind if you precondition my eligibility to date on my financial status, but hey, you must be beautiful, hot, and sexy to the core as well. Just as your approach to a relationship is transactional, my approach is that you must be fine as well, in fact, fine as hell.

My money should make other people jealous that my GF is so hot and beautiful, you must turn heads 180 degrees. You must o. I don't mind people giving conditions, but if your condition will be accepted, then you have to accept mine too. Life no hard. And you must not get older, if you do, I leave. Just as I understand that you shall leave if my money dries up. If in any stage of the relationship you fat, stretch mark show up, or you fail to turn heads as before, then it is to reevaluate the dynamics of the relationship and dissolve if necessary.

NoHoper:
Reminds me of when I was a total loser. That's how a girl used to utterly disrespect me on a regular basis. She won't return my calls or chats and whenever I lodged my displeasure she would just casually tell me she is not in the mood for a fight. No apologies from her. If I insist she apologizes, she would threaten to end the relationship and then somehow I'd end up apologizing. Depression sucks ( I was battling some mild depression and anxiety and I thought she was doing me a favour just being around me).

After having enough, I developed some self respect and a bit of self esteem. The scenario played out again and this time when she threatened to leave, I said fine, you are free to go. She couldn't believe it. Sent in a couple of messages explaining why she behaved the way she did, but I thought I'd had enough.

I'm alone now, much happier, and I hope to work on my anxiety issues and build up my self esteem and confidence before venturing into another relationship.

librangyps:
Covidscam

Any one that visits hospital for whatever underlying health condition is immediately labelled covid just so some people can remain relevant and get their own share...

Abeg open economy

Before now people were falling sick and dying daily from different ailments.

Now nearly every ailment or death is labelled covid.

pansophist:
Op, take this advice. Read it like a bible and follow it.