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Ariza:
Oga leave talk.
What is intelligence? Describe an intelligent Woman.

Let's start from there before anyone comes here to argue blindly.

Lol. You should not be triggered.

All we have reiterated on this thread is, we love intelligent women. The exception (for some of us) is intelligent feminists. Otherwise, we’re good with smart women. And if she has an appealing appearance, that’s a bonus.

A glance through the thread will show you guys encouraging him to treat her well particularly as a response to his double entendre.

Man says she’s smart, we say she’s a catch because that’s not common these days. No offence.

Millenniumlady:
This was written by a gold digger......Set awong my wife's money is my money mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Small “help” and you’re triggered. You and you’re husband are both human beings. Your mates are helping their men. You are here crying.


Men, you cannot win. You spend on them, they call it patriarchy. You ask them to spend on you they call it weak.

I’d rather swim in patriarchy.

pocohantas:
Were you also judging women by the ones you surrounded yourself with?

Are you surrounded by dunderheads, hence your first comment? When will you also do better?

Typical deflections from supposed INTELLIGENT MEN. First it was feminist, now the kind of men I am surrounded by.

It’s interesting how you arrived at that conclusion. And yes it is both your feminism and your jaundiced worldview, informed by the sort of men in your life.

This is quite clear. The guys on this thread are a fairly dependable subset to draw your conclusion from. Girls like her are rare, that’s why we are pleased that the OP has found something good. We think it is a good thing.

If you think guys are not attracted to such women, then you are mistaken and must be rolling with men who think intelligence is unimportant. That says a lot about you, not men.

Traditionally, we are the ones who seek out partners, and all we have implied on this thread is dumb girls outnumber intelligent ones by a wide margin. If this triggers you, that’s your problem. It should not come as a surprise that men would take slay queens on trips. That’s the majority of the pool.

pocohantas:
The exception is that men are drawn to intelligent women. Leave feminist alone and face facts. Out there in the streets, the slayqueen are cashing out and buying cars.

How many times have you and your fellow men that are attracted to intelligent women, gone to schools to ask of their best graduating female? How many times have you seen any female trying to take a professional course and you assisted her, morally, financially or anyway sensible?

Oga, leave all this your talk. Most men are not drawn to any intelligent women. Go to universities and see how the bookworms are neglected. Go to work places, na the same thing. They call them ugly and boring. We can already see that on this thread.

Men are attracted to youthfulness and everything around it. Men are first lustful beings. The minute percentage that are different are the exceptions!! Not the rule!!!

It appears you are judging me by the kind of men you surround yourself with.

Do better for yourself, then you will understand what I’m talking about.

People type in their sleep these days.

pocohantas:
Very true, men are attracted to intelligent confident women. That is why men are buying cars and houses for slayqueens, taking them to Dubai- while the intelligent young girl is looking for money to do Masters after years of job search.

Yes, men are drawn to intelligent women.

You have another joke for us?

Since when do we tout the exception as the rule? Anyway, that’s how you people argue. Not surprised.

Yes, people are temporarily distracted by snacks but will settle for meals for sustenance.

And by meals (wholesome meals), we are not talking about you feminists who think rudeness is confidence and impertinence is intelligence. A man faced with the binary options would rather a dumb slay queen than an “intelligent” feminist.

She is confident and has a good memory. You say she’s intelligent and I’ll take your word for it.


NL ladies! Look at men gushing about the young lady. Scroll through and you’d notice they keep saying such women are a rarity.

Nairaland babes, Men are drawn to intelligent confident women. Men are attracted to women who can hold meaningful conversations, who don’t depend on a man for everything.

It is so difficult to engage a random naija chick online these days. They cannot even initiate and sustain simple witty conversations. All they do is post pictures of themselves looking morose (they somehow think that’s sexy) and videos of them twerking or making faces at the camera. Slide into their DM’s and you’d wonder how beauty and basic intelligence can be mutually exclusive.

Anyway, this young lady will grow up to have meaningful relationships. She attracts men who are fascinated by her progress.

udemzyudex:
I disagree with you on this one.

Who is a wife? She's also a helper and should be there to support him too.
I don't see anything wrong is borrowing from his wife, he should borrow and learn to return it back or even hard something to it when returning it.

If his wife can't help who will?

Like I told someone else,

Different strokes for different folks.

chikeorji123:
Thank you my guy..our mentality here is embarrassing.. someone is dying emotionally all he could get is fix it 'your a man'' trash.. l'm thinking of getting Marry to these our ladies na risk..

Big risk bro. Naija babes are not trying at all.

atarapa:
elder afroknight u Don chop kola? Make u take one cup of snap, u talk well

My Chairman sir. Thank you.

DaddyRochie1642:
The thing is, assuming am to marry a thick woman,..then she gets pregnant, definitely she will add weight due to the pregnancy and the percentage of her going from being Thick to being "Fat" is definitely High,
And in the process, I'll loose appetite for her.

Now, assuming I marry a Lady that her body's showing promise,.. she's not too slim and she's not fat either and her body has those Curves that haven't reached its peak yet, .. when she gets pregnant and she starts adding weight because of the pregnancy, I can swear with my Balls, that's her Body Reaches it's full potential because that weight she'll gain will be Channeled towards the right Places, (you know what I mean) ... I have seen this happen severally.

Her body is showing promise?

Guy you’re a legend. I see your point and I’m totally subscribing to it. Bro, You the man!

You said “please don’t bash my woman”? OP, your woman obviously cheated on you.

You should visit a HOSPITAL for proper diagnosis.

Women uphold patriarchy when it suits them.

Married women think they are more important than singles because a man has put a ring on her finger.

Confused beings.

She’s what, 18 years old?

Young man, don’t waste your time dating a teenager. You have your whole life ahead of you. Face it.

donnie:
Abeg ma hear word
They're systematically killing people there.

So with all your education, you believe that the US government like other governments around the world are systematically killing their own people and halting economic activities? You mean that sounds more plausible than a new infectious disease outbreak, killing people?

You are joking, right?

Comments like what we have on the first thread are the major reason America has buried/cremated 90,000 people.

LadySarah:
Ask hm why he married her even when he knew she was stiff.

“Take me for who I am” is not an excuse for unwholesome behaviour.

He is married to her already.

GROUNDCHALEBOY:
she is now my gf

congrats. You know you will never be allowed to have a female bestie anymore?

Anyway, all the best.

Wonderful. This had better be fiction.

LadySarah:
If your first paragraph is how you see marriage, then it's warped. No offense sir.
If you or your wife can't cover your unclothedness in times of lack then it's a very useless relationship.

Am I even surprised, Guys that marry superficial girs leaving character and then come here to disturb us with a new account everyday.

Try to explore the fun side of your wife and see her stiffness gone. Maybe your kiss is sloppy, the sex boring , the finance discouraging or she feels dissatisfied with her life or even the preggy.
stop talking and get the job done.

When you decide to visit the real world, kindly mention me.

If any man needs someone to be vulnerable to, especially financially, his buddies are a better option than his Nigerian wife. You see those “for better, for worse” and “two become one flesh“ clauses? They are mere rhetoric to naija women.

Also, look at your advice. Everything points to the man being at fault and being the one to make moves to fix the home even when he is the victim in frustration. Is the woman exonerated from blame because “woman”?

This is inciting. So your governor Wike went on rampage because he wanted to steal money?

NCDC should let this man visit IDH, Yaba, without PPE. Let him stroll in and interview the patients. The problem is that it is a crime to deliberately infect him. If not, he would get his answer.

GoldenJAT:
That your second paragraph eh!! So I can't ask my wife for help when in need!!! Your assertion doesn't sit well with me. It depends on the type of woman you married though.

Different strokes for different folks

Lol.

Hope you told her that she’s still your bestie and not your new girlfriend.

funmisticqueen2:
clearly the intricacies of English language like sarcasm is lost on you.

You say nonsense, you get caught and called out, then you try to hide behind the skirts of sarcasm.

The weight of those legs on my head and neck?

UNACCEPTABLE.

majamajic:
The more am on a lady's matter the less interested I becomes , if at the end of the whole time wasting I see nothing different, I leave.

But no matter how tasteless it is on first day , I value it

So if u made me wait , just make sure it will worth the wait.

Your last line!

Your guy was way out of line.


Your heading says “Even If She's A Wrong Choice, I Love Her”. Hmmm. Don’t ever shoot yourself in the foot like that for a woman. Be circumspect.

This can only happen when you don’t pay attention to what your wife says cos she must have mentioned the venue to you.

Anyway, what’s done is done. Will she leave me because of small indiscretion? Wives should learn how to forgive unconditionally even when the man has not apologised.

DaddyRochie1642:
Marry the Moderate ones if your mind permits you... But always Cheat with the Thick Ones

Why not just go with your spec?

For naija babe? LOL.

I won’t play Russian roulette with my money.

You should never assume the role of a father in your girl’s life. Let her parents/guardians do that. Your role is strictly romantic enjoyment. Stick to it.

You lost the reigns of the relationship right from the beginning.

Don’t let one small girl manipulate you.

sweettease:
Is that how people quit marriages? Something tells me you're the one with a problem in the marriage

You’re a woman. Not surprised by your comment.