₦airaland Forum

LeoDeKing:
Before opening the thread, I know the wicked animal must be ....

Same here

I swear the moment I saw the pix my instincts told me a woman did this and must be an Igbo, apologies to the good ones.

Wike had Rivers people at heart and I am in support of this. Don't cry blood because the order in question does not exclude or favours a particular party. Wike is a politician, him/his party is affected too

Them go say Bello don bribe world Bank.

quentin06:
Why are you bringing yoruba into this? What has soludo done for you? Did he buy you data to post your hate and frustration?

I just ask a simple question, if you have answer to it just go straight to the point.

MadamVanessa:



Seriously, I don't understand the igbos. If unfortunately our beloved Peter Obi fail because of all these tantrums by fóolish Igbo politicians, then the igbos should forget about Nigeria presidency as they're not ready yet, and Obi will be the last Igbo presidential candidate I will ever support in my life.

See other tribe rallying around their brothers,even when it's obvious that they have nothing to offer, but they give them endless support regardlessly, but Igbo fóolish politicians must always speak bitter things against their brother.

Soludo na fuccck up man, na me talk am. Of all people to drag obi, it shouldn't be Soludo, atleast not at this critical period. His days is numbered in the state house.

Are there no people from other tribes who are seriously campaigning against and criticizing their own? That aside, Obi is actually getting back from a system he contributed in building.
What did obi do to better the stand and unity of the South East political structure before, during his tenure as a governor and after his tenure? You don't plant bitter leave and go back expected to harvest sugarcane, it is not done. The political structure in the east has been like this that is why I said it earlier that Obi's failure,if that becomes the case, will come largely from his home either directly or indirectly.
To further convince you, just look at the way Ohaneze is handling the issue, they said they have report soludo to deity, will the deity tell solution to stop, No, the deity is going to threaten soludo right? And soludo is going do everything to show that he is right by doing everything to bring Obi down. Unfortunately, I will have to wait till after election for the Ohaneze to tell me how the scenario above will benefit the Indigo as a whole.
Two of your children are having difference but instead of you to call them to order, you are threatening one in favour of the other, is that the right thing to do?

All the Yoruba people attacking their own are not betrayers because such is in your internet but now that soludo has air his view, he is a betrayal of his tribe. This life need wisdom.

AlwaysPositive:
You can pay my salary but can't afford three square meal, begging on Nairaland won't help you either . Your mumu no too much?

Go and be useful to yourself and your family. .... Wasted drug addict

Lol,

Make una no kill people with this picture o

ezegold4we:
Soludo's credentials as a prof needs to be reviewed, guy is talking like a mad man, even his First son is ashamed of Him,

What a huge dissapointment,

Only fool's are in agreement with soludo.

Soludo has right to his opinion so is his son.
He is now a mad man just because his opinion doesn't align with your choice right? The way you guys think keep one wondering what kind of society we will be living in should obi becomes president

philo04:
Nah them wan thief me for Igbo Etech for ph
They called that their brother is getting married we both agreed price they sent half payment of 70k) to me.

I called a friend in ph cos I’m not base there to help me confirm the venue,only for me to hear that there is no such place at Igbo etch
Fwe days to the wedding they called I told them I’m set they ask me to bring all stuff for the event me self play along.

On wedding day I told my friend to go there to confirm he said he drove pass the place only to see cult guys. Nah so I take share their money with my friend o.

They latter called that I show refund them that nah God save me

Pls let be guided no mind my English

Is Igbo etche

AlwaysPositive:
How can someone with financial issues be mentally okay . Stop doing drugs, so you can be useful to yourself and family.

I got you where I wanted, see how you are now shaking and publicizing your stupidity.

Go and get a job, trolling on Nairaland adds nothing to your account, and begging here won't help you either . Anyways your generation is well known for begging.

Atleast I have a business of mine, not financially drained like you, very happy and most importantly I am enjoying this special kind of peace of mind that you will never in your life dream of.

Aturu awusa.

Mumu, now I understand your level of reasoning, if you are normal, you should have understood that, "I need financial help" is a general language as there is no normal and progressive man who doesn't want to move to the next stage financially. It doesn't mean literally mean that a man is broke or poor. Nairaland has offer you guys anonymity that is why you can boast of business before some people, Mr billionaire who doesn't need more money, it may shocked you that outside nairaland, the person you are talking to can comfortably pay your salary for one year. But like I say, I still need financial help.

SensetionalGoal:
I'm very surprised that this man is still allowed to campaign freely when he is supposed to be sober about his criminal conviction...


Let me see how this plays out does he think we are stupid to allow him close to our national purse Never...

If you have any case against him, go to court or the police station.

No be Chukwuma elder sister be that? Abeg tell her to come back to naija if that side no pay.

I no won do DNA test because my baby look like me but this gender keep giving reasons to go for dna test.

AlwaysPositive:
I feel for you.

You really need help.

I need financial help unlike you who need mental help. That's where our difference comes clear.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

You guys are always the cause of this, would would your wife denied you sex for 3months when she is not sick and you still call her your wife? Be enduring you hear, las las them go catch you when you won do the thing with one small girl and you will be disgrace then the woman that put you into the mess will be pitied for being with a "useless" man for years.
Sorry if this annoyed you but that is what many who didn't know how your predicament start react when it happened.
If your woman deny you sex for no genuine reason, get someone outside and when she get her sense back , return to her.

If he is guilty, that serves him right, if he is not, let him go to court.

Smart move.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

If you know where she is, contact the guy to know that you are aware she is with him, there after talk to your sister, like asking how she is and when is she coming back. Also advise her to take good care of her self.
All these may sound foolish but from what you say, someone need to play along with her to know what she truly want for herself. Unfortunately you didn't tell us her age which is key to necessary advise but in all, someone need to know what is going on in her head and you can't know that by standing outrightly against her.
Lest I forget, the person who said if you pick her with police now, she will run again is 101% correct.

KeyEndurance:
Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?

The medicine is inside you. Na fear dey cause am and na only you fit work on it.
Well if I must tell you what to do, you must first tell me your age then we start from there

This time around na Jonah swallow fish no be fish swallow Jonah.
Towards the end of the video, I hear leave my breast eeey, e be like say Jonah decided to press all available breast in return for the money he paid. Lol drama everywhere

Acidosis:
Ebira people will likely vote Muslim-Muslim ticket because of the Yahaya Bello factor and rascality. However, (unlike southern Christians), the Christians amongst them are as radical as their Muslim brothers. They will never vote a muslim-muslim ticket even at gun point. I know them too well.

This is how you people go about exposing your ignorance. When did olamaboro people became Ebira people?
Common sense should tell you that APC will win kogi state for some reasons you need to find out from the locals

Dsalvo:
My friend, will you stop this show of crass ignorance. Makinde was a wealthy business man before office.

Do 50 seconds of research before talking ignorant garbage.

Don't mind them, some think other people's lives were like their own before those people became government officials.

Americans will console their families and sympathize with the army but if this happens in Nigeria, we would insult the army, the government and even blame their families for allowing them to enlist in the military to protect us. Then the following day we would ask God why the country is not growing.

Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

You sound very committed to the success of the marriage irrespective of where you guys are coming from and I also appreciate the fact that you are careful in your decisions considering the understanding that irrespective of what happened, he remains the father of your children, kudos for that . However something tells me that there is something your husband knows about your past which doesn't go well with him but he kept quiet till he also start making money for himself. He thought he could get back at you by being promiscuous but he got himself into trouble, on realizing that, he ran back home to confess but it seems he will have to carry his cross. I don't support women sending their husbands out but in this case, your own happiness is important

Cooleeey:
don't rush to sell

Wait till after election

After election dollar will crash, dollar only gain this time because people that keep money in their house in large volume decide to change it to dollar due to CBN declaration to redesign naira, coupled with the increase in demand for dollar to stock up goods against the season and politicians that are trying to get as much dollar as possible to bribe the political masquerades in various states, by February ending, all this will be over and naira will likely gain more value then

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

How can u say God show someone who is pushing you to your grave to be your wife, Ok, do you have the 3 million or you know where you can borrow from?
If you have the 3m or you can borrow, oya go and do the wedding, we would sympathize with you when poverty come knocking at your door.

Man don use state money support his family business, watin concern him with the worth in favour of the state?

lordsterlin:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Preston and I am 36yrs this year. I really need help. For the past 35yrs of my life I have never bleeped a girl or woman. The only thing I've done in the past was just to kiss, kiss and kiss. Another thing I do is to help myself through wanking.

Recently, I've got a girlfriend (actually my first). She loves me obviously from her actions. Because I feared I may not be able to satisfy her, I went to buy a drug from a drugstore. The Man told me to take it atleast 10-15mins before the actual sex. I did as instructed but it didn't work as just few thrust, and my yogurts were out. Another day she came when I least expected her. I attempted to do it with her this time. I allowed myself lie while she mounted my rod. Again, just few thrusts, and I was done. This is becoming quite embarrassing.

What can I do to solve this problem?

Relax your mind, you are new in the game and things like that is natural to some jjc, even if that is your nature, try get a woman that is really into you and play a lot with you, then after the first round, you guys should relax on bed and play for a while, go in for the second time and see the true color of your gbola. The lady no go leave you.

Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

If he understands a particular course, asked him to put you through, then use the opportunity to create communication line with him, over time he will come out of his shell. Certain situations such as poor background, emotional torture from the past, fear etc can make some guys to shrink when they see someone they love but their facial expression always exposed them no matter how they try to hide their feeling

Zoharariel:
And why is this woman putting her child on the Hippo? She wants to snap photo abi?

Na wa for Nigerians ooo. If the Hippo growls now and the child somersaults, dem go talk say Hippo wicked.

That baby don get rank more than you when it comes to issue of hippopotamus dead or alive. Have you ever seen any? No, that child is sitting on one which makes him/her more knowledgeable about what hippopotamus is and look like.