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A submissive wife is the type of woman that listens to and obeys her husband as long as his wishes are not against their religion. Yes! Religion, because it's majorly religion that brought about submission

She has the right to air her opinions and bring suggestions. However, her opinions and suggestions are subject to weighing by her husband. He can use it to form his decision or not.

Imagine the husband wants A and the wife wants B, both are insisting on their stance. Who will break the tie? An outsider?
If the wife is submissive, she'll let him have his A as long as it's not going to cause her problems or discomfort.

Because God has put men as leaders, women have to pray for a husband that'll lead her family right. Men have to pray for the grace to lead his family right.

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeewwww, when you have a logical response to give me as the gendar deserving of "leadership", come back to quote me.



Imagine person like you sef dey find woman wey go dey bow and worship am 🤣.

Like is this the intelligence you go take dey do head of house? This is it? You people have audacity sha. Boundlessly.

See, this matter no really hard like that.

Just marry your type. If you want to be kneeling down to serve your husband food, marry a man that wants that.
If you want to be sending your husband to wash your underwear, marry a man that can do that.

All these your questions no really necessary.

1Sharon:
It's not as black and white as this, because there is no way a woman should listen to her man that tells her to do something immoral.

If you notice, submission of a woman is mostly brought by the holy books. These holy books will guide the woman.
If the husband asks the woman to do what the holy book speaks against, she can refuse outrightly. It was even said in the quran but I don't know where exactly.

Persephone1:
You just wan talk

I no dey mood

Bye

Glad you couldn't deny.

So, before you talk about a man's small dick, think about your own flat "arse". How chubby girl no go get nyash 🤮🤮

Persephone1:
So?
Did the days of Ariza had her pictures flying all over Nairaland?

Abeg if you wan famz do am reasonably

You're not as anonymous as you think.

No be you dem dey advise to wear flare skirt because of your flat "arse"(as you typed it that day)? Na Poco even give you that advice that day.

Why will I famz you? Normally I do feel you when I see your posts, but famz??

Persephone1:
Anybody who reads this will think you have seen me before not knowing that nah imagination wan kill you.

Some of us have known you since the days of Ariza.

Even you no fit deny say your ass no be flatinö

Basiliun:
Micro penis or giant penis: the question should be could he get you pregnant with It?

The size does not necessarily count but the performance, though some ladies prefers it big, but assuming you do not get pregnant with that giant stuff, which one would had been better?

The penis for a woman is to procreate and pleasure. If it does only 1 of these 2 functions, there will be problem.

Persephone1:
And she said "went to town with him"

Nne una no even reach doorpost ,which town?

Shey you know you have small ass too?

Don't castigate anyone cos you get your own for body o.

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TotoGame:
Yoruba people are always ugly...no wonder their men no dey take eye see igbo babes

Na that same ugliness dem dey use collect Igbo babes for una hand.

Mind you, dem sabi say Igbo girls too dey materialistic. Na that yellow skin, fine face and very pink toto dem dey after.
After that, na dumping o

DestinyNigga:
I graduated from OAU. It's very hard for OAU management to rusticate her student. The only thing they will do to them is to block their eportal. They will be given extra year. That's all 🤷

Block their eportal and give them extra year on what basis?

Whatever you do outside school is your own business not OAU's. Did you see any press release from the school management?

datola:
Very strange any OAU student will have time and guts to engage in illegality like this.

OAU's very rigorous academic system is only for serious minded and brilliant students who can easily make it in life without any disgraceful Yahoo! Yahoo!

May be they are all these pre degree or diploma students.

If you focus only on academics in this Nigeria, you might not make it in life.

benuejosh:
To those who want to travel because they feel Nigeria is not progressing and because of their self hatred for the country. I wish to state here categorically that they should be allow to go. No country should stop them. Safe journey to them but they should also have it at the back of their minds that by the time they don't get what they want in the so called country that flows with milk and honey and they return back to Nigeria when they must have heard of the best happening in Nigeria, they will find out that those of us who stayed back to help sacrifice and build the country will occupy the best positions and we will take charge of every best opportunities and they will become beggars in their own home country.

Not also forgetting those who are spoiling the image of the country with drugs related crimes all over the globe all the time and running to developed countries to constitute nuisance. Your punishment is doing some push-up waiting for you. And may never return alive.

This post reeks of day dreaming and fantasy.

People that have been building Nigeria since when 1 naira was equal to 0.8 USD, where are they today? Are things not deteriorating for every successive government tenure?

Those that suffer abroad are mostly those that 1. Have unrealistic expectations about abroad. 2. Those that didn't research well before leaving. 3. Those that left illegally.
These are the categories of people that can run back when they are not aged.

You need to start holding your leaders accountable. When it comes to building a country, the leaders matter the most.
1.5 billion naira was allocated to change the first lady's fleet of cars yet, ordinary citizens are suffering. Is it the suffering citizens that will build the country?

Coolsat:
From comments you'll know most guys indulge in this dirty act. I can't ever see myself sucking pussy lailai

Men dey wey go dey help your wife lick am.

Cunninglingus itself is not bad but doing it with naija girls is.

Naija girls have sex as if it's only unwanted pregnancy they don't want. You'll ask for a condom, they'll say "I like it raw, just pull out when you want to cum". Jennifer shey pull out will prevent STIs ni?

Their own is to be buying postinor 2. Shey postinor 2 can prevent STI?

Why did you cover her name?
Let's go pay her homage.

Instead of her seeing to her and her father leaving that trenches house, she dey show yansh wey no sexy.

Opanka44:
Hi Nairalanders, I would like to know if it's proper and appropriate for a Guy to ask his girlfriend for her choice of Birthday Gift.

My very good friend called me to ask what kind of Gift I would suggest he buys for his girlfriend on her Birthday. He said the girl has been so nice since they started a relationship Two years ago. And she's not the demanding type. She has almost everything she wants and will need since she's the last born of her family. She's 26.
Personally, I don't have a girlfriend and I do not wish to have now, until I'm completely ready.
Your inputs are needed, my people.
Thanks

Yes it very appropriate.
It is better than buying what she doesn't like or want.

You can also send her the money.

Kobojunkie:
And the advice is to do what your fathers did, the same which got you to where you all are today? Are you having a hard time reasoning or something?

Who told you your fathers did so?

You don't know what it means to be a man, you don't grow a penis in your spare time. You are in no place to talk about being a man. When there's a discussion about manhood, you should keep shut.

Kobojunkie:
The same Africa were men cannot lead their homes are and are today struggling to make sense of even their existence, abi another one?

That is why that guy gave the advice I replied to

Kobojunkie:
So you intentionally marry a woman whose level of intelligence does not measure up to yours and you think that somehow makes for a better union? That was the same formulae your forefathers used and do you not see where it got them? Even their own children refused to submit to the same bullsheet reasoning but here you are proposing it again as though some ingenious idea.

Una truly no dey learn at all!

Go tell this to American sissies that are being controlled by their wives. Tell it to those Americans that promulgated laws to favor women at the expense of men.

This is Africa! Men are born to lead their homes therefore, they must be better and higher than those they lead.
It is better for a Lion to lead 100 Dogs than for 100 Dogs to lead a Lion!

Jman06:
Why do some of you guys think you have better reasoning than females Such delusion! Women reason far better than most men. That is why they successfully turn love relationships to their advantage.

Physical strength is relative. Some women are physically stronger than some men and you know it.

Many women in this country are more financially well off than their male counterparts. If you are surrounded by poor women, I'm surrounded by rich ladies.

So, the premise upon which your post is based hold no water especially in this modern world.

The post is simple. Men should go for women they are above in reasoning, physical strength, and finances.
Simple!

Karleb:
You don't need to lay a finger on her but rather, insult her back.

When she calls you a fool, call her an idiot.


Omo! How una dey cope for that kind life?

That's playing in the mud with a pig.

OP should just be doing his bare minimum responsibilities. Nothing extra.
Let her get a job and make money herself.

MadeINchenzen2:
She must be an indigene of Imo State, at least 5 ft tall, non- cosmetic beauty with natural light skinned, any level of education... Night or day school is allowed. She must be able to speak her local dialect, be able to write In English, fluent in English, have basic skills, have a job, earns at least 50k per week, culinary skills... Has got self-respect and regards for other.


Pls if you are the one with those features... Comment below

Sadly, dem no dey NL.

Na toxic feminists you go see here

mohbadliveson:
You didn't achieve anything with Chicago State University certificate. What will you achieve with FBI? Exercise in futility

The fact that a person even has a record with FBI and CIA is a red flag.

nobaga:
My gosh, why don't you keep quiet and hide your ignorance?

University listing is based on whose needs and for whose benefits? World's Standards and civilized climes by whose definition?



Albertone,

Oh how did I know? You want my address and phone number too?

I'm now convinced many Nairalanders are not worth arguing with. Many of una just carry expensive phone for hand, nothing more.

nobaga:
Thank you for setting the colo mentally of Albertone's brain right. He resurged lines he read or was taught word for word.

Only counselors know the lamentation of minority students in prestigious schools and in demanding professions when the top employers ignored them after interviews.

How or who do they tell that top recruiters "forgot" them?

How did you know they were ignored because they were "minority students"?

Kushites:
You talk so much crap. No, it is not “only in Africa” that people are hired based on their connections. It happens in every blasted continent and country, including the UK.

Plus this demeaning way you speak of UNILAG and UNN is symptomatic of great ignorance and inferiority complex on your part.

Their teaching methods, which you know absolutely nothing about, are not “outdated”, whatever on Earth that means.

And their faculties are better equipped than your prejudice leads you to imagine.

Yeah I should have said "majorly in Africa".

You jump into the middle of a discussion without knowing what brought about it.
We are making comparisons.
Harvard and Oxford Universities are miles ahead of UNN and Unilag. Is that debatable? I guess not.

How would anyone feel the educational system of a university in top 5 in the world isn't better than that of a university I'm not sure is in top 3000?

nobaga:
See typical colo mentality.

What do you learn at Oxford and Harvard that you cannot learn at UNN and UNILAG?

After graduation at Harvard and Oxford who is going to employ you instead of their own children?

Las las at best you will be underemployed or regretfully watch others employed on campus while you find work at retail stores.

Do you know how many families beg their husbands, wives and children to get any job for now until something better comes up. So that they do not become another burden or run mad and depressed?

Not stepping your foot in a foreign soil before isn't an excuse for this colossal ignorance you just displayed now.

Check the global ranking of Harvard and Oxford, compare it with the global ranking of Unilag and UNN. You think they use outdated educational systems like us or their lecturers tell them "A is for God, B is for me, C is for brilliant students"?

Secondly, it's only in Africa that people get employed based on nepotism and favoritism.
Google "target schools" and you'll see that there are schools where employers go to recruit fresh graduates irrespective of race, ethnicity or whatever background. Except you don't posses the skills or papers required.

The whites too get underemployed in their countries. Some of them are even jobless while Indians, Pakistanis, Nigerians, etc have their hands full with jobs.

Again, even the whites too take on demeaning jobs till they get something better. So, it is not a function of being a Nigerian student in a foreign land.

ahnie:
That one na old story nau,I have moved to selling wears,beddings n duvets.

Okay that's nice. Ehn you're not jobless then. Make I keep the 200k I still wan use support you before lol

Thanks for asking,do well to have a nice day.

Make I no long matter abi. Okay have a nice day too ma'am.

ahnie:
Sadly I m Jobless!

I no dey catch cruise o.
I'm talking about your akara and pap business. What happened to it?

carterguccy:
Rabid Dog 🐕 Always barking unnecessary! See what your frustrated and docile life has turn you to now?

Guy 7 years is a really long time to be Miserable! You need to sit up and take care of your home, even though you're a product of a failed family! Try hard and make a good name for your kids, that's if you're able to make one!

Stop ranting! Nobody gives a hoot about what you think of Nigeria or Tinubu.

Have a blessed day 🙏

7 years more = 2 terms.
So you really want him to rule for 2 terms.

Suffer no dey tire una zombies?
You spend more on everything you are buying now than in Buhari's era. And you're still supporting him blindly?

Ashirioluwa:
More reason cost of education in Nigeria is up too, because they believe if Nigerians can pay $15k to $20k per year to school abroad then they should be able to afford between $100 to $1000 per year here in Nigeria.

Most of the money spent studying abroad is borrowed. Once you've Integrated over there, paying back becomes easier (while studying and working).

If you borrow money to study here, even years after graduation, you're not assured of getting a job let alone repaying.