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CrimeRe: 5 Gay Men Fighting After Infecting Each Other With HIV Arrested In Lagos by AreaFada2: 8:27am On Apr 09, 2018
adadike:
How can a man kiss and fvck his fellow man? is this not some kind of demonic manipulation?
Actually there are more lesbians out there. Those who attended girls boarding school admit that much. School mother-School daughter stuff.

Just than male one is more highlighted and easier to spot. Two girls holding arms raise no eyebrow. We just generally attribute innocence to women. grin cheesy

Fact remains that we're all wired differently.

It used to surprise me but no anymore. In the West there are just so many gays and lesbians that it cannot just be an aberration. It is suppressed in most potentially gay & lesbian people due to cultural & religious stuff.

In ancient Greece & Rome it was a rather normal thing for emperors and leaders to have several gay lovers in addition to wife & concubines.
SportsRe: Shocking: Eight Members Of Iran's Women's Soccer Team Are Men by AreaFada2: 7:45am On Apr 09, 2018
Hehehe grin cheesy
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Rico Swavey Has Been Evicted From The Big Brother Naija House 2018 by AreaFada2:
decatalyst:
Did you guys see that the reason why this country will be A "shithole" for a very long time is just so evident in this so called BigBrotherNaija show?

...the way we keep 'voting' ineffectual buffoons and clueless ones into power year-in-year-out is just so baffling. sad

How on earth can a group of sane people be voting for that short yam legged saucy girl called Cee-C to be in the house when well talented and fairly nice people get evicted!
Maybe most Nigerians have a lot more in common with the people they vote to remain in BBH?

You're unlikely to identify with, defend or promote those people that have little in common with you. Just human nature.

We may not want to admit it but our looters represent who we're, our society and the morality that currently prevails.
Christianity EtcRe: Lords Chosen Man: "I Fought A Demonic Cat And Killed It In Osun" (Photos) by AreaFada2: 8:15pm On Apr 08, 2018
Poor cat.

We Africans are just getting more and more ridiculous daily. shocked shocked

Africans are naturally pagan. We are just transferring it into modern religions.

At least in traditional religion, both the evil & good potentials of the devil are known. So practicing pagans can choose how to navigate. After all the devil was once an angel.

But now pastors, alfas and all just muddle up everything. Obfuscating people further.
FoodRe: Kulikuli – Check out mindbowing facts about the popular snack found in West Afri by AreaFada2: 8:13pm On Apr 08, 2018
snowden9:
Seriously though, this indomie generation children won't really know the love we had for kuli kuli those days. I remember then when if a neighbor or family member puts to bed, we always anticipate to go to their home to lick nzu, pack enough kuli kuli to eat and rub white powder on our face and body.
Damn. Those were the days. The good old days.
We need to turn back this clock.
Na fake ass posh life dey these days. A lot more envy, greed & disunity.
Gone are those days.

Next will be the troubles of isolation (no close social network like back then) common in the Western world already. When a person will have issues and no relatives or friends will know. Next he will just carry gun and shoot people in the street.
CrimeRe: Offa Bank Robbery: Police Arrest Seven Suspects by AreaFada2: 10:40am On Apr 08, 2018
niggi4life:
I can boldly say those 7 people are not in anyway part of the crime.


The real perpetrators would have ran away from the town to another place
Yep! The usually arrest youths randomly. Some may face years in prison without charge.

Pathetic.

I narrowly escaped such an arrest once. Bad boys stole a top military officer's car in the area.
TravelRe: I Need A Hotel Appartment In Benin City by AreaFada2: 6:22am On Apr 08, 2018
bebe2:
My brother u no like me oo,

I shud go stay in my house? , u should know better na, me na Bini , my husband na Bini , with plenty siblings, parent etc, we have our house , relative too plenty , but the MAJOR thing is security. I am so scared am shiting my self.

If it's not a hotel complex with massive security, am not going.

Security is the problem, am going with kids I don't want stories.
My dear, nothing dey happen. I do it quite often. Oba has even placed a curse on those hooligans now.

Funny my relative who stayed in a swanky "very safe" hotel got burgled.

If you have an evil person around you meant to cause harm, even hotel is no barrier. Na God.

I even take the kids to the village each time.

Our people have a proverb that "Metaphysical people already existed when Oba was born". grin cheesy

Of course precaution is important. But no mater how secluded one lives, one will still leave the hotel at some point. Even if to visit the museum or any other attraction.
PoliticsRe: CONASSLA Gives Buhari, Osinbajo, Ministers 7 Days To Reveal Their Running Costs by AreaFada2: 4:58am On Apr 08, 2018
kutchs:
Aren't we supposed to know how much the 'saint' and his band of thieves are spending as running costs?
BTW what did you do with that of the NASS recently disclosed?
My brother we have the most useless youths in the world.
Potentially worse than all the old cargoes flexing over us now.

Any normal person should know that elected or appointed govt officials have a duty to be transparent about how they spend our money.

Especially Buhari who had nothing else in his favour except being a Northerner and wearing the toga of integrity & anti-corruption.
You'd expect Buhari to be super transparent. At the very least. Since nobody ever believed in his political or economic acumen. Except die hard zombies.

Any body or group, even it is Boy Scout or Brownies that presses various arms of govt for transparency should be applauded.
PoliticsRe: CONASSLA Gives Buhari, Osinbajo, Ministers 7 Days To Reveal Their Running Costs by AreaFada2: 4:56am On Apr 08, 2018
kutchs:
Aren't we supposed to know how much the 'saint' and his band of thieves are spending as running costs?
BTW what did you do with that of the NASS recently disclosed?
My brother we have the most useless youths in the world.
Potentially worse than all the old cargoes flexing over us now.

Any normal person should know that elected or appointed govt officials have a duty to be transparent about how they spend our money.

Especially Buhari who had nothing else in his favour except being a Northerner and wearing the toga of integrity & anti-corruption.
You'd expect Buhari to be super transparent. At the very least. Since nobody ever believed in his political or economic acumen. Except die hard zombies.
FoodRe: 'You Will Think Twice About Eating Suya Meat After Seeing This'. Photos by AreaFada2: 12:55am On Apr 08, 2018
Lots of publicly sold food/meat in 9ja are prepared in unhygienic conditions. Nothing new.

Just hope it is at least not human meat and well-cooked enough to kill most of the pathogens in them.
RomanceRe: My Fiancé’s Cousin Saw Me Naked.. He Started Calling Me Sweetheart by AreaFada2: 12:51am On Apr 08, 2018
Lol. grin cheesy
Tell us about his body language when calling you pet names na. grin cheesy

Any sheepish smiles and winks? tongue

You both will be cousins-in-law soon so he needs to sweeten your heart into the family na. tongue

Or maybe he saw your sweetening endowment in the bathroom. cheesy

Joke aside, in some climes such names among friends, relatives & in-laws are not really big deal. 9ja may be different.

It all depends on when & how he does it. If he calls you say "Doris" for example when your fiance is around but uses his most sexy voice to call you "darling and sweetheart" when both of you're are alone, then there might be an ulterior motive. The motive is the most important.

Better to address it with him if it continues and makes you uncomfortable. Making him understand that it's not proper, makes you uncomfortable and you will not want to cause bad blood between him and his cousin/your fiance.

Any reasonable guy should adjust himself after that.
CelebritiesRe: "How My Sister, Alizee, Was Killed By Danish Husband, Peter Nielsen" (Graphic) by AreaFada2: 6:31pm On Apr 07, 2018
BabaRamota1980:
Thanks for sharing that you were witness to a turbulent and domestic abuse union that got increasingly disturbing over time but never called the police to help this woman and her daughter. You are indeed a great citizen! angry
You nor sabi how 9ja dey respect oyinbo anyhow?

One oyinbo was beating up his 9ja wife anyhow. She hid it for years until we knew. You know many of our girls condemn black men to their white husband. They forget that doing so makes the white hubby feel like God-sent. Also when the white guy start abusing them, they will be ashamed to tell people. Because they were running their mouth previously about how better white men are.

When we found out, we black guys just gathered to see the man. We warned him that if he tries that poo again, we will teach him a lesson. The oyinbo guy quickly adjusted himself. In oyinbo land I am talking about.

And that "great citizen" saw repeated domestic abuse by a foreigner in 9ja and did nothing. Shame on them.
FoodRe: Abuja Based Man Downs Plate Of Rice Garnished With 'Exotic' Lizard Meat. Photos by AreaFada2: 3:22pm On Apr 07, 2018
This is normal meat in many rural areas.
CultureRe: Orji Uzor Kalu Visits Ooni Of Ife In His Palace (Photos) by AreaFada2: 3:19pm On Apr 07, 2018
enemyofprogress:
what is richest king in African? Abeg carry your dane gun comot for here
grin cheesy Weyrey.
PoliticsRe: Biafra: 40 Members Missing After Police, Army Attacked Us In Anambra - IPOB. by AreaFada2: 11:09am On Apr 07, 2018
Yet robbers annihilated police people them in Offa without a reply. shocked shocked

Na wa.
RomanceRe: Banke Of Events By BankySue And Tolu Wedding Proposal Story (Photos) by AreaFada2:
Darkie with copy copy mentality.

When we go invent our own for others to copy?

That's why oyinbo nor dey take us serious.

We often only manage to do the naff and inferior version of what dey do.

All the successful 9ja musicians largely sang or still sing in local languages, 9ja English or pidgin. Sunny Ade, Fela, Victor Uwaifo, Osadebey, Rex Lawson, lately "2baba, Psquare, Yemi Alade, Whizkid. etc.

We do far better when comfortable in our own skin and repping our culture.

HML.
BusinessRe: Photos Of Ariaria Market, Aba After Heavy Downpour Yesterday by AreaFada2: 10:48am On Apr 07, 2018
Very bad
BusinessRe: If I Spend Money Mistakenly Deposited Into My Bank Account, What Will Happen? by AreaFada2: 7:23am On Apr 07, 2018
Lol. If you do not return it sharp sharp and spend it Kirikiri awaits you. Better to also inform the police or EFCC lest they might do you for fraud depending on source of money.

Nobody gets to pocket huge money by mistake. grin
SportsRe: Sunday Oliseh Wins Legal Fight Against Fortuna Sittard In KNVB Tribunal by AreaFada2: 2:57am On Apr 07, 2018
Willexmania:
shocked

coach that cannot collect money for fixed match , is that one coach ? tongue
Weyrey! grin cheesy

But KNVB court in a non-Sh!thole area disagrees with you. tongue grin
CelebritiesRe: Uriel Oputa Wows In Bikini (Photo) by AreaFada2: 2:52am On Apr 07, 2018
Abeg OP, where is the wow! shocked shocked shocked

Take time o.

I was hoping to see Agbani Darego, Oluchi or Kim Kardashian kinda figure. tongue tongue
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by AreaFada2: 2:44am On Apr 07, 2018
KOPT33:
Tradition is tradition.

In my place, if a piece of custom is not followed, it can still be done even after 100 years. The question no one has answered is why a simple phone call was not placed to me. Till today, no one has even bothered to explain or apologize.

Elders do not go to gatherings they were never invited to in the first place.
I completely agree with your position. One has to have principles. Rest assured if your sister's hubby had become state governor and they had all prospered more than you, you'd remain nothing to them.

I commend your fulfilling your economic responsibilities towards them. That is what a man should do.

Going on with the marriage without your consent is akin to doing it without your dad's consent. Because traditionally your dad left your siblings in your care. The elders who did such messed up big time. If they had contacted you and you refused repeatedly, the elders could have gone ahead.
A lot of people saying forgive and just mediate, most would never spend a dime on such relatives. Many also have no respect for African tradition. They'd give it up at the slightest opportunity given half a chance.

Whereas they will not consider a church wedding as valid if their "daddy G O" in their church was not informed or the church tradition was not followed in concluding church marriage.

If you were not there, who then collected the articles meant for the bride's dad? shocked shocked

In my view the traditional marriage is null and void.

Sure forgive their behaviour towards you and the general disregard. But marriage is very specific. If your sister had come to harm in her marriage, it would have meant you couldn't protect one of your "children". Even though you had no hand in the marriage.

Love your siblings as your father would, but you have to be accorded similar respect.

However, consider how the matter affects your sister. How will she and her children suffer if all breaks down? If she will suffer badly, mediate for your dad's sake. But also be sure that both your sister & her hubby want you to mediate. After that they have to atone/apologise for their previous behaviour.

Even our perfect God requires us to confess our sins and sincerely desire to follow Jesus' example as part of the requirements to be born again.
CrimeRe: People Killed In Offa Bank Robbery Loaded In A Truck As Residents Cry (Graphic) by AreaFada2: 2:14am On Apr 07, 2018
Jarus:
Police Station was first attacked. All policemen on duty plus those that came to report other issues at the station were killed.
Ah ah! Just killed like that?

This is just too vile.
FamilyRe: 10 Richest Families In Nigeria 2018 By ManucheTv by AreaFada2: 6:29pm On Apr 06, 2018
Danjuma and Abacha families nko? Not in top 10?

And no mention of estimated net worth.
CrimeRe: People Killed In Offa Bank Robbery Loaded In A Truck As Residents Cry (Graphic) by AreaFada2: 6:21pm On Apr 06, 2018
Jarus:
Which Police? After almost all Policemen in the town were killed and those lucky not to be in station at the time still hiding? These are community people carrying the corpses.
Abeg what really happened? Did they attack the police station first?
HRM Olofa has to do all within his might. Whether traditional or whichever. His subjects are the victims. He is the closest to them.

Our politicians are only there for their pockets. Our law enforcement people are not motivated enough to risk life and limb to protect the public.
CrimeRe: People Killed In Offa Bank Robbery Loaded In A Truck As Residents Cry (Graphic) by AreaFada2: 6:12pm On Apr 06, 2018
Nigeria fails its citizens from cradle to grave. In life and in death, dignity is denied. Pathetic.

Rip.
CelebritiesRe: Police Arrest Peter Nielsen, Alizee's Danish Husband, For Murder by AreaFada2:
SlimBrawnie:
Yes, he can use provocation as a defense against his wife, but what about their daughter he murdered too?
They will bring in psychiatric issues. Diminished responsibility on ground of insanity.

They will then argue that Nigeria has no mental health care that he should be transferred to Europe for proper care.
RomanceRe: African Duchess Supreme: "I Have A Huge Appetite For Sex" (Photos) by AreaFada2: 5:42am On Apr 06, 2018
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RomanceRe: African Duchess Supreme: "I Have A Huge Appetite For Sex" (Photos) by AreaFada2: 5:41am On Apr 06, 2018
Biko, who asked this lady if she likes prostitution, fling, foursome. sado-machism or whatever? shocked shocked shocked shocked
CrimeRe: Two Notorious Brothers Arrested For Terrorizing Port-Harcourt Residents. Photos by AreaFada2: 5:32am On Apr 06, 2018
djkotech:
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CrimeRe: Two Notorious Brothers Arrested For Terrorizing Port-Harcourt Residents. Photos by AreaFada2: 5:31am On Apr 06, 2018
Very sad sad for them, their family & society.

They have to face justice squarely.
CelebritiesRe: Death Photos Of Alizee: Corpse Of Ali Zainab Nielsen Murdered By Peter Nielsen by AreaFada2:
Jeezuzpick:
I've never heard of an Italian called "Nielsen"

More like Scandinavian.
There are all kinds of people anywhere.

David McAllister was the governor of Lower Saxony State in Germany from 2010 to 2013. McAllister is an ultra-British, in fact Scottish name.
But he was born in Germany to a Scottish dad.

Different people with different names have traveled and settled in various countries. Like Obama's dad.

Did you know that the paternal grandfather of our own late Dr Ameyo Adadevoh was a Ghanian? Ameyo's dad Prof. Babatunde Kwaku Adadevoh, former VC of Unilag, was the grandson of Herbert Macaulay. His mum was Macaulay's daughter. Babatunde's dad was

Name has nothing to do with nationality these days. In most countries.
PropertiesRe: Families Disagree Over Building Renovation In Lagos - See What They Did (pics) by AreaFada2: 4:32am On Apr 06, 2018
lilfreezy:
Letting the first son take the building will even harbor more hatred within the family. So other siblings deserves to hustle while only the first son takes everything. That's unfair.

What's wrong with selling the building and splitting the cash equally among all sibling. If the first son wants to keep the whole building, he can as well bring the monetary value of the building for others to share while he keeps it.
This was the idea in England until 1066 AD. But after the French/Normans conquered England, they brought French law to England. It was a sweeping change across all areas of life. Becoming basis of English law, that came to shape laws in commonwealth countries.
Before 1066 in England wealth to be inherited was shared among all surviving children. Later only the senior son kept the wealth & any hereditary titles.

The new system ensured conservation/preservation of wealth in one family that lasted for generations. Previously the wealth was so thinly spread among children that it vanished quickly. While the old system might seem fair & just, most kids frittered away their share, ending in poverty. Because some kids just wanted for father to die and get a share. Refusing to work hard.cheesy grin

You can say that the senior son can also just wait for their dad to die and inherit all the wealth. Possible. But the senior son was made to understand his huge responsibilities and obligations to his siblings growing up. He was trained. Training one person was much easier than training 10. In the days when only very few people were literate.

So younger kids were if possible settled early through occupational training or public service jobs like becoming a carpenter, farmer, smith, clergyman, reeve, military officer, sheriff, haberdasher, iron-monger, dyer, clothier, etc. So they were sorted early on to be self-sufficient.

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