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Stop setting yourself up.

Forget her.

Ọmọ ọdún mẹ́jọ! 8 years old!

Apostle must hear of this.


She needs serious tongue lashing.

Spiritualist disguised as a pastor has scammed the OP.

Money ritual ko. Money spiritual ni.

You needed a reason and the spiritualist gave you what you wanted.

Hope those men were not trying to embarrass her.

Ladies keep saying they dress for themselves and not to be admired by men. They say they don’t care what we think. But they will be adjusting skirt and neckline when they catch us looking.

Brotherly, just look and waka pass.

I once looked at one babe so much she actually started to smile then I smiled back and faced what I came to buy in the market. I dashed her hopes of meeting a wonderful guy like me.

sapphiere:
Great.
Wizkid would regret his acts in the future.

We have not passed or forgotten

You watch too much telenovela

tillaman:
Cool, in as much as the thing pain me because I been dey plan to marry this woman and Yemi Alade once the council of elders anoints me as the next king of our kingdom but it’s all good sha, Yemi Alade still dey

Lol. Bro, do fast before Johnny Drille go collect Yemi from your hand.

Palema007 how far?

He should go and sleep jare.

The husband finds it humorous.


It’s his cup of tea.

DaddyRochie1642:
Afro knight, Expertly dishing out words of Wisdom.

Happy New year

Happy New Year!

Anyway, Congratulations bro.

If you need baby clothes and stuff, I can supply you wholesale. I hope she gives birth to triplets.

Having unprotected sex means you’re ready for the consequences.

You never planned to marry a single mom or someone who is not a graduate but somehow you had skin to skin with a person who fits those descriptions; a person you met just last month!

You’re lucky it’s only pregnancy you’re dealing with and not something life threatening!

The fact that she’s 27 years old and not working should have suppressed any urge you had.

What if she decides to keep the child, will you act like her baby daddy and abandon them?

You’d better sit down and evaluate your actions and decide

A number of myopic people have found a way to blame the citizens for this rush.

A government needs you to do BVN, Sim registration, NIN, Drivers License, International Passport, Bank Account Opening, Permanent Voters Card and collects THE SAME biometrics and personal information on each. Yet they cannot seem to synchronise all that data in at least 10 years! What a shame!

Ashirawealthy1:
Its mainly for fun, it shall also pass by just like paternity fraud (DNA).
Those backing it up as if their life depends on it, are mainly guys who stink of poverty and are so broke and useless (especially nairaland guys).

Ashira you again

No lie is too big for an angry woman to spin against you. Imagine what she cooked up against the man. Just imagine.

Warning!

SMAN task force is not smiling.

Laughnow419:
He is doing well

I’m proud of him

thebosstrevor1:
These deceivers keep beating women in their sport.

Soon the best sportswomen will be men with joysticks and boobs or a man who identifies as a woman

It’s coming to bite woke people in the âss.

That identity thing is either fraudulent or a sign of mental illness. Why can’t they allow people to identify as younger versions of themselves so they can apply for jobs that are limited by age and gender?

Like “I’m a 23 year old woman trapped in a 54 year old man’s body and I’d like to model for Victoria’s Secret’s new line of lingerie.”

They conveniently won’t allow this much liberty though, but they’d encourage a teenager to think of himself as a girl only to grow up to hate his body as he begins to develop into a man, like a normal human being.

It’s a circus. Gynaecologists are having a hard time with these trans people but they don’t complain because the LGBT community is viciously oppressive. They’ll bully you online and ensure you lose your job/livelihood.

Even sports bodies are finding it difficult to integrate trans athletes into sports while upholding a semblance of fairness. Perhaps when they grow in population to a significant number, they can carve out an entire niche in sports.

My Comrade, I see you have started sensitisation here.

Well done sir.


UP SMAN!
“Let me see what I can do!”

Men, yes.

Women, no.

Generally speaking.

The way he let it out is funny. But it is a heavy thing to end a marriage.


I began to lose interest in marriage years ago when people whom I respected and who “heard from God” had distinctly unpleasant problems in their marriages; problems that should not be found in the home of “believers”. Some people try to paint it as trials and tribulations but I sincerely doubt that is the case.

Someone who is your “God chosen” wife/husband should not come factory-fitted with some scandalous baggage and tendencies. No. But they do. Why?

Marriage no be by calculation. There are rules of thumb to follow but there’s still a flavour of randomness that can upset even your carefully laid plans.

I observed what I believed were good marriages only for the spouses to confess how they are still together just because the endure each other. You see those sermons ministers give on wedding days, don’t take them for granted. They are even understating the challenges. So what’s the point in enduring one person for 25 to 30 years? Is it just so you can celebrate silver jubilee?

RisenPhoenix1:
Women use sex to buy love. Men use love to buy sex. Like any economic transaction each party is looking to find a bargain, i.e. spend the minimum amount of their currency to purchase the maximum amount of the service they need. So once women have gotten the man's commitment, they will thereafter spend as little sex as is necessary to keep him from straying to another market. Whereas, once a man has acquired the woman's sexual favours, he will spend the minimum amount of love and commitment to keep her from withholding them. The best solution is to marry more than one wife. Thereafter, they can share the sexual burden among themselves, and the man can pretend to love all of them equally and share a little of his attention among each of them; satisfying all parties involved.

Factoid of life. Free of charge for you.

What!!!!

Hmmm. This is how women use their own hands to destroy their marriages. Mocking your husband with his disability is LOW.

People who don’t have quick temper often ruminate on insults received. You’d think they’ve let go because they didn’t react, but they actually spend time brooding on it.

Mr Oga, don’t dwell too much on the insult so it won’t make you say or do something you would regret.

Decide now.

If you want to forgive her, do it totally and try to forget this. If you don’t want to forgive her, don’t pretend all is well. Tell her in plain terms.

Just don’t brood on those words.

Whatever you do, don’t lie to yourself.

sapphiere:
Congrats to the celebrants. God help me o. This year shouldn't pass me by.

Meanwhile, check out these twin sisters rocking their husband. (One man to two wives)

Now I understand

sapphiere:
Read before you comment. One didn't get married because her sister is getting married. If that was the case, she would have gotten married to her bf. She got married to the same man because they both can't live without each other. They want to live under the same roof.

And hey! Gone are the days parents dictate how their kids live their lives.

Have sense small.

The man came because of one girl. The other one was thrown in as bonus in the name of she can’t be without her sister. That’s rubbish.

Many parents allow their twins to get away with nonsense just because they think twins are supernatural or some rubbish like that.

So, one is getting married before the other. What’s the problem with that? Why must you humour the other twin because she wants to be married too? She no get boyfriend? Now she is second wife.

Wait. Who is first and who is second wife?

Anyway, the man can never love them equally. That’s where the drama starts.

Unnecessary drama.

Nairaland babes won’t stop eating fufu 10pm before bed but they want this body at even 35.


This is a beautiful 52 year old young lady.

Her fiancé might even be among those guys saying DNA test is not necessary, not knowing he’s about to father another man’s kids.

OP,

You know know what you’re doing. You just need people to justify it for you. Continue.

A wise man would recognise that such a woman who is trying to have her cake and eat it, is a disaster for any man who ends up with her.

Amazing101x,

Glancing through the thread, I don’t think ladies are happy with this idea.






So,

Yes, please go ahead. Do it. As long as you have money and good sources of income.