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adadike:Actually there are more lesbians out there. Those who attended girls boarding school admit that much. School mother-School daughter stuff. Just than male one is more highlighted and easier to spot. Two girls holding arms raise no eyebrow. We just generally attribute innocence to women. ![]() Fact remains that we're all wired differently. It used to surprise me but no anymore. In the West there are just so many gays and lesbians that it cannot just be an aberration. It is suppressed in most potentially gay & lesbian people due to cultural & religious stuff. In ancient Greece & Rome it was a rather normal thing for emperors and leaders to have several gay lovers in addition to wife & concubines. |
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decatalyst:Maybe most Nigerians have a lot more in common with the people they vote to remain in BBH? You're unlikely to identify with, defend or promote those people that have little in common with you. Just human nature. We may not want to admit it but our looters represent who we're, our society and the morality that currently prevails. |
Poor cat. We Africans are just getting more and more ridiculous daily. Africans are naturally pagan. We are just transferring it into modern religions. At least in traditional religion, both the evil & good potentials of the devil are known. So practicing pagans can choose how to navigate. After all the devil was once an angel. But now pastors, alfas and all just muddle up everything. Obfuscating people further. |
snowden9:Na fake ass posh life dey these days. A lot more envy, greed & disunity. Gone are those days. Next will be the troubles of isolation (no close social network like back then) common in the Western world already. When a person will have issues and no relatives or friends will know. Next he will just carry gun and shoot people in the street. |
niggi4life:Yep! The usually arrest youths randomly. Some may face years in prison without charge. Pathetic. I narrowly escaped such an arrest once. Bad boys stole a top military officer's car in the area. |
bebe2:My dear, nothing dey happen. I do it quite often. Oba has even placed a curse on those hooligans now. Funny my relative who stayed in a swanky "very safe" hotel got burgled. If you have an evil person around you meant to cause harm, even hotel is no barrier. Na God. I even take the kids to the village each time. Our people have a proverb that "Metaphysical people already existed when Oba was born". ![]() Of course precaution is important. But no mater how secluded one lives, one will still leave the hotel at some point. Even if to visit the museum or any other attraction. |
kutchs:My brother we have the most useless youths in the world. Potentially worse than all the old cargoes flexing over us now. Any normal person should know that elected or appointed govt officials have a duty to be transparent about how they spend our money. Especially Buhari who had nothing else in his favour except being a Northerner and wearing the toga of integrity & anti-corruption. You'd expect Buhari to be super transparent. At the very least. Since nobody ever believed in his political or economic acumen. Except die hard zombies. Any body or group, even it is Boy Scout or Brownies that presses various arms of govt for transparency should be applauded. |
kutchs:My brother we have the most useless youths in the world. Potentially worse than all the old cargoes flexing over us now. Any normal person should know that elected or appointed govt officials have a duty to be transparent about how they spend our money. Especially Buhari who had nothing else in his favour except being a Northerner and wearing the toga of integrity & anti-corruption. You'd expect Buhari to be super transparent. At the very least. Since nobody ever believed in his political or economic acumen. Except die hard zombies. |
Lots of publicly sold food/meat in 9ja are prepared in unhygienic conditions. Nothing new. Just hope it is at least not human meat and well-cooked enough to kill most of the pathogens in them. |
Lol. ![]() Tell us about his body language when calling you pet names na. ![]() Any sheepish smiles and winks? ![]() You both will be cousins-in-law soon so he needs to sweeten your heart into the family na. ![]() Or maybe he saw your sweetening endowment in the bathroom. ![]() Joke aside, in some climes such names among friends, relatives & in-laws are not really big deal. 9ja may be different. It all depends on when & how he does it. If he calls you say "Doris" for example when your fiance is around but uses his most sexy voice to call you "darling and sweetheart" when both of you're are alone, then there might be an ulterior motive. The motive is the most important. Better to address it with him if it continues and makes you uncomfortable. Making him understand that it's not proper, makes you uncomfortable and you will not want to cause bad blood between him and his cousin/your fiance. Any reasonable guy should adjust himself after that. |
BabaRamota1980:You nor sabi how 9ja dey respect oyinbo anyhow? One oyinbo was beating up his 9ja wife anyhow. She hid it for years until we knew. You know many of our girls condemn black men to their white husband. They forget that doing so makes the white hubby feel like God-sent. Also when the white guy start abusing them, they will be ashamed to tell people. Because they were running their mouth previously about how better white men are. When we found out, we black guys just gathered to see the man. We warned him that if he tries that poo again, we will teach him a lesson. The oyinbo guy quickly adjusted himself. In oyinbo land I am talking about. And that "great citizen" saw repeated domestic abuse by a foreigner in 9ja and did nothing. Shame on them. |
This is normal meat in many rural areas. |
Yet robbers annihilated police people them in Offa without a reply. Na wa. |
Darkie with copy copy mentality. When we go invent our own for others to copy? That's why oyinbo nor dey take us serious. We often only manage to do the naff and inferior version of what dey do. All the successful 9ja musicians largely sang or still sing in local languages, 9ja English or pidgin. Sunny Ade, Fela, Victor Uwaifo, Osadebey, Rex Lawson, lately "2baba, Psquare, Yemi Alade, Whizkid. etc. We do far better when comfortable in our own skin and repping our culture. HML. |
Very bad |
Lol. If you do not return it sharp sharp and spend it Kirikiri awaits you. Better to also inform the police or EFCC lest they might do you for fraud depending on source of money. Nobody gets to pocket huge money by mistake. ![]() |
Willexmania:Weyrey! ![]() But KNVB court in a non-Sh!thole area disagrees with you. ![]() |
Abeg OP, where is the wow! Take time o. I was hoping to see Agbani Darego, Oluchi or Kim Kardashian kinda figure. ![]() |
KOPT33:I completely agree with your position. One has to have principles. Rest assured if your sister's hubby had become state governor and they had all prospered more than you, you'd remain nothing to them. I commend your fulfilling your economic responsibilities towards them. That is what a man should do. Going on with the marriage without your consent is akin to doing it without your dad's consent. Because traditionally your dad left your siblings in your care. The elders who did such messed up big time. If they had contacted you and you refused repeatedly, the elders could have gone ahead. A lot of people saying forgive and just mediate, most would never spend a dime on such relatives. Many also have no respect for African tradition. They'd give it up at the slightest opportunity given half a chance. Whereas they will not consider a church wedding as valid if their "daddy G O" in their church was not informed or the church tradition was not followed in concluding church marriage. If you were not there, who then collected the articles meant for the bride's dad? In my view the traditional marriage is null and void. Sure forgive their behaviour towards you and the general disregard. But marriage is very specific. If your sister had come to harm in her marriage, it would have meant you couldn't protect one of your "children". Even though you had no hand in the marriage. Love your siblings as your father would, but you have to be accorded similar respect. However, consider how the matter affects your sister. How will she and her children suffer if all breaks down? If she will suffer badly, mediate for your dad's sake. But also be sure that both your sister & her hubby want you to mediate. After that they have to atone/apologise for their previous behaviour. Even our perfect God requires us to confess our sins and sincerely desire to follow Jesus' example as part of the requirements to be born again. |
Jarus:Ah ah! Just killed like that? This is just too vile. |
Danjuma and Abacha families nko? Not in top 10? And no mention of estimated net worth. |
Jarus:Abeg what really happened? Did they attack the police station first? HRM Olofa has to do all within his might. Whether traditional or whichever. His subjects are the victims. He is the closest to them. Our politicians are only there for their pockets. Our law enforcement people are not motivated enough to risk life and limb to protect the public. |
Nigeria fails its citizens from cradle to grave. In life and in death, dignity is denied. Pathetic. Rip. |
SlimBrawnie:They will bring in psychiatric issues. Diminished responsibility on ground of insanity. They will then argue that Nigeria has no mental health care that he should be transferred to Europe for proper care. |
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Biko, who asked this lady if she likes prostitution, fling, foursome. sado-machism or whatever? |
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Very sad sad for them, their family & society. They have to face justice squarely. |
Jeezuzpick:There are all kinds of people anywhere. David McAllister was the governor of Lower Saxony State in Germany from 2010 to 2013. McAllister is an ultra-British, in fact Scottish name. But he was born in Germany to a Scottish dad. Different people with different names have traveled and settled in various countries. Like Obama's dad. Did you know that the paternal grandfather of our own late Dr Ameyo Adadevoh was a Ghanian? Ameyo's dad Prof. Babatunde Kwaku Adadevoh, former VC of Unilag, was the grandson of Herbert Macaulay. His mum was Macaulay's daughter. Babatunde's dad was Name has nothing to do with nationality these days. In most countries. |
lilfreezy:This was the idea in England until 1066 AD. But after the French/Normans conquered England, they brought French law to England. It was a sweeping change across all areas of life. Becoming basis of English law, that came to shape laws in commonwealth countries. Before 1066 in England wealth to be inherited was shared among all surviving children. Later only the senior son kept the wealth & any hereditary titles. The new system ensured conservation/preservation of wealth in one family that lasted for generations. Previously the wealth was so thinly spread among children that it vanished quickly. While the old system might seem fair & just, most kids frittered away their share, ending in poverty. Because some kids just wanted for father to die and get a share. Refusing to work hard. ![]() You can say that the senior son can also just wait for their dad to die and inherit all the wealth. Possible. But the senior son was made to understand his huge responsibilities and obligations to his siblings growing up. He was trained. Training one person was much easier than training 10. In the days when only very few people were literate. So younger kids were if possible settled early through occupational training or public service jobs like becoming a carpenter, farmer, smith, clergyman, reeve, military officer, sheriff, haberdasher, iron-monger, dyer, clothier, etc. So they were sorted early on to be self-sufficient. |
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