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Romance › Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by alexvic12: 4:11pm On Mar 19, 2022

Don't listen to people who will come here to insult you and ask you what you have ever done for him. The truth is that many men are not just confused, but immature and don't know when they have struck gold in a woman.

Some women are the blessings that God has packaged into your life but some guys will cheat their way out of those blessings and later end up with someone terrible.

On the plus side, be thankful that you found out. Now you know what you have to do.

missimelda01:
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: How The War In Ukraine Affects Food Prices Everywhere by alexvic12: 4:28pm On Mar 18, 2022

If not for our national disasters such as bad leaders, greed (both leaders and average citizens), security issues, religious and tribal differences, this would have been a great time for Nigeria to arise and take her place as a strong nation.

We have the manpower and arable land to grow enough food for foreign trade.

It is well with us!

Crime › Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Crowned Miss Cell At Kirikiri Prison. by alexvic12: 8:30am On Mar 10, 2022

You mean that all those people in white tees and Jean pants in the second and third pictures are inmates?

God!

Politics › Re: Petrol Scarcity To Linger As Cargoes Are ‘Stranded’ by alexvic12: 9:04am On Mar 03, 2022

A country that spends billions on salaries and maintenance of non-functional refineries but still imports fuel!

Chai!

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Put My Picture On Her WhatsApp Status by alexvic12: 8:59am On Mar 03, 2022*

I wonder why people see this WhatsApp status thing as something so important!

So many friendships and relationships have broken because one party felt bad for not being "posted on status" of the other.

Does it make any sense?

You find people getting angry that you didn't post about them for their birthday's even when you send text, call, and send gifts! But they'll hold your neck for not posting on WhatsApp

That's crazy.

Back to you, OP.

You have to understand some things:

1. Most girls have at least 3 guys they are considering for marriage. That she's dating you now doesn't mean she will marry you.

She has to see certain level of commitment, trust, and focus before she discards other guys and focus on you.

If she starts flaunting you now and you later dump her, she loses.

2. Stop being a child. If you think she's not faithful because she doesn't post you, simply walk away.

If you think otherwise, then stay and slowly build confidence. Stop posting her too. Not for revenge, but to build trust.

3. Some girls are very guarded about their man. They don't want anyone to know who they're dating for good reasons. Maybe she's that type of person.

4. If you continue like this, she can manipulate you. When she uploads your pictures with sweet words and you fall yakata, then she bills you in your happy state...

Only for you to discover that she set the audience to only you.

You'd be surprised.

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Romance › Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by alexvic12: 4:41pm On Mar 02, 2022

Unilag...Accounting...300 level...

Isn't that the same class with that Chidimma girl that is alleged to have killed that man last year?

Men sef!
Some of us no go ever learn lesson.

Anyway, I leave you with this:

Can a man carry fire in his bosom and go to sleep?

Politics › Re: This One Na Yahoo Boy - Lagos Police CP's Team Detain NYSC Member, Demands Bribe by alexvic12: 2:08pm On Feb 27, 2022

What's a "yahoo boy" dressing?
There are mayors and thousands of ex-service men and women abroad with tattoos and crazy hairstyles. Do you see them being hounded?

My friend with a "simple" hairstyle, no dreads, no crazy jean, and what you call "yahoo dressing" was arrested IN HIS HOUSE AT NIGHT. They broke in, beat him up and took him away. It took 3 days before we heard about it and knew his location.

My friend, don't passively support evil. I'm on the side of people dressing properly, but there's no room for law enforcement to harrass, arrest, assault, and detain young people on basis of their dressing or hairstyle.

Even them smoking and drinking (except they do banned substances) is never an excuse!

Haba!

Hashabiah:
I can related with the unlawful detention and arrest but the guy brought suspicion to himself by dressing and leaving his hairstyle like that of a Yahoo boy .

Moral of the story: You can't dress like a harlot and expect not be be treated like a business man . It's impossible

Romance › Re: She Kissed Me And Walked Away by alexvic12: 9:29am On Feb 25, 2022

Office romance most often ends badly.

Run o! Don't joke with your reputation and job.

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Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by alexvic12: 8:11pm On Feb 23, 2022

Weak men produce weak societies. Most of the problems the world faces today are either caused by men or they enable it one way or the other.

Men that can't control their lusts and appetite.
Men that can't control their homes to raise firm boys and lovely girls.
Men that can't stop their wives from maltreating maids.
Men that can't help a fellow man but would spend all they have on sex and booze.
Men that chase only money and refuse to build core masculine values.
Men that are now thinking like women!

A society with weak men (feminine men) will produce weak women (masculine men).

Before you argue, ask why the sex business is thriving. Which gender sponsors it the most?

You got your answer.

Any girl can confidently rely on her body for success because she knows that somewhere, there are men willing to pay for it.

This isn't to discredit women who honestly strive to succeed, but to show the culture that men have built over the ages.

So, yes, the OP is partially right in saying that men have subconsciously created an image of "money only".

My fellow guys, stop spending on sex. Focus your money on other things and build values that last.

Many broken families would never have happened if the man looked beyond body/sex to find a woman that they can work with.

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Business › Re: The Most Important Post You Will Read This Year. by alexvic12: 4:21pm On Feb 21, 2022

This is sound!
Practice writing your expenses and you'll have a stronger will to cut off excesses.

Business › Re: Bill Gates Says Covid Risks Have Dramatically Reduced! by alexvic12: 6:40pm On Feb 19, 2022

His confidence, saying another pandemic is all but certain.

Hmmm

Foreign Affairs › Re: President Biden Warns of Imminent Russian Invasion (Pics, Video) by alexvic12: 2:11pm On Feb 19, 2022*

Wars and rumors of wars everywhere!

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Family › Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by alexvic12: 10:41am On Feb 19, 2022

Can a man put fire in his laps and go to sleep?

You know the answer already. Take that step now to save her from the emotional damage that your randy self is about to put her through.

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Business › Re: You Can Earn $100-$200 Per 1000 Word Blog Post Via Linkedin by alexvic12: 12:54am On Feb 19, 2022

That's true!

Can you go a bit deeper on how to find those clients in your niche?

Family › Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by alexvic12: 4:50pm On Feb 17, 2022

That's so true! And that's why responsible parenting is important.

We4all:
Some over pamper and that’s not love.

Family › Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by alexvic12: 11:47am On Feb 17, 2022

And what's the "normal way" that family members treat each other? Isn't it love?

We4all:
Love ke? She should be treated as they normally would have treated her and not shower her with any special love or attention.

A girl that was recalcitrant enough to defy her parents should be made to face the consequences of her actions. I hate nonsense.

Christianity Etc › Re: Speaking In Tongues Is Pure Stupidity by alexvic12: 11:26am On Feb 17, 2022

Knowing that Jesus still loves you deeper than you could imagine gives me the strength to say may God forgive you.

Family › Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by alexvic12: 11:22am On Feb 17, 2022

This is the best time to conquer her with love. You guys should go all out to help her through the pregnancy period.

I know it is hard and easier said than done, but you can do it. Sure, she has done wrong, but don't abandon her to her fate.

Twenty years from now when that baby becomes a young adult and brings countless smiles to you, you'll not even remember the pains you're feeling now.

Shower her all the love that you can.

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Romance › Re: Advice On How To Deal With My Ex-girlfriend Who Is Married by alexvic12: 11:18am On Feb 17, 2022

Does a man carry fire in his laps and goes to sleep?

Mr. Man, you're playing with fire. You have no business discussing with a married ex, especially to that extent of talking about her sexual life.

Her husband will consider it cheating, and frankly, it is a form of emotional cheating. Let her discuss her sexual activities and fantasies with her husband.

Cut her off and face your front. Don't reply her last message. Block her everywhere and screenshot the chats for future reference (she might want to blackmail you).

Face your wife and don't ruin your marriage.

Again, no man puts fire in his laps and goes to sleep.

Mhistasaints:
Hello guys! I need a simple advice. I am a married man, my ex-girlfriend is also married. I've been married for 2years now and she got married 2months ago. When I got married, she told me she was disappointed at me, that why couldn't I come and beg her when she said no. She was the one that left me in the relationship telling me that her people say that I was too young and had nothing. I focused, achieved and got married at 23yrs.

Of late, she chatted me up and we discussed. She started being too intimate to the extent of trying to discussing her sexual marital life with me on her she doesn't like having sex with her husband. Few days ago, she started asking me for money. I am sensing something fishy.

What do I do?

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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Visit Me While I Was In Prison After All I Did For Her! by alexvic12: 9:54am On Feb 17, 2022

How you guys still come here to ask advice on these kind of issues baffles me.

All the best, mate.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Burkina Faso Coup Leader Damiba Inaugurated As President by alexvic12: 10:26pm On Feb 16, 2022

JustForLaughs
The third picture, na beer parlour them dey call coffee shop? grin

I wish the country well.

Health › Re: Doctor Refused To Pay For My Husband's Physiotherapy Services, Fights Him. by alexvic12: 10:24pm On Feb 16, 2022

I wish you can show your husband this thread so that he can hear some good advice. 5k is not worth losing his life over. That doctor seems ready to fight your husband in any way cos I don't know why a man will resort to fighting and biting an innocent person over his rightful wages.

I pray he listens and avoid further confrontations that will plunge you guys into a big problem. Since he has reported, he should let the case remain with the police and face his family.

Glowww:
Good day all.

Note: we recently got married and don't reside in same state because I have a business here and I'm heavily pregnant, i will join him as soon as I get a shop in his location. This case is taking a toll on my bp and I'm so worried. please what can we do? Any other options? Thank you good people.

Mods, please help a worried pregnant woman and her husband.

Thank you.

Education › Re: Mention A Popular Place In Your School And Someone Will Tell You The Name by alexvic12: 8:03pm On Feb 16, 2022

All the best!

HollaAyo:
Omoooo, night class mode rn just to learn all these pathways. I believe I go survive sha.

Don’t plan on Using the certificate anyways

Education › Re: Mention A Popular Place In Your School And Someone Will Tell You The Name by alexvic12: 5:37pm On Feb 16, 2022

Chai. Them don use pathways mend this chairman. Sorry, mate. Just put in your best and finish it.

Life outside school is razzzz! You can do a Master's in public health later and move to another field.

Or, if you learn another skill, you can totally forget the BCH certificate.

All the best, mate.

HollaAyo:
Undergrad BCH here. Thinking of quitting, this stress is not for me. How’s life outside the walls of the school with the BCH cert?

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Celebrities › Re: Funke Akindele Buys A Car For Her Sister, Abimbola by alexvic12: 10:23am On Feb 15, 2022

So much bitterness from people here!
Ha! You guys have to take a chill o.

Celebrate with people when good things happen and mourn with them when they're sad. Even the Bible said it.

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Business › Re: Please Who Have Head About Qnet Business? by alexvic12: 11:16pm On Feb 14, 2022*

seunsiju:
run ! run! thats how one of gee lure me to ghana for the yeye qnet, bro run! run!

Politics › Re: NIMC NIN Verification Service (NVS) Restored by alexvic12: 5:29pm On Feb 13, 2022

I'm not. My kid sister is also taking jamb. We've been running around to sort her NIN registration since the previous week!

I'm only complaining about the difficulty of getting these things done!

Stop attacking me.

doggedfighter:
Stop upsetting that child with your incorrect information.

Just say what you know.

Romance › Re: How Will You, A Single Person, Spend Valentine’s Day? by alexvic12: 4:56pm On Feb 13, 2022

Like every other day it is.
I'll probably do some jobs, but I'm definitely staying indoors.

Politics › Re: Senator Joseph Waku Are You A Northerner? By John Okiyi by alexvic12: 3:25pm On Feb 13, 2022

Stumbling on this 10 years later is just crazy!

Politics › Re: NIMC NIN Verification Service (NVS) Restored by alexvic12: 3:23pm On Feb 13, 2022

I don't know, but to be safe, I'll advise that you link it since JAMB now requires NIN for registration.

thegadgettrend:
But I haven't linked my phone number with nin yet, does it have any effect with the registration?

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Politics › Re: NIMC NIN Verification Service (NVS) Restored by alexvic12: 3:10pm On Feb 13, 2022

Of course you can! But your phone number should correspond cos it will be linked to your NIN and JAMB forever.

thegadgettrend:
I newly created my national ID, does that mean I won't be able to register for jamb using the new NIN number?

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