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Julietsim:
I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Stephenomozzy:
Have you dated an introvert before? (I am dating one). Not very often will she loudly express that she's needing things to be spiced up, she'll just leave few clues here and there and believes you should pick the clue and work things out while she "does her own part". It becomes easier when you know your woman.

I'm in no way inferring that a boring partner should be cheated on Sis. And who knows op may just be paranoid.

But other than just speaking point-blank that OP's wife is cheating (that's a recipe to ruin their marriage), I've offered one way OP can try to make things better and read the situation in a more optimistic angle.

soberdrunk:
See her Nuclear war head.....

Davash222:
The Malaysia returnee need to work on his taste for women.

InfinityFabric:
Awww, thank you.

Jaqenhghar:
Hehehehe. The thing tire me. The irony was he wanted us to go swimming so I can catch a babe. He was chastising me for being single. As we reach na him babes come dey show love. I just weak

Jaqenhghar:
LOL. I remember one incident when I was single. We went swimming with one married friend of mine. The guy no fine reach me. that time I dey do small body building so my physique was in point. Him no sabi swim, I sabi swim but na him babes dey rush. Some dey ask am to teach dem swimming. Ca you imagine! Person when no sabi swim

IamPlato:
not me Bro...

duality:
You taking it personal.

Jaubdu:
. Far from it. I don't support irresponsibility. You guys body shame women, talk down on single mom but turned around and encourage guys to have baby mama. No responsible guy will do that.

Jaubdu:
Are you a product of single parent?

XhosaNostra:
No. How? He had no idea I liked him & the few conversations we had weren't romantic in nature. You know sometimes when you have an idea of someone in your head, their true self tends to spoil the fantasy real fast. That's why I don't ever want to meet certain individuals I admire (celebrities) in real life because they might ruin the image I've created in my head by saying something stupid or whatever.

Diarypurpose:
Thank you

XhosaNostra:
Yes. In fact, I was obsessed with him. I'd watch everything he did. I knew his whole schedule. Basically, I stalked the guy He was so handsome though, I couldn't help myself.
After months of stalking, I started planning meeting him. So one evening as he returned from work, I decided I was going to throw away the trash, which means we were going to bump into each other on the stairs I didn't wanna make it too obvious, so I dressed in normal "house clothes". I'm one of those people that look more attractive when I'm a little shabby & dirty, so I went in for the kill in my grimiest look I can pull
Anyway, we crossed paths for the 1st time & we both nodded our greetings as we passed each other. After two or more such orchestrated meetings, we had a chat. He said something & my dreams literally came true in that narrow staircase
Long story short, he wasn't what I expected. After a few chats, I lost interest in him. I wouldn't call him dumb, but he wasn't too bright lol. All big & beautiful with a tiny brain

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, my mother has not called to check up on me during this Coronavirus outbreak. Since last year, she has not called to check up on me. I don’t wanna call her because she has never made an effort to be close to me and when I lived with her, she always ignored me.

What a wicked world!!![/color]

Veefierce:
what’s the aim of forgetting such information