₦airaland Forum

tonilite:
Pls guys I'm considering embarking on a journey from PH to Lagos. How safe is it now to go by road? or should I just go by air? Pls any advice, I'm so confused.

You can go by road but if you are conscious of time, go by air, the difference is just about 15k
GIG is 28k
Value jet if you book ahead is about 43k
If you book value jet, make sure you are there at least, 30 minutes before the flight else, Sope Oti lo

lalabrother:
Hello,

A friend is in love with this lady who apparently has a low libido and mostly refuses sex or conditions him to a once-a-week sex routine.

He loves her so much and wants to know from people with similar experiences.

Can this be managed and if it can, how?

Thank you

How are you sure it's about low libido, if your guy had girlfriend(s) before this one, how did they separate, what was the cause of their separation? I am asking because your guy may be the problem. Girls naturally find it difficult to separate from a guy who is cool headed and have small cash, at least to maintain a girlfriend but not good in bed.

YoungDaNaval:
Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.

Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise

The answer is in your message, from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks, you are buying it for your sister, let her name be there with your surname, giver her the right to decide whether to change the name to that of her husband, or use Mr and Mrs or leave it with your surname.

How people dey take post this picture without shame still dey surprise me. This is governorship election campaign in the state capital not local government chairmanship election.
The few people behind him are his security men, the band people that are working for their money, people who are just passing by and some boys who want to see the man called Dino 98% of the supposed crowd is made up of men

Some people from Benin can help us get there in less that that period. Let the federal government make the request and the whole world will know what we are capable of.

endsarrrs:
Don't call peoples food that word. If it's non of your business, just move the fvck far away...Nairaland kids

Nigerians don't know how to mind their business.
He saw the topic boldly written, he knew it was about something he doesn't like but as number one busy body master, he clicked on it.

Alchemy528:
Igbo no they carry last

Every tribe get her kind but not every school retain first class graduates as lecturers.

I will not be surprised if that cement man is behind fuel price increase.

Hope the all eyes on the judicial slogan will continue to trend?

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Only one solution you need for this problem. Make up your mind not to have sex with her for one month. Within this one month, you either endure it or you make things up else where(don't ask me for explanation) but don't touch her and don't make it look like you guys are quarrelling, be happy and make her happy too. Hopefully before the end of the month, you will see changes. Arrant nonsense, timetable for sex

Make una rest na, did Wike present any map to you?

orisa37:
THANK YOU UNICEF. NIGERIA POPULATION IS 200M. WHICH MEANS I SHALL GET AT LEAST N1M +.

Somebody like you go dey blame Tinubu but see small mathematics wey you fail woefully. See leaders of tomorrow.
If at all they decided to share the money for the 240m Nigerians, using the black market rate of 905, your share na 1,018 naira

CodeTemplar:
get lost.

Another lazy youth suffering from low IQ and inferiority complex.
I just told you something you obviously didn't know before now, rather than appreciate that or simply keep quiet you are telling me to get lost. Try and be open to learn things you don't know, it will help you a lot.

samuel9000:
Keep waiting for him to come and plant it for u......don't go and farm.

Don't bother trying to explain to them, many don't want to far or have gardens around their houses but they want farm products to be cheaper.

Mega walk inside market, ok.

CodeTemplar:
Ethiopia of all people. That brics is fast becoming a converging ground for anti-British empire and islamists.

Ethiopia has more christians than Muslims, the number of Christians almost doubles that of Muslim.

Wike will deliver.

Zonefree:




Abeg who dey give all these nonsense awards to these people

Them dey pay for it na, who pay na him go get award, if you no pay, nothing for you.

Once you allow them take away your meter, then Sope Oti lo,

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

Where are you from, how can you be reached for verification. try to discuss with some people before going fully into your plan.

The lawyers that told him about server the last time have started again, only God knows what they have told him this time.

peedeeasobie:
A few things to point out....

Why are you cohabiting with a girl you are not married to?

Why are you having sexual engagement with her without marriage.

Go and marry

Are you a virgin? If married, did you marry as a virgin?

djon78:
Na people that have not seen power play of Nigeria since 1999

You go dey yarn this one

Wike should watch it
He got FCT minister
Now bragging

Else Northerners will deal with him ruthlessly

Northerners no dey smile
Wike should just learn to be humble
Or else the kind set up Dem go do am

He will run with his tails between his legs

We have seen the high and mighty

Where is Amechi today?

Comparing Amaechi with Wike shows that you have not noticed something different between the two. Ameach played a one man squad game and politics of bitterness by a man who seems not to know when to call it quit but Wike has shown that he is entirely different from Ameachi on that.

Nice write up. Watch how Nigerian youths will distance themselves from this educative write up. The will rather go and read the fake news like Wdata plaza to go down as Wike resume office.

Asgard73:
Wike is setting himself up for a big fall..

… and those that cheered him .. will be the first to jump ship.. and abuse the hell out his humanity

Truth is … nobody really liked him.. from druggie to Ganduje .. Fubara.. down to the least in Apc .. back to druggie worshippers..

Na Nigeria we Dey and time has a funny way of setting it all

Enjoy wike.. nothing last long in Nigeria politics.. absolute nothing

Modified ..

Westin Yoruba people know aside insult curse and abuses..
We talking wike .. he’s not a Yoruba .. he’s half Igbo from minority ikwere.. but Yoruba people are on my mention abusing their fathers ..

Are they now wikes newest slaves ..

Why the insult on an obvious truth..


Nairaland sef ..

The same language una use then, many of you believed Wike would be in prison if PDP lost the election but today he is not in prison but now the FCT minister. God will still disappoint you when that time you expect him to fall comes. Is there anything he said up there that is short of truth?
I am happy to hear from him that all other party governors sent list of their candidates too.

shortgun:
After how many years? the girl they rescued is not the same girl that was kidnapped many years ago.

The same way you are no longer the same guy that read the news of her kidnap but live has to move on.

And they say APC will not win in Kogi, Yahaya Belo is another politician to watch out for. Don't ask me how, after the November election, you will understand better.

YoungLionken:
Taking agbero mentality to Abuja, damn!!

Before you support this act, go and ask how much for a bag of cement now...

Because of that, illegally erected building should be allowed?

Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.

I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.

In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.

After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.

I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.

I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.

So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.

She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.

What do i do?

When you grow mature enough, you will know how to handle issues but for now, you still sounds like a kid. You know why?
1. As a man, when you see what you want and you are ready for it, go for it. 85% of mature ladies are in relationship already, your ability to make reasonable difference made someone's ex girlfriend your wife.
2. You are already shouting betrayal over a relationship that you have not even started, that is childish
3. She never told you she was single neither did she tell you that her likeness and support towards you were for love but you assumed them to be so.

Daughters of Eve have done it again. One man down.

If to say na my country, every old person in their village would have been tagged witches and wizards.
Rest in peace Papa Olga

maleekberry:
This ebonyi governor takes everything too serious

That is just his look, the same thing goes to our vice president. Look for their early age pictures, you will notice the same thing.