₦airaland Forum

melodyogonna:
Weird but I actually look at the legs first before looking at the face and I've discovered that people with the legs I desire are usually very beautiful facially - but of course, beauty is subjective.

That says it all!

Toks2008:
Ma je kan ko ba e o

Aswear...

Guys and scoping are like 5 n 6

If you know you know...

melodyogonna:
Anyone that wants to see what I consider beautiful should look at your picture (assuming it's yours ofcourse). Slim, slender waist and really nice legs

Is beauty by body alone?

The face is the main yardstick and determinant of beauty.Tell me if you used voodoo to see her full face through her D.P

chukzyfcbb:
Lol, you apply for jobs now, attend interviews and work.
that's for employees

for self employed folks, a they need is their wares, a sales person and a store and you have started.

I know from experience that anything that has to do with customer facing (Business man, Customer Care, IT support etc) will help an introvert converse better but it won't still take away the fact you will want to crawl back to your hole after all the chit chat lol

I think I understand now.

The bolded is so true for me lol

Well I'm introverted myself.But I had to force my self outta my shell because I needed to earn to survive.I am an introvert by default but I can switch when needed.i.e starting a convo with someone.But I still don't attend parties and don't go out unnecessarily.

Everyone one here saying they stay indoor always and don't go out.How do y'all earn??I know not everyone is a freelancer!

ZINIBANKS:
As for Eve it has already become the past.
But see how it affecting us greatly like it's happened yesterday
You will still do me a favour by reading that genesis 3 downward
Everything was going smoothly before God created Eve,God thought the stress was too much for him alone and he created Eve and there's was no record in the Bible where Adam complained to God that he's doing a lot of work
So that is he can do everything by himself without the help of a woman
You said life would tire us if women no dey, choose between this two
1. Living happily, peacefully,no deaths,no pain, and no worries but doing a lot of stress
2.no happiness,no peace, deaths,pain, worrisome and doing no stress which of the two will you pick ? Of course you gon choose one
I really wish God didn't create them
If you're conversant with history very well in foreign countries women are used as spy to destroy nations
Even Jobs wife told him to curse God and die
Don't forget Samson too his downfall came through a woman
Women complain everyday for what we men do and yet their the cause of death and destruction to all humanity

I understand.

But It has happened already.It's the way forward we should look for.
Atleast,this shouldn't stop us from dating or marrying them.

We have to carry our crosses.

bkool7:
Those leaders were once ordinary citizens like you and I

If they didn't change as ordinary citizens, they can't change as leaders.

Wow!
I couldn't agree more.

ZINIBANKS:
About my first paragraph, have seen many many many cases and the woman is the cause of it
I really wish God didn't create them
After all the cause of all this suffering,death& destruction is because of a woman
Do me a favour by reading the book of genesis very well

Yes but you know it might be the man who is the problem in that particular relationship.

As for Eve,It has already become the past.It doesn't mean our women should act like Eve though.
If God no create woman,life go don tire us na


Well,I perfectly get your point.

adajoe555:
My experience last week in one Diagnostic centre in Port Harcourt.

last week Thursday a friend called me I told me if am interested to work as a receptionist, in a diagnostic centre, that he was driving past that area and he saw the notice, since I've been complaining of needing something to take me out of the house every morning, I said ok lemme give it a try, he gave me directions to the place, on reaching there I met the gate man and asked him about the place, and he told me to submit my CV to the receptionist, which I have with me already, on getting to the reception I met the receptionist in my mind I was like( Ah they already have a receptionist why are they looking for another one , or maybe she wants to resign) I was talking to the receptionist a man came down and I greeted him, the receptionist told me that's the manager I should submit my CV to him, so I went to meet him where he was and told him why I was there, he took the CV, on my way home The manager called me that I should come for an interview the next day by 10. The next day o got there by 9: 30 I was surprised it was only me that was there for the interview, around some minutes pass 10 I was told the manager want to see me, I went to meet him, he asked me some questions which I gave him answers to, He said am smart he likes the way I answered the questions, he asked if I can use the computer I told him yes, he told me to make use of his computer which I did.... fast forward ...,.... after the interview this man told me to wait for him that there is something he want to discuss with me outside the office and as well discuss my salary, I said ok , so we drove out of the office, while driving I asked him where we are going he told me to a place where we can sit and talk, I was already uncomfortable, ,, lo and behold this man has already booked a hotel room. I asked him why are we going to a hotel,,,, what this man told me shocked me to my pain, " that why are my behaving like a kid don't I know what they do in the hotel room. I told him am not going with him, that this is not proper, he said I don't want the job then , I told him that what he is trying to do is wrong he said " I can't work for him then " I was so disgusted. I got down from the car and went home.

Men be disgracing men since ages past!
Even lecturers are not left out in sex for marks.
How can we protect our women from all these??

ZINIBANKS:
When two couples come to you to help them settle a dispute don't hear anything from the woman it's is always women that provoke men just take few words from the man and advice them

And as for men who marry women and think because they have Money the woman will be loyal, when there's no money again you'll loose her

The first paragraph,Audi alteram partem(Listen to the other side too).You can't just listen to one side and judge.It is very erroneous.

Your second paragraph,I laugh when guys say "hustle to get a cool house,cool ride and lots of money So girls will be rushing you .
Once money finishes,she moves to the next available guy.

Girls just complex anyhow...

bkool7:
The way Nigeria is structured now can't work.

People don't see themselves are Nigerians.

They should let those that want to leave to leave.
Let's see whether leaving will change anything.

What we need is for individuals to change
"Let's change the way we live
...the way we see each other.
Our old aren't working.
It's on us to do what we have to do- to survive."

If our leaders don't want a change,there is little or nothing we can do.

Are we the ones making decisions for the country?
We voting for a person and they putting another person(rigging) is enough to show our opinion doesn't count.
We complain daily on SARS harassment,poor electricity,insurgency,etc.This shows we want change in this areas but has that stopped it from happening??


Only a good leader can effect a change for others(citizens) to follow suit!

Lamba42:
Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

I agree with you to an extent

But what you should know is that,you can never satisfy a woman 100%.If you satisfy her sexually and money wise but your job doesn't allow you to give her maximum attention,she might get entangled with a man who will give her attention while still collecting your money and sexual satisfaction.


Not cheating on you despite not receiving enough attention from you is dependent on her personally and sometimes on peer pressure.

Modified:
Most times,we don't always know which aspect is not satisfying her.

ImaIma1:
I was shocked when I heard my colleague was in Canada. He was here during the lockdown and suddenly 3weeks ago, I heard he had travelled.

Same here.A family friend of ours too left about 3 weeks ago and I was like wtf

Though they were placed on 2 weeks self isolation immediately they got there

decatalyst:
Laughable

E shock you? So, you are part of the many who don't know how things are being run in this country? No wonder I read some comments here and just shake head.

Majority don't really know...


This country is a joke!

Swears

I hear somethings government tells us and I'm like "Do they think we are all dumb and don't know what is going on low key?"

jonsnow12:
With all due respect, Our leaders really sucks!
They are all bereft of ideas.


*Let's get Nigeria working again*

FAVOURITE

Which Nigeria??

Do you know how many people has lost their lives while "making Nigeria to work again"?

Kingspin:
Buhari and his army of Northerners are members of Boko Haram.

The bitter truth...

As long as northerners are in power in this country,there will always be problem.
In Nigeria,if the north supports you,you're good to go.Now they support BH....

Esseite:
There is a pattern growing here..

Join bokoharam
Get paid..
In advent you get caught by the Nigerian army
Get rehabilitated
Get paid and released back to the society..
Then join bokoharam again..

There is a circle pattern here..

I noticed no matter how they kill them,they'll still not finish.So those captured will still go back to join(the ultimate aim of those who grant them amnesty)

I blame those who capture them alive...

Hmmmmm

irumanle:
I left my parents house at 18 years of age immediately after my WAEC, it was hell leaving on your own without aid from friends or relatives. Glory be to God I was able to combine hustling with university degree. Though not yet a made man but success seems achievable to me going by my experience about life.

Please how did you combine hustling with schooling?

Tonalphs:
we are married

Wow Impressing I must say.

Fear of ladies not wanting to marry military men is what is making me shy away from joining the military.Now,I am convinced that there are still people that are interested in military men....I am joining as soon as i finish from this Uni...


Has the journey been smooth so far or there are rough sides??

HolyHero:
You’re fvcking right yo

Lol

I thought as much!

You shouldn't have let that passion died like that.

tenderlaw:
There is no hurry in life. When the form comes out, the required age cut offs will be clearly stated.

Hello sir

Can I be qualified for ICT dept if I have B.Sc Bus Admin(2nd class upper/first class).Then proceeding for PGD Computer science?
Is PGD recognized ignoring the BSC??

Tonalphs:
I'm currently dating a military man (army), n hez b best tin dats eva hapend 2 me. Anyway i'm used 2 dem cos am frm a military background (navy).

You still together??

HolyHero:
Dear nairalanders


i am about to make one of the most important decision of my life.. If not the most important..


I have always have passion for military and security jobs... I love the adventure and pride that comes with the job..


Though i am aware that the nature of the job is not like call of duty or frontline commando where you can come back to life after getting killed.. I still love the job


to the main deal... Now i told my uncle who happens to be a high ranking DSS officer that i would like to be a DSS operative when i graduate from the university... He said the DSS doesn't recruit like any other security agencies and that their selection and training procedures are tough... But i am optimistic i can pass...


Now the main issue is that this evening a friend of mine advise me to join the army.. He argued that the army is way better than the DSS.


I am kind of confuse and i need your suggestions and advice..

Between the directorate of state security and the Nigerian Army.. Which one is better in terms of:


1. Equipment
2, training
3. Respect and prestige
4. Career security
5. Professionalism
6. Funding


nairalanders please suggest and give reason..

Cc Lalasticala,

Did you later join any??

I'm guessing 'No'

Lol

You still didn't make fp!!!

Truvel:
Albertone, D 26yrs Old Guy Is Still A Boy While D 19yrs Old Guy Is A Man. D 19yrs Old Guy Would Gain Respect Or Av Regard In D Sight Of His Parents Dan D 26yrs Old Guy Who Just Stay At Home Depends On His Parents.

I couldn't agree more!

Ayemileto:
Self taught.

After learning the basics of the programming language you want to learn.

Just go online and find something like "Biginner Projects I can do with XXXX"


You'll get lots of suggestions. Some contain links to tutorials.

You can also select the ones you like most and find tutorials online yourself.


But the time you do one or two projects using tutorials, do a personal project yourself.

The best way to learn is to have a project you're working on while learning.

Thanks for the heads up.I'll do just that!

Ayemileto:
Well, I personally work as a freelancer on fiverr and seoclerks.

The thing is, if you are good, most people who give you project will come back with more.

Just that for some time now, I have stopped accepting projects (including from returning customers) because the pay is not really encouraging.

I currently stay in Akure but I'm hoping to move to Lagos or Abuja soon sha.

Sir are you self taught or you learnt at an institution?

I'm self taught but I dont seem to be making progresess.And institutions are expensive

DenreleDave:
Give us the price here

If you need any type of Iphone,I got you bro.

Name the type you want and I'll give you the price.


Note:They are UK used and Location is "Ibadan"