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gregyboy:Where was Orhogbua when news of his father's demise go to him? Which river in Africa was he at? Lagos is far from Benin by those days standards. Why was it not planted by nearby Ijebu or Egba that planted their monarchy and organised Lagos? Why will Ghana now be the one they reach first? By your logic some would say Benin were not seafaring people and could not have reached Lagos. But there is clear evidence Benin did. Yoruba want us to believe Oduduwa came from Egypt or Mesopotamia or Israel yet Benin cannot reach Ghana? Really? ![]() Benin had Ozigue (majorly Ijaw people) at it's disposal. As for Benin reaching out to Ga and others, I won't reveal more details despite being goaded to. Because it seems many want to double-cross. I heard of Ooni visit to claim Ga before. But I didn't believe it. I guess the clip upload here is probably it. I still have not watch it. I write in between a busy schedule. Let everyone do their own reaching out. Let the truth win in the end. I do not need a map. I have travelled that area: Ivory Coast, Ghana, Togo and Benin is like backyard to me. I did not study geography. But by class 4 we knew the capitals of all American States, capital of all African states, and much of regional geography. Complete with maps. Be it ship building in Japan, logging in New Foundland, sheep farming in New Zealand, etc. So profound was our secondary geography that a geography graduate of nowadays will have to be careful challenging the level of then. Let me stop not to come across as showing off. |
samuk: ![]() Bruv, what people do not realize is that dissing Benin empire just bring out more details about Benin. There are many silent readers here. Discerning minds will wonder why some people of other tribes are now so avowed to denigrate Benin history. They just begin threads just for that purpose. Including those written centuries ago and more recent ones. It's like those people who have their nude pictures released on-line to spite them. So it surprisingly turns them into stars. If people dissing Benin think they want to denigrate Benin, they are achieving the total opposite. ![]() |
TAO11:Oh for sure! My Ga (from Accra area of Ghana) inlaws who claimed Benin ancestry about 25 years without being prompted and anyone claiming anything should be allowed to define themselves. The current Ga people claiming Benin should be allowed too. We are not competing for Olympic Medals. Late President Gnasigbe Eyadema and his people of Togo who traced their roots to Edo almost 50 years ago, should also be allowed. Oba of Lagos (both the departed Oba Oyekan & current Oba Akiolu) should be allowed. At the end, that's how it should be. I believe no objective person should have any problem with that. |
TAO11:I made a simple submission. That we should let people define themselves. I read a few first lines and I did not watch the video clip. I heard Ooni visited Ghana and gave some titles at one time? Is that the video clip? Is that true? I am way to busy to follow every thing everyone comes up with. 9 years of doing so is a long time. But let people define themselves. That was my message to Meles. |
Oh dear. Things do happen. |
MelesZenawi:Well, thank you Mr Meles. First this was a thread began by a Yoruba person. While Benin people generally feel comfortable with both East & West, and culture has flowed both ways over the centuries, Benin and Yoruba are genetically and philologically different people. Like royalties across the world over millenniums, the royal houses clearly have blood links. Benin therefore are not junior or senior to anyone in modern times. Even imperial exploits do not necessarily confer seniority in modern times. For example it's entirely up to Olu of Warri & Oba of Lagos families how they want to relate to Benin. While both currently consider Oba of Benin as sitting on their father's throne (I can forward links of Olu & Eleko saying so in videos if anybody wants), in 100 years their descendants can deny it and we would be fine with that too. You will hardly ever see Benin starting threads to claim seniority. History is what it is. History. But equally Benin will not take distortion of history without a robust reply. Anyone out to wage supremacy war has only set out to fail. It's fundamental human desire for people to choose their affiliation and how they want to define and express themselves. As of now, we are reaching out to people we believe we have historical links with. From Niger Delta, to Lagos to Togo/Ghana. It's up to those people to confirm their kinship with us based on their own history passed on to them by their forebears. That's has been the case largely in Bayelsa & Rivers. Not by force. Going forward, I respect how passionately people care about promotion of their culture. At the end. everyone learns from it. Hopefully that builds mutual respect irrespective of agreement or disagreement. |
IDENNAA:Same thing we are saying. You know reality on ground and everything else than what Dr Zik saw in his over 91 years in this world. You be real MVP. Clap for yourself sir. ![]() |
When politicians selfishly siphoned the commonwealth, promoted thuggery for political & election rigging purposes, the chicken eventually comes home to roost. Well, at least Goodluck Jonathan & FKk are still there to blame for it. |
Lol. There is no instruction manual. Some men rely on their girlfriend's connections to secure contracts. Or no money to fund family, wife or mum. Try telling such a guy to put his girlfriend at the bottom. ![]() Different strokes for different folks. The order can shift at anytime depending on circumstances. |
lionness:Really? Who doesn't have people in Lagos? Even the worst tribalist would be foolish to wish that. |
noblealuu:It's quite a pity that we have many biochemists, microbiologists, molecular biologists and others to do a great job using modern tech but we just go to sleep as usual. At least this governor is proving to have an eye amongst a sea of totally blind leaders. |
Cha! He just go enter police trap. To carry 9ja kpale na big crime already. You come go dey show yourself. I believe the guy stayed too long on her. When she asked him to stop, he didn't. Refusing to stop in most parts of Europe is tape. The lady just added violence story to spice it up. Because some countries require violence to have been involved to press a strong case. I just pity the guy. To oyinbo rape and murder are the two biggest crimes. |
Well, this is something govts in most countries have clearly defined. What help private companies can get to keep paying most of the salary or the help/welfare benefits citizens will get if companies or employers must lay off staff during this crisis. Sure a small minority of employees fall through the qualification cracks short term, but that will be sorted. The need for a better welfare planning is now urgent. A high number of Nigerians are on the bread line even in normal times. Just two weeks of lockdown has now shown just how serious food security problem is. A serious locust infestation or famine across 9ja one day would create a similar problem. You can import food but farmers may not have money to buy. The scenario of Ethiopia in the 1980s is not impossible. |
Lol. Good attempt but ultimately people will have to democratically decide where they want to belong. And how the want to co-exist. Via a plebiscite. A new complex re-organisation cutting across countries and official French/English/ Spanish language areas would be difficult. Aside South West Nigeria, division along religious lines would even be better. Since religion will remain a divisive matter until the end of the world. An African super-State where each tribal group above 250k people or any figure to be agreed on will have 80% autonomy would work better. A loose confederation of African people. |
samuk:Lol, Oga Samuk, they say Dr Zik nor sabi book o. They say theyknow better. Current young tribalists know better than a man born in 1904, educated in USA and one of most prominent Africans of the 20th century. :One thing is sure. When the young men in a street, village or town fight over a girl, it's not over the girl with yam leg, k-leg, 5 naira kpoff kpoff breasts or ikebe like a mirror hanging on the wall. Oh no! It's over the beautiful damsel in town. Benin is the beautiful culture everyone likes to claim or attach to. Never mind childish attempts to sneer when rebuffed. Benin people are very comfortable with both East and West. From centuries of co-existence, much of it peacefully, Benin understand both sides better than most. Benin has no burning animosity towards East or West. But one thing Benin cannot take is either East or West trying to use current population politics as a yardstick to measure history. History is what it is. It cannot be twisted. History doesn't bring cash like crude oil, but it's a people's heritage none the less. |
macof:I see. The reason you guys talk anyhow is because you believe this forum to be totally anonymous.There is nothing like total anonymity. Some researchers have gotten in touch with me based on my posts here. I can assure it's not as anonymous as you think. There are certainly one or two prominent Nairalanders who know more about me in real life. For that reason alone I can't make up things here. If I what I say turns out to be wrong, I would have done so in good faith, believing it to be correct. I have in the past written enough about my background. Any serious person is free to find out and confront me if false. If I consider here as a truly anonymous forum, I won't waste my time here. I am way too busy. Especially at this time. If you insist I can refer you to my people there. Or invite you to a festival coming up in a few months. We welcome tourists from within Yorubaland and indeed worldwide. It's only liars with something to hide that would not invite people to their place or not take up invitation. Having taken Westerners to my places of origin, why not a Nigerian? The problem with immigrants is that in their desperation to belong, they overdo it. To convince themselves. Much the same way many religious converts tend towards extremism and excess zealotry. |
macof:Yoruba hate? Why? To you guys anyone who is not wholly bashing other tribes on behalf of Yoruba is a hater. Like Dino, FKK and Afenifere are called Omale. As a people/family we suffered that under Pa Awo and his supporters decades ago already, not new to us. I wrote about it here a few weeks ago. That I disagree with the lot of you speculating wildly is not Yoruba hate. In fact I believe the loudest and most insulting people here claiming Yoruba cannot tell us their direct lineage to a second class Oba in Yorubaaland. In fact most are Nupe and Igalla immigrants to Yorubaaland. ![]() My relative on the other hand sits proudly and gallantly as first class king. For centuries now. No, I do not agree with all European writers of old. I have seen a couple that appear not to have reached Benin at all but gave a widely off the mark description. Painting Benin as an Islamic empire. Basically forging another Mansa Musa story. I quickly dismissed it however gloriously presented it was. In fact it was Caucasian course mate at university who drew my attention to one such. |
Zombiekiller010:9 days for boy baby and 7 days for girl baby. Basically 8 and 6 oyinbo week days. No salt, no pepper, no meat, no oil. Only black soup with uziza. An Eastern Yoruboid tradition in a small part of Edo State. The consequences used to be severe if not observed. But village dwellers still observe it till now. It was a curse placed by the warrior prince when his senior oloris maltreated his favourite and young wife when she had a baby. The prince was away at war. The jealous oloris connived to give the new mother poor food against the Prince's instruction to give her sumptuous food. The prince returned to find her malnourished. On learning about the maltreatment he placed a curse that all new mothers must eat food without oil, salt, meat, pepper and such for 9 or 7 days depending on baby's gender. It's not too disimilar to Oba Rengenje and Oronsen case in Owo history. An event celebrated during Igogo festival in Owo every September. Female adultery is still very serious matter in that part of Edo till now. Some will label it rubbish especially those without much culture in their place of origin. But seeing is believing. They won't believe since they haven't seen it. |
samuk:That is one thing playing on the mind of some tribes. Supremacy by hook or by crook. How does the truth, whatever it is make anyone inferior or superior in 2020? I for one have nothing to loose which ever originates from whom. I am at home in Eastern Yorubaland as I am at home in Benin. And there are many out there like me. Benin just need the truth. If that means scientific work involving a targeted DNA analysis, so be it. In fact I have long volunteered my widow's mite towards that. But it seems all people wanted to do is quote European adventurers and tribally based publications than do anything supported by more reliable modern technology. |
gregyboy:Oba Ewuare at his coronation in 2016 recognised Omonoyan/Oramiyan as the first Oba of the current dynasty. Previously because he wasn't really widely accepted as the King and because he left after some years, he wasn't considered the real founder of the dynasty but his son Eweka I who was born and bred in Benin land and only left the throne upon his demise. I am not going to disagree with what the Oba has decreed. Current Oba is a very thorough technocrat by training and prepared for the throne since birth. Historically the belief is that Oramiyan left Benin to found Oyo Kingdom. That for a long time made the Oba of Benin consider the Alaafin as a brother. Disagreements between both were quite rare. Though of course rivalry existed especially later as Oyo expanded to become an empire. |
samuk:You have summed it up. That's the fact. It's the result of the worsened tribalism. The youth are far worse tribalists. You would have though NYSC, more exposure and travelling would. Since 1967, outbreak of Biafra War. Ultimately, it what endangers our collective co-existence. When you think you are a big tribe and you can beat chest and condescend on the culture and history of others out of hubris and spoiling for a fight, then it's waste of time. Samuk, they claim is irrelevant, but they create thread upon thread about Benin. That shows only one thing: OBSESSION. Not surprising because where else do you see a people whose morning salutation tells the history of family clan? Where tradition has been preserved undiluted despite been the first to encounter Christianity, where every nook and cranny of the Kingdom tells a story? Where history lives and breathes? Where a monarchy was revived with vigour despite the machinations of the British? Benin is pretty unique. |
Too many people that have no business living in cities live in cities. That's why we have so much crimes. Cities are very unforgiving if you have no cash. Most are better off living in small towns where they can farm, herdsmen permitting. |
The whole sex thing is over-rated. From a guy's perspective most non-sexual friendships are more rewarding than sexual. Even more over rated now that it's one way or another cash for sex. A platonic friend will race with alacrity to assist you while a sexual gf will be forming madam and doing sme sme. There is also more mutual respect when she does not see your unclothedness. Once a girl becomes a close friend I never introduce sex into it. When sex comes in, it can sour. I prefer the normal friendship to endure instead. |
sparkhouse:K |
Doctor2020:At 56? Before you know it, you will be approaching that age. Do you know that many people marry around 35 to 40 years old, especially educated ones? If he married around that age, his kids will be below 20 still. Think about that. |
samuk:Thanks sir. Stay safe too |
samuk:Lol. Lucky you. Sadly I am one of those working flat out at this period. God help us. |
TAO11:Lie? What lie? Of course Benin is older than Ife. Not even close. Your audio 4BC Ife claim is every bit as audio as Lai Mohammed's "we have technically defeated Boko Haram". ![]() I admit no such thing. I have argued this years back. I cannot be doing this with every upstart who comes along. Do not call me a boy. I know you are disrespectful but do not go there. I briefly met Maj. Gen. Buhari as head of States in 1984. When he was touring Nigeria. So do not go there. Something else: I grew up in a household of journalists and writers. People who wrote and lectured this history you are talking about. So I am not easily impressed by publications. |
samuk:What she forgets is that new discoveries push the boundaries of knowledge and we know very little about the world still. A few decades back a molecular biology prof would stride in the auditorium confident about the "Central Dogma of Molecular Biology": DNA makes RNA makes protein. Let this be your take away message if anything, he would say. Then came retroviruses like HIV and rubbished that dogma. People interpret the Bible to suggest that humans are only 6,000 years old. But human fossils found in the Afar Region of Ethiopia have rubbished that. Man has been way over 100,000 years earlier. But here they think they already know it all because of some publications. I have argued my point for about 9 years here. I have no time to dissipate on "generation after generation" of them. |
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babtoundey:. So all that education and sophistication you guys speak of is just the art of foul language and insult? How uncouth. Which war did anyone win to foist Oranmiyan on Benin? After winning a war against Benin, Oranmiyan still could not enter Benin City but resided in a village (Egor) outside Benin throughout? And it took three Obas later to get into center of Benin to erect the current palace? If you say you are educated, let it at least show in your manners. How can Benin originate from Nupe or Igala? On what cultural, royal tradition, philological or historical basis? Do you know that relationship between peoples are studied by experts? That for example The Fins are closely related to Hungarians and not their Nordic neighbours like the Danes and Swedes? Tribal hubris doesn't make anyone look smart these days. Knowledge is out there for those who truly seek it. Yes, it takes decades to do but worth it. It's one thing to be foul-mouthed on a anonymous forum. Making sense is another. |
Okay. |
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