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Pessimism
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I begism, una dey make me laughism, i wan wakaism before I rollism on the floor because of laughingjaism.

It is infatuation. Control your emotions girl so you would not have to regret it at a very short run. He won't be yours (Gospel truth). Think twice, but if you are bent on seeing him, shut the door to your heart and lock with 2 big padlocks.

Revolution indeed. Chases after them but when them score goal the table go turn. Men! Deliverance needed for most of them. Chai! Lolz.

Taking advantage of his weaknesses doesn't mean i cheat on him but can do some silly things when necessary. But don't make it too much, because the day the juju go clear for him eyes, ehn, hmmn, i reserve my comment. But use sense.

My advice for you, is to try and keep your integrity, resign and tell your woman about it. Because if you do not do this evil thing to sin against God and against your woman, I am sure God in his mercies will provide another better-off job. Don't blackmail him, let God deal with him. Stop considering his request and consider your integrity and name.
Please what if your boss was a beautiful lady who spends alot on you, are you going to do it or try to post it here?

Oh God, please make Nigerians stop criticising their fatherland. Make us realise we are the ones that are to be blamed or praised for the situation of this country. For every creation there is a purpose, thank you because you have purpose for our country. Also make people to be more optimistic than being pessimistic. For in Jesus most precious and mighty name i pray. AMEN! (say a bigger AMEN). 9ja my beloved land. I love you.

Thank you. In addition to your point. They should combine funds together, they should not wait for plenty money so as to make an elaborate wedding. A small fund will do.
Thier courtship period was long which gave way for the devil to come in.

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Marriage marriage marriage marriage, giving majority a lot of problems because people often fail to follow God, the origin of marriage.
Abeg pardon shorthand o, some people do use phones to post too. Though that should not be misused or abused.
To the first relationship scenario, is it 3years courtship or 3years boyfriend and girlfriend palaver? i think a true courtship starts when two people decide to marry and have both agreed, parents agreed, church agreed etc. So is it 3years courtship or 3years friending?
For the second case, it's probably a case of improper courtship. The period was probably not used in proper and realistic planning/harmony. All they need to do is work hard and catch up on their marriage goals, with God, all things are possible.

The first scenerio is not friendship but courtship and families, church and friends are aware of it. It is 3 years courtship, they did not get married because they claim there is no fund.

Please i am sorry about that, i have made corrections. Thanks as you share your views and advice.

There are two sets of people i want us to talk about and share your views into their relationship.
The first set is about a guy and a lady that are into courtship for 3years and have not seen their unclothedness (they are christians and workers in the church and it is the will of God for them to get married). The guy started asking for sex else he'll end the 3years courtship but the lady insisted that it should be sex after marriage and also she does not want to leave the guy after 3years because she is not getting younger. The man has no good and stable job thus no sufficient fund and the lady do not have a well paid job. Pls what is your advice for them.
The second sets is about married couples who courted for just one month (both christians and workers in church and was also God's will for them to be married). After the marriage they were not able to cope because the man is very hot tempered and gets angered over minor issues and he has a well paid job. The woman squanders money on unnecessary items like clothes, shoes, etc and the man is fed up and wants to end the marriage. Please what is your advice for them. Shalom.
YOU CAN ASK WHAT YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND.

luv ke? Tanx sweetie pie.

bin gbagbo:
hey, i thank God 4 u oo!

gud moaning!

tanx

Both of u suld b in concord agreement wit ur choices. Bt in dis case, i blieve LADIES FIRST. U wil b d one 2 wear it 4 christ sake. Try n mk him undastand dat d only tin dat wil bring u bak swit memories suldn't cause u sadnex weneva u luk @ it n rmbr n say 2 urself ''dis is nt wat i had wanted''.

One spouse policy? Dat wil b nice bt u knw, it is blieved dat females r more dan men in d world. Lets say all guys starts 2 pik one one, a lot wil go HUSBANDLESS or SPOUSELESS. Bt i wil neva encourage polygamy of any sort.

Although i am nt a yoruba gal bt i am 4rm cross river state bt i av live a beta part of my lyf in yoruba land n sm few tym in oda place n i do meet wit different folks. I av cum 2 a conclusion dat yoruba r most repectful 2 elders dan oda tribes. Bt now d juju don dey clear 4 them eyes o. Lolz.

No i dnt tink so. Sm lies r @tym necessary n also essential 2 kip a relationship bt it rily depends o. They kal it WHITE LIES.

Check dis out. Lolz

Mo yagbe to
Won ijoba fe je igbe

bin gbagbo:
i hear u my angel, how body?

tanx. I dey kampe.

Beauty of d face is short lived, bt beauty of d heart is goodness. 2 b physically beautiful is secondary bt d insyd is primary.

mcnepow:
Also adding to d lots of advice above - do not be shy or afraid to ask questions.
NOTABLE WORDS u'ld hear and their meanings-
1. o wa - wen in a bus and u want to alight, u say 'o wa' meaning its okay.
2. 10 naira is called 'fiber', 20 is 'shandy', 50 is 'wazo', 100 is 'h', 200 is '2h or awo'.
3. when jumping down a moving bus (cos most times u would), don't jump and stand (if not na summersault u go find urself dey do) instead, u jump and take 3 or 4 steps forward.
Welcome 2 Lasgidi!

number 2 caught my glance more dan twice. Lol
eko o ni baje o

bin gbagbo:
4CK U!





shittz!

pls calm down. No vex, neva meant it 4 u 2 b angry plss

I bet u cnt differentiate two @ first sight.

*laughs in yoruba @ all comments*
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yes all of d above r necessary.

freecocoa:
Yes its all very important,I think there should even be a test for checking the cheating level\ability of couples.

na true talk, very necessary!