₦airaland Forum

emmanuelewumi:
children will say my mummy has paid my school fees, whereas it was the father who gave excess money to the wife to pay for school fees

My uncle (of blessed memory) told me this when I was about to get money. He said sometimes take your kids out. Because if you give money to your wife, they would not be able to discern between daddy and mummy's money.

On the flip side a colleague once narrated a scenario between his 8 year old son and the mum. The boy noticed that whenever they demand for something, the mom always says let us wait for daddy. The boy noticed this and asked the mom one day: Everytime daddy, everytime daddy, mummy don't you have your own money?

AnthonyAnderson:
A woman that has been good and supportive deserves a part of the will even if she chooses to remarry. She definetly would have made sacrificies for the man to acquire such properties by way of delayed gratification... etc. I would never put such clauses. Let us not encourage such acts.

I love my wife and even if she chooses to remarry after I am gone I will only wish for her a happy life with the new man and not take away from her what she had also contributed by way of delayed gratifcation etc. A good wife will honour you even in death.

A lot of men remarry when they loose their wives (inheriting their wives possessions without a will) so why should it be different for women.....

The problem is not with the woman remarrying. The problem is the type of man that she marries who may deprive his children from his wealth. Besides if it was the other way round, would the woman name the husband as a beneficiary? Emotions kill business

TotoNaRubber:
My people where can someone find better wife, the girl I've been chatting with on Facebook just billed me N3.5 million yes Three point five million Naira for iPhone business she says she just got a good dealers contact.

I neva even see her pant but she sounds like a nice girl, pls could this be a good investment or I should just keep sending her the usual N25K transfer every month and wait till road clear.

Why would you pay for a piece of land you have not seen with your own eyes? But I honestly do not want to believe this your post

Seun:
Can you imagine how many people must have the disease for there to be 100 known deaths?

Don't believe everything you move to the front page

kristo123:
If these deaths going on in the north are COVID-19 related why are they not reflecting on NCDC figures.

Very very good question

iamvictorbassey:
I honestly low-key want this COVID19 shìt to Fück Nigeria and Africa up (Me inclusive). Yes. I really do.


So that when we tell northerners that God doesn't take care of Children, they'll believe.

So that when I tell my friends that your prayers and tithes doesn't do shìt, they'll believe.

So that when you tell Nigerians something exists from the angle of a learned person, they'll believe and stop arguing.

So that when next we emphasize the need for health care budget being reasonable, legislators will agree.

In my mind, the thing is not even doing well enough. Too slow for my liking.

I want the remaining Africans who'll survive, understanding the concept of cause and effect. Understanding that we pay too much attention to non priorities like religion, ethnicity, hairstyle, greetings, dressing, tattoo, choice of food, choice of dress sense, etc. While neglecting essentials.

Covid here is too slow.

Disclaimer: Don't bother quoting me, I don't reply. I post my opinion, you post yours.

Humans would never learn. That's why history always repeats itself

Humanoid01:
You don't even need to read the write up to know that it didn't happen in Nigeria. The picture or the first line alone is just enough.

This is to tell you that most of the noisemakers here dont know how to read. Even if they do, they don't apply diligence to read and reflect before they comment. Their brain is on deafult setting to wait and abuse the government. We are our own problem.

honeyB2018:
Pastor Poju, is 100% wrong. I'm not surprised he can spew this nonsense.
Lots of people, don't see and understand what Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Oyakhilome Chris is seeing and talking about. Lots of you, toeing the line of thought of Pastor Oyemade, don't know, the power of the cooperate church. If you know, you will not be in his support.
You don't know, what damage, spiritually the closure of the place of worship has done to lots of believers, lots of Christians will never be the same after this lockdown and closure Wait till the closure is lifted, then you will understand.
I stand with Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Chris. Oyakhilome.

What spiritual power? So its only in Church that the power of of an omipotent and omnipresent God resides? You are just a joke. Were were the pastors when corona virus started since december? You guys are more interested in going to church to pray instead of finding research for drugs and vaccines. Ok, if I want to tow your line of argument, how many people have they healer since the pandemic? It is only in Africa such useless thinking can happen. If your spiritual life is down because you dint go to church, my friend you were never even spiritual in the first place.

allytinted:
When football returns, commentators be like "Ohh!!! What a Covid strike from Messi!!! 30 yards from the quarantine area, sending the keeper into isolation, absolutely PANDEMIC.

Chai. Oh boy. You dey mad o.

Kobojunkie:
Nigerians laws and cultures have women living as subhumans aka slaves.
Why do you think women continue to fight for equality in the eyes of the law ? Have you not been able tp put 2&2 together by now on that ?

Culture that produced Queen Amina, Queen Idia, the women who rioted in 1929 while the men were looking on, Funke Ransome-Kuti (Fela's mom),. Grace alele Williams, Ezekwesili who ran for president. Mr man, if the women in your family did not stand up to be counted, don't blame culture , blame them for having entitlement mentality.

emmaodet:
Are you saying our laws enslave our women? is there any part of the law that enslaves women? why are we quick to demonize our country? is there anything nigerian men are doing that the women dont have access to? Most times we talk, open threads on how to travel to abroad etc, some even do thanksgiving in church for getting a visa and somehow look at others as unfortunate for been in nigeria and i wonder where are we getting this mentality from? who told these guys people in nigeria are suffering while the ones in abroad are the fortunate ones?
And that is how some of my friends will come home and be sneaking/hiding from people as if we way they here dey hungry, even with your coming home i will still flex you and host you so what the fvck?
Like what the op said in his first statement that - ''leave that your native brain'' to HELL with him if he thinks he is better off than some here because he thinks like a native fowl too. Leave your yeye bride and bigboyism too etc
I dont know his family or background but i believe he his part of the people who scream ''moti bo - Am free'' when he got his visa at walter carrington in VI

And yet he can't even save $2k monthly and has to work overtime to meet up

hakeem4:
Instead of lock down we should just try Charles Darwin's natural selection. Survival of the fittest (literal meaning). If after a period those who are immune to it would live and give birth to stronger offspring. and those who are not lucky

What makes you think you would be among the fittest who would survive

Dem don dey talk true small small. They have seen that waiting for WHO or the West would wipe them.out. Now everybody is suggesting what can help

RuudVanNisteroy:
You don't know Nigerians, they will use someone else social security number to work and give them a cut from their earning lol

Is this a certain ruud I know from.lere?

OakPearl:
Next step is to fund your account.
Choose the US Dollar option to save you the hassles of post-funding conversion.

For this option do I chose bank account or card payment?

Tissaia:
Let them blame Fulanis like they always do.
They are probably fighting over two acres of Land. This people want to govern themselves. they think running a country is a joke. one Nigeria is a favour to them. They need to be saved from themselves. Imagine lamidi cownu is president, wike is vice president, Asari dokubo a minister. Evans a senator. Tompolo Chief of Army, boyloaf chief of Navy. Just imagine the Chaos.
This people thinks the new world oder is a joke

Are you guys sick upstairs or what. Why is every news on Nairaland viewed through tribal lens. Is this what you intend to teach your kids? Get a life!!!

Mcy56:
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instinct57vm:
I agree with most of your thoughts, but trust me I have heard both sides of the story. The hubby failed to give any indicting accusation. He simply mismanaged the situation and exposed his wife to his family bruhaha. In conclusion i saw a guy that wasn’t ready to marry in the first place

Why don't you tell us this story from the husband's point of view let us decide if he is/was not ready to marry in the first place

Wolgrace:
You share a story in favour of your friend while seeking suggestions and views from us, and at the same time judging your friend's husband and inlaws. That means our suggestions and views does not matter since you already concluded.

I'm sorry for your friend. All I could say.

The most sensible reply here

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

Can you support your husband over your mum? I'm not supporting the man, but your view is baseless

Chosen1984:
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And so if the Vatican shuts up , who cares?

Is the Vatican your Guide!

GOD ALMIGHTY far above any man or Vatican or whatever...

Why not meet your god for a cure then

Abfinest007:
When will this nonsense inter state Ban come bcus I have been trapped n I really wants to go home

Even me. I left home since mid-march to work. I managed to get to the village during the first phase of lockdown. Since then I never see my family

Believe this story at your own peril

dapadawee:
remember that even the church of satan is on lockdown the club house and beer parlous are locked down the betting companies are lockdown so the devil too is not gaining from this lockdown

Lol. This man sef

Chosen1984:
How many people today spend time with GOD in their Closest?

How many people today open their bibles in their closest to read or even pray?

You will be shocked to see the number of Bible's that will be in dust today!

The Church is the body of Christ! It's not just the building! It represents a place where people go to Meet GOD.

So if a Government can open up the Markets and still shut down the places that Represents GOD , it's tells you where their affection is!

It's is Great Foolishness!

Let's see the Solutions!

You don't Isolate GOD and Expect to have Solution

And the solution would come from church? . Even the Vatican was locked down. Now ask yourself, the Asian countries that defeated the virus, how many churches do they have there? Even North Korea did not have a single case and you are talking about church. You must be living in the dark ages

dapadawee:
pls pardon me I have question
1.where is God and where is the market
2.how can we get to God and how can we get to the market.
3. can I get to God in my house in this lock down and can I get to the market in my house in this lock down.
4.did they just say lock all gathering to attack the church was that there intension.
5.God forbid war if there is a war in the world and instead of this pandemic it is bomb that is flying will they open church.
6.even during war people cease fire for food supply

What this people don't understand is that Corona virus has let us know where priorities lie. All industries and businesses were closed except food and health. The world is not looking to religious leaders again but scientits. If some people cannot discern this things and re-evaluate their priorities, then that person is lost for good.

Ejima1:
Prayer is also essential

If all the scientists left the lab and prayed who would discover the vaccine for Corona virus?

Poor people also lost money. This is not news

Ilekokonit:
Most Medical students study for 16 hours a day if they are to pass because there is negative marking where the questions you get wrong are deducted from your correct answers so that you don't start gambling with patients lives. And this is done the world over and so you might see an 18 year old Indian girl going to study for 1st year Medical school exams at 1 am in the morning and she intends to stay in the night study area all night. No pain no gain.

Regarding sites for study materials / software, you can search youtube and also do a freehand search on google but structure and dedication is key to passing the certification exams after 90 days as if you score less than 70% you may struggle more to get a job than someone who spent 14 hours a day studying / PRACTICING the IT skill set and scored 90% as that high mark will give him or her a level of confidence at job interviews that will impress the interviewer and such high scoring candidates will be like lecturers at such job interviews and will also smash any related IT selection exams set at such job interviews.

Apart from phyton, which otger programming course is good? Also where can I get good books and register for the exam in Nigeria

You still want to spend money on another degree only to go back and do what you would be doing with your Bsc which is looking for a job. It's not bad to AVE answers degree, but going for a postgraduate degree to get a job is bull Whyte. Mr man take that money and that 18 months that you would use to get the MSc and learn a skill or two.

WHO can go to hell. Useless global body burden