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I’ll be frank with you. If she pressures you too much, just dump her.

A broke guy in a relationship has no business spending money on a girlfriend. She’s probably the reason you don’t have savings. Reasonable girlfriends are spending good money to help their boyfriends. What is your girl doing to assist and motivate you?

Well said OP.

My married friends tell me they get more green light now than when they were single. These girls should stop trying to seduce married men.

I stare at yansh a lot.

I wasn’t like that before.

ujluv:
God bless you.

God bless You too. Thanks

abelwealth:
fours bottles of palm wine for u

Brotherly thank you

crafteck:
I wish i read this before i got into relationship, you are on point

Wow. I’m honoured. Thank you.

professore:
Spot on

Thanks Prof

Biglittlelois:

All this for me?

Chatflick:
Guy you killed it like seriously. In fact I don copy the last paragraph. Mad gan

Thanks bro. Cheers!

carpdiemz:
I swear you have said it all , have dated a girl from a very poor home and I was thinking I could help her through my own status not that I’m from a very rich home but I have the ability at hand to changed her life, I later found out she was sleeping with her boss husband in the company she works I wanted to end d relationship dem she cried apologize dat it has been going on before she met me that the man helped her to rent the apartment she lives in , same girl dat I would make sure she get all the money she need for transportation for a week and for feeding too and she’s collecting salary oh , she’s not giving me money oh cuz she doesn’t earn much , with all dat she insisted dat we should have a court wedding I was like did I owe u money why court .... that was how i ended the relationship oh it’s obvious that poor girls from poor backgrounds will give you headache dan girls from rich homes , I would rather have headache with a girl from rich home dan a girl from poor home . When we were having d fight dis girl was still telling me how much have I even done for her how much are my giving her I was like

Can you imagine her guts! She still get mouth. Good thing you dumped her. A broke girl with huge pride and huge sense of entitlement makes a problematic wife. She is a cankerworm.

Farki:
Wise words you need this.

Wow Brotherly! Thank you!

sirzee1660:
well said bro...thank you I hope i can put this advice on my love life .... because right now am dying of heart break

Brotherly, I understand. Many guys have gone through it.

Keep screening the wrong ones out. You’ll get the gold you desire. Don’t ever settle for less in a woman cos You are also gold, yourself.

NinjaMetahuman:
well written.


Don't normally post in romance section but I just had to quote this.

Very succint.

Thank you brother.

SwagPower:
You really are a classic man..

Thanks brother!

Samanza89:
I think this writeup was directed to me. Mehn! Bless up bro. You're the kind of person I like associating with, this has always been my perception and I'm ain't changing it for nothing. Bless up man...

Wow. Thank you for those kind words bro. Bless up!

He was the voice and hands behind Buhari. The same voice and hands FFK criticised relentlessly.

Now he is a good man. Well, in Nigeria, all dead men are saints regardless of their deeds.

Politics is greater than religion.

This is sad.

Perhaps you should consider marrying outside the igbo tribe.

Like someone rightly said. Religion is not more powerful than culture in Nigeria. That’s why tribalism reigns supreme even with the numerous churches and mosques in this country.

Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

Be prepared for a “No”, plus small insult to spice it.


Who knows? You could be lucky. She may be open to dating a younger guy. If you get a no, don’t feel bad. If you get a yes, don’t mock her later on.

God forbid. I never jam that kind babe before. IN fact I can’t meet such a babe! That’s a vibe killer.

My fren! Better enjoy lockdown in singleness.

You need to relax. If you toast woman in this state of mind, you will end up with a deceiver. Relax.

Waltonz:
Though I didn't check the name, check it, it must be Yoruba. Why? There are things Igbo or even Hausa traditional leaders will never do.

Lol. Snuff and kai kai na paracetamol abi?

Anyway, you need to score a cheap ethnocentric point real bad. Knock yourself out.

Bola146:
I just pity the innocent foetus aborted. Even if your mother said she doesn't like the one you are still dating now, you will dump her Well, I'm not surprised, you are still a kid. Let me wait for people to contribute, I'm just really annoyed!

Women.

Your own problem is the fact that he listens to his mother. But you will grow up and desire a son who would not dare shun your directives. You provided no solution to his dilemma. Just blame.

He is not a kid just because he takes his own mother seriously. In retrospect, if he had listened to her and stayed away he wouldn’t have a faceless entity like you judging and calling him a kid.




JDJ4
Anyway, men should face the consequences of their actions. What makes you a man is not the fact that you don’t make stupîd mistakes. It is rather the fact that you accept your mistakes, learn from them and MOVE ON.

I suggest you ignore the lady and her native doctor if you want to adhere to your religious beliefs.

Don’t throw away good advice next time. In your shoes, I wouldn’t even let her suggest collecting money from me for a native doctor. I would definitely stay away from a woman who goes to native doctors for spiritual help. I have no business with such ladies because they are impressionable and can be desperate enough to take drastic measures for their benefit.

Congratulations man.

You have hit the jackpot big time. More wins!

Let’s drink small wine to wash this news.

BLUELemon:
I really don't understand why people want to be unfaithful in a marriage. All the same it shouldn't lead to death...

I know she will be regretting the day she killed her hubby

Funny thing is, the devil urge you into a fight and the next second, your eye don clear

He was not unfaithful. Her husband is a Muslim and has the religious rights to marry another wife if he wants.

She shouldn’t have married a Muslim if she didn’t want a junior wife.

She committed a wicked crime. I just feel sorry for the child who would grow up to be told this sad story.

Thank you champ.

More wins!

Once this thing hits poor communities, it won’t leave Nigeria without taking a huge toll.

Government officials should suspend all their nonsense laziness and stealing for the next few days and work for the people for once in their fûcking greedy lives!

wonuks:
Afro Knight. Be warned. Get off my mentions

You issued warnings to me? What a joke.

Let’s be objective here.

Can any woman wear those “pants” and they would fit?

Whatever those things are, they are not pants for goodness sake.

wonuks:
We don't deserve it jare. Let them pay their debt if they are owing.

Gather here if you don't give a damn about this news

You can’t read.

And you’re gathering dumbasses like you.

City for me.

Village wife is just a city wife who lives in the village. Once you ferry her over to the city, she will assume character.