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Politics / Re: FBI Has More Pages On Tinubu Than Malcolm X - David Hundeyin (video) by Archie30: 2:24pm On Sep 20, 2023 |
Mindlog: You sense when they started avoiding him, something is smoking. Tinubu is pretty much under pressure and he must be a strong man! Chai!! |
Family / Re: Should I Call Off My New Relationship Because Of This?? by Archie30: 2:49pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
[quote author=UnconventionalT post=125747179]Copied "I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland My sis, Scotland can be very difficult meeting Nigerian guys. The one thing I found though, is that Nigerians living in Scotland work really hard. You don't hear sh*T comin' outta there. You 've not told us how you sincerely feel about this guy. You 've met a few times and you 've taken your time to write this down here, I'm assuming you may 've considered him as someone worth 'see how it goes' thingy. Now if you fancy this guy, mould him to the sorta man you want him to be and be malleable too as you aint a finished item either. My advice is, do not over think things, stay open minded but be wise. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: President Tinubu Reacts To Gabon Coup by Archie30: 4:27pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: Like Igbo people made Tinubu to choose criminality. You must drag Igbo people ba. Nothing will happen...nothing thrown to Igbo people will stop who they are...Great people. Envy of you lots!!! |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ali Bongo: I Don't Know What's Happening, I Have Been Arrested, make noise by Archie30: 4:20pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Offpointng:What's the point when democracy has been abused upandan..we were happier when the military were there lol. Leave the igbo people alone and enjoy what you have traded them for. Nothing will bring them down. NOTHING! |
Career / Re: Advise Me: What Is The Best Course A Female Philosophy Graduate Do At Masters? by Archie30: 1:37pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
labtos: It has great value but I can understand where you 're coming from. I studied the same course but I have gone on to have a decent career in Finance and I can tell you what? What's taken me this far is my grounding in Philosophy. Everything about this life is logic...quote me! I don't know so much about Nigeria but If you 're abroad and disenchanted with Philosophy, I will not advise you to do any masters. Go for +2 Nursing, Physiotherapy or Social Works etc...however old you re, though younger the better! My route was +2 Finance and Accounting but this is just me...I always wanted to dive into Finance. If you fancy Finance and ready to put in the hard work, then do what I did. You know what, there's so much opportunities in Finance and Accounting as people ain't keen to go there at all. Don't be deterred, there're many options for you...loads in Business Intelligence and Analytics for a start. DM for a chat if you want. |
Celebrities / Re: Turn Around, I’m Not Home – Davido Tells Cyclist Riding From Benue To See Him by Archie30: 6:18pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
Puss360: Take am easy...if this guy is a woman...omo...remember how he dey shout OBO! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Davido Celebrates Cousin Tunji Adeleke On Political Appointment In Osun by Archie30: 6:28pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
afroniger: They have bought the whole state with zero care for others. They want it all like Davido. Posterity will judge all of us! Nigeria has been damaged by a very few elite. |
Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu Watches And Celebrates Super Falcons Win Against Australia (Video) by Archie30: 7:29pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
AllenSpencer: Deep down I'm 200% sure she's not convinced she's the first lady. Imagine having to check the news and looking over your shoulder all the time. Having to stage a video like this one lol. Crime will never win. It's a karma time! |
Romance / Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by Archie30: 2:50pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger. You didn't tell us your age but you appear like those teenagers who just get married. Bros the first 5 years of marriage with kids coming can sometimes be strange and stressful. So you are right your wife has become a stranger but so are you! It can happen!! Having issues about her lifestyle is also not entirely new...in fact not new at all. You ain't perfect brother, I'm not, she's not. You can work on this with more understanding, care and love. Going back to banking career after some ups and downs...typifies your reality. You kept bouncing back after every setback. Take that energy straight back to your marriage. You will see amazing transformation. It shows how resilience and proactive you can be. Then you met this lady and all of suddenly you wish you met her first! And you cheated!!. You think your wife has not met anyone else way way better and more compatible than you? You haven't told us she cheated but you are a cheat bro. You brother...you are the problem! Abeg go back home and start apologising to your wife, who for the last 4 years has had your 2 beautiful kids and sacrificed everything for you and the kids. She doesn't deserved to be cheated on. Her only crime was send some FOOD items to your mother in law. Omo are you a man? I don't want to talk about your side chick because we all know what it's. The people suffering here are your own kids, someone's daughter and you Mr OP. And somehow, you have the very key to unlock your family problem. Dare not run away from it. Your brothers all over the world are suffering to find solution for their own family. Money, food...whatever! |
Career / Re: Is Japa Worth It? by Archie30: 5:04pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
1. Your pay of $3,000 makes sense in Naija and will benefit you more in Naija than jands. Don't ruin a good thing in your quest for something else. I was going to say "in your quest for something better" but I realized obodo is not actually better or as rosy as we like to think. You earn quite well with that sort of net pay and that's global wise. I will only japa if that job is not secure or there's no more development opportunities for you. I live in the UK and I have worked both in South East Asia and the North America. I can tell you not a lot on mid point salary range earn what you are earning. Cash is wealth, even better when what you have is your own disposable income 4 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: Who Are Those Behind Dangote Group ? (photos) by Archie30: 3:08pm On May 25, 2023 |
Ogene001: Must you bring tribe to everything in Nigeria. All the tribal knob*ds should to take it homeward abeg and do something for them own. As a Nigerian, I'm sick of them tribal bull...st 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: 3 Sentenced To Death For Stealing Phones Chargers, Sandals, Power Banks In Ekiti by Archie30: 6:06pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dexy4yah: 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Do I Save My Marriage by Archie30: 2:18pm On May 16, 2023 |
hopeforcharles: I also think my brother should have taken a bit more risk and relocated to Lagos on his wife's advice. Lagos is the commercial hub of Nigeria and settling in Lagos has phases. There 'll be certainly hard times but step by step things will ease off with hard work. His in-law is in Lagos and I'm not saying this a direct debit guarantee but they are family to call on in toughest times. He will get through these phases with the support of the wife and nothing will motivate him more than doing well for his kids. If I were him, I 'll move to Lagos and deal with my issues, fresh start and a commitment to do well for the family. This is our wahala...we men! When you start having family, omo ...no excuses, you have to stick in there for your family and ensure they are ok. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Archie30: 6:39pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
KidDarkness: Nicely said. For the fact she's accusing him for the same sin she's guilty of makes this women really horrible. And the prospective in-law has shown no respect either. Nobody's ever been successful without some principles and logic. Clearly this woman belongs to someone else. |
Politics / Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Holds Open Casket Viewing For Late Ex-wife (photos) by Archie30: 1:13pm On Apr 13, 2023 |
SpecialAdviser: Nasty people. Posing for photos and smiling!!! Disgusting 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Lady Kicks Her Hubby Out Of His Own Home In UK After He Brought Her From Nigeria by Archie30: 8:38pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Nigeria is my heritage and this has nothing to do with Nigeria but everything to do with FACT and LOGIC. |
Travel / Re: Lady Kicks Her Hubby Out Of His Own Home In UK After He Brought Her From Nigeria by Archie30: 6:54pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Not true!!!. If she's making a complaint, you are making a counter complaint. You are not leaving the house! Simple! In UK, only court bailiffs can evict you from your home. Get that into your head. UK isn't US !!!. In fact, if there 're children involved, common sense and happy path decision for the police is to take the woman and kids to a safe home while you are being investigated. Do not leave your home OKAY!!! |
Travel / Re: Lady Kicks Her Hubby Out Of His Own Home In UK After He Brought Her From Nigeria by Archie30: 5:57pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Darammliveth: But I'm not sure where they get the idea that you could kick your husband out in UK. Rule of thumb, if tenancy agreement is in your name or jointly held, nobody kicks you out or makes you homeless. She phones the police, no problem, them too can't kick you out of your home. Importantly, ensure you have your lawyer's contact handy. Do not accept to leave. Simple! If you do, that's willingly making yourself homeless. Then if you have a joint mortgage make sure ownership of the house or flat is also shared; the percentage owned by each person should be clearly stated in the property deeds. Don't be deceived by make belief or fly around gossips. They 're all bullshit bingos. Just be clear to protect yourself and make sure you lose not a penny of your hard work 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Wins FCT Presidential Election by Archie30: 4:18pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
OlawaleBammie: My brother use your head. This election is not a tribal election. It's Nigerian people including you VS the ruling class/elite. I have my sympathy for the people in SW. Possibly the smartest people in Nigeria. Tinubu is no where near Yoruba enough to be the president of Nigeria. For a start we know how good Yoruba people are. Yoruba people is better than this if the president must be from SW. Nigerians voted competence and integrity. All the people talking tribalism here shame on you. This election will unite Nigerians more than ever. I can give you the names of thousands of Yoruba men and women who can lead this country and Tinubu is not one of them. He can't and we have rejected him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Health / Re: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by Archie30: 1:05pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
greypencils: To add to your advise...guys please remember that an empty prostrate can never be cancerous. It's not a bad idea to be sexually active. Stats say 3 in every 5 men could eventually fall to prostrate issues! So, put it in a calendar to check yourself often especially when you hit 37 onwards. |
Health / Re: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by Archie30: 12:57pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
Chocoleen: Check these. And google search shops local to you. https://www.goldenneedleonline.com/Ba-Zheng-San-GN102.html https://accessholistichealth.com/shop/ba-zheng-san Generally, you can find them online...check eBay, Etsy and Amazon etc. Depending on where you stay, check local Chinese herbal shops. |
Health / Re: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by Archie30: 12:22pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
I do not think this is sinister. When I was a virgin I had something similar. Mine was trigger by tension. Back then, I will be having tests and exams and boom, I will discharge. The doctor said at that time it's scrotal torture and that I'm naturally having excessive sperm production. It stopped when I became sexually active. I will however advise to try the Chinese herbal medicine called Ba Zheng San in case you have UTI. Ba Zheng San great for UTI affecting your bladder. It's more like a heat intervention. Then, bro drink a lot of fluid. Water each waking up morning. Avoid too much yoghurt, spice food and exercise like you ll be the next Naija Olympic star. |
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Marries Benedicta Elechi With Pastor Tobi as Best Man by Archie30: 10:07pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
Good luck to them. Meanwhile...U a student around Lancaster and Manchester area? Open to free accommodation and feeding for a bit of childcare services? Not a lot to do...just school run...drop and pick up as we know u need your grades. Message me abeg |
Politics / Re: Vandefan Tersugh: It Raises Suspicion For A 20 - 30 Year-Old To Have N7m Car by Archie30: 4:33pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
okpalaAnambra: They wouldn't hear even when you shout it. This is someone who was at the very top of this SARS. He possibly doesnt know what subpoena is. |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Archie30: 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
merieam16: He wants ur advise. U could change his life forever. Everything ain't joke material |
Family / Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Archie30: 8:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
dingbang: You are an adult at 22. Your emotions and mental state is very much important to the person you are and want to be. Your parents advise is one of the many options in making several lifetime decisions which you and only you alone will be responsible and will be held accountable for. You love this guy, tell parents you are in love with a man and you want to see him. You parents met each other somehow. It's your life not theirs. Do not end up buy unhappiness remotely engineered by your parents or anyone else. By the way and for all I know, Lagos is the commercial hub of the country. What is a fresh graduate doing in Abeokuta after servicing in Lagos. You have to ask yourself real life questions. Nobody should hold you back including your parents. Nobody remembers the loser. Be a winner. Be confident and decisive. Tempus fugit non regamus. Time you waste you can never regain. Go out there and enjoy your love and take on the world. At 22 you should be putting down deposit on your first home not applying for your parent's permit to visit Lagos for whatever reason. And for those parents holding back their kids...sorry!!! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Experience At The Club: Share Yours by Archie30: 11:47am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Emperor4tune: Tell me abeg. I have always wanted to club in Lagos and Abuja |
Romance / Re: Lady Rejects Marriage Proposal Because Lover Refused To Kneel Down by Archie30: 10:22am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Unbreakable007: I'm telling u. The guy should go home and thank God. He's just dodged a Beirut type explosion. |
Romance / Re: Lady Rejects Marriage Proposal Because Lover Refused To Kneel Down by Archie30: 10:18am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Zzor: I know you will not do the same. But if you will, please let me know on time. My sister's been searching for years. I don't mind your man for her lol. |
Family / Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Archie30: 11:43am On Apr 29, 2020 |
CaptainStephen: Attention. Desire to be recognised. Trying to make us believe it's what it looks. Nope we re all mortally bereft. |
Romance / Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Archie30: 9:45am On Apr 21, 2020 |
He's done all the spending in good faith. You win some you lose some. He loved and still loves this girl. Look my dad is from Anambra State. He met my mum completely broke ...guess what? while at the MED school too. My mum supported my dad through his medical school. My mum isnt Nigerian for a starter and they both went through a lot and all the carry on from Anambra why my dad should stick to his own. Luckily they've been married for nearly 50yrs. It's sad but what I get from Anambra is a people non -conforming to culture outside theirs. I think that is changing a bit and as proud Anambra man I will advise this guy to stay strong and fight for his love....well his love; that's if she truly loves him. I will do anything for someone I love and care about. She's his life and he could help her and happy to do so. That's what my mum done to my dad...from Anambra state! It can go either way and value is so objective and non relative. It stands true in every situation or cultures |
Romance / Re: Loneliness & Dating Abroad: Perspectives of a Nigerian Student in The U.S by Archie30: 4:00am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Marriage is huge. It's life time. It's everything really. It's sacred. It's massive hard work and sacrifice. If you ain't ready to constantly embrace and work on sustaining your marriage and relationship then there's a big problem. The OP said everything but tried to take away what makes us unique as Nigerians. And that's culture. I'm half Nigerian by the way. But what we Nigerians bring to the table is simply outstanding. As much as we want to properly integrate and be part of western community where we live please do not lose your identity. My mum still cooks for my dad, she does that with pride. My dad is still the one who looks out to double check everything is ok. The values inherent in our culture, african culture is golden. The truth is the west doesn't ve them. Why should we come here n want to lose that just to blend and be Americans or British etc. My advise to Nigerian women is to be true to your identity cos you re all beautiful and admired. Treat your men with genuine respect. Nigerians work hard and the guys do a lot for their family. Keep it in the family and help your men become better boyfriends and husbands. Feminism is lovely thing, it's still not properly defined and laid out even in western paradigm. We as Africans should first find where this concept fits into our core values and development as a people before championing it. My point is don't forget your root and where u originally come from. For me I find Nigerian women super attractive, imaginative and adoring. Let's bring our strength to the world not weakness. The way your mum and dad knew it suprisingly is still very valid . kazyhm: 5 Likes |
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