Tob456: I have a 7 months old daughter her mother is an orphan, she is the eldest of 7.
We broke up when she was pregnant because we had a disagreement about her siblings living arrangements.
She wanted her 4 sisters to stay with us after the wedding and I only two of them to stay with us. The problem is seeing my daughter growing in a bad environment away from me makes me feel so bad.
Whenever I visit her I feel so bad leaving her behind that I don't sleep well thinking about her all night.
I also doesn't like the idea of having kids with different mothers.
For my daughter's sake I want to get back with her mother for us to raise her together in the same house. But getting back with her means that I should also allow her 4 siblings to stay with us after the wedding.
I am doing this for my daughter's sake but I don't know if I am making a wise decision.
What do you guys think should I get back with her or forget about her and concentrate only on my daughter.
Please help
Any option you choose you go regret am! Just close your eyes and choose one!
GIDIBANKZ: GoodDay Great Nairalanders, How are guys doinq (PLEASE PATIENTLY READ)
Due to the way the Country is now, everybody want to JAPA for Better Lyf, please if you have intention of travelinq out of Niqeria, please and please if you know you cant Process your VISA on your own BETTER stay in Nigeria here and HUSTLE than to give your Hard EARN money to VISA agent to Help you PROCESS VISA
HERE IS MY STORY AND HOW GOD used somebody that also paid the visa Agent Saved me
i have plans to travel to Either UNITED KINGDOM (London) or CANADA in search of Greennee pasture, so i have been Preparing myself financally and looking for who will help me process it.... There is this VISA AGENT I SAW ON FACEBOOK name TMT TRAVELS & TOURS with mark zukaberth Even VERIFYING HIS FACEBOOK ACCOUNT and PAGE .... I thought i was in the Right place that God has finally Anwered my prayer.. i started observing his comment sextion with over 400+ comment & 1.5k likes and everybody there keep hailing him and sometimes he gives VISA advise to people and post pictures of people traveling Via him processing Visa for them and Never Knew it was All fake(for na only Philiphine Visa he sabi do😂😂😂) ONE THING I NOTICE with the people wey he say he do Visa for so, for all the Photograph so, dem nor dey Ever smile😂😂 na so so Vex dem dey vex and i nor even quick pay attention to that one..... i observed him for 3months nd Decided to chat him up which he sent me a Link on whatsapp to chat with his Secretary whxh i did and they sent me a form via PDF which i fill and submitted via mail😂... all this while i was paying attention to his Facebook if i will see someone that will atleast come out to say "THANK YOU FOR THE EUROPE VISA" by himself but i didn't see anybody, me just kept mute
Typinq......
That’s how I was scammed by one agency called GOAJO. They claimed to process different categories of Australian visas, with offices in Australia, Lagos, Ibadan etc. If you hear the name GOAJO, please run for dear life
segtech68: I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.
The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.
How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.
Thank you.
It's simple, just tell her you're no more interested in the marrying her
segtech68: I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.
The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.
How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.
Thank you.
It's simple, just tell you're no more interested in the marrying her
Karen2024: Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.
On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'
So what's the problem in calling you by your name?
Isn't Xmas just a week before new year, and you're expecting another package?
Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?
Afodot0022: Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.
It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.
Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.
Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.
She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.
So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.
Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.
Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.
Don't give yourself high BP.
Even if she deletes his number before your eyes, what tells you that she didn't save it somewhere else?
Even if she blocks him on all social media platforms, how would you know that she won't unblock him later?
Will you stay home all day or escort her to and from work to ensure she doesn't go to his house?
Just think about these. Meanwhile, always use condom she give you do.
You know what to do, you're only seeking people's validation.
FarahAideed: Boy Who Criticized Aisha Buhari Also Mocked The Death Of Deborah Samuel
Aminu the 23 year old undergrad who was arrested for allegedly insulting Aisha Buhari also made mockery of the death of matyred christian student Deborah on his Twitter page . Can we call this Karma?
ccjoe: I haven't been able to sleep since yesterday. I'm a promising young guy and still in school and this girl is my bestie in school. We do it regularly and without condom, I never knew it will end like this. Pls i'm just an orphan and still very young.. I need advice on how to handle this situation now..
Congratulations, you just became a man!
Real men take responsibility for their actions, they don't shy away.
Man up, and don't even contemplate on murdering the child
Adetayo41: I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep
Don't show any anger,bro!
In fact, show her more affection.... she'll think you're collecting outside. If it's not a lost cause, she'll come begging
Adetayo41: My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,
What should I do house.? I am pained though
I suspect she's knacking a woman.
Form for her for some time, if she doesn't change, then it confirms my suspicion...then you'd have all the pieces to make an informed decision
Soulflai: I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
kanupapilo: Why are Nigerian Journalists Afraid of Asking Bola Tinubu,Atiku Abubakar and Peter Obi Serious Questions such as?
Bola Tinubu - Why did you give your personal company Alpha Beta 10% tax commission while in office and hide your ownership through fronts and write it into Lagos state tax law. - Why don't you attend to your medical needs in Nigeria. Why do you always travel to France, United Kingdom and United States for medical treatment -Nigerians are concerned about you forfeiting $460k for helping a drug trafficking ring that trafficked heroine from Midwest America to West Africa launder money. - Where did your children get the money to buy multi-million dollar properties in New York. - What is your relationship with MC Oluomo who was caught on tape saying his gang had more guns than their opponents in the 2019 election. - How did you become wealthy enough to afford a private jet.
Atiku Abubakar - The United States Senate indicted you for accepting $2 million in bribes from Siemens and bringing $40 million dollars of suspicious funds to United States. -Why do you travel to Dubai, United Arab Emirates for medical check ups. - Your former boss Olusegun Obasanjo in his personal biography " My Watch" said you patronise occult marabouts and are desperate for power. -Why do you spend most of your time in Dubai, United Arab Emirates more than you do in Nigeria. - Why were your running your personal business when you were in Customs against public service rules. Peter Obi - Can you explain why your convoy was caught in Lagos with N250 million cash. - Why did you go to great lengths to hide money in British Virgin Island through your daughter name as exposed by Pandora and pay French citizens to pretend to be owners of the account. - Why did you say you only have one wristwatch and no house outside Onitsha when that has proven to be a lie. -Why did you invest Anambra state funds in your family personal business.
Arise TV's Rufai asks them tough questions, at times I feel it's too much.
GEEBITE: A lot of our folks don't read. There was a letter to the British high commissioner supporting the visa application by the senator. The purpose of the trip was clearly stated there(medical). We might dislike or hate our politicians but truth should be constant.
If we want to go by the letter to the embassy, then the Ekweremadus wouldn't have been arrested in the first place.
The letter isn't enough proof that he knew the real plan
But still he could claim he wasn't aware that Ekweremadu was going to harvest his organ. So Ekweremadu isn't free yet, they must have a reason for still keep him in custody
naijaclass: Disc Jockey, Florence Otedola, popularly known as Dj Cuppy, has shared a photo of herself in tears as she completes her thesis.
Recall that the billionaire heiress, who had been admitted into Oxford university for her master’s degree program, had frequently complained about her thesis.
Cuppy wrote, “Tears of joy. The wait is finally over!!! My THESIS for @UniofOxford is finally 100% done and submitted!!! Not sure why weeping is my reaction right now. I’m so drained that it actually feels so difficult to celebrate.
“Over the last few weeks, I’ve pushed myself so much, both mentally and physically, to actually finish this degree. Truthfully, this has been one of the most challenging experiences of my life… This paper alone has made me want to drop out of Oxford University twice
“I’ve done something only a few can do, and I don’t need to ask for anyone’s respect or flowers - I’ve earned them! People keep asking where the party is?! LOL I need to rest and rebuild… I am fatigued and partying is the last thing on my mind. Greatful to the Most High
UGLYSALT: PICTURE NEWS: Accreditation of APC Delegates has begun as they arrive at the venue for the screening which precedes the voting exercise at the Eagle Square where the party’s presidential flag bearer will be decided
Hope the aspirants come bearing gifts?
On a serious note now, I'm seeking employment for the role of a delegate, who can help me?�
It's going to be a huge gamble for Israel to strike Iran, worst still, to do it unilaterally. Iran is a country with nuclear capability, and hence should not be underrated. Also, there's a big chance that the likes of Russia and china will rise to defend Iran. This might lead to a war of unimaginable proportion.
SayAsSeen: Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.
My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.
Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?
I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.
NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.
She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.
I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.
I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.
I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!
Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.
I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?
Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.
Wish I could explain better
Are you 100% sure that he's really her brother? E get why
Foreverdope: A video is making the rounds on social media which reveals the moment a corp member proposes to a solider at Kwara NYSC camp.
According to reports, the duo met during orientation exercise in KWARA STATE NYSC Orientation Camp, Lafiagi-Share Road, 243103, Yikpata.
In the now viral video, The corp member kneel then proposed to her and she accepted the proposal
The video has generated mixed reactions from social media users, while some wonder why such thing could happen under three weeks other said they can never marry a female soldier
bigpriik: I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.
Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..
But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.
Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.
But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.
I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.
Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.
What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
You tried to rape her, you even assaulted her physically! You should be in prison right now
sirrotex: Just recently I watched a video of an American woman who officials at the Lagos airport attempted to extort in the guise that her covid 19 documentation was incomplete.
I have also heard how officials at the airports in Nigeria extort outbound travelers especially those with Virgin passports.
From customs to immigration, to NAHCO, to airline officials, to one agric something like that and the others, their main targets are usually the first time Travellers. Lagos airport is extremely notorious. To avoid their wahała, arrive at airport ahead of check-in, so you wouldn't be under pressure because you don't want to miss your flight, and part away with hard-earned money
This thread aims to expose the antics of corrupt airport officials and if possible report such incidences to the appropriate quarters.
Family › Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or I Will Regret It by akintunde63: 6:58pm On Jul 05, 2023
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,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.