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The only thing she loves is ur money, stop thinking like a sissy

They feel we owe them something after demanding heaven and earth

Oga alpha male, Hope u know u are stupid? Even if ur intentions do not measure up to ur action as u claim, it still doesn't take anything away from ur action, no matter how u want take judge am. Because of pride and Toto, u betrayed a brother.

Okonkwo22:
The same bible your catholic church rejected, you are now quoting indiscriminately.

Ur statement reeks of ignorance

whytepawn1:
it's better off resigning that pretending to be a priest... I think it takes a lot take that step....

I subscribe to ur thoughts but why did he not do so quietly like most people before him?

Jogunomi1:
I laboured very hard in the past to be a good man in my relationships, but I'm never lucky. Adding to my shame is that guys that don't care about virtues are the ones having the attention of those women I like.

Secondary school girls and married women are the ones after me. I want to be bad but I don't know how to go about it.

So u no like tight Toto?(secondary school gals). Married women though shouldn't be considered but if u really wanna be a bad boy as u claim, u would know d first rule of engagement which is; everyone and anyone is game

Nothing is too big or small for me to hold a grudge. Y should I punish myself for someone else's choice?

BornnAgainChild:
You dont deserve one if at all shes right here...your post is rude...first of all

Sister calm down...... Because he doesn't have 30 billion in his akant isn't reason enough to fire back . Seems u are misunderstanding d op. In simple terms, he is looking for a slay queen whom he can do pay as u go with

MiMiakpet:
Dear Nairalanders, your candid advice is needed in this, no insults Pls...
My friend Funky is in a lil delima and needs candid advice.
Funky was dating a girl called Wofai at some point earlier in life. It was an open relationship that was well known by all. Wofai had a girlfriend called Joy who was Funky's Neighbour and also a friend to Funky with both their families being family friends as neighbors.
Somehow at some point Wofai fell into a relationship with a certain guy in the neighborhood called Eze who incidentally and unknowingly was Funky's friend.
Now Funky and Wofai broke up, Wofai is married with a kid. Eze had relocated to the US and asked Joy to move on with her life.
Back here at home, the friendship between Joy and Funky had grown so intimate with both of them nursing feelings for each other yet no strings attached still with them both waiting for who to make the first move(I know this because I've been in contact with them both).
Now my question is, will it be right for Funky to make the move?
Is it OK for him to marry Joy cos that's what is in his mind?

Candid advice is needed and pls no insults.

You, joy, funky, eze and d rest of the cast are all mad but yet to realise it

isyourboy:
I'm handsome but very broke, I mean I'm too broke... since I graduated from the university I've not get hold of any good relationship so to say, thoygh girls do fall for me, but once they noticed I don't have a dime with Me, they run ,but back in school, I lost count of girls I've slept with and they do spend on me, even pay school fee for Me

what keep surprising me is a friend of mine very ugly but rich (employed), and girls flock him......
pls is anything wrong with me

The difference between u and ur friend is the solution to ur problem

lastmessenger:
Very very expensive.

Are u schooling in ABU?

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

Person when u never marry, na dey gv u sleepless night like this. Better find something better to channel all this energy into before u get high blood pressure on top Toto when u never pay money put.

Please is there anyone schooling in ABU with credible info on the fees. Please kindly share

See question o, y not, dem dey pick d money for tree abi I be fada Christmas

nextprince:
OP, is this the worst you can get?

Mention your state and let's asses the govt schools.

And u feel u just made sense

Bla bla bla

Randyhot:
I suggest you approach her tactfully, take her out, buy her things, make her laugh, be her best friend and companion, take care of some her financial needs and let her decide if she is single or not.

So u are suggesting we take up another full time job after normal hustle just to book for Toto when when I no dey sure of?

Both are synonyms

zionmade1:
Boko haram was not created because of GEJ. Boko haram has no links with politics in nigeria even though politicians want us to see it dat way. Boko haram is 100% religious, that is why its difficult to root them out. They have more recruits by the day because islam is tailored to the path of killing and jihads. GEJ failed not because of boko haram but because he allowed corruption eat deep into his regime

Y must u be this stupid?

Any job postings in Delta state would be very much appreciated.

Plankton2017:
Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

My brother, I'm not trying to be negative but the truth is, u might never know or have peace of mind if u go ahead with this trap u are trying to freely with ur two eyes wide open fall into. U owe Urself happiness first before any stranger u feel u might offend if u choose not to go through with it, they will be the same people to point fingers when it all goes sour. It's a slap on ur face to have asked her sister to come to ur house without ur permission, if she cannot respect u on something as minute as this what will happen when u officially marry her; perhaps bring in her entire family without ur consent or even not need ur permission either to go out or stay outside ur home. If she cannot listen to u or take to ur words before marriage, do u think she will ever listen to u after?

Did anyone not tell her that Thanksgiving is between the giver and receiver. Time to go and SPREAD her gifts before the altar and she no longer understands.

There's no problem with him leaving, he wouldn't be the first but hope he doesn't go out there and start doing consecration (communion).

I saw the raid on TVC News and the police found nothing implicative in his shrine. It would be foolish of them to charge him to court on the basis of being an ATR practitioner cos they have nothing on him.

Akalia:
Why take to social media just to let the whole world know you are giving to charity. Has bill gate ever publicly announced his giving to charity? Man you have received your reward in full since all you seek is to aggrandise yourself and massage your ego. Mtcheew.

There's nothing egotistical about it. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves and others that there's still good in people and we can also do same.

This is a self acclaimed philanthropist who cannot pay the labourers their wages and he thinks he's doing any good

There's the stupidest of the stupid and then there's SOWORE

chinoxstock:
What does this thread mean? What's the point?

The point is very simple, let something be done about the senseless tribalistic bigots cos this was how the idea for the Holocaust started.

BeardedMeat:
Lol..Awon unity beggar

Seems u have a problem comprehending simple English.