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Family / Re: Why Honey-moon? by Angolobabe(f): 7:50pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
cos its a special time to share with ur now wife/ husband and a time to always remember for the rest of ur life. |
Family / Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Angolobabe(f): 7:44pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
non of the above. |
Romance / Re: Girls With Stretch Marks by Angolobabe(f): 5:27pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
thats not a big deal alot of women have it ,slim or fat,some have it more while some have it less |
Family / Re: Can You Marry A Man That Is About To Get Divorced And Has 3 Kids by Angolobabe(f): 4:58pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
i was thinking the same thing,its obvious he was cheating on his wife with her and lying that they are seperated, if they were really seperated they wont be living together in the same house,wake up i would take his story if they were legally seperated or living in different houses,im sure they just had some marital problems and instead of him resolving it with his wife he went cheating and wanting to replace her through u,be very careful with this relationship and dont rush things until u know the truth and his wife will cause problems for u for breaking her home plus the kids will always have it in the back of there head that u broke there home and the cause of the divorce for there parents which is even more complicated. |
Family / Re: Can You Marry A Man That Is About To Get Divorced And Has 3 Kids by Angolobabe(f): 2:46pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
if u love him why not with love all things are possible but be very very i mean very ready for baby mama drama and stepkids if they are still very young unless they are grown up and moved out then its less complicated.how old are his kids? |
Family / Re: Who Is The Righful Owner Of This Child? by Angolobabe(f): 2:33pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
As long as the bearen woman have a legal contract consigning this isssue she is the rightful owner of the baby,the woman who caried the baby in her womb should have known from the begining that there will be emotional attachment to the baby before geting involve but i suppose the money was more important to her at first,sorry for her but there is no going back and she have to give up the baby. i think they should make a law in Nigeria protecting Surogacy for both the person carrying the baby and the person paying to have a baby ,so non of them can change there mind whenever they want and not just adoption law. |
Family / Re: Women Who Date Married Men by Angolobabe(f): 2:20pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
this occurs in all tribes in Nigeria and worldwide,in nigeria the ladies want the man to either 1.) divorce his wife and marry her 2.) Become a second wife 3.) Finacial gain. its one of the above. |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 9:43am On Nov 21, 2008 |
skydiver: thanks alot for ur advice and I'm glad u know how unsafe PH is at the moment and why I'm looking for other ways in getting it done without i and my husband going to nigeria,ur very right about a woman married to an oyibo how on safe it is for her also as they think over there that someone married to oyibo is very rich which is not correct.when i visited nigeria 5 months ago i had to watch my shoulder always and keep a low profile because of this kidnapping .ur very lucky u got urs done 3 years ago,OMG the fact that ur mother in-law didnt inform the village elders that ur oyibo is so cool and interesting i suppose they were surprised when they saw u on ur traditional wedding day thats a great idea,i have learnt from that i will try to convince my parents at the moment and keep things on hold for now until there situation over there gets better or else i might do it here in europe |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 1:40pm On Nov 19, 2008 |
Biabeke: thanks for your advice ,another Rivers State lady married to a foreigner here told me she did just what you mention by sending her dowry to her parents ,some family members and elders in her village and they did a small party there and she says its the easiest way and less complicated and later on she did a small ceremony here in spain with some of her Nigerian friends plus her husbands friends and his family members,i saw her traditional wedding video it was exciting almost like doing it in Nigeria,she and her husband wore african atires same with nigerians invited,they made nigerian and european food ,even pam wine etc so yes it can also be done this way in spain but i have time and i havent decided yet.i have to see which will be best for me. |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 4:01pm On Nov 18, 2008 |
plappville: thanks alot for ur advice ,my hubbys safety comes first but people here don't see that of course,i never thought about doing it in a safe hotel in nigeria thats a very good idea lagos or abuja will do just fine,i personally don't fancy the idea of doing it in the village and i never wanted a traditional wedding in the first place all this stress is just to please my popsy,i do understand him they want to witness the ceremony since they werent here when i got married. we have cancelled the representing idea after asking some people that have done it here ,it doesnt sound cool after all the details they gave to me on how it works etc |
Romance / Re: Should I Relate My Health Problems To Her Beffore The Wedding? by Angolobabe(f): 10:24am On Nov 18, 2008 |
yes i think you should tell ur partner about ur health status or condition,so he knows what he is getting into before marriage.women with only one tube can still get pregnant normally like someone with 2 tubes, even when the both tubes are removed she can still get pregnant via IVF. |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 10:00am On Nov 18, 2008 |
im thinking of that or i will just keep them posted until we are sure port-harcourt is safe enough,thanks for the advice Ndipe: |
Romance / Re: Is Anything Wrong With Dating Online Or Via Phone? by Angolobabe(f): 5:50pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
there is absolutely nothing wrong in online dating,its very common nowadays and alot of people meets there life partners online ,here people are so busy with work and hardly have time to socialise so they all go online but one have to be careful and know exactly what you want and go for that and dont rush into any relationship as there are alot of fake people online looking for just sex and pretending on looking for true love and relationship. and when u have eventually met someone of ur heart desire and want the relationship to develop offline make sure to go for a blood test before having any intimacy to be sure both of u are clear from any disease. |
Culture / Re: Africans Abroad Using Juju To Catch Oyinbo For Marriage by Angolobabe(f): 4:14pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
the second wife is not a fool,she knows she has no right in that marriage apart from her kids,the legal wife gets everything ,the only thing she can get is child support if things goes wrong in the marriage which wont be much,so thats why she is insisting the man buys her a house that will be legally her´s and i dont see anything wrong in that as long as he has the money .the first wife has no right to call the second wife iliterate. why didnt the man and his first just get a surogate woman to get children ,the second wife feels used,maybe she thought with time after having kids the man will divorce his first wife and marry her legally and its obvious he has no intention for that plus why does he want his wives to worship and bow down to there father-inlaw? did he marry a slave? there are abuse worldwide being white or black we should always pray to meet the right person. |
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Wife I Infected Her With Chronic Syphilis by Angolobabe(f): 2:10pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
temiolumi: u said it all |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 2:02pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
im from rivers state,port-harcourt and u know how unsafe the place is now.when u listen to news abroad they always mention NIGERIA without outlining the safe states so people here think nigeria itself is unsafe no matter how u try to convince them they wont believe u so thats why. janykute: |
Culture / Re: Africans Abroad Using Juju To Catch Oyinbo For Marriage by Angolobabe(f): 1:29pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
alot of oyinbo men married to nigerian woman now often gets a chieftancy title if they want but why didnt he divorce the first wife if he wanted to marry someone else and have kids,he caused it for himself. i see alot of nigerian women marrying traditional with an oyinbo that already has a legal wife and they advice him not to get divorce yet until they have achived what they want before divorcing i have never heard of 2 nigerian women married to one oyinbo man. he just wanted to live like a chief with a poligamy family and this is what most poligamy families gets.im sure the second wife is very young and his old so its obvious that she went there for money,no money no love.he caused it. |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 12:49pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
i also had a simple wedding myself and i prefered it that way cos i dont have my families here so it was cool and i never wanted a traditional wedding but since my father is insisting on it,we are very confused and we dont have money to waste so maybe we will just tell him that since Nigeria is not safe right now for my hubby ,we will wait until its safe enough to go home for the traditional wedding maybe that will ease his mind and then eventually it wont be an issue for him anymore and maybe he we realise that traditional wedding isnt that important as long as we are legally married . benincitys: |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 10:04am On Nov 17, 2008 |
dellynash: thanks alot ,some people here thinks its funny but its not to me ,i don't mind them travelling down here but my husband can't go to nigeria at present. KarmaMod:i don't know if thats possible but i will ask questions and confirm it,if we can get it don't here why not. MrCrackles: i never wanted to eat that kind of traditional frog since popsy want it by force because he wants to keep his status ,then i will give them what they want but in different way. this Guy: yes there are but it never crossed my mind.I'm new to this so i have no idea how to go about it but i sure know alot of people do it over here and other countries abroad. this Guy: |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 9:44am On Nov 17, 2008 |
honestly speaking i never wanted a traditional wedding where they will riff us off our hard earn money but my father is insisting we must have a traditionally wedding .so we are only trying to please him and get done with it ones and for all so we are looking for other ways we can do it without going home. DavidDylan: |
Family / Re: How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 9:38am On Nov 17, 2008 |
sorry u didnt read my post very well,my parents don't care about his race so they are ok that his white and we are now legally married abroad its only the traditional one that isnt done yet. jacq: |
Family / How Can Someone Living Abroad Have A Good Traditional Wedding Without Going Home by Angolobabe(f): 12:13pm On Nov 16, 2008 |
I live abroad and I'm planing on having a traditional wedding without travelling home to Nigeria because my husband is extremely very busy with work and can't travel to Nigeria for a longtime ,he is a foreigner white and is not safe for him going to Rivers State Port-harcout. so i was thinking if it is possible for us to still do our traditional wedding without both of us being present,i know the igbo, benin and some other tribes do this by having someone to represent them.this has never been done in my state, well, known that i have heard off and i don't even know if my parents will accept it. i mean i will still do everything anyone marrying traditionally in Nigeria will do and i want one of the best traditional wedding just we wont be present at the ceremony,we can use webcam to participate in the ceremony ,videos and photos will be taken and send to us just like other people abroad who have done it this way .i mean there will be always a first person to do something different in life and if I'm the first in my state its not too bad as long as my parents and family back home welcome´s it and accept the situation. i just want to know if it must be a white man to represent my husband since he is white( this can be arrange if it is neccesary ) or can we also use a black man ?,I don't KNOW ,on my side one of my sisters can represent me if my parents accept it . i just need any tips or advice on how to go with this to make it work and how to convince my parents to accept it,its not something we want to do in a years time but in 2 years time as traditional wedding is very expensive in Nigeria plus since my husband is white they might double the bride price,so we are only preparing for it and how we can go about it,we are legally married now but i still want my traditional wedding so i can be recognised as a married woman in my family according to costume or tradition.your advice will be appreciated. |
Family / Re: Women Vs Mother-in-laws by Angolobabe(f): 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2008 |
@ plappville she lives in Norway and we live in spain .yes they have no choice then to try and adjust to the situation of having a coloured daugther in-law.for me i dont care about whatever they think all that matters is hubby wants me and they can't change his mind no matter how they tried. plappville: |
Family / Re: Grandmother Gives Birth To Her Own Triplet Granddaughters by Angolobabe(f): 6:39pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
interesting story |
Family / Re: Women Vs Mother-in-laws by Angolobabe(f): 5:43pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
we live far from my mother in-law ,im soooo greatful for that as i have less to worry about ,we get along ok but i know she is alittle racist with the way she acts towards me compare to her other daughter in-laws ,she is kind of two 2 face woman ,friendly in my present but the other way round at my back but she tries to please me to keep peace and she tries to tell me how to run my home and told my hubby to sign a pre-nup with me so i dont get everything like his ex etc |
Family / Re: Is This Story My Friend Told Me About Marriage True? (weird) by Angolobabe(f): 5:28pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
i think they do it in our great grand parents days but not now,things has changed and bride price can be refund now if the parents of the girl found out she is being badly abused . |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Single Parent/divorcee? by Angolobabe(f): 5:12pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
Yes if i love the person why not ,single parents and divorcee also need love and happiness in life, if i was divorced tomorrow with kids ( God forbid ) i will want to move on with life with a man so verse versa.divorce is also stated in the bible and some single parents didnt choose to be a single parent and they always pray to have a life partner.so there is definately nothing wrong in that in my own opinion. |
Fashion / Re: Would You Risk Plastic Surgery to Improve Your Looks? by Angolobabe(f): 5:02pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
Yes im considering Liposuction after having kids to keep fit as it removes fat from the body which i couldnt loose with excercise which I ssuppose will make me look better, fitter and happier. so if have the money to pay for the operation, I think i will go for it and i will go to one of the best hospital in europe for it to avoid complications etc. |
Family / Re: Caught With My Wife's Best Friend by Angolobabe(f): 4:51pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
mmm ur lucky to have a good wife like that, if i was in her shoes i would have kicked ur ass out of the house i think she is hoping u will change so better repent now and don't fall for temptations like that again and show her u appreciate her forgiveness and that u are truelly sorry and will never do it again and keep ur promise. |
Family / Re: Bad Habits Of Your Spouse That You Can't Stand? by Angolobabe(f): 2:55pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
mine have a habit of throwing his cloths ,shoes,plates,cups etc on places they shouldnt be,his very disorganised . |
Culture / Re: Africans Abroad Using Juju To Catch Oyinbo For Marriage by Angolobabe(f): 2:37pm On Nov 13, 2008 |
rumours does exist yes and i have not witnessed the potency of juju and i will never get myself involve with that but that doesnt mean it doesnt exist. bawomolo: |
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