I'm sorry for your loss, My heart goes out to you and your wife. i had similar situation and i know that time heals it ,ur wife need ur support now more than ever and its important she try to find out what caused the deallth of baby and cs ,and resolve it before ttc again to avoid same problem happening again and not only does her body need healing ,she also needs to heal emotionally to be able to ttc again.

OP ,About the deliverance ,i think u should agree to it but dont go to his native doctor ,say both of u should go together to MFM and surelly u will get a geniue deliverance there if there is any spiritual husband etc same with ur husband plus if u remain in MFM and contiune praying the native doctor juju will never work on u ,as in u will be protecting urself,children and husband from any evil attack.

If u go with them they might spiritually project evil to u and cause many damages ,so please dont go to white garmont churches or any native doctors ,go to powerful church like MFM and join there weekly deliverance ,not only that it will bring ur marriage back,husband senses back and destroy any evil works in ur home . if u refuse deliverance they will conclude that ur a witch thats why ur avoiding it.

Deliverance is good for everyone witch or not witch as long as u go to the right church.,there is nothing God can not do and ur situation is nothing in his sight.

So if u love ur husband and want ur kids to be in a stable home and to remain in ur marriage u have to take the step by sitting ur husband down and have one on one talk with him concerning deliverance and how work on ur marriage.

I am so disguised by this wicked woman, some people dont know what they have until its gone, she dont deserved him ,his too good to be with a slut and wicked woman like her.

I will advice her to help him get his papers and just seperate to have her freedom while he get his life sorted gradually and still spend time with his kid.
sending him back home is just too wicked and unforgivable.

my husband must be very lucky then, young wife,very functional at home ,cooks good,takes care of our 2 kids and hardworking and  earn good  plus goodlooking ,takes care of myself and dress good and good on b.d , mmmmmmmmm now i am begining to see my value  ,wtf his blessed .
So yes a man can have both at the same time.

When an african man labels his wife a witch and a dangerious one that cost him his wealth ,then the marriage is half dead from there cos there wont be any more trust from him on his wife and he will start thinking of ways to get rid of her weither dead or alive and if his family hears about it that also makes matter worst,especially since he consult fetish people or native doctor whatever u call it cos right now he trust and believe what they say about u unless God divine intervention comes in.


Him physically abusing u while pregnant is a no no,his heartless and have no respect for u.is that how u want to live the rest of ur life?

His self centered and insecured not wanting u to go back to work even when his lost his job,its obvious that he likes to me in control of everything.

Please do urself a good favour and got back to work so that u can be able to fend for urself and kids incase this marriage brokes down cos i see it coming ,so now is the time to start perparing .

dont listen to everyone who wants u to suspend ur plans of getting a job and be idle just to please ur selfish husband even when they can see all the witchcraft accusation and physical abuse.

He should be happy to have a wife that wants to work compare to most that doesnt ever want to work but to remain as house wife and mothers ,this is why when most relationships breaks we women suffer more for it cos of lack of independency.

Shine ur eye oo and think of urself and kids first before before ur insecured husband.

I am sorry OP, If u dont take care of your situation now be ready for more lies and cheating from him . all the red flags are there for u to see.

Cos he is hiding something thats why he deleted all those msgs he sent  300 plus msgs to an ex is too much  and he didnt even respect your union on Valentines day not to text,they both still have feelings for each others and trying to keep a good relationship outside their marriages .

And he is the one who opened the door for her to come in cos his the one who made the first move of writing her and contiuned.

And be very ready for him to start taking advice from her in your marriage and how to threat u. sometimes when an EX is still in love and secretly angry and jealous of there EX new partner ,they pretend to be friends and helping them but deep inside their heart they want to ruin the marriage or make their marriage unhappy. this is from my experience and also experiences of some close friends that broke up.

Honestly speaking he cant change for long without going back to his old ways. marriage is suppose to be enjoyable,peaceful and filled with more happiness than sad moments and if your not getting this from him then u will remain unhappy and in the long run it might end in divorce.

There is no excuse for him to still contiune keeping contact with his ex ,if its against your well cos your suppose to come first but he put his ex and family first before u which is wrong and not defending u when his family insulted u is another red flag to get ready for more insult unless he comes in and protect u.

Please do ur home work well and find out if he is responsible for his ex pregnancy,dont take the fact that she is living or married to another man that this cant happen cos it does and they might be keeping t secret from both partners.

Congratulations

I dont think a married woman should also cheat cos her husband does to revenge.

I think they should try and figure out why he cheats ,maybe they need to work on their relationships more or even try consuelling but if all proves abortive and he refuse to change then she shouldnt live unhappy life ,she should leave his cheating ass.

A cheater will always a cheater.

Sorry about ur divorce ,it can be hard i know this cos i have been there,you cant get anything from Nigeria because the law dont protect women and marriage break ups or even child support from the father ,instead they will advice u give ur ex husband full costudy of ur child.

But if u discuss assets divison personally with ur ex and he agrees then i am sure u guys can work something out,my ex husband who was a foreigner got 50% of our nigeria assets cos i agreed on it and we didnt marry,live or file our divorce in Nigeria,this is cos i think he deserved it cos he worked for most of the money anyway why try to keep all to myself ,of course it was easy to do in Nigeria if i wanted.

You should first sort out ur child support before looking into assets in Nigeria ,as i think this is more important.

Wonders shall never end, all this fake pastors using juju to get powers and pretending its from God. , na today ,there heart is dark u can never imagine all those Godly words are all fake.

Poor innocent children suffering , this happens often in Nigeria too so its not new but sad.

@Lawyer.

I need to register a company ,can i use my oversea address in the registration since i dont live in Nigeria? i sent you an email but didnt get any reply,please do check and give me a feedback including cost for registration and your service.

Thanks.

Nairalanders please i need your help,

How many kilos are in 1 liter of palm oil and what is the average price per liter in Nigeria?

Thanks.

olanshi:

Call Mr Jesse on :- 07066670985

Who is Mr Jesse and what does he do related to this ? please clarify.

Thank you.

Old woman better pass but when i was growing up we had both male and females adult maids but the females didnt last long but the male did

Well ,i prefer a male helper some are very hard working and u dont have to worry about him snatching ur man ,the best way is to do all house chores ursef,hubby should help out too.

No i dont think its polite to boast about ones child to others ,i know some ladies especially do this to rob it in the face of other women who dont have kids yet or that have problems keeping or concieving as if they are God.

If ur child is going well ,be happy and content within urself and family and beside bad belly people too much dis days to even brag of ones child's success.

i will say u should follow ur heart

greateros:

what will you do?

75% of fathers ar not the biological father to their children!

Na only woman know who be her pikin papa!

So my friend, take a chill pill and keep away from High BP

I cant stop laughing dis nairaland sef ,i been take break but some of uno post couldnt keep me from replying hehehe

Every woman knows who the father of her child is ,unless she is a slut and sleeps around. so please give good advice and dont give the guy high blood pressure

I am sorry but this things never work out mother in-law and daughter in-law,i for one will not accept that cos most mother inlaws tend to take over the home and cause problems ,so its a no no.,they are allowed to visit but not moved in and the longest visit shouldnt be more than 2 weeks .

Please if anyone know of palmoil factories in Nigeria that produce good palm oil with good affordable price in large quantity ,please kindly send me there contact address and numbers .so i can pay them a visit and verify quality etc

Thank you.

I am looking for reliable and serious person living in china mainland and hongkong that speaks chinese to do company verifications of goods and also do checking of quality ,quantity and making sure the real products are shipped to me .please if your interested
Email me @ ,elynworld@yahoo.com

Thank you.

modele2:

Huggies snug and dry size 3 (204 pieces) cost 9200
same with size 4(cant remember how many daipers are in the carton).
I live in asaba and get mine from a wholesaler, the Lagos prices should be better.

thanks for the details,wholesale price cheaper,looking for store price in average.

Winnerslfc:

Welcome Back!
Some of you kept asking me questions on the best kind of goods you can import. So, lets deal with that now.
[center]WHAT SHOULD I IMPORT FROM CHINA?[/center] To easily answer this question, in my first post, i gave you a website: www.alibaba.com and i said this is the main chinese online market. Now! Anything you see there, is a reflection of what you can import from China.
We are however in a computer age, so your importation should be technologically based. What i mean is, you shouldn't import outdated items. Some people think they can import things like clothings etc from China but this sounds ridiculous. So go for technology.
On this thread, i have read people talking of importing fashion products, so i begin to wonder what they actually mean by "fashion products." So if you are contemplating that and may not want to regret, i advice you to divert from China to perhaps United Arab Emirate.
Now, for me, i import the following products and the are loaded with profit and easily marketed:
1, Laptops.
2, Note book PC.
3, LCD Monitors with TV.
4, Portable DVD players with TV.
5, Solar cells and panels.
6, Phones.
7, Micro SD {memory card]
8, Generators.
9, Projectors.
10, Home theatres and lots more.
I am assuring you that these products are very profitable provided the favour of God is with You.
To be continued. . . . . . . . . .

Hi, do you live in china? ,i have some companies in china mainland i need to verify if they are geniue or not , do you know of any good companies that deals with iphones and blackberry and laptops with good prices? ,i've been alibaba member for a while now doing some research on products, i dont live in nigeria so what will be best option for shipping to europe cos most companies refuse using EMS,DHL,UPS advicing that its too expensive that best option will be by sea in 20 ft container .

Thanks alot for the info,its appreciated.

No replies yet ,does this means that no parents here use disposable diapers in nigeria ? any good citizen willing to help me out with my enquiry?
Thanks.

I mean store brands diapers and how many are in one packet of different brands ? if you've used any and what are the best one's so far and there names?

well ,the deed has been done already ,so i wont bash too much on u,this will ruin ur marriage unless God interven and yourself must change from committing adultery.its best ur husband hear it from u then the blackmailer or find people to talk to ur lover to hand over all those tapes and videos,settle ur scores before its too late ,i must say ur lover have a wicked heart,he wants u to pay for cheating in a degrading and bad way and another word of advice if you dont love ur husband its best for u to live now then remain unhappy for the rest of urself,marriage is an institution and should never be taken slightly,

well, the bible says in the book of LEVITICUS 19-27 and 28

verse 27, Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard.

verse 28, Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves.I am the LORD.

i just want to tell u that the grass is not always greener at the other side and all that glisters is not gold,u have a good wife all u need is comminication.u will hit ur head on a stone thinking a niaja gal will be better alot are worst than oyibo women,i will advice u to work on ur marriage,u still party with ur pals so does she ,u dont do things together which is bad,when things goes wrong in a relationship u guys blame it on the woman wthout examing urself if u also contributed to it. when she use that word, ÁRE U FINISHED YET? thats a sign that she isnt enjoying it either.

if anyone of you need a legal documents from nigeria especially from Rivers state,there is a honest gentleman who is willing to assist you on that, but you have to pay him for the job and transportation throughout the process which he normally dont charge much and when its ready he will post in to you .

he is the one who helps me with mine since i dont like involving my family members on documentation issues with stressful mistakes they´ve made several times in the past,so yes i trust him
Example of documents are : birth certificate,affidavit,police report ,driving licence and international permit,business registration etc and if you have other request that is not listed its better to discuss that with him first and see if he can help you on that.
his phone number is : 00 234 8059617941 ( Name Mr Godpower )