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doscar:
Mixture of several herbs like Fresh thyme, fresh rosemary, parsley, oregano, tarragon, dill, chives, garlic, basil, curry leaves and so many more

For spices there are numerous: coriander, fennel seeds, fenugreek seeds, star anise, anise seeds, cardamom, ginger, black peppercorn, cumin, nutmeg, and many more

Hi, ProudlyNaija, Mercychen, and Pocohantas.

I have a question. Kindly give your opinion and answers. Thanks

I want to stop cooking with artificial seasoners (Maggi, knorr and co). I want to know any natural seasoning mixture to use.

Maybe a blend or mix of several herbs and natural flavors. I'd be very grateful for specific directions, pointers, or even complete recipe and steps.

Thanks!

P.S: I heard sea salt is heathier than the common table salt we use. Is that true?

Oh the joys, the hugs, the smiles!

I recall when my mom nearly fell sick the first time I left home for school.

Family is everything.


Congrats, Marine.

Semper Fi!

LOL!

What's the best way to misinform people than to release tailored documents?

May God not allow us to be unfortunate.

Is it now a crime to ask your 27-yr old to wake up and face life?

Rest well, papa.

As for you, boy, may God and your father's spirit forgive you.

I pray you become a better person and become useful to yourself.

You know what to do. Don't be weak to do it!

She needs rehabilitation; I don't think you are in the best position to help her.

Help her to get help and if you can't please leave her be.

What kind of an animal is that!

Omoh! Every day I pray for my sister never to meet these sorts of men. God pleaseeeeeeeeeeee.

I'll keep saying it, the day every single and married man decides to be celibate and faithful respectively, over 80% of our problems as men would end.

We can dodge this issue, shift the goal post, and try to dismiss it but it is the truth.

Don't listen to people who will come here to insult you and ask you what you have ever done for him. The truth is that many men are not just confused, but immature and don't know when they have struck gold in a woman.

Some women are the blessings that God has packaged into your life but some guys will cheat their way out of those blessings and later end up with someone terrible.

On the plus side, be thankful that you found out. Now you know what you have to do.

missimelda01:
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

If not for our national disasters such as bad leaders, greed (both leaders and average citizens), security issues, religious and tribal differences, this would have been a great time for Nigeria to arise and take her place as a strong nation.

We have the manpower and arable land to grow enough food for foreign trade.

It is well with us!

You mean that all those people in white tees and Jean pants in the second and third pictures are inmates?


God!

A country that spends billions on salaries and maintenance of non-functional refineries but still imports fuel!

Chai!

I wonder why people see this WhatsApp status thing as something so important!

So many friendships and relationships have broken because one party felt bad for not being "posted on status" of the other.

Does it make any sense?

You find people getting angry that you didn't post about them for their birthday's even when you send text, call, and send gifts! But they'll hold your neck for not posting on WhatsApp

That's crazy.


Back to you, OP.

You have to understand some things:

1. Most girls have at least 3 guys they are considering for marriage. That she's dating you now doesn't mean she will marry you.

She has to see certain level of commitment, trust, and focus before she discards other guys and focus on you.

If she starts flaunting you now and you later dump her, she loses.

2. Stop being a child. If you think she's not faithful because she doesn't post you, simply walk away.

If you think otherwise, then stay and slowly build confidence. Stop posting her too. Not for revenge, but to build trust.

3. Some girls are very guarded about their man. They don't want anyone to know who they're dating for good reasons. Maybe she's that type of person.

4. If you continue like this, she can manipulate you. When she uploads your pictures with sweet words and you fall yakata, then she bills you in your happy state...

Only for you to discover that she set the audience to only you.

You'd be surprised.

Unilag...Accounting...300 level...

Isn't that the same class with that Chidimma girl that is alleged to have killed that man last year?

Men sef!
Some of us no go ever learn lesson.

Anyway, I leave you with this:

Can a man carry fire in his bosom and go to sleep?

What's a "yahoo boy" dressing?
There are mayors and thousands of ex-service men and women abroad with tattoos and crazy hairstyles. Do you see them being hounded?

My friend with a "simple" hairstyle, no dreads, no crazy jean, and what you call "yahoo dressing" was arrested IN HIS HOUSE AT NIGHT. They broke in, beat him up and took him away. It took 3 days before we heard about it and knew his location.

My friend, don't passively support evil. I'm on the side of people dressing properly, but there's no room for law enforcement to harrass, arrest, assault, and detain young people on basis of their dressing or hairstyle.

Even them smoking and drinking (except they do banned substances) is never an excuse!

Haba!

Hashabiah:
I can related with the unlawful detention and arrest but the guy brought suspicion to himself by dressing and leaving his hairstyle like that of a Yahoo boy .

Moral of the story: You can't dress like a harlot and expect not be be treated like a business man . It's impossible

Office romance most often ends badly.

Run o! Don't joke with your reputation and job.

Weak men produce weak societies. Most of the problems the world faces today are either caused by men or they enable it one way or the other.

Men that can't control their lusts and appetite.
Men that can't control their homes to raise firm boys and lovely girls.
Men that can't stop their wives from maltreating maids.
Men that can't help a fellow man but would spend all they have on sex and booze.
Men that chase only money and refuse to build core masculine values.
Men that are now thinking like women!

A society with weak men (feminine men) will produce weak women (masculine men).

Before you argue, ask why the sex business is thriving. Which gender sponsors it the most?

You got your answer.

Any girl can confidently rely on her body for success because she knows that somewhere, there are men willing to pay for it.

This isn't to discredit women who honestly strive to succeed, but to show the culture that men have built over the ages.

So, yes, the OP is partially right in saying that men have subconsciously created an image of "money only".

My fellow guys, stop spending on sex. Focus your money on other things and build values that last.

Many broken families would never have happened if the man looked beyond body/sex to find a woman that they can work with.

This is sound!
Practice writing your expenses and you'll have a stronger will to cut off excesses.

His confidence, saying another pandemic is all but certain.

Hmmm

Wars and rumors of wars everywhere!

Can a man put fire in his laps and go to sleep?

You know the answer already. Take that step now to save her from the emotional damage that your randy self is about to put her through.

That's true!

Can you go a bit deeper on how to find those clients in your niche?

That's so true! And that's why responsible parenting is important.

We4all:
Some over pamper and that’s not love.

And what's the "normal way" that family members treat each other? Isn't it love?

We4all:
Love ke? She should be treated as they normally would have treated her and not shower her with any special love or attention.

A girl that was recalcitrant enough to defy her parents should be made to face the consequences of her actions. I hate nonsense.

Knowing that Jesus still loves you deeper than you could imagine gives me the strength to say may God forgive you.

This is the best time to conquer her with love. You guys should go all out to help her through the pregnancy period.

I know it is hard and easier said than done, but you can do it. Sure, she has done wrong, but don't abandon her to her fate.

Twenty years from now when that baby becomes a young adult and brings countless smiles to you, you'll not even remember the pains you're feeling now.

Shower her all the love that you can.

Does a man carry fire in his laps and goes to sleep?

Mr. Man, you're playing with fire. You have no business discussing with a married ex, especially to that extent of talking about her sexual life.

Her husband will consider it cheating, and frankly, it is a form of emotional cheating. Let her discuss her sexual activities and fantasies with her husband.

Cut her off and face your front. Don't reply her last message. Block her everywhere and screenshot the chats for future reference (she might want to blackmail you).

Face your wife and don't ruin your marriage.

Again, no man puts fire in his laps and goes to sleep.

Mhistasaints:
Hello guys! I need a simple advice. I am a married man, my ex-girlfriend is also married. I've been married for 2years now and she got married 2months ago. When I got married, she told me she was disappointed at me, that why couldn't I come and beg her when she said no. She was the one that left me in the relationship telling me that her people say that I was too young and had nothing. I focused, achieved and got married at 23yrs.

Of late, she chatted me up and we discussed. She started being too intimate to the extent of trying to discussing her sexual marital life with me on her she doesn't like having sex with her husband. Few days ago, she started asking me for money. I am sensing something fishy.

What do I do?

How you guys still come here to ask advice on these kind of issues baffles me.

All the best, mate.

JustForLaughs
The third picture, na beer parlour them dey call coffee shop?

I wish the country well.

I wish you can show your husband this thread so that he can hear some good advice. 5k is not worth losing his life over. That doctor seems ready to fight your husband in any way cos I don't know why a man will resort to fighting and biting an innocent person over his rightful wages.

I pray he listens and avoid further confrontations that will plunge you guys into a big problem. Since he has reported, he should let the case remain with the police and face his family.

Glowww:
Good day all.

Note: we recently got married and don't reside in same state because I have a business here and I'm heavily pregnant, i will join him as soon as I get a shop in his location. This case is taking a toll on my bp and I'm so worried. please what can we do? Any other options? Thank you good people.

Mods, please help a worried pregnant woman and her husband.

Thank you.