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i can see ur a JJC on this ,some girls specialise in dating oyinbo in naija weither u´ve heard of it or not but it does exist.so im not saying what i dont know .

Ifygurl:
Wetin you dey talk about? Which kind Yeye thing be this? Do you actually think in Nigeria, girls are fighting over each other for oyinbo? My sister, na lie.
I've never even see that happen in my life inculding when i lived in Naija. Naija girls don't even fight over eachother for Naija boys and you actually think dey fight over each other for Oyinbo?
Not that many naija girls are married to oyinbo's both in naija and aboard. Never heard that kind of stuff happens but if you believe am. Na u'r business.

Juju,voodoo does exist yes but using it to catch Oyinbo abroad is not correct cos abroad there are alot of oyinbo and people have chooses while in nigeria oyinbo is less and girls fight over it and some use juju to achieve there heart desire.

if u see any nigerian girl married to oyinbo for a long time and lives in naija she is definately using some juju on him to keep him or else another woman will take him away from her,sure some of them will never tell u they use it why some are very open with it and they dont care what people think and there oyinbo husbands or partner dont believe in Juju so they have no idea weither there wife or girlfriend are using it on them.

i was very shocked when i visited nigeria this year and heard what all my interracial girlfriends told me about girls competing with juju and who´s juju is more powerful wins a rich oyinbo and how they use it to make some girls mad just to snach there oyinbo boyfriend or husband from them

Abroad some people not just girls use juju to achieve papers,marriage,money etc from oyinbo and there mama they prepare em for dem especially bini girls.

some people are just naturally lucky in meeting men and keeping a good relationship with oyinbo men while some dont and they go for what works best for them which is juju.

my younger sister told me about a bini girl she knows that uses juju on her husband for papers and money ,her husband is only 30 yrs old and she is 33 yrs old ,he paid off the girls madam fees and this girls openly told my sister that she renews it every 3 months so yes it does exist but more in africa than abroad and i dont judge anyone that uses it cos its non of my business.

i will love and care for my child abnormal or not,its a mother´s nature,unconditional love for her child no matter the out come.its God that gives children and we cant determine how they will turn out to be.

well as much as i love my hubby i will divorce him if he cheats on me,abuse me emotional or physical.life is too short to live unhappy.

my husband is my next of kin in everything and vice versa.

My husband is my soul mate i finally found the right man
we have alot of things in common,he involves me in all decision making .
He is always there for me for better and for worst
He is very gentle ,loving,generious and the most kind and caring person that i have ever known .
He is always there for me ,he understands me , he make me happy when
Im sad he kiss me everyday before and after work and tell´s me how much
he love me. he cares for my needs and never refuse me anything i ask for.
He is very hard working and a good father.he makes everything equal and never tries to be bossy
My opinion is very important to him in everything he does,he tells me how life is meaningless without me by his side.
and i have grown to love him so much and life is worthless without him.his the best among others and God brought us together.

i dont support adultery but if a woman can forgive her man ,the man should do the same for her if she commits adultery ,its 50/50 .no one should be used.

there should be moderation, there is nothing wrong in showing affection infront of the kids But intimacy should be done in private

my best friend in Uni is married to a footballer and they are happily married so i see nothing wrong in that but most of them are flirt

i think she should go for whatever she thinks is best for her but waiting 4 more yrs is too much but its up to her to decide.

abeg go ahead with ur heart desire ,dont listen to what people says or think its ur life not theres,i personally prefer older guys and age is just a number to me ,my mother and father in-laws have 23 years age gap and they have been married for 45 years same with my parents,i have seen alot of people marrying with there age groups or a little older and yet they are more god digger than people think with someone that marries an older man and there marriage even fails than the ones that married an older man.

sorry i wont .

mmm i will say any parent will reject there daughter from marrying a man with ur list above but my parents cant choose for me though.

im married and responsible and why are u asking?

dont get involve in other people marriage friend or not,ur friend isnt complaining so leave it that way.

i will email u later

jodeci:
HND,Electrical/Electrical engineering,currently working as field service engineer aboard an FPSO.contact me via jodeci54@yahoo.com.This is a public forum,this is how much i will expose here.Thanks

unbelievable

cant be one thats trouble.nigeria men needs to change.

yes when i was 9 yrs old and my mom shaved all my hairs for that reason and i hate it.

Hello kathyekiti ,
i just want to congratulate u on ur service here on nairaland,ur doing a great job may God bless u ,i will get intouch whenever i have any questions.

Show your wife ur love
listen to her
show her emotional support
fend for her financial needs
be faithful to her
respect her and her wishes

there is nothing wrong in that and 2 years is very little age difference

i see nothing wrong in marrying at 23,if u find the right man and he also wants marriage why wait,i wish u best of luck.

some of them learn the western culture when they are outside nigeria and find it very normal helping their wife at home while some still hold on to nigeria culture.

women Circumcision

Tribal marks

child marriage

have u worked for any foreign company before ? if yes name it and how long did you work there.

ashmanpolo:
B.Eng materials n met eng. FUTO. CONTRACT STAFF MEMBER NAOC. MAINT. Dept. contactprotus@yahoo.com

As someone that comes from a polygamost home,i do not support it ,there are too many disadvantages,with education now alot of our men and women do not want to involve in that.

Now that is very touchy i almost reading it,sometimes people get divorce when they are still very much in love with each other and regret it later, i think we all should learn to show intimacy in our marriage and try to work on it not quiting so easyly.i wish u the best in ur marriage.this is to show u how much ur wife value ur marriage.

i wont eat food i dont like for love,im not very picky on food so i eat most european foods but my hubby doesnt eat most of my nigerian foods,so cook alone and eat alone.