I light a candle for my lovely son Nathaniel who passed away this year january 2008.i love u with all my heart and i miss u everyday.
you was the best christmas present ever ,although u lived only a month on this earth,ur memories remains,u was such a handsome and strong boy
and u went through alot on ur few days on earth.i know u wanted to live but situation didnt allow it.due to u being born premature at 29 weeks and u having NEC.u know i wanted so much for u to survive i love u with all my heart ,ur my first and only and for this reason i and ur daddy decided to bury u at home ,so that u can be close to us and we can see u whenever we wanted.ur one year birthday is approaching on 18th of december and im sooo sad that ur not here with me but ur birthday will always remain a special day to me,just to let u know that im proud of being ur mother.R.I.P my lovely son.

this is bad of him because now is when she needs his help and support most. alot of people are looking for just one and when God gave him 4 at onces and he dont appreciate it.

ur dad is right in naija its seen as irresponsible.its up to u to decide what u want.

terrible ,na wao for this world

google for there embassy and get all info there

Blackcat:

I will rush out and get my partner too a life insurance afterall death doesn't know if you are a man/woman/child or granny.

u self lol ,goodluck to that

not thinking about house help for now although i have a weekend cleaner but i do most things myself.

after all they were seperated even if it was just days, so she has the right to change her status to single,the man is too jealous and wicked for killing her over status,instead of trying to win her back his a fool am a facebook memember and i don't like the sound of this

if it was in her past i dont mind unless she is still doing it now.then i wont be happy with her.

please do take it easy on urself ur still very young, i do know ur going through a tough time now but please do move on with life and be strong for ur baby cos she needs u .
interracial marriages are hardest of all.
she is definately not a born again christain sleeping with ur husband and wanting to marry a married man.dont sign the divorce paper let him suffer on trying to get that,go now and make him start paying child support cos now ur baby comes first.
this is exactly why i dont like dating nigerian men cos i dont want to share my husband with a second wife or they also do this to there fellow nigerians if they are not from the same tribe,do take heart.

na ona sa bi,for me I'm not into spending fortune just for a wedding and i have made that clear to my parents not to except bride price from me ,because I'm not going to spend my savings on family people that don't care much about me but only what they can get out of me.

i better have a low key wedding and use my savings to support i and my family during our married life.our what matters most is that we are legally married.

dont let she and her family control u by threating u ,hell no.if u dont want to be with her be honest with her and just be there for ur baby.or else u will regret it for the rest of ur life.

a child belongs to both parents but since im the mother i own the child more than the father untill he or she turns 18 .period.

i never regret geting married but i think i need space sometimes

i also want to get info about getting a south african drivers licence,so south africans or residence in south africa we are waiting for ur reply.

i dont know her but i wish her the best,it takes alot of love to give up nairaland for a man.

infront of the kids,that i can't take ,please do send them packing immediately,kids should never be exposed to such an act.

Try to talk to him about helping u at home cos u cant do everything by yourself working long hours ,cooking,cleaning and taking care of your kid.
sit him down when he is in a good mood and discuss this with him. let him do the things he can do better or even learn from u.cos personally i think its too much for u.he is in europe and married to one so therefore he has to learn to live the european way of life ,alot of men in africa now help there wives at home with kids and domestic work etc.

Get a divorce and dont deserve by being there when you have no feelings for her especially now that she wants a family of her own,if u cant give it to her she needs to be free to find someone that can.

I have nothing against it,it works for some people and dont work for some,i think its good to know who your going to marry and if ur not compartable u walk instead of geting a divorce later.
u never know who ur dating very well untill u live with them,these days alot of people prefer to live together before marriage .

it depends on the person ur married to cos life insurance is very important for your family incase anything happens to u,
my hubby has life insurance,house insurance and accident insurance on us and he told me all about them all ,i do appreciate the fact that he is securing a good future for us incase anything happens to him and i definately will never have any negative thoughts in my head.
i think alot of people prefer to keep there life insurance policy a secret to be at the safe side thats if u dont trust who ur with.

Big Yes,he was there when i had my son and will be there when we decide to have more kids ,it actually made us closer and our sex life is great